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30 Soon-To-Be Married People Exposed For Their Sense Of Entitlement (New Pics)
Interview With Expert
Every bride and groom wants a perfect wedding. It ideally only happens once in a lifetime, and wanting the event to turn out exactly how they envisioned it is understandable.
However, some would step on other people’s toes just to let things fall into place, which is unacceptable. Thankfully, we have the internet to expose such entitled behavior.
Scroll through to find screenshots showing ridiculous requirements, self-serving actions that put other guests in potential danger, and monetary gift requests to fund a honeymoon. Hopefully, you have never experienced any of these.
You will also find our interview with Kaitlin Shea, a Colorado-based wedding planner. She was kind enough to share her insights on entitled clients.
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Wut
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This Literally Just Happened - "I Want My Own Wedding Year"
YOU GET ONE DAY. ONE. NOT THE WHOLE YEAR.
horseloving panda 3 weeks ago
My uncles got married the same weekend, it was at a hotel and the brides were best friends. They rented out the hotel and an outdoor open side marquee. The first uncle had a night time wedding inside with fairy lights and an outdoor reception on Saturday. The second uncle had a sunset wedding outdoors and a reception inside on Sunday. It was super cool because everyone was already there and it was just super special
quentariel 3 weeks ago
I'm willing to extend the time for a week, as usually weddings fall on the weekends, so you have one week to float in your bridal excellancy. One day with guests, seven with inner circle, not a freaking year.
MK-C PHD 3 weeks ago
Only it’s not the ONE day anymore is it??? Engagement Party? Bachelorette?? Shower? Rehearsal Dinner…. All of which can be ridiculously expensive and stressful for the “Lucky Bridal Party” No you don’t get to claim a whole year!! Focus more on happy marriage less on parties!
Aidan Campbell 3 weeks ago
"I'm so glad we're having this rehearsal dinner. You know, I so rarely get to practice my meals before I eat them"
Load More Replies... KatSaidWhat 3 weeks ago
Your "bf" doesn't need your permission. She's going to TELL you when she is getting married. Followed by a quick f**k off when you dictate her date.
JD 2 weeks ago
I don't get these people who want nothing else happy to happen weeks/months away from their wedding. How utterly boring and mundane are you that the world has to be shut down for a year so you "finally" get enough attention? How needy are you? How shallow and thin skinned? I don't think one day is going to fix you, hon.
Michael Largey 3 weeks ago
The best friend would be a remarkable idiot to think she has to ask permission in the first place.
Erla Zwingle 3 weeks ago
Your friend is your "best" one because she's in the habit of asking you if it's okay that she does something she wants to do? I think you're going to find yourself without any friends, best, worst, or in between.
#3
“Lose Weight If You Want To Be My Maid Of Honour”
Wedding planners like Kaitlin regularly deal with demanding clients. As she told Bored Panda, such behavior usually comes from people close to the couple, like parents, siblings, and entourage members. They usually have unwelcome opinions, which Kaitlin says frustrates the couple and makes them feel stifled.
“Your wedding opinions will absolutely matter when planning your own wedding, but when your job is to support another bride or groom, kindly put those opinions to the side,” she said.
#4
Just When You Think The Bridezilla Requests Can't Get Any More Ridiculous
I'm a maid of honor in my friends wedding. She goes by her middle name which is Rachel... My first name is Rachel. I am honestly unsure how to answer. Like ma'am I'm not changing my name for your wedding.
#5
Not Invited To The Wedding, But Still Pay For It
#6
I Had A Bad Feeling About Her. Run Bro
Wedding ceremonies are monumental life events, and Katilin says its magnitude is likely why people can act unreasonably. However, you can prevent such tense moments from arising, and here’s her advice.
“Have plans in place for everything, so that if someone tries to throw a wrench in the works, you have a backup,” Kaitlin said.
#7
Pay For My Historic Wedding, Y'all!
Bernd Herbert 3 weeks ago
"honeymoon in Dubai" is basically all you need to know about this person
#8
She'll Marry In An Empty Church
#9
My Mum Is An Artificial Florist And Had An ‘Influencer’ With 70k Followers Ask For Free Wedding Flowers For Exposure
Like people in customer service, handling difficult people is part of the job description of being a wedding planner. Kaitlin has her own method of handling these personalities: setting clear boundaries.
“Their own personal drama is NOT your personal drama, even if they try to make it so,” she explained. You can care deeply without sacrificing your sanity for what, at the end of the day, is still a job.”
#10
Hey, I Know That I've Given My Wedding No Thought But I Want You Dedicate The Next 48 Hours Of Your Life To It
Tucker Cahooter 3 weeks ago
OP presumably also thinks all murders can be solved in 60 to 90 minutes
#11
Oh Yeah, That Guy Jon Is Coming Too
#12
Entitled Bride To Be
Miss Tinker 3 weeks ago
Let’s hope your finance comes to his senses & dumps your cruel, shallow a*s.
For many people, living in the internet age means wanting to look good for the ‘gram. Because of this, Carson says people are now heavily focused on turning their weddings into fashion events.
As he points out, some guests may feel hassled by outfit requirements, adding to the already hefty cost of attending a wedding. Therefore, brides and grooms should expect some attendees to “go rogue” and ignore the guidelines.
#13
How About No
Rachel Parker 3 weeks ago
I’m looking for a supermarket that will refund my food bills if I throw up.
#15
How Dare Someone Be Pregnant At My Wedding!! I Understand Not Wanting To Host Events, But The Anger At Grandparents Buying Gifts And The Me!!!! Attitude Is So Entitled
Bald Panda 3 weeks ago
Reality TV and social media influencers have created a society of narcissists who think the world revolves around them. A culture that worships nobodies, in turn making nobodies feel entitled to the same adulation. It's grotesque.
We’d like to hear from you, readers. Have you experienced entitled behaviors from brides and grooms? How did you handle them? Share your stories in the comments!
#16
Watch Out For Bridezilla Karen
#17
Bride Is Expecting Everyone To Spend $400 Or More On Her Wedding Gifts
#18
We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money
Setting unrealistic expectations could be a sign of pre-wedding stress. It’s likely a result of the hyperfocus on making things “perfect” and running according to plan. According to psychologist Dr. Paulette Kouffman Sherman, managing expectations could relieve stress.
In an interview with Brides, Dr. Sherman suggests aiming for excellence rather than perfection to help manage expectations
#19
Bride Mad Moh Is Pregnant And Is "Ruining" Bachelorette
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 weeks ago
Am I selfish for wanting everyone's lives to revolve around me?
#20
Yikes
#21
God Forbid Her Sister Getting A Tattoo Before The Wedding!
You may read screenshots of people posting their Venmo accounts as a request for a cash gift. A 2023 registry study by The Knot revealed that 74% of wedding registry creators prefer to receive money from guests instead of traditional utensils and other home starters.
Some couples use the cash to fund their honeymoons or shoulder expenses for their first homes.
#22
Ah Yes. Someone Potentially Dying At Your Wedding Is A Much Better Idea Than Simply Not Having Seafood For One Day
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 weeks ago
It is definitely more important that you have a prawn, screw your friends health, roll them under the table when they collapse so they are not a trip hazard for others. Ffs.
#23
This Is As Tacky As It Gets.... Not Even A "Buy The Bride A Drink" Just $$$ Pls
SnootWaggling Fox 3 weeks ago
I always wonder if these things are intended for the wedding guests and just haven't been erased yet or are targeting randos? Tacky either way, but the former seems far less bad IMHO
#24
Not As Bad As Some, But Definitely Up There
Janissary35680 3 weeks ago (edited)
Re: "No Apple watches" What's your policy on longcase clocks?
According to events director Bryce Carson, this trend has occurred over the past decade. But as he told Fortune in an interview, it isn’t always a cash grab.
“Couples are getting married a little bit older in life. They’re already combining their homes,” he explained. “They do not need two sets of everything.”
#25
How Dare Someone Else Get Married During A Covid Bride’s Wedding Year!!!
María Hermida 3 weeks ago
Some years ago, it was *my* day; now, it's *my* year. Soon, this flock of imbeciles will demand *my* decade. The biggest problem, in my opinion, is this trend is growing because people are paying too much attention to their invented dramas. If we just told them to f-off the moment they start with their unhinged demands, they would stop. No, I couldn't care less about your wedding, your dress or what colour you sister in law's dress is. Nobody cares. Really. We couldn't care less.
#26
The Entitlement
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 weeks ago
If they cannot afford to chip in they should not be shamed for it.
#27
Another Gem In A Wedding Group With A Greedy Bride
#28
Almost Kicks Out Entire Bridal Party For Not Responding When She Told Them Only To Respond If They Wouldn’t Adhere To Her Demands
LonelyLittleLeafSheep 3 weeks ago
"You're right, I know longer want to be in your wedding party. Or a guest either."
#29
Groom Says Fiancé’s Sister Is Too Fat To Be A Bridesmaid
Tenay Douglas 3 weeks ago
You not being close to her and saying you don't feel comfortable with her in the party for that reason is valid! However you fat shaming her and dismissing her for your supposed "aesthetic" is weirdo behavior
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Bernd Herbert 3 weeks ago
I've been to a lot of weedings of my freinds and we never ever had that kind of s**t. But that's Germany for you. The weddings industry in the US is a scam.
Janissary35680 3 weeks ago
If you think the weddings industry is a scam, you should see the funerals industry.
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Mauve Mouse 3 weeks ago
Anyone who thinks these aren’t real has never worked with the public.
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Debby Keir 3 weeks ago
I'd far rather have a perfect marriage than a perfect wedding, and save up money for a house deposit rather than spending a bomb on just one day.
Apatheist Account2 3 weeks ago
Since we've moved on from when men and women didn't leave home until they married, and only he worked, I'm amazed that weddings still appear to be so important for people. We spent £120 on ours. I would have thought that the younger generation weren't so obsessed with showing off that they've bagged a husband...and they moan about not having enough money to buy a house, but spend 25k or more on a party. Absurd.
ZGutr 3 weeks ago (edited)
Where are the groomzilla's ?? Where are the blokes shouting MY wedding. Why don't I see a man asking powertools from a specific serie? Which guy gonna demand free BBQ for all and allows only beer straight from the bottle (beer from cans will be tolerate but only if is it's stronger) !!!
Livingwithcfs 3 weeks ago
I know these are just a tiny number of people who are getting married so they are a blip on the map, but honestly I expect they'll run out friends really fast for these types of requests
John Nelson 3 weeks ago
My wife and I were married at a small, inexpensive wedding chapel on the beach. Her dress came from a thrift store, and she was beautiful. (Still is, 22 years later) Had the reception at home, entered our marriage free from stress and debt.
LonelyLittleLeafSheep 3 weeks ago
Nice! Hubby and I had ours on the patio of our favorite pub. Invited all our friends to a "get-together". No dress code, no gifts, no stress. Only friends who knew ahead of time were the ones acting as witnesses and the one who was officiating. Pub provided complimentary champagne, we paid for food, and friends bought their own drinks. No stress, all fun!
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Joanne Mendonza-Earle 3 weeks ago
This is the first time I've seen the poll at 100% for the same answer! 'Not important at all'.
Cronecast AtTheRisingMoon 3 weeks ago
I’m reading this on Thanksgiving morning in the US and it’s given me a lot to be thankful for, honestly. Mostly thankful that an isolated childhood led to enough reclusive tendencies that I didn’t absorb this cultural programming. But also thankful for the laugh, half of these were so bad it was like satire.
Bernd Herbert 3 weeks ago
I've been to a lot of weedings of my freinds and we never ever had that kind of s**t. But that's Germany for you. The weddings industry in the US is a scam.
Janissary35680 3 weeks ago
If you think the weddings industry is a scam, you should see the funerals industry.
Load More Replies... Mauve Mouse 3 weeks ago
Anyone who thinks these aren’t real has never worked with the public.
Load More Replies... Debby Keir 3 weeks ago
I'd far rather have a perfect marriage than a perfect wedding, and save up money for a house deposit rather than spending a bomb on just one day.
Apatheist Account2 3 weeks ago
Since we've moved on from when men and women didn't leave home until they married, and only he worked, I'm amazed that weddings still appear to be so important for people. We spent £120 on ours. I would have thought that the younger generation weren't so obsessed with showing off that they've bagged a husband...and they moan about not having enough money to buy a house, but spend 25k or more on a party. Absurd.
ZGutr 3 weeks ago (edited)
Where are the groomzilla's ?? Where are the blokes shouting MY wedding. Why don't I see a man asking powertools from a specific serie? Which guy gonna demand free BBQ for all and allows only beer straight from the bottle (beer from cans will be tolerate but only if is it's stronger) !!!
Livingwithcfs 3 weeks ago
I know these are just a tiny number of people who are getting married so they are a blip on the map, but honestly I expect they'll run out friends really fast for these types of requests
John Nelson 3 weeks ago
My wife and I were married at a small, inexpensive wedding chapel on the beach. Her dress came from a thrift store, and she was beautiful. (Still is, 22 years later) Had the reception at home, entered our marriage free from stress and debt.
LonelyLittleLeafSheep 3 weeks ago
Nice! Hubby and I had ours on the patio of our favorite pub. Invited all our friends to a "get-together". No dress code, no gifts, no stress. Only friends who knew ahead of time were the ones acting as witnesses and the one who was officiating. Pub provided complimentary champagne, we paid for food, and friends bought their own drinks. No stress, all fun!
Load More Replies... Joanne Mendonza-Earle 3 weeks ago
This is the first time I've seen the poll at 100% for the same answer! 'Not important at all'.
Cronecast AtTheRisingMoon 3 weeks ago
I’m reading this on Thanksgiving morning in the US and it’s given me a lot to be thankful for, honestly. Mostly thankful that an isolated childhood led to enough reclusive tendencies that I didn’t absorb this cultural programming. But also thankful for the laugh, half of these were so bad it was like satire.
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