There's a song by German pop duo Modern Talking that goes, "Cheri, Cheri lady / Goin' through a motion / Love is where you find it / Listen to your heart."
It's called 'Cheri, Cheri Lady' and it was a hit in many countries in the mid-1980s. But recently, it has also become the soundtrack of a new TikTok trend when — women started playing it while showing now-and-then photos of themselves. Eventually, these clips became so popular that they inspired people to make versions of their beloved idols as well.
Thanks to all of them, we now have a wholesome gallery, reminding us that despite our differences, everyone's journey through time is beautiful and memorable.
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As we scroll through the personal transformations set to the beats of 'Cheri, Cheri Lady,' it's hard not to think about the passage of time, a concept that haunts many of us on at least some level.
In fact, a 2014 survey of 2,088 Americans age 18 and older, commissioned by the drug company Pfizer, found that 87 percent of people had at least one fear about getting old.
Pfizer also analyzed how aging was being discussed on Twitter.
The results revealed that the majority – 62 percent – of the 4.2 million Tweets posted about aging in the 12 months that the researchers looked at were negative.
And that's not good.
Way back In 68 i was a teenager in high school
"If you address fears or concerns today you can work to make the right health and lifestyle choices that will impact how you age tomorrow," said Freda Lewis-Hall, M.D., Chief Medical Officer at Pfizer.
"People of all ages should start thinking about how they want to age, and turn fears into healthy actions."
It's quite heartening to see that the 'Cheri, Cheri Lady' trend, amidst its vibrant celebration of youth, also graciously acknowledges the inevitability of aging.
I know people in their early 30s who look older than her cheri photos
32 years ago! I did not age very well!
Polls of people at different ages in 149 countries reveal an interesting pattern. When asked to rate their life satisfaction on a scale of 1 to 10, most adults in their early 20s reported fairly high happiness levels, with a gradual fall-off as they approached midlife.
Adults reported being the saddest in mid-life, roughly between the ages of 39 and 57, with the happiness low point at age 50.
Why so many downvotes for Heather Menard? People have a right to their opinion. Silencing people who have a non-offensive opinion is not done.
However, as they aged, older adults rated their life satisfaction much higher, with happiness ratings rising gradually and steadily from age 50 through the decade of the 90s.
Researchers call this process the 'U-curve' of happiness. When put on a graph, the results actually form a lop-sided smile.
The data leaves room for a variety of interpretations, but it seems the realization that our days are numbered helps us savor them even more.
Hopefully, this allows us to look at old photos of ourselves with a smile on our faces, appreciating what once was instead of dwelling on the fact it's now gone.
Me in my ‘65 yearbook photo
The year of 62’ was a blast. I would go back in a heartbeat
Younger her would have been perfect for playing Frenchie in Grease
What is "cheri cheir" ..this isn't a celebration of women it's actually shaming us for aging?
On the app, the articles won't load, on the website, I can't post comments because it fails. Damnit!
Load More Replies...Half of these are fake, like the one that used a pic of Farrah Fawcett.
Well, they are from TikTok, not sure what people expected.
Load More Replies...What a vile post. By all means show how women age, but do it positively.
I'm not sure when our prime is as humans, but I sincerely hope it's not in the first quarter of our lives. This is a ridiculous post.
So sad that people don't see the beauty in people as they age. The only thing certain in life is change. As the stoics say"Memento mori".
Incel trolling boredpanda.com right now..? That's the second article tonight..
This is a mean thread. Everyone ages. Why isn't it picking on men? There's something else going on besides the song.
"In their prime"? Awful way to look at women's beauty and aging. These women are just as beuatiful today, thinking they're not probably says more about your own inner beauty, or lack of it.
All of these ladies aged normally and are beautiful. I don't know what people expect of us?
I like the ones where they didn’t fool around with fillers and cosmetic surgery. They didn’t obliterate their real totally unique and beautiful faces, and are still 100% recognizable now. The ones who messed around in a fruitless effort to stay looking like they’re 20 do not look like themselves at all. The worst ones either end up with rock hard shiny scar tissue and look like they used to be professional boxers or just barely even human anymore, or they end up looking like the drawings people make after they claimed they were abducted by aliens, and are trying to show us what those aliens looked like—-just like the aliens from Close Encounters.
So basically we all look good during our prime years and s**t goes sideways when we’re past that point & all the maintenance - working out 7 days a week, eating very clean, making sure to get regular haircuts so our hair is always bouncy, going to the tanning bed regularly (because I looked much better tanned) & always wearing cute clothes - these were mine - to “I don’t even remotely care anymore” once I hit 35. I never thought I looked good enough, now I look at those pic & think, “Why didn’t you appreciate all that work at the same” & now I’m just a physical trainwreck … oh well 😊
Getting old sucks. No one would talk about how great it is if it were optional. No one.
What is "cheri cheir" ..this isn't a celebration of women it's actually shaming us for aging?
On the app, the articles won't load, on the website, I can't post comments because it fails. Damnit!
Load More Replies...Half of these are fake, like the one that used a pic of Farrah Fawcett.
Well, they are from TikTok, not sure what people expected.
Load More Replies...What a vile post. By all means show how women age, but do it positively.
I'm not sure when our prime is as humans, but I sincerely hope it's not in the first quarter of our lives. This is a ridiculous post.
So sad that people don't see the beauty in people as they age. The only thing certain in life is change. As the stoics say"Memento mori".
Incel trolling boredpanda.com right now..? That's the second article tonight..
This is a mean thread. Everyone ages. Why isn't it picking on men? There's something else going on besides the song.
"In their prime"? Awful way to look at women's beauty and aging. These women are just as beuatiful today, thinking they're not probably says more about your own inner beauty, or lack of it.
All of these ladies aged normally and are beautiful. I don't know what people expect of us?
I like the ones where they didn’t fool around with fillers and cosmetic surgery. They didn’t obliterate their real totally unique and beautiful faces, and are still 100% recognizable now. The ones who messed around in a fruitless effort to stay looking like they’re 20 do not look like themselves at all. The worst ones either end up with rock hard shiny scar tissue and look like they used to be professional boxers or just barely even human anymore, or they end up looking like the drawings people make after they claimed they were abducted by aliens, and are trying to show us what those aliens looked like—-just like the aliens from Close Encounters.
So basically we all look good during our prime years and s**t goes sideways when we’re past that point & all the maintenance - working out 7 days a week, eating very clean, making sure to get regular haircuts so our hair is always bouncy, going to the tanning bed regularly (because I looked much better tanned) & always wearing cute clothes - these were mine - to “I don’t even remotely care anymore” once I hit 35. I never thought I looked good enough, now I look at those pic & think, “Why didn’t you appreciate all that work at the same” & now I’m just a physical trainwreck … oh well 😊
Getting old sucks. No one would talk about how great it is if it were optional. No one.