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46 Examples Of Double Standards In Our Society That You’re Probably Guilty Of
Equality is humanity's Holy Grail, the cornerstone of most value systems, but we have yet to reap all of its rewards. Sure, our society has tremendously evolved for the better during the last, say, 100 years, but a long journey is still ahead, and the vast array of double standards that still divide people to this day highlight this perfectly.
The double standard definition states that it is a rule or a principle applied to different people or groups. The most prominent case of double standard examples to this day come from gender equality. What's usually okay for men, is not acceptable when done by women. Starting with beach attire and ending with lady bosses, society finds unnecessary ways to chime in about what's wrong and what's right.
Bored Panda has compiled a list of insightful illustrations that uncover the uncomfortable truth behind some everyday life situations, and it's (mildly) disturbing how accurate they are. Judging by these images, it's clear that sometimes terms like 'gender equality' are reduced to no more than a catchphrase. Scroll down to see the proof for yourself, and vote for your favorites.
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Double Standards
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Clothing Standards
Carris Butcher 7 years ago
I get fake geek girl all the time! I wear big glasses, I dress differently and I do occasionally play games. People I know say I'm trying to be a fake geek girl or gamer girl and I have no idea what they mean. I'm not trying to be anything I'm just comfy this way! I'm glad it's not just me who experiences this
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Body Image Standards
Zori the degu 7 years ago
Woman's face though: "I live among idiots. Honestly, do you think that I want your f***ing opinion?"
#4
Boys vs. Girls
#5
Double Standards
#6
Work Rules
#7
Fakes And Posers
#9
Double Standards For Parents
Zori the degu 7 years ago
That's really annoying. I only have an experience as a passer-by or a witness but I can say some people indeed are narrow-minded enough to act like that.
Enea 7 years ago
Yep, happens. All. The. Time. Plus, when someone wants to complain about our kids' behaviour, in nine our of ten cases they address me, and neither my husband NOR my children. This is frustrating for me, and a total disenpowerment not only to my husband (who works hard to still do his 50% share of bringing up our kids) but also to my children.
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Matt Barnes 7 years ago
I was a stay at home dad for two kids for seven years and the garbage I had to put up with, (mostly from women, I'll add) was fairly epic at times. I actually had people try to take my children out of my arms because they thought I didn't know what I was doing because I'm male. Dads are assumed to be idiots when it comes to child rearing and it's demeaning and infuriating.
Ivan Petrov 7 years ago
7 years with 4 children, here. Exact same experience. And when our youngest when into school and I was preparing to go back into the workforce, it's "I don't know why he would bother. It's obvious he can't hold down a job".
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Ramon Burnet 7 years ago
Raised my kid as a single dad and got a whole lot more compliments than women who do the same...
E.J. Dennis 7 years ago
I think a good one to add to this on the dad side, "Oh you're helping your wife out with the kids?" ...
Amanda Harker 7 years ago
Not to mention that society assumes that in order to be a good and normal woman you must have kids. If you happen to say you don't like kids you get informed "it's different when you have your own" as if it's a given you will have kids because you're a woman.
Leni 7 years ago
I personally don't care if women don't want kids, but around here lots of women don't, or they get them very late (30-35) to accomodate for career. I got my first one at 24 and am 4 years later still the only one in both my family and group of friends with a kid x) I myself actually get tired of al the harsh comments of some people who don't want kids - they sometimes really try to make me feel like having a kid was a crime. Which I'd like them to look in my daughters face and have the heart to say, honestly.
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Jane Banks 7 years ago
My husband had to take care of our daughter when I went on a business trip. His friends and colleagues all helped babysit her and also practically gave him the Nobel prize!!! It was more than 20 years ago, and I'm still pissed off about it.
Jim Hubbard 7 years ago
If you're hearing all of this c**p, you're hanging around the wrong people.
Christina Waide 7 years ago
As a mom of 3 little people-I've had all of these happen to me. It's the 'economy of gratitude.' At least my husband notices this stuff too and that means a lot.
Meyer Weinstock 7 years ago
not quite...more like, "Are those your kids?" "Where's their mother?" "What kind of father are you, buying that stuff?"....yeah, and way worse...
Meyer Weinstock 7 years ago
one of the kids is blonde, and I'm very dark, so explaining genetics to American cops is really hard...
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Torbjørn Torgrimson 7 years ago
Married with kids for 10 years. And now I have sole-custody of my oldest son. According to my experiences these stereotypes are very old fashioned. maybe 30 years ago, but not now a days...? I've gotten the same questions and comments as both side on that chart. I hope America is not like this for real. Im Norwegian, and can only speak for my self.
Donald Faulknor 7 years ago
I'll add to this. When I take my kids out (since I'm the only parent they really kinda have - I'm the only one to take them out) I always, and I do mean always get asked, "Where's the mother?" My reply is usually, who the f**k cares where the mother is because it irritates me. Mothers aren't ever asked, "Where's the dad?" It's the assumption of society that dads can't be good parents. There must be a mother around if the kids are well-taken care of.
Shiritoru 7 years ago
The questioning you about mother of your kids it's just rude. :/ What's wrong with those people?
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Mark Kelly 7 years ago
Sometimes people assume men don't take care of like taking care of their kids and are surprised when they do.
Caroline Murphy 7 years ago
True.. My dad was given custody of me from when I was 10 years old and he used to get a lot of hate from people saying "she needs her mother" and "how do you cope" when he did a better job than a lot of mothers I know
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Marshal Banana 7 years ago
In this comic I've experienced the opposite. Everywhere I go with my kids and everything I do I always have other moms talking to me like I have no idea what I'm doing and they need to educate me on being a parent. "You probably dont know this but..." "I dont know if your wife told you this but..." "Your parenting skills are okay but..." I swear they look at me like they are expecting my kids to die on my watch. But actually I think people are just a******s to all parents.
Jeff Ohmart 7 years ago
You know how much unsolicited advice single (or even not single) dads get in public just because they are men?
Allyson B. 7 years ago
As a man, you get treated like you are babysitting your own children. Like, seriously, don't even act like women get the shaft here.
Wm63178 7 years ago
My experience is that every single female at my work asks about my kids instead of what I did over the weekend. I don't mind. It's kind of sweet and I don't mind telling the same adorable story several times. Guess my kids are just cooler than yours. The other dad's just assume no news is good news.
Haki Covington 4 years ago
At the Doctor's Office is inaccurate. Dad - So where is their mother, we would like to speak to them.
Reland McClure 7 years ago
I've actually heard those comments before! Like I'm not allowed a life because I have kids?!? I'm having surgery soon but thanks for asking.
Ariel Pellegrini 1 year ago
I'm not sure this is accurate. In general, we parents are judged quite harshly and the commonplace is that we do everything wrong with children while whatever the mother does is right.
Dora Ferrier 1 year ago
The most annoying thing ever is when dad's are referred to as "babysitters". They're not f*****g babysitting! They're parenting.
Jaqi Hegland 2 years ago
Actually, half the time if Dad takes kids to the park, people look at him like he's a perv.
Upen Graden 3 years ago
Tsk. I can believe this, but for us guys, we're mostly looked at like we're child molesters when at the park or with the kids at the store.
Caroline Murphy 7 years ago
Doesn't always happen this way. My dad was given custody of me because he was more fit to look after me. He never got praised like this when he did the day-to-day looking after the kids duty.
AllMonkeyBizz 7 years ago
Conspiracy theory: The Pringles man is secretly a barber. Shane Dawson, why aren't you covering this?
TheMsLollidella 7 years ago
My dad probably experienced this more. One time i just got my period and mom was working so dad told me to CVS to get pads and a lady near us asked where my mom was n I'm like uh workin ? I was just having a hard time picking which one I wanted. But I guess the lady thought my dad didn't know what to do. But most of the time ladies would go "aw what a kind father" to my dad whenever he said "pick anything you want princess!". (Kinda wish my mom called me that instead of lazy bones all the times)
Hományiné Anita 7 years ago
1. Dad never go out to shop. And I wouldn't have the time to pay attention to others next to my three under-six kids and a shopping list. Just really doesn't give a c**p. 2. We wouldn't use nail polish on our kids. 3. That's just incorrect, men also asked about their kids when meeting someone, they are part of our lives, why wouldn't we discuss them? Or maybe I just have good friends, because this isn't the only topic we can talk about and feels natural next to everything else. 4. BS. Dads on their phone also got judged by other parents on the playground. 5. This one is true for me and the MOST ANNOYING. I either react to this question with fake panic - "Oh, s**t! I forgot about them!" - or simply answer with deadpan face, that the cat is looking after them.
Elliott Bork 7 years ago
this is so situational it hurts, first two you can just assume the comments imply the father doesnt do that with his kid often or that he must be a great person to be able to do so, so both sides
Amy Ferguson 7 years ago
Wow- I fell victim to this one! As a mom, guess I am just a sucker for a guy who is willing to strike out on his own with the kids. Shame on me!
William Âû 7 years ago
I might a man but I feel I get treated like the woman in the cartoon whenever I take the kids out. I get women telling me I'm carrying the baby wrong, her head is at an awkward angle, where is her hat? She's not appropriately dressed for the weather, why is she crying ?I should do something... I always get told" uv got u r hands full"... and I'm neither allowed to glance at my phone. Once I was out with the 3 kids, got lost and was looking on Google maps ...I got some "tut, tuts " here and there and a group of elderly women muttering g something about "all men"
Alius Dee 7 years ago
As a dad who has lived the fulltime with a baby dream, I have to say, this just doesn't quite hit the mark. Every time I would go out with my baby, someone would complement me on giving a hard working woman a break. If people found I was on my own with a baby, they would often react with abuse/anger. People constantly assume you are violent and mad and your child is at risk, and when they get a bit older, people treat you with suspicion when you are sitting at the park watching the kids on the playground. Any woman you are with is automatically grouped with your child, and all questions are directed towards them, and if anything ever goes right, it is assumed that some woman working in the background makes it so.
Bill Hemphill 7 years ago
As a stay at home dad the park was the second scariest place, only after the Zoo.
Aahzmandus Pervect 7 years ago
Things men talk about vs. things women talk about have nothing to do with double standards.
Ben Ostrow 7 years ago
Please. the guy at the park would probably get called a pedophile if he's there by himself.
Rhân 7 years ago
Maybe the female side are right (but also not always, I think) but the male side looks wrong to me. If a parent no matter if mother or father and he or she will look all the time (!) on their phone instead watching their children I will think it is wrong and somehow judge. Also, many mothers just want to talk about their babies (more in the beginning I think) and fathers often too. (That's what I have seen, so just personal experience) For me, this is a bit too negative, even if I know that comics are often exaggerated. Not that I think these doesn't happen, but I'm not sure how 'normal' this is in our soceity.
Kotie Erwee 7 years ago
Funny story abour this pic is that in all the pics, it is actually other woman judjing other woman and not men.
Sofia Murat 5 months ago
It does not matter, nobody has the right to judge a mother who is taking care of a child, she is a hero.
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Sofia Murat 5 months ago
Why don't they encourage the mother then? Why is it normal for men to dump his kids and if he does not he is a hero, yet if a women does not dump her kids nobody notices that.
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Double Standards On Emotions
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Body Positivity
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Generalization
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Leadership Strategies
Anna Thouvenin 7 years ago
That reminds me of the man who made the experience of signing all his emails by a female name for a week to talk about gender inequality in doing business. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/what-happened-when-a-man-signed-work-emails-using-a-female-name-for-a-week_us_58c2ce53e4b054a0ea6a4066
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Makeup vs. Natural
Anna Thouvenin 7 years ago
So damn true. One time I overheard my coworkers talking and these two guys were discussing about "girls who put makeup are so insecure, it's like they couldn't even go out without makeup if their life depended on it". Then another day in the same week, I was so tired I decided not to put makeup. The very same guy saying this was like "omg what happened to your face?". Yeah no wonder why women are "so insecure"...
#15
Gender Equality
#16
Shameless Girls
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Double Standards
coffee zombie 7 years ago
Women don't get round, they get curvy in all the right places. And that's sexy af.
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Gender Equality
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Girls vs. Boys
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Double Standards On Young Girls
Daria B 7 years ago
If you're a true pro-life, instead of blaming a stranger, do something towards building a society where abortion is not needed. Same goes for (extremist) pro-choicers - instead of hating on some women's decisions, let's do something towards building society where abortion is not something a womam does because "she had no other choice".
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Double Standards On Bodies
Captain Planet 7 years ago
I think only women have a problem with this. I can't imagine guy's really finding this a big deal. XD Also on the beach people sunbathe topless as well so. As far as armpit hair. Well you're free to do it. But people are also free to not find you attractive then. But there are all kinds of things people find attractive and not attractive so I don't really see a problem.
#22
Shallow vs. Desperate
Helen Burgess 7 years ago
very well done! and the girl in the second instance doesn't even get a speech-bubble, let alone a date!
#24
Girls vs. Boys
#25
Society's Take On Men
Michel M. Prins 7 years ago
The second one will always be an idiotic statement, for both male and female. I hear it a lot, yet don't understand why it's a race to get intimate with another person. It's a personal experience and (can be) something special, on top of that: It's none of another's business, and if those think it is, they're the ones leading a sad life. Sure, the term "Lucky at cards, unlucky in love" is on it's place in this regard, but luck can switch lanes now and then.
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Dad Bod vs. Mom Bod
Sheila Stamey 7 years ago
Have we totally forgotten how milf went ? Not that that was great but, seriously ? Which one do we pick? Can we just be who we are, male, female, or however, and just be happy? The insecurity is mind blowing to me, on behalf of the observer!
#27
Sexual Harassment
Andrew Petrykowski 7 years ago
How is this a relevant comparison? How about comparing the reaction you get as a male when telling someone about being a victim of sexual assault.
#28
Things You Can Only Do With Boys
#29
Double Standards
coffee zombie 7 years ago
I dont agree that only weak men show emotion. It's nice to see a man who has emotions instead of trying to act like they are made of stone, with no feelings.
#30
Appearance Standards
#31
Comic Book Characters
Kori K. Warriner 7 years ago
Honestly, I have a problem with either gender of superhero being displayed in a sexual manner.
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Sexualizing Bodies
#33
Equality
Ivana 7 years ago
We were playing around, play fighting when I kicked my husband in the balls. It wasn't on purpose and I instantly felt horrible as he spent about 5 minutes in pain on the floor. The worst he got me was an elbow to the nose that caused a nose bleed, and one where he slammed my back into the thermostat. Literally last week my husband asked "Why don't we wrestle anymore" and all that flashed through my head. I don't like the idea of women hitting men any more than a man hitting a woman. The only fighting I am okay with is play fighting.
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Double Standards
#35
Problem Solving
Anna Thouvenin 7 years ago
I don't agree with this one. Men get a lot of pressure on their bodies, as much as women. There is not a single person I met who said that they should "accept themselves" as a way to solve their problems (with getting laid). On the same note, any magazine cover will show that makeup is not a way to solve problems, or there wouldn't be 254 pages of the "new amazing diet already used by 45 stars that will make you lose weight before you even realize it". And we also have countless articles on "accept yourself and screw who doesn't, you don't need them anyway"...
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Acceptable vs. Unacceptable
Anna Thouvenin 7 years ago
As someone who hate body hair, both are unacceptable. But I don't care about what they do as long as I don't have to touch them :p
#37
Double Standards
#38
Men And Women
Eglė Liubinaitė 7 years ago
I kinda like emotional boys more, like, atleast they aren't like those "badass" shitsacks like others. Also, expressing emotions is actually good for own body.
#39
Standards For Dressing
Luc Mailloux 7 years ago
Wait... what is this trying to say, even? What I gather is that people will judge you regardless of how you look. Surprise!
#40
Double Standards In The Workplace
Amanda Sango Hibbs 7 years ago
This is why I like the medical field. Everyone dresses the same
#41
The Smiley Face Double Standard
#42
Double Standards In Relationships
Pasca Mouse 7 years ago
I hate it when people are like " Looks likes someones on there period." it's so annoying
#43
Girl Power
sunnyrei82 7 years ago
women like that are the ones who make people think wrong about feminism. And, because many people are soooo closed minded, they think every single woman who wants equity are like that.
#44
Double Standards
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Gender Equality
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What do you think ?
Shana 7 years ago
Another double standard: just saw a news article about a female teacher that had sex with 4 of her students. Alot of comments on this are: "Boy, wish I had a teacher like that in school", "nicely done guys", ... Yet, if it had said "male teacher has sex with students" the comments would've been "omg, pedophile/perv", "castrate him", ... Both are just wrong and bad...-_-
Howard Vines 7 years ago
Another double standard was in the news recently of Michelle Carter who convinced her 18 year old boyfriend to commit suicide in a quest for sympathetic attention from friends, family and the general public, face jail time. Her texts to him were exposed and she was facing a maximum of 20 years. But it was dropped to only 2 1/2 years, 15 months jail 15 months probation. You can find the transcript of the messages online. The sickest thing is not just what she was saying to the kid, but the fact she remained in a phone call to listen to him die. When it comes to the justice system, men have it far worse by a long shot. Therefore, I believed she should have served a much much higher sentence.
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Roos 7 years ago
We should stop slutshaming and bodyshaming eachother girls! (Girls can be so mean to eachother)
Anthony Evans 7 years ago
Disagree wtih number 8. Fathers are told: oh are you babysitting today? or stuff like"you must be giving mom a day off."
Jeremiah Bayles 7 years ago
And most likely if she's saying something like; "Daddy painted your nails, how cute" she's thinking something completely different like; "you're and utter moron and I'm quietly laughing at you while I feel sorry for your wife and daughter".
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Cpt_Justice 7 years ago
The comic book ones are wrong. Male characters are shown in positions of power, women are drawn to be sexy. That much has been proven & all the "comic book double standard" cartoons ignored that.
Chris Tones 7 years ago
Well to be fair, Supergirl also has a cape and wears her undies on the outside just like Superman.
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Andrei Dascalu 7 years ago
I only wish whoever compiled this knew what double standard meant. Many of these are just examples of different problems in different situations. Eg: skimpy armor on women is a double standard between men and women based only on gender. BUT Skinny woman with burger VS chubby woman with burger are different situations. Yes, as crazy as it sounds your physical shape relates to physical condition and what you can handle. Skinny guy can't lift car but Dwayne Johnson probably can, it's not double standard to notice that. Woman without child vs mother, 2 different arguments in 2 different situations. The lie of omission there is not accounting for the fact that there are also different people making the arguments.
Jaqi Hegland 2 years ago
The point of woman with vs without child is that women get judged and shamed no matter which choice they make, by strangers who know nothing about what factors went into that decision. You have no right to judge someone for choosing to be a parent or not. Just as the woman's doctor is the only person who should be telling her what to eat or not eat.
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Natalie KS 7 years ago
Older woman + Younger man = Cougar Older man + Younger woman = Gold Digger/Daddy issues
Jeremiah Bayles 7 years ago
That comparison is subjective and what you're doing is generalizing. There are male gold-diggers and there are successful younger women who are self-sufficient with no daddy issues.
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Adrian Hammersmith 7 years ago
I wish they were all on the same page so I didn't ave to wade thru clickbait adverts.
Margie Lazou 7 years ago
These are great, but #27 I think is straight out of Gamergate manuals. There's no need to bash overweight people regardless of gender.
Margie Lazou 7 years ago
Actually, as an addendum, several of those are Gamergate material, pages 4-5. Sorry, no, wages equality issues exist, and they're not just female hysterics.
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We have started to accept transgender people and treat them like humans and working on how we can make people feel less excluded and more human but we still keep labelling ourselves with these primitive labels.
Hannah Dodd 7 years ago
Transgender people are men or women. Not "other." A transwoman is a woman, and a transman is a man. I think you meant to say genderqueer people.
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Alusair Alustriel 7 years ago
I especially liked number #8. Unfortunately can relate to it thinking about my highschool experiences :/
Alex Willie 7 years ago
The bossy girl vs assertive boy is not nor has it ever been true. Plenty of boys have been called bossy too. There are good leaders, male and female, and there are bad leaders who simply want everyone to do things their way. They are called bossy. Also if your super is abrasive it never matters if they are male or female. This weak claim needs to die. Also shooting the breeze vs gossip. One involves discussing subjects of no importance with about noon who matters and no one is harmed unless copious amounts of alcohol is involved. Gossip usually involves talking smack about other people behind their backs and is the general cause of a great deal of societal ills. Lynchings, witch hunts and gamergate all start with gossip.
Maud Gonne 7 years ago
#30 Fat-shaming isn't okay for any gender. However, the image on the left (large guy, thinner, woman) is the standard trope for TV couples. Rarely is it the other way around. See: http://www.ranker.com/list/greatest-fat-guy-skinny-wife-couples/ranker-tv?utm_expid=16418821-311.AAszGoDYQ7WZsue0Bhz6ww.0&utm_referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F Plus, the guy on the left is drawn in a way that makes him appear unattractive regardless of size. Shave the unkempt facial/neck hair and--more importantly--draw him with the warm smile of the guy in the other picture and the image gives a different impression. Body size is not all there is about having an attractive appearance--for any gender.
Charley Darbo 7 years ago
Almost all of these are meninist neckbeard b******t male entitilement resentment. Most of these comic are illustrations of exactly what the problem is: men seeing their privilege as equality just because that's the way it's always been. Wake up dudebro's: if a woman takes on power, she's not stealing yours: it was never yours to begin with. Almost without exception, she's not taking advantage of you, she's leveling the playing field. Climb out of your mom's basement and interact with the real world and learn what other people are really like.
Augusta Gormenghast 7 years ago
This is funny :) I never think in double standards... my mother was a career woman her mother a housewife... I choose to be a musican and I feel we're all equal because inside our shells down to the core we are all the same - human, we have been both male and female in previous lives... its our soul that remains the same and unchangable... and all these ideas are just people loosing touch with reality :) non of its real... lets focus on what we have in common rather than be divided on issues that are not real, only petty nuances.
Rianna Davis-Josephs 7 years ago
i wish i could like this 1000 times. double standards r stupid. a shame nothing about disability is in there either. when u got mental or physical disability ( i had this personal experience) ppl ask u in study or career wise " u sure u wanna go for that? how will u cope etc!" instead of encouraging having ur back, will be the first to tell u they told u so, let u fall . but then be the same people who r like " u seen that girl with downsyndrome modellling. good for her so proud of her. wish more ppl with disabilities would go into careers and excell" ... its just ignorant >_< yes not all of us are capable of doing things but if society would adapt the majority of us could do some kind of work! excel and would feel like valued members of society. We got so many ideas etc and not able to share its frustrating.
ANGELLO GIORDANI CHIRINOS VILLANUEVA 1 year ago
And it is precisely because all these examples of double standards are not even so common or habitual, they really occur very little.
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God, most of these images are ridiculous attempts at victimization towards women. There are both men and women idiots in this world and problems with double standards are also suffered by men a lot. Among them we can see how women suffer a lesser sentence for the same crime that a man could commit, how men are asked more in a relationship than women, how now society only focuses on ´´Girl Power´´ but not on ´´Man Power´´, seeing how industries, companies, and others focus attention on women and not on men (or rather, focus on both since that would be true equality).
Norm Farris 1 year ago
Some of these are good. The rest are sexist tropes that single out women unfairly. Is it really an enlightened article when you sprinkle in sexist jibes? Booo.
Kristen Bellefeuille 1 year ago
The only one I disagree with is the sexual assault one, men tend to get a lot if not more judgment
Shorty Morty 2 years ago (edited)
I feel like this person needs to know it not okay to run around with you boobs out just like it's not okay for me to run around with my penis out. They are both private parts. Also the sexist men are like 5% of the population I don't think that many people are sexist cause women often forget it works both ways
JAC 1 year ago
Also, yes sexism works both ways. But last I checked men didn't lose they're right to vote, work, dress how they want, or go out by themselves. Also, 97% of the male sex population hasn't been raped or sexually assaulted (forcably impregnated in a lot of cases.) like women have, just to end up being told they were "asking for it" or just being sexualized further.
Load More Replies... Kristen Bellefeuille 2 years ago
My BFF is 2 years and 3 months younger than me and we get a lot of negative comments but if it was reversed he'd get a high five
Mondariel Visor 3 years ago
Most of those meme had to make a female. I am not saying they are absolutely false, they are just over expressed. As female would do them. 🤷🏻♂️ For example: Woman-things are bad. So man shouldn’t act like woman. Woman-things are bad said nobody ever and if, it was stupid being. So man shouldn’t act like woman, of course man shouldn’t act like woman. Man are not woman so they act differently. That is simple thing this. 🤦🏻♂️ Woman are emotional therefore man shouldn’t be emotional. This sentence is BS. Everyone is emotional somehow. Woman usually express themselves more then man. I don’t see anything wrong with it. Woman are more on words and talks and man are more on actual work to be done. That is what I call equality as we simply supplement each other in life. We cannot exists without each other.
Bogdi Herald 6 years ago
Can you blame me for my sexist education when the world showed me that this is fine?
Sara Baerlocher 7 years ago
You should know #11, 21, 26 and 36 contradict #30. They contradict by fat shaming women when 30 is cheering them on for being with a thin man, which is b******t. Fat shaming happens all the time, especially when out with a thinner man. I actually had someone walk up to me and a date (on our first date) and asked the guy "can't you control her over eating? You shouldn't allow her to be seen in public when she is so fat." So yeah, 30 is wrong.
Matthew Pecek 7 years ago
I'm intrigued. All of these posts about body standards show either overweight women who are otherwise fashionable and well-kept or unfashionable women who still seem pretty well take care of. They're always so clean in every depiction. Meanwhile the boys complaining that women treat handsome men better than unattractive men are sporting greasy, unwashed, uncut hair, neckbeards, acne, chapped lips, they're dehydrated, oily, unkempt, underwashed, unshaved, wearing dirty clothes, and then unfashionable and sometimes overwight on TOP of all that but those last two are really unimportant compared to the rest of all that. Hygiene and cleanliness are WAY more important than a few pounds. That's why James Corden is cute af and these guys aren't. The bottom line is that if you don't take care of yourself you don't come off as someone who would ever be good at taking care of someone else. Before claiming its a weight or fashion thing, ask yourself if its a hygiene thing.
Clint Hobson 7 years ago
The one of the good looking guy getting away with a complement to the female worker while the ugly guy scares her, people may have easily come to that conclusion insinuated in the comic, but in reality the good looking guy already built up a rapport with her earlier and now appears to be getting away with saying things that she doesn't like other guys doing.
John Yuill 7 years ago
just saw a youtube video called just for laughs it was about a woman going around in the street groping guys down below and the guys were shocked but took in their stride and walked on by but can you imagine if it was the other way around the guy would be arrested charged will sexual harassment jailed and put on the sex offenders list for years lose his work and girlfriend and be called a pervert for the rest of his life and probably end his own life....double f*****g standards....and all for a laugh..
JAC 1 year ago
Only 6% of rapists even spend a day in jail... And the average they spend in there are 3 years. Sex offenders list is for sexual assault/rape on those under 16, literal CHILDREN. That video was staged. Out of the 3.73 BILLION women who have been raped/sexually assaulted MAINLY BY MEN, you're gonna sit here and pin women as the bad guys?
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Ashley Park 7 years ago
I agree with everything except #45 there's a difference between chest and genitals.
Aurore Chamallow 7 years ago
exactly, I was waiting for a comment about that. I also disagree with the comics ones
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Petra Christovová 7 years ago
Loved this compilation. Sadly, I have been working in purely "men´s area" for many years and I must say that almost all comics in the article were true. The stereotypes are b***h. It was quite surprising that half of the people saying various c**p like above were women though and according to my experience I can say that the bigotry and stupidity is the same at both genders. I think I heard it all and I do not care anymore. Why punish yourself for someone else being an idiot? Better do not take it personally and just make fun of such people with an irresistible smile on your face. ;-)
luke murray 7 years ago
Haha some of these were funny and true, others were sad and true but there were a few that were gender based differences not society based differences.
Erik Van Zanen 7 years ago
Cringeworthy, the most of this post. Sounds like it's for teens to adolescents. or u must be a weird person yourself to be so negative and judgemental all the time. besides, what's wrong with saying a person is too fat to take the role of lara croft on her, or superman? when hollywood makes a movie, they cast a guy that fits the character, but in real life it;s suddenly a problem. this sjw/pc attitude is destroying more then it is helping.
Hannah Dodd 7 years ago
Most of these are really good. But a few are really misogynistic. Our patriarchal society creates double standards that harm women the most, but that also harm men (such as society telling men that they shouldn't show any emotion or that they can't be as good parents as women). We do need to point out the harmful effects of these double standards on men. But even so, some of the comics here (especially the ones on the last page) depict women in a really vile, misogynistic way that is not at all in the spirit of the other comics in the series.
Sondre Strøm Linde 7 years ago
Are all these about gender? Seems it's pretty horrible to be a woman.
Charley Darbo 7 years ago
Almost all of these are standard neckbear misogyny that take no account of societal context. They leave out the very real factor of power and social hierarchy; they only work if society is already 100% equal, so that if a woman takes power, she's taking unfair advantage. Whereas the reality is that in most circumnstances, if a woman takes on power of her own initiative, she's leveling the playing field. This is a bunch of meninist b******t.
Jeremiah Bayles 7 years ago
What's your definition of power? I will agree context is almost non-existent. Most men don't feel threatened when a woman is self sufficient or even in control, in fact its quite attractive. When she acts like men or women owe her something, then it switches, because there's obvious insecurity there and this is the same for men.
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Dhruv Sharma 7 years ago
#20 is something I will never understand about society. I feel guys are the real sluts, they'll f**k a hole in a door if they went more than a day without masturbating
Joseph Nodurft 7 years ago
Somehow I knew this was clickbait... And another men bashing article. Number 6 is the way it is.
Bob-A-Lou Anna Maria 4 years ago
A lot of these are stupid. especially the split figures. When someone says one thing they aren’t saying be the complete opposite. They are saying find more moderation. You can have less of a characteristic without being the complete opposite
Matthew Kirk 7 years ago
O__o This article was about Double standards, yet the one who posted it was committing a double standard. Like you literally only had ones where all the guys were the Villains. Then I find out the persons name was Monika. Uh huh.- Also allot of these seem very in-accurate or un-observant of ones own abilities. For example: Crazy and Angry are very different for specific reason and Hitting someone no matter the Gender is still wrong.
Greg NZ 7 years ago
How about the racial double standards ? I can't be proud to be a straight white man. Every other racial spectrum can be.
Dave Roger 7 years ago
Why the f**k would you be proud of that? You have no control over being white or straight or a man. Where is the source of pride for being born a certain way?
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David Ross 7 years ago
I love this, and am a male pig. Still fantastic humor and an honest reflection of our society.
Ale Rumba 7 years ago
THESE SCENARIOS ARE PRETTY MUCH THE RESUME OF AMERICA SOCIETY. I LIVED IN BOTH SIDES OF THE ATLANTIC OCEAN AND IN EUROPE THEY DONT HAVE SO MUCH THIS. AMERICAN SOCIETY INSTEAD IS PRETTY MUCH F****D UP , TOO MUCH TELEVISION AND CELEBRITY WANNA BE. SO HAPPY I AM NOT FROM THE USA. THE ONLY SAD THING IS THAT THE BAD CULTURAL INVASION OF AMERICAN TV SERIES IS CONTAMINATING ALSO EUROPE NOW AND THEY ARE AT RISK OF BECOMING IDIOTS LIKE MOST OF THE AMERICAN POPULATION.
Jeremiah Bayles 7 years ago
Entitlement is a *****. It would seem the rest of the world has already learned that a lot of people don't have s**t and never will.
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Meowton Mewsk 7 years ago
Actually we know that it's changed since primitive times. Studies show that modern women are more likely to mate with smaller, smarter men rather than muscular providers. This is because of equality leading to women being able to provide for themselves. Look it up. There are many things primitive people did that we no longer need to do.
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stacyh 7 years ago
Right, because acknowledging common stereotypes is "liberal b******t." How about run along to Breitbart? Might be more your speed.
Load More Replies... Shana 7 years ago
Another double standard: just saw a news article about a female teacher that had sex with 4 of her students. Alot of comments on this are: "Boy, wish I had a teacher like that in school", "nicely done guys", ... Yet, if it had said "male teacher has sex with students" the comments would've been "omg, pedophile/perv", "castrate him", ... Both are just wrong and bad...-_-
Howard Vines 7 years ago
Another double standard was in the news recently of Michelle Carter who convinced her 18 year old boyfriend to commit suicide in a quest for sympathetic attention from friends, family and the general public, face jail time. Her texts to him were exposed and she was facing a maximum of 20 years. But it was dropped to only 2 1/2 years, 15 months jail 15 months probation. You can find the transcript of the messages online. The sickest thing is not just what she was saying to the kid, but the fact she remained in a phone call to listen to him die. When it comes to the justice system, men have it far worse by a long shot. Therefore, I believed she should have served a much much higher sentence.
Load More Replies... Roos 7 years ago
We should stop slutshaming and bodyshaming eachother girls! (Girls can be so mean to eachother)
Anthony Evans 7 years ago
Disagree wtih number 8. Fathers are told: oh are you babysitting today? or stuff like"you must be giving mom a day off."
Jeremiah Bayles 7 years ago
And most likely if she's saying something like; "Daddy painted your nails, how cute" she's thinking something completely different like; "you're and utter moron and I'm quietly laughing at you while I feel sorry for your wife and daughter".
Load More Replies... Cpt_Justice 7 years ago
The comic book ones are wrong. Male characters are shown in positions of power, women are drawn to be sexy. That much has been proven & all the "comic book double standard" cartoons ignored that.
Chris Tones 7 years ago
Well to be fair, Supergirl also has a cape and wears her undies on the outside just like Superman.
Load More Replies... Andrei Dascalu 7 years ago
I only wish whoever compiled this knew what double standard meant. Many of these are just examples of different problems in different situations. Eg: skimpy armor on women is a double standard between men and women based only on gender. BUT Skinny woman with burger VS chubby woman with burger are different situations. Yes, as crazy as it sounds your physical shape relates to physical condition and what you can handle. Skinny guy can't lift car but Dwayne Johnson probably can, it's not double standard to notice that. Woman without child vs mother, 2 different arguments in 2 different situations. The lie of omission there is not accounting for the fact that there are also different people making the arguments.
Jaqi Hegland 2 years ago
The point of woman with vs without child is that women get judged and shamed no matter which choice they make, by strangers who know nothing about what factors went into that decision. You have no right to judge someone for choosing to be a parent or not. Just as the woman's doctor is the only person who should be telling her what to eat or not eat.
Load More Replies... Natalie KS 7 years ago
Older woman + Younger man = Cougar Older man + Younger woman = Gold Digger/Daddy issues
Jeremiah Bayles 7 years ago
That comparison is subjective and what you're doing is generalizing. There are male gold-diggers and there are successful younger women who are self-sufficient with no daddy issues.
Load More Replies... Adrian Hammersmith 7 years ago
I wish they were all on the same page so I didn't ave to wade thru clickbait adverts.
Margie Lazou 7 years ago
These are great, but #27 I think is straight out of Gamergate manuals. There's no need to bash overweight people regardless of gender.
Margie Lazou 7 years ago
Actually, as an addendum, several of those are Gamergate material, pages 4-5. Sorry, no, wages equality issues exist, and they're not just female hysterics.
Load More Replies... coffee zombie 7 years ago
We have started to accept transgender people and treat them like humans and working on how we can make people feel less excluded and more human but we still keep labelling ourselves with these primitive labels.
Hannah Dodd 7 years ago
Transgender people are men or women. Not "other." A transwoman is a woman, and a transman is a man. I think you meant to say genderqueer people.
Load More Replies... Alusair Alustriel 7 years ago
I especially liked number #8. Unfortunately can relate to it thinking about my highschool experiences :/
Alex Willie 7 years ago
The bossy girl vs assertive boy is not nor has it ever been true. Plenty of boys have been called bossy too. There are good leaders, male and female, and there are bad leaders who simply want everyone to do things their way. They are called bossy. Also if your super is abrasive it never matters if they are male or female. This weak claim needs to die. Also shooting the breeze vs gossip. One involves discussing subjects of no importance with about noon who matters and no one is harmed unless copious amounts of alcohol is involved. Gossip usually involves talking smack about other people behind their backs and is the general cause of a great deal of societal ills. Lynchings, witch hunts and gamergate all start with gossip.
Maud Gonne 7 years ago
#30 Fat-shaming isn't okay for any gender. However, the image on the left (large guy, thinner, woman) is the standard trope for TV couples. Rarely is it the other way around. See: http://www.ranker.com/list/greatest-fat-guy-skinny-wife-couples/ranker-tv?utm_expid=16418821-311.AAszGoDYQ7WZsue0Bhz6ww.0&utm_referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F Plus, the guy on the left is drawn in a way that makes him appear unattractive regardless of size. Shave the unkempt facial/neck hair and--more importantly--draw him with the warm smile of the guy in the other picture and the image gives a different impression. Body size is not all there is about having an attractive appearance--for any gender.
Charley Darbo 7 years ago
Almost all of these are meninist neckbeard b******t male entitilement resentment. Most of these comic are illustrations of exactly what the problem is: men seeing their privilege as equality just because that's the way it's always been. Wake up dudebro's: if a woman takes on power, she's not stealing yours: it was never yours to begin with. Almost without exception, she's not taking advantage of you, she's leveling the playing field. Climb out of your mom's basement and interact with the real world and learn what other people are really like.
Augusta Gormenghast 7 years ago
This is funny :) I never think in double standards... my mother was a career woman her mother a housewife... I choose to be a musican and I feel we're all equal because inside our shells down to the core we are all the same - human, we have been both male and female in previous lives... its our soul that remains the same and unchangable... and all these ideas are just people loosing touch with reality :) non of its real... lets focus on what we have in common rather than be divided on issues that are not real, only petty nuances.
Rianna Davis-Josephs 7 years ago
i wish i could like this 1000 times. double standards r stupid. a shame nothing about disability is in there either. when u got mental or physical disability ( i had this personal experience) ppl ask u in study or career wise " u sure u wanna go for that? how will u cope etc!" instead of encouraging having ur back, will be the first to tell u they told u so, let u fall . but then be the same people who r like " u seen that girl with downsyndrome modellling. good for her so proud of her. wish more ppl with disabilities would go into careers and excell" ... its just ignorant >_< yes not all of us are capable of doing things but if society would adapt the majority of us could do some kind of work! excel and would feel like valued members of society. We got so many ideas etc and not able to share its frustrating.
ANGELLO GIORDANI CHIRINOS VILLANUEVA 1 year ago
And it is precisely because all these examples of double standards are not even so common or habitual, they really occur very little.
Load More Replies... ANGELLO GIORDANI CHIRINOS VILLANUEVA 1 year ago
God, most of these images are ridiculous attempts at victimization towards women. There are both men and women idiots in this world and problems with double standards are also suffered by men a lot. Among them we can see how women suffer a lesser sentence for the same crime that a man could commit, how men are asked more in a relationship than women, how now society only focuses on ´´Girl Power´´ but not on ´´Man Power´´, seeing how industries, companies, and others focus attention on women and not on men (or rather, focus on both since that would be true equality).
Norm Farris 1 year ago
Some of these are good. The rest are sexist tropes that single out women unfairly. Is it really an enlightened article when you sprinkle in sexist jibes? Booo.
Kristen Bellefeuille 1 year ago
The only one I disagree with is the sexual assault one, men tend to get a lot if not more judgment
Shorty Morty 2 years ago (edited)
I feel like this person needs to know it not okay to run around with you boobs out just like it's not okay for me to run around with my penis out. They are both private parts. Also the sexist men are like 5% of the population I don't think that many people are sexist cause women often forget it works both ways
JAC 1 year ago
Also, yes sexism works both ways. But last I checked men didn't lose they're right to vote, work, dress how they want, or go out by themselves. Also, 97% of the male sex population hasn't been raped or sexually assaulted (forcably impregnated in a lot of cases.) like women have, just to end up being told they were "asking for it" or just being sexualized further.
Load More Replies... Kristen Bellefeuille 2 years ago
My BFF is 2 years and 3 months younger than me and we get a lot of negative comments but if it was reversed he'd get a high five
Mondariel Visor 3 years ago
Most of those meme had to make a female. I am not saying they are absolutely false, they are just over expressed. As female would do them. 🤷🏻♂️ For example: Woman-things are bad. So man shouldn’t act like woman. Woman-things are bad said nobody ever and if, it was stupid being. So man shouldn’t act like woman, of course man shouldn’t act like woman. Man are not woman so they act differently. That is simple thing this. 🤦🏻♂️ Woman are emotional therefore man shouldn’t be emotional. This sentence is BS. Everyone is emotional somehow. Woman usually express themselves more then man. I don’t see anything wrong with it. Woman are more on words and talks and man are more on actual work to be done. That is what I call equality as we simply supplement each other in life. We cannot exists without each other.
Bogdi Herald 6 years ago
Can you blame me for my sexist education when the world showed me that this is fine?
Sara Baerlocher 7 years ago
You should know #11, 21, 26 and 36 contradict #30. They contradict by fat shaming women when 30 is cheering them on for being with a thin man, which is b******t. Fat shaming happens all the time, especially when out with a thinner man. I actually had someone walk up to me and a date (on our first date) and asked the guy "can't you control her over eating? You shouldn't allow her to be seen in public when she is so fat." So yeah, 30 is wrong.
Matthew Pecek 7 years ago
I'm intrigued. All of these posts about body standards show either overweight women who are otherwise fashionable and well-kept or unfashionable women who still seem pretty well take care of. They're always so clean in every depiction. Meanwhile the boys complaining that women treat handsome men better than unattractive men are sporting greasy, unwashed, uncut hair, neckbeards, acne, chapped lips, they're dehydrated, oily, unkempt, underwashed, unshaved, wearing dirty clothes, and then unfashionable and sometimes overwight on TOP of all that but those last two are really unimportant compared to the rest of all that. Hygiene and cleanliness are WAY more important than a few pounds. That's why James Corden is cute af and these guys aren't. The bottom line is that if you don't take care of yourself you don't come off as someone who would ever be good at taking care of someone else. Before claiming its a weight or fashion thing, ask yourself if its a hygiene thing.
Clint Hobson 7 years ago
The one of the good looking guy getting away with a complement to the female worker while the ugly guy scares her, people may have easily come to that conclusion insinuated in the comic, but in reality the good looking guy already built up a rapport with her earlier and now appears to be getting away with saying things that she doesn't like other guys doing.
John Yuill 7 years ago
just saw a youtube video called just for laughs it was about a woman going around in the street groping guys down below and the guys were shocked but took in their stride and walked on by but can you imagine if it was the other way around the guy would be arrested charged will sexual harassment jailed and put on the sex offenders list for years lose his work and girlfriend and be called a pervert for the rest of his life and probably end his own life....double f*****g standards....and all for a laugh..
JAC 1 year ago
Only 6% of rapists even spend a day in jail... And the average they spend in there are 3 years. Sex offenders list is for sexual assault/rape on those under 16, literal CHILDREN. That video was staged. Out of the 3.73 BILLION women who have been raped/sexually assaulted MAINLY BY MEN, you're gonna sit here and pin women as the bad guys?
Load More Replies... Ashley Park 7 years ago
I agree with everything except #45 there's a difference between chest and genitals.
Aurore Chamallow 7 years ago
exactly, I was waiting for a comment about that. I also disagree with the comics ones
Load More Replies... Petra Christovová 7 years ago
Loved this compilation. Sadly, I have been working in purely "men´s area" for many years and I must say that almost all comics in the article were true. The stereotypes are b***h. It was quite surprising that half of the people saying various c**p like above were women though and according to my experience I can say that the bigotry and stupidity is the same at both genders. I think I heard it all and I do not care anymore. Why punish yourself for someone else being an idiot? Better do not take it personally and just make fun of such people with an irresistible smile on your face. ;-)
luke murray 7 years ago
Haha some of these were funny and true, others were sad and true but there were a few that were gender based differences not society based differences.
Erik Van Zanen 7 years ago
Cringeworthy, the most of this post. Sounds like it's for teens to adolescents. or u must be a weird person yourself to be so negative and judgemental all the time. besides, what's wrong with saying a person is too fat to take the role of lara croft on her, or superman? when hollywood makes a movie, they cast a guy that fits the character, but in real life it;s suddenly a problem. this sjw/pc attitude is destroying more then it is helping.
Hannah Dodd 7 years ago
Most of these are really good. But a few are really misogynistic. Our patriarchal society creates double standards that harm women the most, but that also harm men (such as society telling men that they shouldn't show any emotion or that they can't be as good parents as women). We do need to point out the harmful effects of these double standards on men. But even so, some of the comics here (especially the ones on the last page) depict women in a really vile, misogynistic way that is not at all in the spirit of the other comics in the series.
Sondre Strøm Linde 7 years ago
Are all these about gender? Seems it's pretty horrible to be a woman.
Charley Darbo 7 years ago
Almost all of these are standard neckbear misogyny that take no account of societal context. They leave out the very real factor of power and social hierarchy; they only work if society is already 100% equal, so that if a woman takes power, she's taking unfair advantage. Whereas the reality is that in most circumnstances, if a woman takes on power of her own initiative, she's leveling the playing field. This is a bunch of meninist b******t.
Jeremiah Bayles 7 years ago
What's your definition of power? I will agree context is almost non-existent. Most men don't feel threatened when a woman is self sufficient or even in control, in fact its quite attractive. When she acts like men or women owe her something, then it switches, because there's obvious insecurity there and this is the same for men.
Load More Replies... Dhruv Sharma 7 years ago
#20 is something I will never understand about society. I feel guys are the real sluts, they'll f**k a hole in a door if they went more than a day without masturbating
Joseph Nodurft 7 years ago
Somehow I knew this was clickbait... And another men bashing article. Number 6 is the way it is.
Bob-A-Lou Anna Maria 4 years ago
A lot of these are stupid. especially the split figures. When someone says one thing they aren’t saying be the complete opposite. They are saying find more moderation. You can have less of a characteristic without being the complete opposite
Matthew Kirk 7 years ago
O__o This article was about Double standards, yet the one who posted it was committing a double standard. Like you literally only had ones where all the guys were the Villains. Then I find out the persons name was Monika. Uh huh.- Also allot of these seem very in-accurate or un-observant of ones own abilities. For example: Crazy and Angry are very different for specific reason and Hitting someone no matter the Gender is still wrong.
Greg NZ 7 years ago
How about the racial double standards ? I can't be proud to be a straight white man. Every other racial spectrum can be.
Dave Roger 7 years ago
Why the f**k would you be proud of that? You have no control over being white or straight or a man. Where is the source of pride for being born a certain way?
Load More Replies... David Ross 7 years ago
I love this, and am a male pig. Still fantastic humor and an honest reflection of our society.
Ale Rumba 7 years ago
THESE SCENARIOS ARE PRETTY MUCH THE RESUME OF AMERICA SOCIETY. I LIVED IN BOTH SIDES OF THE ATLANTIC OCEAN AND IN EUROPE THEY DONT HAVE SO MUCH THIS. AMERICAN SOCIETY INSTEAD IS PRETTY MUCH F****D UP , TOO MUCH TELEVISION AND CELEBRITY WANNA BE. SO HAPPY I AM NOT FROM THE USA. THE ONLY SAD THING IS THAT THE BAD CULTURAL INVASION OF AMERICAN TV SERIES IS CONTAMINATING ALSO EUROPE NOW AND THEY ARE AT RISK OF BECOMING IDIOTS LIKE MOST OF THE AMERICAN POPULATION.
Jeremiah Bayles 7 years ago
Entitlement is a *****. It would seem the rest of the world has already learned that a lot of people don't have s**t and never will.
Load More Replies... Meowton Mewsk 7 years ago
Actually we know that it's changed since primitive times. Studies show that modern women are more likely to mate with smaller, smarter men rather than muscular providers. This is because of equality leading to women being able to provide for themselves. Look it up. There are many things primitive people did that we no longer need to do.
Load More Replies... stacyh 7 years ago
Right, because acknowledging common stereotypes is "liberal b******t." How about run along to Breitbart? Might be more your speed.
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