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Ah, siblings. Can’t live with ‘em, can’t live without ‘em. As a kid, I loved having brothers when it came to playing games or celebrating holidays together, but riding in the car together, with the three of us crammed into the backseat, was like being in a war zone. We could enjoy peace for about 5 minutes of the ride, but inevitably, someone’s joking or playing around would cross a line and suddenly at least one of us was screaming or crying. Now, I was never a perfect sibling myself, as I vividly remember slamming my younger brother’s fingers in a door once out of rage. (I still feel bad about that one...) But we’re adults now! We’ve learned how to set our differences aside, and oddly enough, we actually love spending time with one another now.
Unfortunately, however, not all siblings mature at the same pace, and sometimes conflicts between brothers and sisters persist into adulthood. In fact, new conflicts can even arise, due to siblings acting extremely entitled. Below, we’ve gathered some of the most appalling screenshots of conversations between siblings that have been shared on the Choosing Beggars subreddit that might make you even more thankful for your own brothers and sisters. Try not to become too furious while scrolling through this list, and don't forget to upvote the conversations that would make you consider blocking a relative!
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#1
My Dad Is Going On 2 Months In The Hospital With Covid. This Is His Sister
king raven 2 years ago
The parable of the drowning man I feel like really matched religious viewpoints during the pandemic. I am religious myself, and I find it utterly sad and stupid that people are so ignorant. Also, weren't people expecting a war king in the bible instead of Jesus? Their savior was not what they expected. Hypocrites, the lot. (from Wikipedia: The parable of the drowning man, also known as Two Boats and a Helicopter, is a short story, often told as a joke, most often about a devoutly Christian man, frequently a minister, who refuses several rescue attempts in the face of approaching floodwaters, each time telling the would-be rescuers that God will save him. After turning down the last, he drowns in the flood. After his death, the man meets God and asks why he did not intervene. God responds that he sent all the would-be rescuers to the man's aid on the expectation he would accept the help.)
Worst Cop in Britain 2 years ago
I'm Christian and I struggle to say that because of the antivax, anti-mask idiots that came crawling out of the woodwork during the pandemic.
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Mickysixxx 2 years ago
What? Gods all about plagues and killing off people, don't trust that fella
Icecream Sarang 2 years ago
I am not religious, but for those who are, maybe your god gave you the medical and scientific staff to help you when new viruses come along.
Echidna learns extreme ironing 2 years ago
I'm sure I've heard about a book with something about plagues, and God and whatnot.
deejak 2 years ago
Sure, that's why you need all those guns too, right, because of your faith in God?
Aria the Dog Lover 2 years ago
I'm not religious. I've never read one sentence in the bible or any other religious book. I can say that some religious people are plain idiots like the example above, but some of them are cool. I only like the ones who don't make their religion their whole personality.
Well-Dressed Wolf 2 years ago
Serious question: What is this nutjob’s purpose/reason for self-censoring the word “virus” in her own post? Is it a “bad word” to her?
CrissCross 2 years ago
Because of FB policy regarding Covid 19 and vaccines. It has taken down many posts, pages and groups spreading misinformations. So if they want to beat FB's algorithm, they choose to self censor themselves or change a word like vaccine in vaxxine.
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God blessed us with the intelligence and will to become scientists, doctors and nurses to help and save each other....
Zophra 2 years ago
And screw anyone who came before our technology? God didn't care then? This is such a weird comment.
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Yes, I'm serious 2 years ago
Meanwhile, there were a few of these so-called people of "faith" who were virus deniers. Guess what? They died from Covid.
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#2
Sister Asks Me If I Can Watch Her Kid, Then Asks If I Can Come Get Her And Comes Up With Lame Excuse As To Why She Can't Drop Her Off
Marcellus II 2 years ago
Optimistic scenario: Good parent doesn't risk driving kid without snow tires, goes to work on combination of walking and public transport/other person's picking up. Realistic: the usual assholery.
Aria the Dog Lover 2 years ago
I mean maybe she just doesn't want to endanger her kid. She doesn't have snow tires and she doesn't want to risk her child getting hurt. It's understandable.
Riley Quinn 2 years ago
And why is she driving her child around without snow tires the other days of the week? Money's tight, I understand, but some things you can't scrimp on.
Vasana Phong 2 years ago
I’m sorry, but if someone’s doing you a favor they have the upper hand , whatever the scenario is
Jennifer Lynn 1 year ago
she doesn't want to risk driving with her kid, or any more driving than necessary
Norwegian_Panda🇳🇴 2 years ago (edited)
Remember seeing this before and the one with the kid then ask if she also could drive her to work while she picked up the kid…..
#3
I Hadn't Been Able To Locate My Pokémon Cards For 15+ Years Which Had Over 10 Pages Of Rare/Holographic Cards (Which I Spent Many Years Collecting As A Kid)
I found out today that my older brother sold literally every single rare/holo/valuable card I owned as soon as I left for college.
Mildly Annoyed Penguin 2 years ago (edited)
What a douche... My brother did that with my LEGO, just tore it all down, stuffed it into crates and sold it by the crate. Still livid when I think back to it...
Rabbit Of ill Portent 2 years ago
No wonder you're mildly annoyed! In all seriousness though, that's just despicable I am so sorry he did that to you
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Gardener of Weeden 2 years ago
No problem, figure out how much they are worth today and sue the mf.
Riley Quinn 2 years ago (edited)
This reminds me of the day I went to the bank to make a withdrawal from my college fund. Surprise! It was empty because my mother "needed" the money. First and last time I ever had a joint account.
Yes, I'm serious 2 years ago
Why do people think that this is ok to do? I had a massive collection teen magazines from the 70s (think Donny Osmond, Tony DeFranco, David Cassidy, etc ). I had them boxed up & stored away & wrote Please Save on the box. Went into the Navy & guess what? Spoiled little sister threw them away because she thought it was stupid to keep it.
Christina R 2 years ago (edited)
I had a massive comic book collection stored in our huge attic (with things like the first issue of the X-Men, worth a lot of money). My alcoholic stepfather threw all of them out when I went to college.
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HelluvaHedgehogAlien 2 years ago (edited)
My cousin tore down some of my crafts and statues of characters from Shakespeare plays and sold the most of them for a heck lot of money, which he kept for himself. Just the day I left for college
Do you have any siblings, pandas? Apparently, about 82% of us do, which means you likely know the experience of having to share everything while growing up. You might remember getting picked on by an older brother or sister, or perhaps doing the "picking" yourself, if you happen to be the oldest. Sibling relationships are often rocky while we’re young and growing up, as we can be competitive with one another or frustrated when it feels like we don't all receive the same treatment. But especially by the time we reach adulthood, our siblings can become our best friends. They were our first friends anyway, so why not nurture that relationship for the rest of our lives?
Your brothers and sisters can understand you in a way that even your closest friends may not, as they grew up in the same household and shared similar experiences. But unfortunately, the sibling to best friend pipeline doesn’t work for everyone. And sometimes becoming adults leads to an even greater wedge forming between brothers and sisters. This list features some shockingly egregious examples of sibling behavior that might inspire you to send a quick text to your brothers or sisters letting you know that you love them. And you appreciate them for never demanding money from you…
#4
Parents With Children Should Skip All The Lines
Lisa H 2 years ago
Where can I find this woman, I'm child free and I SWEAR I just want to talk to her...
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Jihana 2 years ago
So, if they ban childless visitors, there will only be parents with children left, right? So they ALL get to skip the line? That woman didn't really think about what she's saying.
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago (edited)
It's an endless leapfrog with no one actually getting ON the ride ever!! They cut in front and then the mother behind them cuts in front and then the mother behind THEM cuts in front and... kind of like when we were kids and played the "hand stacking game" when you'd put your hands on top of each other's hands, alternating, palm-down, and whoever's hand was on the very bottom slid it out and slapped it on the top, repeat ad infinitum XD
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Kathi Schäffer 2 years ago
Your child can learn to wait in line. He can learn that he isn't the centre of the universe. In fact, it's important to teach him those things. In the words of Bo Burnham "There's other people, you selfish a$$hole!" Also, if it breaks his heart to have to wait for a treat.... Oh boy, you've got other problems...
Billie Templeton 2 years ago
When you take a TODDLER to an amusement park with multiple-hour-long lines... Welp, u get what you deserve.
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
And of course, said toddler is absolutely, totally, 100% going to firmly, concretely, and clearly remember their trip to Disney World, FOR LIFE!!!!!
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#5
Girl Trying To Get Rid Of Her Sister’s Dog For Chewing Up A Shoe
Fizzer 2 years ago
Even if you were that utilitarian a dog costs much more than a shoe, not to mention all the care and food that went into raising it. You just lost a shoe, which isn't a big deal, your sister might lose a dog that she is emotionally attatched to, which is horrible.
PapillonOne 2 years ago
Oh I'd lose a sister over that!! Disowning is an option but bad "accident" is better!
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K- THULU 2 years ago
Won't need the shoes if someone breaks your legs.... Or hopefully a pit bull chews them off....
Mulberry Juice 2 years ago (edited)
That’s inhumane! A pitbull deserves much better than to have such a test in their general area!!
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Shyla Bouche 2 years ago
It's only fair that shoe sister ask dog sister to replace the shoes ruined by the dog. That is all!
Joelle Jansen 2 years ago
I wonder how old the poster and the sister are and if their parents are prone to doing similar ridiculously retaliatory things to their kids.
PapillonOne 2 years ago
Great point cause she learned that behavior somewhere!!
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Wants His Trust Fund To Buy More Drugs
Jason 2 years ago
I'll go my entire life without weed if someone will hook me up with a trust fund
VonBlade 2 years ago
I already go my entire life without weed, so just give me the money.
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Charlotte 2 years ago
Where does it say he wants to use this money to buy more drugs? I think his dad threatening to take away his future because he smoked some weed (while probably claiming he's throwing away his future) is a very toxic thing to do.
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
OP: "I really can't take the drug test." Coming from a former addict, that is NOT a phrase you say if all you have in your system is weed (which wouldn't surprise the dad as he already caught OP smoking it.) OP has other drugs in his system, I guarantee that. OP would spend his trust fund money on more drugs. Addicts literally cannot help it. You don't want to know how much of my savings I burned through during my (thankfully brief) dance with cocaine. (Hint: all of it.) OP wants to use this money to buy more drugs. Absolutely.
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Riley Quinn 2 years ago
I've been smoking cannabis daily for decades, and now use it as a medicinal aid, yet I'd find a way to stay off it for a trust fund.
If you and your siblings can’t seem to be in the same room together for more than an hour without getting under one another’s skin, know that you’re not alone. Sadly, it’s quite common to have to deal with conflicts between siblings, even as adults, so Kristin McCarthy wrote a piece for Love to Know discussing this topic. Kristin notes that it can first be helpful to get to the bottom of where this conflict is stemming from.
It might be because you and your sibling have different relationships with your fellow family members, such as being much closer to your parents or another sibling. Or perhaps the conflict is rooted in competition between the two of you or an ongoing sibling rivalry that never seems to end. Whatever the cause may be, it’s best to identify it to work on resolving it.
Kristin goes on to write that, if you and your sibling are able to sit down and attempt to work through your issues, try to confront the conflict head-on. “While you may have stress and anxiety over sitting down with them, it is important that this initial step be made so you can move towards a place where you are comfortable in close proximity, despite differences. If you decide to meet up, pick a location that is comfortable for everyone, yet also neutral. You'll want to be on as even ground as possible for this.”
#7
My Brother Demanding Money From My 65-Year-Old Mother
AnnaRachelle 2 years ago
There is absolutely no way on this earth that I would of given him anything,ever again. If either of my sons (who are adults) spoke this way to my face,they would be picking themselves up off the floor not l9ng after. Absolutely disgusting. To speak to anybody this way,let alone your mother
Jason 2 years ago
Drugs. I knew someone growing up who treated his mom like this. In and out of jail, just died from an od. His mom was the nicest person too
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Megalodon Meg 2 years ago
I'd die for my sons but if one of them talked to me like this I'd put them through a wall.
Silre (she/her) 2 years ago
If someone ever spoke to my mother like that, they would no longer be able to speak.
#8
The Reason I Associate As Little As Possible With My Half Brother
juice 2 years ago
could be a New Zealand insult (means dumb*ss), but looking at the Reddit comments it seems "egg" was supposed to instead say the f-slur for gay people (the last gray message corrects it), and "carrot" the longer form of that same slur.
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Yes, I'm serious 2 years ago (edited)
That had me laughing my butt off 😂😂😂😂
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hcaballero57 2 years ago
Sounds like something my older brother would do and say. Of course, this is the same brother when I bought plane tickets to Hawaii to go visit our oldest brother when he was stationed there, he basically said he was going and I wasn't. He even called the airline saying he was me and tried changing the ticket to his name.
Riley Quinn 2 years ago
Best part of this convo are the ridiculous insults. If someone called me a carrot froot loop, I'd be laughing too hard to reply.
#9
Cb Bargains Their Way Out Of 6 Months Free Rent, No Utilities…because They Wouldn’t Be Paid Extra Cash For Dog Sitting
Mildly Annoyed Penguin 2 years ago
The original offer was brilliant and fair, why would you even want to negotiate?
Tori 2 years ago
i know right! you get a house, no rent AND you get to look after two dogs!?
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Ryn Funkhouser 2 years ago
good. OP was kind of a jerk for trying to negotiate that
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At the start of the article, I was with OP. Yes, you should get paid for 6 months of dog sitting. Then I got to the rest. Kid, you ARE getting paid in free living, utilities, etc.
PotatoNinja5000 2 years ago
I feel like this person isn't aware of how much it costs to live on your own.
Marno C. 2 years ago
In the update to the posting, the OP said that they demanded to be paid in addition to the free housing. OP asked 'What other option does my sister have?' Well, it turned out the sister did have another option. A friend is going to take the free housing for dogcare offer and OP is back at square one, unpaid, living far from uni at Mom and Dad's house.
Kioh81 2 years ago
I like how OP says they "can't afford to live on her own.... " Then complains about getting to live on her own in exchange for simply taking care of 2 dogs. Also having the ability to get a part time job to cover any additional expenses considering all the bills are being paid for. That's 6 months they could save up money so when the time comes they can afford to try to live in their own.
PapillonOne 2 years ago
Honestly, I would be afraid to leave my dogs with such a stupid person. I doubt she has the ability to commit to the care of the dogs if something unexpected turned up like the need for a vet. She'd probably let the dog die and tell the owners that she was too busy to attend to the dog's needs cause she had to go to class!!
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When it comes to resolving conflicts with a sibling, Kristin recommends following a few basic guidelines: present your problems, use “I” statements to avoid playing the blame game, remain calm, practice active listening, offer possible solutions, and check back in later. Issues don’t usually disappear overnight, but with some effort on both sides, wounds can be healed.
Then it’s best to work on preventing any future conflicts. To do so, Kristin notes that it can be helpful to focus on preparing yourself before the next interaction you have with this sibling. “Consider all the possibilities surrounding the meeting. This mental preparation will help you calm your anxiety beforehand,” she writes. Then, remember to avoid confrontational conversation. If certain topics always lead to an argument, just skip them altogether. If a situation becomes uncomfortable, try to shut it down before it escalates, and if it comes down to it, simply limit your interactions with one another altogether.
#10
When Your Younger Sister Who Lives Rent And Bill Free, With A Job, Wants You To Pay To See Her
Karl Baxter 2 years ago
My younger brother still leaches off my Ma even though he’s 44 years old. It’s pathetic.
PapillonOne 2 years ago
Yeah, but too bad your mom helped create the jerk's behavior, right? Obviously she does not know how to say NO to him so he'd grow up a little!
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Jason 2 years ago
Dunno I know people who have a job who are broke (me) and I have had friends and family who have less money that I wanted to help or see. Helped them out
Ron Baza 2 years ago
I’ve never known anyone who was so broke they couldn’t afford to type ‘Please’
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Faith Napier 2 years ago
If I was this guys friend/sibling I would be like "bro, get ur own money! F--k off"
Burnt Bagel 2 years ago
My mom is 85 and I still try to get her to pay for dinner when I go out with her! Works every time if I take her to Mexican food and get her tanked up in margaritas 🤪😂
Riley Quinn 2 years ago
The only people I'd pay to see would be someone I admired, like a phenomenal musician. Certainly not a relative.
Beck 2 years ago
My dad (I met him when I was 25) has lived with his moms his whole life except for a few years. He is 67 and his moms is 91. To be fair he was a long haul truck driver for 40 years. I thi k he is just waiting for her to die so he can get the house. I only met jer maybe three times. My mom and step dad raised me.
#11
Shared My Netflix Years Ago With My Mom And Sister, Then Had An Issue Last Night So I Checked The Recent Devices. Found Out There Were Tons Of People With My Password, Plus Someone Upped My Plan. Reset My Password And Told My Sister I Wasn’t Going To Share My Password Anymore. Chaos
and_a_touch_of_the_’tism 2 years ago
Completely unrelated but your username is HILARIOUS
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James016 2 years ago
Now Netflix are really clamping down. Plus how did you seemingly not notice that someone upped your plan until you checked?
Marcellus II 2 years ago
Because Netflix keep increasing the bill for the same service, so another increase doesn't really raise eyebrows?
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Liz 2 years ago (edited)
My siblings and I have peacefully shared our Netflix account plus 1 close friend for 7 years. ETA: we switch every few years who pays it. No one acts like a d**k.
PapillonOne 2 years ago
And everyone is trustworthy too apparently.... unfortunately for the poster that was not the case!
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Jesus, I just read that whole thread (https://www.reddit.com/r/ChoosingBeggars/comments/ezugl8/shared_my_netflix_years_ago_with_my_mom_and/) and the mom is something else. What utter garbage she is. "I'M THE LEAST SELFISH PERSON YOU KNOW! NOW GIVE ME YOUR PASSWORD, YOU UNGRATEFUL BRAT! I'M NOT SAYING YOU OWE ME BUT...YOU OWE ME FOR YOUR EXISTENCE!"
PapillonOne 2 years ago
I can't believe they gave the info to someone who either took over her account or gave it to someone else who did, either way what is wrong with people who are suppose to be protecting us when we are kind enough to share out Login & password?! Sh*t-heads!!
Faith Napier 2 years ago
Lesson learned dont trust anybody but the people you trust your life with
#12
It’s Everyday
Sexual Harassment Panda 2 years ago
It's not just the stepfather. It can also be the biological father.
Unpopular opinions 2 years ago
2 sides to every story, sometimes the parents are wrong, sometimes it’s the kids.
If the issue at hand does happen to be a sibling rivalry, Dr. Elizabeth Scott wrote an article discussing how to handle the accompanying stress of sibling rivalries for VeryWell Mind. She first notes that instead of immediately jumping to frustration with your sibling, it might be helpful to understand where the rivalry started. They often come from parental favoritism, which can cause lasting impacts on children. If the rivalry began in adulthood, however, it might have been caused by geographical proximity, shared personality features, or other factors such as personal views.
Wherever the rivalry stems from, however, Dr. Scott urges readers to try not to take it personally. “Understand that your parent may not ‘love’ the other sibling more, they just feel closer or more invested in their lives, for whatever reason,” she writes. “They may not even be aware of it, and most likely are not doing it to hurt your feelings.”
#13
My Brother Was Mad Cause I Wouldn’t Let Him Have Anymore Candy After He Had Almost A Whole Bag. This Is What He Did. This Is My 1,000 Dollar iPad That I Earned
Kitty 🥀 2 years ago (edited)
Don’t know why she wouldn’t just use pliers to take the port out of the iPad, then spend $5 on a new cord. (Edit: Yeah, the brother is a little shît, but I just mean it was weird how she commented on the cost of the iPad as thought it’s ruined forever, when it’s an easy fix.)
Riley Quinn 2 years ago
Not the point, but then she's the one that lead us over there. A cord is not an iPad.
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Eduard Korhonen 2 years ago
The price of the iPad is irrelevant. It's only a cheap cord which was damaged
A B C the Third 2 years ago
Apple's EULA says you have to state the price of your iDevice every time you're talking about it.
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Weasel Wise 2 years ago
Every one is making this WAY more difficult than it needs to be but either way, yes, pliers. Use the plyers in one smooth gentle pulling motion to remove the broken piece from your computer. Use a second, faster and swifter, stabbing motion to put those plyers into your brother's neck. Then take your computer and your newly won candy back to your room and enjoy. Told you it was simple.
whineygingercat 2 years ago
Be certain that the broken end of the charging cable is deeply embedded in his neck, this will ensure maximum retention rate on the punishment.
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Zedrapazia 2 years ago
Get a pair of pliers, and carefully pull it out. Since there's still a part sticking out, it can be removed (once happened to me because it fell to the floor). New cable and you should be good.
SheamusFanFrom1987 2 years ago
I try not to advocate violence but in this case, someone deserves a good smack upside his head. Smh...
Niall Mac Iomera 2 years ago
...that's just the charging cable though. Sure, it's annoying, but a new one is like 20 bucks. Make him pay for it of course.
Faith Napier 2 years ago
Thats f*cked up, he destroyed ur property. Have him find a way 2 pay you back for that. money or chore wise.
#14
I Wouldn’t Let My Older Sister (Who Lives At Home) Eat My Food
Faith Napier 2 years ago
Bro. talk about growning up to be a spoiled b*tch that cant do sh*t besides for sit on her *ss
#TheGregoryProject | he/him 2 years ago
'check' always confuses me when reading, as i spell it 'cheque'.
#15
My Own Brother
Auntie Bear 2 years ago
Never having to get these nasty messages again... priceless.
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RoanTheMad 2 years ago
I don't understand these types of choosing beggar. "Im sooooo desperate for your work, please give it to me" and then 2 seconds after being told no "YOUR STUFF SUCKS".. then why did you want it so badly in the first place, moron?
Zoe Duddle 2 years ago
They act the same way towards women who say no to them too.
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Cyber Returns 2 years ago
Here's a desk made out of invisible wood from the ethereal tree. Enjoy
Weasel Wise 2 years ago
What is with these people? How did they ever come to the conclusion that by behaving like a psychotic dïckbag towards ANYONE will get you what you want?
Riley Quinn 2 years ago
I'll never understand the sense of loyalty towards toxic relatives. Putting DNA before mental health is not an equitable trade.
Faith Napier 2 years ago
bro. I dare you to build him a desk out of mud w/ dirt, he will SO deserve it!
SheamusFanFrom1987 2 years ago
Once again, from Brother to No Relation in 3... 2... 1... DONE!!!
But if you’re having trouble coping with an adult sibling rivalry, Dr. Scott recommends finding support elsewhere in your life, such as among friends or other family members who make you feel loved unconditionally. And resist the urge to perpetuate your sibling rivalry. Don’t go out of your way to compete or blame them for being favored. “You’ll also feel better if you accept that you may not get as much support and approval from parents as you want, and that’s okay,” Dr. Scott notes. “If you don’t come at them from a place of need, you will actually have more personal power.” Finally, remember to focus on what’s most important: your own family and nurturing the relationships that are most meaningful to you.
#16
When Asked If He Could Bring The Console To Our Dad’s House, Mom Gave My Little Brother A Definitive No. After They Left, I Walked Back To My Room And Found It Missing
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
Little brother is 10 according to OP. WAY old enough to know he is in the wrong. OP also stated, "Joke’s on him though ‘cause mom used the Xbox family app to block his account, and mine too in case he thinks he can outsmart us."
Faith Napier 2 years ago
He took it. U got a phone right there, txt ur mum and show her the photo.
NotTodaySatan!! 2 years ago
Might be helpful to know how old "little" brother is. Maybe he's 11 and has rarely been told know or had to reap any consequences. I am sure there are better options for disciplining a child (if they happen to be one) than to call police and report a theft.
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Entitled Sister Wants To Come Visit On My Due Date
Elio 2 years ago
How dare this woman not want everyone to crowd her when she's having a baby. /s
Faith Napier 2 years ago
I hope ur being sarcastic. this is F#cked up. let the woman have her peace.
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Shark Lady 2 years ago
In my family and with my friends we all communicate via text using mostly correct grammar.
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RoanTheMad 2 years ago
I mean, if i had a sister like that I don't think I'd want them in my life anyway.
Zedrapazia 2 years ago
I have an idea: Go give birth on that fake friends condo. Blood and water everywhere!
feminist percussionist 2 years ago
I thought at first that she was joking about giving birth because the sister asked any plans for LABOR day weekend?
srobhrob 1 year ago
Nope it wasnt, I was literally due on Labor Day that year (this happened in 2019)
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No One was allowed on my scheduled cesarian. My mom and sister came after I was home from the hospital though, cause then I could enjoy their company more. Then again we are very closr
Amanda Hunter 2 years ago
My ex, did I mention he's my ex? invited his friends over right when I was due to deliver our second child, then got upset when I said they could stop in an Hotel.
#18
My Sister, Who Likes To Use My Complex’s Free Gym, Angry Because I Don’t Have The Fob Today
Kitty 🥀 2 years ago
Ew, what a wet toilet seat. You can definitely tell who’s the spoiled brat baby of the family.
Hphizzle 2 years ago
What a wet toilet seat!! I’m stealing that. The saying, not the seat.
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RoanTheMad 2 years ago
and this is when you talk to your buildings management to have her banned from the building and escorted out by security if they ever try to set foot in it again, right? >.>
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
It kind of looks like an AirBnB receipt. Maybe OP and their sister stayed at an AirBnB together and sister asked for the receipt so she could pay her share?
Load More Replies...The examples on this list are mainly siblings who have exhibited extremely entitled behavior, but all sorts of issues can cause rifts in sibling relationships. If you need some advice for how to get along well with your adult siblings, here are some tips from Laurie Kramer, a professor of applied psychology at Northeastern University in Boston. She first recommends making time to see one another outside of your familial obligations, like going to mom and dad’s for holidays. She also recommends resisting the urge to assume you know things about your sibling just because you grew up together. Allow them to tell and show you who they are now and have honest conversations about how you remember growing up and how things have changed.
#19
My Sister Wants Me And My Brother To Help Pay For Her And Her Kids To Swim At My Late Father's Pool
saw & order 2 years ago
It’s a couple dollars now but that’s much better than what this person is asking them to do
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Zephyr343 2 years ago (edited)
Opening and closing itself is $1600 here. $200 at least for weekly. Doesn't include the maintenance (sand change.) Heating is even more. I would guess about $750 a month on electric and more on propane, depending on how big the pool is and what temp you put it to
Panda-riffic 2 years ago
* sigh* Closing out a loved one's estate is brutal. Brings back memories.
#20
My Brother Always Makes My Poor Mom Clean His After Him
NotTodaySatan!! 2 years ago
Let me fix this for you: My mom allows my brother to treat her like his maid. That's better.
Weasel Wise 2 years ago
Thank you. I agree the kid should be cleaning up after himself but if mom cleans up for him, she's perpetuating something she says she doesn't want to bw doing.
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VirtualJess 2 years ago
Um excuse me, she doesn't have to clean up a thing. Make him do it or take away all the things.
Winnie the Moo 2 years ago
He doesn’t make her. She allows him to treat him like that. And for while it seems…
#21
There Was No Warning, She Didn't Ask. She Took Money To Go On Vacation
Sexual Harassment Panda 2 years ago (edited)
The hair on the top left had me blowing on my screen.
NotTodaySatan!! 2 years ago
I dunno how they managed to come up with a plan to make this happen, much less potentially calling to book reservations, reading a map or programming a GPS. Actually, I'm baffled they were able to even write anything at all considering their note makes zero sense. I know what each word means individually, but when they are thrown together as OP has so eloquently done here, any understanding eludes me.
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
I remember the days when my mom and sister forced me to make my bank accounts joint with them. They never stole my money, but they watched MY spending like a hawk and would question every withdrawal/purchase. Joint finances with family members is usually a nasty thing once you're an adult, unless you have a good family. I don't XD
Worst Cop in Britain 2 years ago
I would have done the joint thing just to shut them up, but never use the account and get your own elsewhere.
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Faith Napier 2 years ago
At least she will pay you back w/ intrest. BESIDES she is ur mom. I wouldnt care unless we were poor tbh
Kramer also reminds that siblings must remember to stop comparing themselves to one another. “Just as when your younger brother got a bigger slice of cake, it might not seem fair that, as an adult, they end up with a better job or bigger house,” Katie Hunt writes for CNN Health. “But these are old feelings that don’t stand up to honest scrutiny. We all make different choices, and there’s no innate reason your path should be similar to your sibling’s.”
#22
My Brother Likes To Make Large Sum Bets And Thinks I'll Just Pull Out Of My Savings To Help Pay His Dues
Weasel Wise 2 years ago
I gotta rephrase that for you. Never give ANYONE money. It's a quick way for the lender to grow resentful and bonds are all to often broken when the lendee doesn't/can't repay in a timely fashion.
Load More Replies... Cyber Returns 2 years ago
Nope. If you're desperate for cash, then go pimp out your butt at the docks
Jane Cortez 2 years ago
I’ve never understood this compulsion or the justifications that go along with it.
SheamusFanFrom1987 2 years ago
I'd give him a Dean Ambrose-style NOPE right in his face. Smh...
Riley Quinn 2 years ago
And what do you want to be when you grow up? I want to be my brother's enabler. Looks like you're on the right track.
Faith Napier 2 years ago
Never let ur bro gamble, never help him gamble. he will be another person that has a bad addiction thet will ruin his life.
#23
When Your Unemployed Brother Finds Your 6 Year Old (Broken) iPhone To Give His Daughter As Her Main Christmas Gift, And Then Finds Out It’s Broken…it Turns Into Your Fault, Naturally
Norwegian_Panda🇳🇴 2 years ago
Wow! That’s fckd up 4 real!! Buy your daughter something with your own money, don’t steal from family and make them the bad ones when the stuff you stole is broken!!! Poor girl….
Marcellus II 2 years ago
In the post this whole article was compiled from.
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#24
Mom..... Lets Just Go
Mickysixxx 2 years ago (edited)
My mums name is karen but shes lovely. She would totally feed you if you went to her house
Weasel Wise 2 years ago
I feel bad for your mom and all the other innocent, unintended Karen victims. Why Karen? Why not something less stigmatizing to good Karens and more characteristically accurate? Like Ms. Satan? Or Devil Bïtch?
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Dancing Armadillo 2 years ago
My stepmom all day long.. she is even a little blond white lady with the haircut. So many stories but just recently she called the manager of Taco Bell- then corporate because the drive thru guy wouldn’t give her more than two sauces for crispy tacos..
Auntie Bear 2 years ago
She should have written to her congressman, this is an outrage! /s
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Ashen Brooks (They/Them) 2 years ago
I've seen so many kids trying to get their mom to stop yelling at random people and i feel so bad for each and every one
FantastiKitty 2 years ago
I can't imagine a dad named Kyle. Sounds too young.
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Despite the fact that you share about 50% of your DNA with your siblings, you don’t always need to maintain relationships with them. If you’ve worked hard for years attempting to mend your relationship to no avail, it might be healthier for you to just stop trying. “When or how a person might know it’s time to cut ties completely depends on the individual situation and comfort level. If there’s persistent emotional manipulation, physical abuse, or other unhealthy or destructive behaviors that are causing harm, then it may be best to end the relationship,” says Kalley Hartman, clinical director at Ocean Recovery in Newport Beach, California. “If they’re not good for you emotionally, psychologically, or physically, it’s better to have a chosen family with friends, rather than sibling relationships chosen for us — especially if nothing’s going to change in that sibling dynamic.”
#25
I Had This Lovely Conversation After Getting Multiple Calls From Her. Ladies And Gentlemen, This Is My Older Sister, A Mua, That Has Complained About People Doing The Same Thing To Her That She’s Doing To Me
SheamusFanFrom1987 2 years ago
Reply: Yeah, I thought so. Soooo... Lol Nope to you as well. Smh...
RoanTheMad 2 years ago
if she's a Mua I can think of the PERFECT tutorial for her to film for herself. f*****g clown.
#26
My Unemployed Brother Asking Me To Order Him A Pizza
Echidna learns extreme ironing 2 years ago
Buy this guy a cheese and ham sandwich, a small fruit salad and just mash it all together.
JoyfulZebra 2 years ago
S* disappointing (this is a joke, the "so" wasn't actually censored)
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Perfumista Perfumista 2 years ago
Banana peppers are a thing. No actual bananas are on the pizza
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HelluvaHedgehogAlien 2 years ago (edited)
Looks like he’s not gonna get to eat pizza for that meal
Faith Napier 2 years ago
dang. at this point, buy a cheese pizza and then go buy the toppings at ur grocery store
#27
My Sister Asking For My Netflix When She Is 33 And Lives With My Mom And Dad
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
OP says they didn't mean to send "no" as an answer, but were stunned at the immediate and vitriolic response to the accidental "no".
Jods 2 years ago
My reply would have been a little longer with the second word being “off”.
Load More Replies... Rebelliousslug 2 years ago
When she says “all the sacrifices we …” is she really counting herself in with her parents who might have actually made sacrifices? Does she consider herself to one of the homeowners? Was she referring to the sister staying? I know it’s not necessary to the story, but I’m dying to know lol
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
According to OP on Reddit (I did a little digging), OP struggled with addiction over 10 years ago. OP's sister still gives them s**t about it. Perhaps sister did provide help or support during OP's struggle with addiction, or maybe sister feels like OP's parents spent more time/money on OP trying to help them, and sister "made sacrifices" because she didn't get what she wanted during that time. OP doesn't really specify, so I'm speculating that last bit.
Load More Replies... Faith Napier 2 years ago
that was purely uncalled for. shows how heartless + selfish some people are
goodguybrad 2 years ago
I'm in shock. With all these post with a sibling incredibly entitle while the other is normal. There must have been alot of favortism growing up. Feel sad reading all this
I genuinely hope that you pandas cannot relate to the posts on this list, but if you can, remember that it’s totally fine to set boundaries with your brothers and sisters. Just because you grew up together doesn’t mean that they’re entitled to treat you however they like. Keep upvoting the pictures that you find most appalling, and then let us know in the comments below if you have any personal stories of sibling entitlement to share. Then, if you’re interested in reading another Bored Panda article featuring relatives who don’t understand boundaries or manners, you can find more “choosing beggars” right here!
#28
My Brother Taking My Bluetooth Headset Without Permission And Returning It Like This
NotTodaySatan!! 2 years ago
How do you know he did it on purpose? Wouldn't it make more sense to buy yourself some as now he can no longer borrow hers, and he still needs to purchase news ones for the ones he damaged.
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My Brother Did This Be Cause I Didn’t Let Him Play For Another Hour After His Turn
Cyber Returns 2 years ago
Get yourself a new cable and every time he wants to play, give him this cable
Karen Tyas 2 years ago
I need to know if these charger destroyers are children or adult siblings! They say “his turn” so o hope that means a kid.
Zedrapazia 2 years ago
Even if it's a child, it's aggressive behavior that shouldn't be tolerated
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#30
My Brother Paused 2 Of My Downloads To Install Fortnite
RoanTheMad 2 years ago
or better yet, play it, and be the worst kind of a*****e possible just to get the account banned. :')
Load More Replies... NotTodaySatan!! 2 years ago
I think I need more information as I'm currently unsure which we are meant to judge. Hmmm.
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago (edited)
While you got downvoted for some reason, I tend to agree. Compared to some of the other things on here, "My brother paused my downloads to download something of his own!!!" is pretty tame and mild. Irritating? Yes. "So entitled it'll make your blood boil" as the article title states? lol no. How entitled do YOU have to be to feel like your brother pausing your GAME DOWNLOADS is something that wrecks your life enough that you have to post it on the internet looking for sympathy? likes? for the lols? I'm sure I'll get downvoted for my opinion as well, but OP is a bit whiny. It's a download, friend. He didn't destroy your console, or your games, or even delete your stuff, etc. Yes, I'd be pissed too if a sibling did this to me. Would I post it on the internet while declaring him entitled? Nah.
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Phobrek 2 years ago
Sorry what were you saying? I was re-inserting disc 2 of Myst over here
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René Sauer 2 years ago
And? If they are just paused, simply restart them. Unless that is your personal PC, Not a shared one.
Temporary Dork 2 years ago
A normal kid. Both are waiting to play, one starts TWO downloads, the other one is not going to wait.
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#31
Brother Who Refuses To Work Tries To Emotionally Blackmail Me Over Netflix Subscription
Michelle C 2 years ago
I suspect option three was going to be: “Option three: I do nothing and you leave me alone because I’m not discussing this.” Seeing that this is most likely the case, good on OP for setting strong boundaries and sticking to them!
#32
Karen
#33
Loaned My Sister A Few Thousand Dollars Of My Work Camera Equipment So She And Her Friend Could Take Graduation Photos. This Is The Exchange That Followed
Ansi 2 years ago
Why does BP borrow stuff all the time from Reddit, but not include the whole thing? This conversation has 4 pictures. 🤦♀️
Xenon 2 years ago
Because they are beyond lazy and spend their days on reddit and other sites half a*s stealing content.
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Got A Message From My Spoilt Brother Asking For A Lift To An Airport Two Hours Away The Night Before His Flight
You Should Do Nothing with the Fence 2 years ago (edited)
So. Difficult. To read. (Edit here: I mainly meant the length and vitriol content, but yes, Zooming in does the trick) :)
Liz Clarke 2 years ago
How is this even a thing? I don't drive but I've never asked for a lift to an airport, I've always used public transport. This in the UK, our airports are really well served by trains and buses.
Tyke 2 years ago (edited)
Liz, if you live in or near to a big city I can see why you'd use public transport. However, imagine living in a small village. One bus an hour that only goes to the local town. Tons of people will have to drive/cab or get a lift to the airport.
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The Truth
Three cats in a trenchcoat 2 years ago
My parents claim my phone makes me go crazy, but completely flip out if they see me checking what homework I have
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
That feels familiar. My mom was always telling me that I "spent too much time" playing video games and/or being on the computer when I was a kid, and once phones were a thing, she was always telling me I was going to strain my eyes staring at my phone all day. Now, she has like 3 iPads and her iPhone that she plays Candy Crush on ALL DAY, and she has TWO computers at home (a Mac and a PC) and she plays solitaire on the PC and makes virtual puzzles on the Mac. ALL. DAY. How the turns have tabled!
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#36
My Sweet Little Brother Who Begs Me For Money Every Day. He Is 30 And Married And Doesn’t Talk To Me About Anything But Borrowing Money Or Getting Handouts Or Asking If He Can Come For Dinner. The Vm After Was “What Kind Of Sister Let’s Their Brother Go Hungry?” Um, This One. Kthxbai
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago
No, friend. You didn't "get put in a corner". You put YOURSELF in a corner.
#37
My Sister Seems To Think I’m Selfish For Bringing A Controller, That’s Mine, That She Likes To Use Without Asking, With Me On A Couple Week Vacation
I bought it with my own money.
NotTodaySatan!! 2 years ago
I need more info. What is a controller? Why would it be useful on vacation??
Lord Mysticlaw 2 years ago
Why it would be useful on vacation isn't the point. It's hers and she can take it out for a drive or for a walk in the park if she wants to.
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#38
Sister Sent Me This...she Was Blocked Immediately After
Kitty 🥀 2 years ago
This post has been here on BP before, and it was NOT between 2 sisters. And it’s so obvious, with how formal the OP is in some phrasing.
rob 2 years ago
Yeah bored panda reuses a lot of content and just tries to make it fit the current narrative
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Thatbadbassplayer 2 years ago
Once blocked on Iphones they switch to green.
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#39
An Old Convo From Last Year, My Brother And His Friend Being Snobs Over Golf Clubs. They Actually Made Me Laugh But They Still Ended Up With Nothing
#40
Sister Upset At How I Give Her Free Hbo
#41
Me (26M) Talking To My Karen Sister (36F), She Hides The Towels When I’m Sick, So She Doesn’t Get Sick
Lakota Wolf 2 years ago (edited)
Sister could... just... wash the towels after OP uses them? Or OP could just... turn on the laundry machine and... WASH the towels in there, before they bathe?
Justin Smith 2 years ago
And why should the sick person be forced to do laundry because the sister is insane?
Load More Replies... Junebugjump! 2 years ago
The sister sounds crazy. Hiding towels? Why not just ask the sick sister to keep the towels in her room/separate?
Nandros M 2 years ago
I see two Karen sisters here. Either of them can push the laundry button.
Justin Smith 2 years ago
So the sick person should have to do laundry to take a bath or shower cause the sister is insane?
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Icecream Sarang 2 years ago
My parents were out of town for vacation over Thanksgiving. My sister (then 27 to my 40) was angry at me for not cooking dinner after I came over and saw our parents’ house completely thrashed. Like I’d have to spend 2 hours cleaning up the kitchen just to spend 6 hours making dinner. I turned around and walked out, and went home. She completely lost her s**t. She told me to never come to come near her nor her children again. Her rant continued to say she’s make sure my parents never spoke to me again. That her children would never be anywhere my son, and if I came over to the house while she was there, she would call the police and file an assault and stalking complaint against me. And that she hoped I’d die and go to hell. Hours later, she had the audacity to ask me to babysit so she could Black Friday shop.
Icecream Sarang 2 years ago
She did it again a couple of years later when I was pregnant. This time my husband and parents were there. She flew into a fit calling me several unpleasant names, said to never come near her or her kids again and to never come to my parents’ house. My dad stepped in and told her she does not determine who is or is not welcome in HIS home. Yeah…she’s real freaking pleasant to be around when she doesn’t get her way.
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Will Cable 2 years ago
I want these self entitled a******s to be all dumped on an island with nothing and then watch them b***h at each other
Noname 2 years ago
After 5 years of staying up after midnight my time zone in Europe to call my family, I had enough of being the only one to keep in contact. I told my mom I was never going to call her again, and I'd prefer it if she left me alone, as she had been doing. She thought I was suicidal, and made my brother call the American embassy, who sent a medic team to visit me. I was fine. The embassy couldn't report to my family in the usa that I was OK and insisted I contact my family, which I refused to do. My family called the local police to do a wellness check on me, who urged me to contact my American family, which I refused to do. My mother, through my brother, then sent a letter to my ex-husband saying I was emotionally abusive and they had cut ties with me. When you're the lucid member of your family but they still drive you crazy---
Joshua Moore 2 years ago
I know I've said this before on here, but cut the toxic people out of your life, your mental health will thank you for it!!
Tyranamar Seuss 2 years ago
My grandmother has Alzheimer's disease and my aunt makes the estate pay for her plane fair when she comes out to visit. Wild! And aunt's husband is a doctor. Not like she can't afford it.
Hugh Donaldson 2 years ago
If you have a friend or if your partner is toxic, you walk away. Do the same for family. Toxic is toxic regardless of whether it's family, friend or partner. Better be alone without family that with people who left you in a position where their toxic behavior is that bad that you have walked away from them. Don't allow them to be the victim cause of you walking away.
Icecream Sarang 2 years ago
My parents were out of town for vacation over Thanksgiving. My sister (then 27 to my 40) was angry at me for not cooking dinner after I came over and saw our parents’ house completely thrashed. Like I’d have to spend 2 hours cleaning up the kitchen just to spend 6 hours making dinner. I turned around and walked out, and went home. She completely lost her s**t. She told me to never come to come near her nor her children again. Her rant continued to say she’s make sure my parents never spoke to me again. That her children would never be anywhere my son, and if I came over to the house while she was there, she would call the police and file an assault and stalking complaint against me. And that she hoped I’d die and go to hell. Hours later, she had the audacity to ask me to babysit so she could Black Friday shop.
Icecream Sarang 2 years ago
She did it again a couple of years later when I was pregnant. This time my husband and parents were there. She flew into a fit calling me several unpleasant names, said to never come near her or her kids again and to never come to my parents’ house. My dad stepped in and told her she does not determine who is or is not welcome in HIS home. Yeah…she’s real freaking pleasant to be around when she doesn’t get her way.
Load More Replies... Will Cable 2 years ago
I want these self entitled a******s to be all dumped on an island with nothing and then watch them b***h at each other
Noname 2 years ago
After 5 years of staying up after midnight my time zone in Europe to call my family, I had enough of being the only one to keep in contact. I told my mom I was never going to call her again, and I'd prefer it if she left me alone, as she had been doing. She thought I was suicidal, and made my brother call the American embassy, who sent a medic team to visit me. I was fine. The embassy couldn't report to my family in the usa that I was OK and insisted I contact my family, which I refused to do. My family called the local police to do a wellness check on me, who urged me to contact my American family, which I refused to do. My mother, through my brother, then sent a letter to my ex-husband saying I was emotionally abusive and they had cut ties with me. When you're the lucid member of your family but they still drive you crazy---
Joshua Moore 2 years ago
I know I've said this before on here, but cut the toxic people out of your life, your mental health will thank you for it!!
Tyranamar Seuss 2 years ago
My grandmother has Alzheimer's disease and my aunt makes the estate pay for her plane fair when she comes out to visit. Wild! And aunt's husband is a doctor. Not like she can't afford it.
Hugh Donaldson 2 years ago
If you have a friend or if your partner is toxic, you walk away. Do the same for family. Toxic is toxic regardless of whether it's family, friend or partner. Better be alone without family that with people who left you in a position where their toxic behavior is that bad that you have walked away from them. Don't allow them to be the victim cause of you walking away.
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