Are there any easy ways to tell my friends I'm aromantic and asexual? I haven't known for long, but I want to tell them.

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I am curious to know why you need to let people know? I don’t mean any disrespect or offence so I sincerely apologise if I have caused any. I personally don’t understand why there needs to be a label for having little to no romantic or sexual attraction except when in a relationship, just so the other person is aware. My brother is an asexual homosexual. So he does have attraction to men but he has no interested in sex. The only time he would need to tell someone he is asexual is if he meets someone he wants a relationship with. They are the ones that need to decide whether they can deal with his asexuality or choose to leave coz it is not for them. But it really is no one else’s business or a big deal but that is just my opinion. Whatever you decide to do, I wish you all the best and hope it goes well.

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So my parents know not to expect a boyfriend any time soon i guess and you didn't offend me

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Wellllll... I’m out as gay but I’m not out as ace (I’m ace) but you can ‘accidentally' leave a website about being aroace up on the computer when you know they will be using it. I came out to most of my friends in texts, and I prefer that to calling or saying it in person but whatever feels comfortable is what you should do :)

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Depending on how comfortable you are with your parents and how accepting your parents are of you, you could just sit them down and tell them "Hey mom, dad, I wanted to let you know that I am Aroace. What that means is that I have little to no sexual or romantic attraction to anyone. I've thought about it a lot and this is what makes me feel comfortable. This is not something that is likely to change either, it would mean a lot to me if you could accept me for who I am." Or something along those lines. I wish you luck!
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I don't believe in making a big deal out of it. It's just one aspect of your personality. I never felt the need to make a spectacle of coming out.
I'm bi, but I don't broadcast it, because there are a hundred more interesting things about me that have nothing to do with my love of Kate McKinnon.
Just slip it into a regular convo. It's not a big deal. Just say it.

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Hmm... Well, if you're like me, and have pretty accepting friends and family, it shouldn't be much of a problem. I told my mom in a crowded burger joint while we were waiting for our food, (pre-covid, of course.) so maybe you shouldn't take advice from me. XD Maybe try dropping hints here and there? Just suggesting.

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