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People Have Mixed Reactions Following Emily Blunt’s Apology For Calling Waiter “Enormous”
Necessary to some, cringe to many, the “celebrity apology” genre is giving us lots of content to discuss this year. These written or recorded mea culpa statements are highly calculated moves that aim to make A-listers more relatable, public relations strategists say, and elicit empathy in their audience.
The most recent example of this trend is British actress Emily Blunt’s apology for describing a waitress as “enormous” in a 2012 interview on the UK’s Jonathan Ross Show that recently resurfaced online.
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Emily Blunt apologized after a clip of herself describing a waitress as “enormous” recently resurfaced online
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The clip shows the Oppenheimer actress telling an anecdote about going to a Chili’s restaurant in the US while filming the action-thriller Looper.
The TV host says, “If you go to Chili’s you can see why so many of our American friends are enormous.” The British star replies: “Well, the girl who was serving me was enormous. I think she got freebie meals at Chili’s.”
The conversation carried on with Blunt saying that the server told her she bore a striking resemblance to Emily Blunt only to realize later that she was, in fact, Emily Blunt.
“The girl who was serving us was enormous. I think she got freebie meals at Chili’s,” the British star said during a 2012 interview
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The actress’ remarks were deemed “fatphobic” and stirred controversy among thousands of social media users who argued that the server’s weight had nothing to do with the story.
“Emily Blunt seriously was one of my fave actresses but turns out she’s a fatphobic, unfunny mean girl who thinks it’s funny to point out the size of a server when it adds nothing to the story—for shame,” one user wrote on X.
“I wonder why there was the need to mention her weight,” another agreed.
“Enormous is a hugely disrespectful word in this context. Emily Blunt should apologize.”
In her apology statement, Blunt said she was “appalled” by her past behavior and described her remarks as “insensitive and hurtful”
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And so she did. In a statement published in People Magazine, the Girl On The Train said: “I just need to address this head on as my jaw was on the floor watching this clip from 12 years ago.”
“I’m appalled that I would say something so insensitive, hurtful, and unrelated to whatever story I was trying to tell on a talk show.”
“I’ve always considered myself someone who wouldn’t dream of upsetting anyone so whatever possessed me to say anything like this in that moment is unrecognizable to me or anything I stand for.
“I’m so sorry for any hurt caused. I was absolutely old enough to know better.”
“I’m so sorry for all the hurt I caused. I was absolutely old enough to know better,” she said
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The 40-year-old is an advocate for women’s rights and has praised the work of the Malala Fund, the nonprofit funded by Malala Yousafzai in 2015, at Variety’s Power of Woman event five years ago.
Her words of apology sparked an online debate, with many people saying that her intentions were genuine and others maintaining that she was only condemning her disrespectful behavior because she had been caught.
User Invis2020 believes the actress is attempting to elevate her public image with the goal of securing a gold-pleated statuette: “She’s only appalled and sorry because it got traction. It’s been years and now she’s in a reflective mood? Please. She’s in campaign mode for best supporting actress,” they wrote on Reddit.
You can watch her 2012 interview on the Jonatan Ross Show below
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Another user said that, while they appreciate that Blunt owned up to her mistake, they’re still unsure about whether the Golden Globe winner has truly matured and changed her judgmental nature.
“The thing about people who think and say things like this is they toss them out without much thought, because it’s just so natural to them. That’s the real problem, that she either once was or still is a person who thinks of those things so easily.”
People agreed that the server’s weight didn’t add anything to the anecdote
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Then, there were those who believed that a decade is enough time to reflect on one’s past actions. “It was almost 10 years ago and people can grow and change. I really hope Emily meant that apology since there’s already so much negative in the world,” a more forgiving Redditor wrote.
Another agreed: “People aren’t going to let it go regardless but people can reflect back on their past behavior and comments and realize they were in the wrong.”
Many believed her apology was sincere and that Blunt changed after a decade
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For user Jdgetrpin, who works as a dietitian, it’s crucial to take into consideration the broader context when those words were said.
“We all grew up being fed the message that being fat is bad and everything that comes with that. This new trend of being less fat-phobic is fairly recent, and there’s still so much discrimination against fat people in this country.”
To some, her apology was insufficient and failed to address fatphobia as a whole
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Blunt’s statement follows other widely criticized celebrity apology videos, such as Mila Kunis and Ashton Kutcher’s sit-down clip after supporting their ‘70s Show co-star and good friend, Danny Masterson, who was recently accused of rape.
In the Instagram video, which was considered a curated, carefully scripted attempt to avoid cancel culture, the couple said that their support letters to the actor were never intended to be made public.
The comments on the video were later turned off following backlash.
Additionally, Drew Barrymore had to delete the apology video she made after announcing that her daytime talk show, The Drew Barrymore Show, would resume filming amid the WGA and SAG-AFTRA writer strikes.
The controversial video—deleted less than 24 hours after its publication— led fans to accuse the actress of failing to sympathize with the writers’ demands and expressing a false sense of remorse.
Others said Blunt shouldn’t have apologized for a comment she made over a decade ago
What do you think ?
Manny 1 year ago
People need to get over it. It was a comment made stating a fact nothing more. Has nothing to do with fatphobia.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 1 year ago
As I said to Pancake Pansexual Panda below, simply calling someone "obese" or "fat" is NOT "fatphobic". I'm a (now) overweight person who was adopted by a family whose members are almost all morbidly obese (I've had several family members die from obesity-related health problems, including my cousin who died at AGE 24 due to obesity that started in childhood), so I have lifelong experience with obesity and what it does to people. I do not feel that calling someone "overweight", "obese", or "enormous" is "fatphobic" if the person is, indeed, actually obese/overweight. Even "fat" is a descriptive term and is not a universally-accepted slur in the way that the r-word and the f-word have become. "Fatphobia" is saying something like "My waitress is enormous, ew, I want a different waitress," or "Oh gross, you're obese, don't get near me, I don't want to catch your obesity!" -- THAT is fatphobia/fat discrimination. Calling someone obese when they ARE obese is NOT fatphobia/discrimination.
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Enuya 1 year ago
The person in one of the comments worded it perfectly. All of us said something stupid, insensitive or cruel in the past. The difference between us and famous people is that (usually) nobbody is going through years of our posts and interviews to find some dirt on us. Was her comment unnecessary? Yes. Should she apologize for *one sentence* she said more than 10 years ago? Nope, it's crazy. (And yes, I snorted hearing her comment, even though I shouldn't... as probably a lot of you, too.)
CatLady 1 year ago
Over 10 years ago? OK, that's stupid to bring up now. I did not find the comment amusing, but I've been bullied my whole life for my weight.
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ConstantlyJon 1 year ago
I think the key here is the "I was old enough to know better." A lot of times when people apologize they try to lessen the blow by making excuses for their past selves. Here she makes no excuse and makes clear that it's not appropriate now nor was it appropriate then. Good apology.
CatLady 1 year ago
Enormous is an adjective, but I would not like someone calling me that. My obesity has been a painful struggle in my life for which I endured horrific bullying that gave me even more PTSD, and I don't like people pointing it out unnecessarily. She wasn't just using it as an adjective because she added on the part about "she must have gotten free meals," (speculating about how this woman attained her size) which insinuates mockery and criticism. It does not appear that the server's size somehow impeded the quality of service she gave Ms. Blunt, so there's no reason for it to be mentioned at all. That being said, as an obese person, do I think Ms. Blunt must apologize to me? No. The only apology she owes is to the server she mocked. Obesity is a reality of life we shouldn't ignore, nor should we think less of those who are that way. But the primary cause of obesity is trauma. People overeat to numb unbearable pain, even if they don't realize that's why they're doing it. Be compassionate.
Pancake_Pansexual_Panda 1 year ago
Jeez nobody is perfect! I hate how people just expect celebrities to be perfect, with no flaws at all. Like, just one word and they are canceled. Also is it really fatphobic? I mean, if you overweight, you need to be concerned about it because you will live shorter than normal! People are just concerned. Also, I have said many rude things when I was younger, but I have learned. And why are we bringing back old stuff from the past? Why can't we ignore it and focus on the present or the future???? We really need to restart this society.
CatLady 1 year ago
Pancake, there are about 4 occasions where it's appropriate to comment on someone's obesity. 1) they're sitting on you. 2) you're a concerned close friend, family member, or medical professional. 3) they broke your furniture. 4) they've taken up your airline seat as well as their own, and you need somewhere to sit. Commenting on a stranger's weight out of "concern" is rude AF. It's not your business. Every fat person knows they're fat and knows the health risks. Having people comment on it just increases the anxiety/depression and causes them to eat more. That being said, raging over a stupid comment from a decade ago is ridiculous. Ms. Blunt could perhaps apologize to the server she mocked, but that's all that's necessary.
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Nice Beast Ludo 1 year ago
Is there a group of people who mine the internet for any possible offensive thing a person every said or did or do people just happen to stumble on this s**t?
CatLady 1 year ago
I'm sure there's a group. Something 10 years old is ridiculous. But hopefully it teaches a few people to be less judgmental.
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Lady Vader 1 year ago
I partly blame Jonathan Ross - he started the conversation and mentioned enormous first, Emily Blunt agreed with him, AND he said "you can see why MANY of our American friends are enormous." Maybe he should apologise too.
The Starsong Princess 1 year ago
Jonathan Ross has a lot to apologize for that make this look like small potatoes. He’s vile.
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Israel Martinez 1 year ago (edited)
Good to know that 10 years is not enough time to mature for some people … I’d like to meet them and know what dumb s**t they did 5 years ago … just out of curiosity …
Jessica SpeLangm 1 year ago
Why are you posting about something that happened over 10 years ago? We all know celebrities say stupid things every so often. Give her a break.
The Starsong Princess 1 year ago
It’s not like she left obscene messages on the.answering machine of the father of her buddy’s ex during a live radio show. That was Jonathan Ross and he still has a talk show. It was epically disgusting - Russell Brand was the buddy which tells you a lot. People should be more upset about the interviewer, not this interviewee.
Wysteria_Rose 1 year ago (edited)
Going through my FB memories is super cringe-worthy. And more than once, I found a statement that at that time I must have been immensely proud of for creating. But dear lord, it was terrible and awful. I obviously thought I was speaking my voice and being all wise and knowing, but no, I came off ignorant and stupid. However, I'm not a celebrity and luckily don't have thousands to point out my past mistakes. She apologized and is doing great work with charity. Some people would rather a person be completely blacklisted over a comment than see any kind of redemption (redemption which should be applauded b/c we're all human).
The Starsong Princess 1 year ago
A joke like this was nothing 11years ago. The world has changed a lot in that time. People need to get a grip.
C.O. Shea 1 year ago
I'm more concerned about the people who claim to be pure as the driven snow. If there are two blond-haired people next to each other... I'm going to have to distinguish between them otherwise. The skinny one... or the large one. Don't like it? Pfffftttt.
CatLady 1 year ago
"Overweight," "curvaceous," "voluptuous," "thick," "plump," are all better descriptors for describing a fat person than enormous. Enormous means large in size to an unusual/extraordinary degree, and is most often used to either point out the negativity of something "enormous tax cuts for the wealthy" or point out the excellent potential "the possibilities are enormous). Obesity is everywhere, so an obese person in the US is not unusual unless they're like, 500 lbs, in which case they certainly wouldn't be able to physically manage the workload of a restaurant server. Be polite; you've no reason to call a fat person enormous.
Load More Replies... Manny 1 year ago
People need to get over it. It was a comment made stating a fact nothing more. Has nothing to do with fatphobia.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 1 year ago
As I said to Pancake Pansexual Panda below, simply calling someone "obese" or "fat" is NOT "fatphobic". I'm a (now) overweight person who was adopted by a family whose members are almost all morbidly obese (I've had several family members die from obesity-related health problems, including my cousin who died at AGE 24 due to obesity that started in childhood), so I have lifelong experience with obesity and what it does to people. I do not feel that calling someone "overweight", "obese", or "enormous" is "fatphobic" if the person is, indeed, actually obese/overweight. Even "fat" is a descriptive term and is not a universally-accepted slur in the way that the r-word and the f-word have become. "Fatphobia" is saying something like "My waitress is enormous, ew, I want a different waitress," or "Oh gross, you're obese, don't get near me, I don't want to catch your obesity!" -- THAT is fatphobia/fat discrimination. Calling someone obese when they ARE obese is NOT fatphobia/discrimination.
Load More Replies... Enuya 1 year ago
The person in one of the comments worded it perfectly. All of us said something stupid, insensitive or cruel in the past. The difference between us and famous people is that (usually) nobbody is going through years of our posts and interviews to find some dirt on us. Was her comment unnecessary? Yes. Should she apologize for *one sentence* she said more than 10 years ago? Nope, it's crazy. (And yes, I snorted hearing her comment, even though I shouldn't... as probably a lot of you, too.)
CatLady 1 year ago
Over 10 years ago? OK, that's stupid to bring up now. I did not find the comment amusing, but I've been bullied my whole life for my weight.
Load More Replies... ConstantlyJon 1 year ago
I think the key here is the "I was old enough to know better." A lot of times when people apologize they try to lessen the blow by making excuses for their past selves. Here she makes no excuse and makes clear that it's not appropriate now nor was it appropriate then. Good apology.
CatLady 1 year ago
Enormous is an adjective, but I would not like someone calling me that. My obesity has been a painful struggle in my life for which I endured horrific bullying that gave me even more PTSD, and I don't like people pointing it out unnecessarily. She wasn't just using it as an adjective because she added on the part about "she must have gotten free meals," (speculating about how this woman attained her size) which insinuates mockery and criticism. It does not appear that the server's size somehow impeded the quality of service she gave Ms. Blunt, so there's no reason for it to be mentioned at all. That being said, as an obese person, do I think Ms. Blunt must apologize to me? No. The only apology she owes is to the server she mocked. Obesity is a reality of life we shouldn't ignore, nor should we think less of those who are that way. But the primary cause of obesity is trauma. People overeat to numb unbearable pain, even if they don't realize that's why they're doing it. Be compassionate.
Pancake_Pansexual_Panda 1 year ago
Jeez nobody is perfect! I hate how people just expect celebrities to be perfect, with no flaws at all. Like, just one word and they are canceled. Also is it really fatphobic? I mean, if you overweight, you need to be concerned about it because you will live shorter than normal! People are just concerned. Also, I have said many rude things when I was younger, but I have learned. And why are we bringing back old stuff from the past? Why can't we ignore it and focus on the present or the future???? We really need to restart this society.
CatLady 1 year ago
Pancake, there are about 4 occasions where it's appropriate to comment on someone's obesity. 1) they're sitting on you. 2) you're a concerned close friend, family member, or medical professional. 3) they broke your furniture. 4) they've taken up your airline seat as well as their own, and you need somewhere to sit. Commenting on a stranger's weight out of "concern" is rude AF. It's not your business. Every fat person knows they're fat and knows the health risks. Having people comment on it just increases the anxiety/depression and causes them to eat more. That being said, raging over a stupid comment from a decade ago is ridiculous. Ms. Blunt could perhaps apologize to the server she mocked, but that's all that's necessary.
Load More Replies... Nice Beast Ludo 1 year ago
Is there a group of people who mine the internet for any possible offensive thing a person every said or did or do people just happen to stumble on this s**t?
CatLady 1 year ago
I'm sure there's a group. Something 10 years old is ridiculous. But hopefully it teaches a few people to be less judgmental.
Load More Replies... Lady Vader 1 year ago
I partly blame Jonathan Ross - he started the conversation and mentioned enormous first, Emily Blunt agreed with him, AND he said "you can see why MANY of our American friends are enormous." Maybe he should apologise too.
The Starsong Princess 1 year ago
Jonathan Ross has a lot to apologize for that make this look like small potatoes. He’s vile.
Load More Replies... Israel Martinez 1 year ago (edited)
Good to know that 10 years is not enough time to mature for some people … I’d like to meet them and know what dumb s**t they did 5 years ago … just out of curiosity …
Jessica SpeLangm 1 year ago
Why are you posting about something that happened over 10 years ago? We all know celebrities say stupid things every so often. Give her a break.
The Starsong Princess 1 year ago
It’s not like she left obscene messages on the.answering machine of the father of her buddy’s ex during a live radio show. That was Jonathan Ross and he still has a talk show. It was epically disgusting - Russell Brand was the buddy which tells you a lot. People should be more upset about the interviewer, not this interviewee.
Wysteria_Rose 1 year ago (edited)
Going through my FB memories is super cringe-worthy. And more than once, I found a statement that at that time I must have been immensely proud of for creating. But dear lord, it was terrible and awful. I obviously thought I was speaking my voice and being all wise and knowing, but no, I came off ignorant and stupid. However, I'm not a celebrity and luckily don't have thousands to point out my past mistakes. She apologized and is doing great work with charity. Some people would rather a person be completely blacklisted over a comment than see any kind of redemption (redemption which should be applauded b/c we're all human).
The Starsong Princess 1 year ago
A joke like this was nothing 11years ago. The world has changed a lot in that time. People need to get a grip.
C.O. Shea 1 year ago
I'm more concerned about the people who claim to be pure as the driven snow. If there are two blond-haired people next to each other... I'm going to have to distinguish between them otherwise. The skinny one... or the large one. Don't like it? Pfffftttt.
CatLady 1 year ago
"Overweight," "curvaceous," "voluptuous," "thick," "plump," are all better descriptors for describing a fat person than enormous. Enormous means large in size to an unusual/extraordinary degree, and is most often used to either point out the negativity of something "enormous tax cuts for the wealthy" or point out the excellent potential "the possibilities are enormous). Obesity is everywhere, so an obese person in the US is not unusual unless they're like, 500 lbs, in which case they certainly wouldn't be able to physically manage the workload of a restaurant server. Be polite; you've no reason to call a fat person enormous.
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