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Members Of This Online Group Are Annoyed People Won’t Accept These 35 Facts That Are 100% True
Have you ever found out that something you’ve believed your entire life was a bald-faced lie? I know I have. Not even once, either!
Stuff like that kinda shakes you. From there, you’ve got two options, really. The first is to accept it and move on with your life, a tiny bit wiser. The other is to deny it, building a shield of bias and comfort around you.
You’d be surprised how many people choose the latter. Keep reading to find out more about these hard-to-accept facts that many would rather ignore.
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That Jesus in the new testament was *wildly* opposed to what would become the traditions and practices of Christian fundamentalists.
What's sad to me is that it is clear many people who claim to be Christians have never actually read and thought about the teachings in the Gospels. Yes, we are all flawed human beings. I am deeply flawed. But if you don't try care about each and every person as they are, where they are, and express that in your actions, I am not sure you know God at all. Saving (and judging) the world is God's job. Treating each other with kindness, respect, and love is ours.
That having children is not for everyone, that it’s not all sunshine and the meaning of life and millions of people regret being parents.
“Invisible” health conditions like Dysautonomia, Fibromyalgia, and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. Also ADHD. People think you are faking just to get Adderall.
Research shows you can induce fibromyalgia in mice by injecting them with IGg from humans with fibromyalgia. Sucks for the poor mice being used in research, but demonstrates the realness, for want of a better word, of chronic pain conditions. https://www.jci.org/articles/view/144201 Because there is a different pain mechanism at work than in acute pain it doesn’t respond well to medication like opioids. Opioids can actually increase the amount of pain you experience. Source current pain science and lived experience of going from ridiculous amounts of morphine to just paracetamol for my pain and the level of pain being 99% the same.
America uses propaganda against their own population.
Based on some disturbing podcasts and articles I’ve been hearing, womens health issues, particularly their pain. Apparently most doctors of both sexes, are quick to dismiss and downplay our pain rather than oh I don’t know treating it?
That's because biological women are rarely part of any medical studies. The vast majority of medical testing is done on males. The reason for that is pregnancy. The risk of being pregnant is a high risk for additional damage. Do they get left out. Sometimes even in studies that concern majorly biological women. The pain threshold and reaction to medication is hugely different between biological males and biological females. They have different bone density and different metabolism. That's why often the doses of medications are too small for women. The studies are made with men, the dosage was tested on men, but a biological male of the same weight and height than a woman has a smaller percentage of fat in the body (to just name one of the many factors that impact the function of medicine) and thus for need less medication to treat their issues. So then the women get the dosage that would work for a boy, but is useless for them. But when a man comes, they get what they need.
That our memory is very fallible, and does not work like a video camera.
Mine is fabulous at remembering embarrassing incidents, particularly as I’m trying to get to sleep?
Weight bias. Literally everyone treats overweight people different
Having lost 150 lbs and watching my job improve, my friendships sharpen and being treated with kindness by strangers was MIND. BLOWING.
yep....so much better customer service...people no longer think you are stupid or lazy...and -- here's the one i just never understood -- people laugh at your jokes more...
Load More Replies...Was told my back problems would be gone if I just lost weight. I did, when they removed the spinal TUMOR growing there. Thank goodness doctor #5 actually ran tests and found it before I was paralyzed completely.
Omg…I am so sorry, but I am happy someone finally listened to you
Load More Replies...Some people are so ignorant.I went from being perfectly in the middle of my weight range to being 30 kilos over it due to treatment and a slot of steroids,without those I would be dead.I have family members who see someone overweight and say mean remarks,then when I say well I'm over weight ..it's well thats because of the treatment...excuse me how do you know the person you just belittled isn't big because of treatment or an eating addiction or trauma.Why are people so ugly to each other (
Overweight people are hated across the board. By every demographic. I was overweight and then lost the weight People treated me very differently. I never understood it. I was still the same on the inside. It made me very suspicious of people
Not quite accurate. Yes, there's definitely seems to be a majority bias against people who are least look to be a certain amount above the recommended weight for their size, but there were also groups that prefer it, or are at least indifferent to it. For example, "feeder and eater" relationships, sumo professionals, and societies that see being overweight as a sign of wealth. Just thought I should put in that it isn't really an "every demographic" thing, just pretty common in the average first world society.
Load More Replies...My mom is quite overweight and I’m around average, but growing up with an overweight mom made me see that overweight people aren’t just skin and fat.
Yep, we know so much more today about long-term metabolic changes that occur, when there's been a lifetime of poor nutrition, especially from a young age. When you live in a society with a long history of sugar price supports, and far more expansive and functionally permanent price supports for high-fructose corn syrup unto the present day, and HFCS is put into so many things these days I'm surprised it's not in toothpaste. A well- and long-sugared and -fatted colon yields an ecosystem of intestinal flora which causes very powerful cravings for yet more sugar and fat. Obesity is NOT a failing of moral character, nor a sign of either greediness or a lack of will power. It's just another blind bigotry, just like sexism, racism, homophobia, Islamophobia, etc.
Not just weight. You're more likely to be promoted at work if you're 'good looking'.
Have been fat, thin, fat again and now thin again, the difference in treatment is staggering……
There is a difference between overweight and obsese. I don't really care if someone is overweight and I believe most people feel much the same. It's only when people start getting obese that the difference in attitude starts to be noticeable. And frankly it's understandable. Once you get to the obese "milestone" your health risks from a bunch of conditions are seriously increased and you've *generally* got less energy to do stuff. Heck even "just" being overweight increases the risks. Subconsciously we pick up on it as an indicator of laziness, poor health and poor choices (even if it's not).
Also people who don't know the difference between 'different' and 'differently'.
I have noticed that Americans in particular seem to use adjectives as if they were adverbs. I'd love to know why this has become commonplace. (I'm interested in linguistics rather than being judgemental BTW)
Load More Replies...I'm on ozempic. Instead of being happy and encouraging that I've lost 35lbs, my family insists I'm cheating!
Congratulations!!! Don’t listen to them, you are amazing and keep it up! Again, Congratulations!!!!!!! I’m on it too and I’m nearing 30lbs. I gained over 100lbs when I was put on a high dose of steroids for months because of my colitis and just could not lose it. I’ve been trying for years and years. Doctors just said I’m fat and I need to eat less blah blah blah and didn’t believe me when I said that I do but I can’t lose anything. Finally one doctor (spine center doctor) believed me and had me tested, turns out I’m insulin resistant. Now that it’s being treated, I’ve been losing weight.
Load More Replies...Richard that has got to be the most hateful comments I've seen on BP. Have you been here long? Bc if you have, you'd know that comment would NOT land.
And even if Richard was correct - and he isn't - drug addicts deserve to be treated with kindness as well.
Load More Replies...I don't care. I'm me and if I weigh more than I'm supposed to, so what? I'm healthy, my bloodwork is very good, and I feel very good.
I don't. And the poster never asked me or anyone I know. Please quit using "literally" incorrectly. Thanks.
The biggest benefit of gaining a bunch of weight is that I don't get sexually harassed anymore.
I'm a fat b@stard and likely to stay that way. Doctors rarely even offer tests unless I ask because I'm "hugely overweight" and that's definitely my problem. No, the large pizzas are my problem. 😂
It's also a lot cheaper to buy and eat "bad" foods than good ones.
Could be worse. Being a short and/or balding man gets you treated differently, and there's little to nothing you can do about that
Everyone should have the right to feel comfortable in their skin regardless of size.
I don't think that's fair at all. I don't treat them different because I don't typically come in situations where whatever situation is happening we don't effect each other or hurt each other. I do not care how others are. None of my business and if you are happy f@cking go for it. Why are people so worried about others more than themselves? It's easier to criticize someone else.
So I am ashamed to say that I am guilty of this. Not overtly, I am genuinely polite & nice to people & know that it's within that counts, but I often have an automatic negative reaction to someone of size. I find myself ascribing qualities & attributes to a person that are unfair & biased & wrong. Mea culpa. I am working on it.
I don't know you, but when I was fat (like, 10kg fat) my knees hurt a lot, I was easily tired and sweat a lot too. After I changed my diet and lost some of this extra weight, I'm fitter, healthier, my knees don't hurt more, and I'm more confident. Being extra fat, like American-extra-fat we all see online, and don't do anything to try to mitigate it, is beyond my understanding.
People shouldn't be mistreated based on their appearances. But, let's be honest, people being overweight is NOT healthy and people need to realize this. The "body positivity" movement chooses to ignore this and glorifies obesity, telling people that losing weight is "fatphobic." Treat people with respect, but don't try to bend the truth to conform to your ideology.
I love how I've been downvoted for this opinion but not a single person is offering a rebuttal. Cowards and bästards, the lot of you.
Load More Replies...Because letting yourself become obese suggests to others that you are self indulgent to a fault and refuse to take responsibility for yourself. It's similar to being around someone who's always high or drunk. It's self abuse and unpleasant to witness. Unless it's due to a medical condition, there's no excuse for it.
I'm speechless. I cant believe you posted this on a public site
Load More Replies... You can love someone else without loving yourself first. There’s plenty of parents that hate themselves and love their kids.
Not recommending it but it’s a stupid thing to deny.
Unfortunately can confirm. Don't care about myself. Love my kids so much, I don't have words for it
That financial success has largely to do with Luck (Where you were born, who your parents are, etc)
Also, how you're treated by your parents. My sister had unconditional love and was never psychologically, emotionally, or sexually abused. Never gaslighted, always believed (even when she lied), and always always supported. I was sexually abused, constantly told I wasn't good enough and would never amount to anything, told I was miserable, and told I was too sensitive, among so many other things. The fact that I haven't offed myself is because I have extraordinary friends and a brother who has always had my back. And I have pets. How you're raised 100% impacts your level of success.
MLMs are a f*****g scam .
Built in obsolescence (planned obsolescence) - shocked how many people dont believe it happens
Looking at you Apple! and anything other than my first Nokia cell phone.
Autism diagnoses. Myself and lots of autistic people I know are often told by people who seem to base their entire knowledge of autism off the movie Rain Man are like "but you don't seem autistic."
Research on autism has changed a lot since the 80s but public perception has changed very little.
Skin cancer from not wearing sunblock. It absolutely blows my mind when grown a*s adults brag about not wearing sunscreen. Like it’s a real point of pride for them. Enjoy your early wrinkles and spots.
Climate change, Covid-19, billionaires not caring about the average person
I really don't know what it would take for deniers to believe climate change is real.
A lie detector isn’t reliable
Confirmation bias. Reading into a situation what you want to see.
The foundation stone for all conspiracy theorists, anti-vaxxers and flat earthers
it's ok to eat MSG
Coincidentally today, June 25, is the anniversary of the 1908 founding of Ajinomoto Co., Inc., based on the discovery and manufacturing of MSG (which, like fortune cookies, is Japanese not Chinese in origin)
That people in power don't care about you.
But without the little people they would have no power. They care but not in a way that is good for you.
When I went to sea I would see the occasional flying fish, it was surprising how many people thought I was pulling their leg when I told them about it.
Being 35-50 wasn’t considered “elderly” back in the day.
It was common for people to live into their 70s and 80s. The reason we get “average lifespan” data with such low numbers is because so many babies died, skewing the average values downward.
I DID think 50 was old. And if you look at pics of back in the day, people were old at 50/60. Pretending modern medicine/safety/regulations has had no effect on the life expectancy is delusional. SOME people DID live till 80, but not nearly as many as today. And the ones who were dying at 60 were OLD
My camp girlfriend. You wouldn't know her, she goes to another school.
that they are good humans because they have good thoughts.
you have to **do** good to be a good person.
the world is full of people complaining , but we are in need of people willing to sacrifice and not make it about themselves
If it is happening to someone else, it CAN happen to you
Disagree. There are quite a lot of things that can happen to someone else that absolutely cannot happen to me. I will never starve to death in Yemen. I will never be shot on the front line of the war in Ukraine. I will never die in childbirth, inject heroin, move to Las Vegas, be knighted, win an Oscar...
that everything in this world is controlled by money
I've always liked the pithy statement "Remember the Golden Rule. Whoever has the gold makes the rules."
You don't know how to fight unless you've been trained or have experience in fighting. Most people imagine themselves beating a*s only to have reality smash them in the nose. A lot of people even injure themselves just trying to throw punches.
High fructose corn syrup is worse than real sugar
There are four main types of sugar - fructose, lactose, sucrose and glucose. Each has their own issues.
Nations that are ostensibly 'enemies' trade and cooperate a great deal more than people generally believe.
Shaving doesn’t make the hair grow back thicker.
If shaving made hair grow back thicker then shaving would be a cure for baldness.
majority of folks aren't playing the official uno rules.
wait- so the time my friends stacked 4 draw 4s on me was illegal??!?
People largely deny responsibility for anything they contribute to
While recovering from my hysterectomy in prison, I was in the hospital section. I'd been in prison about eight years then. A nurse said he was surprised I was still locked up. I told him I still had a few years to go, then I said, "But I deserved what I got." He said that in all his years working there, he's never heard anyone say that before.
That most people would do some pretty awful things for money if presented the opportunity. People would like to believe that they have strong morals but if presented with a button that would kill 10 random people in the world in exchange for 1 million dollars, many would press it. I would guess at least half of the population would. And many would press it multiple times. But not many people would actually admit that they would press it if given the opportunity to. Maybe I am just too cynical and not many would press it, but this hypothetical situation is something I think about a lot.
I could not enjoy $1 of that million knowing I had caused 10 people to lose their lives
Glittering_Offer_69 said:
In group preference
Livid-Natural5874 added:
Oof this is a huge one and very subtle compared to most stuff commented in here so far.
We love to think we are creating this world of diversity and inclusion, but once you scratch the surface it is all just a facade, tokenisation all the way down. Even the people preaching those values tend to do so from the comfort of a highly homogenous group.
A lot of these aren't actually facts they are opinions or generalizations
They all struck me as pretty true, except for the joke about my girlfriend going to another school and the generalization about in group preference. Fact is that to preserve genetic diversity, we are attracted to people that aren't like us, not people that are just like us.
Load More Replies...Still trying to figure out "Australia"? Why was that even there with no explanation lol?!?
Because some people (usually flat earthers) don't believe it exists.
Load More Replies...Ok im confused with tbe answers,what you believed all your life and now dont or the other way around as some answers dont make sense.
I think some are one way and some are the other. I also wasn't sure for many of these.
Load More Replies...Chiropractice, homeopathy, acupuncture, and TCM are just scams that often do damage in the long run.
Acupuncture is much less problematic than the other three, which I totally agree with. The only time that acupuncture is an issue is if it is used *instead of* proper medical treatment instead of alongside it.
Load More Replies...Yeah there's definitely a fair bit of both going on unfortunately. Where are you from if you don't mind me asking? I'm from UK and looking back on school history lessons and curriculum, there is a wealth of information that people would rather you didn't know. For obvious reasons I suppose
A lot of these aren't actually facts they are opinions or generalizations
They all struck me as pretty true, except for the joke about my girlfriend going to another school and the generalization about in group preference. Fact is that to preserve genetic diversity, we are attracted to people that aren't like us, not people that are just like us.
Load More Replies...Still trying to figure out "Australia"? Why was that even there with no explanation lol?!?
Because some people (usually flat earthers) don't believe it exists.
Load More Replies...Ok im confused with tbe answers,what you believed all your life and now dont or the other way around as some answers dont make sense.
I think some are one way and some are the other. I also wasn't sure for many of these.
Load More Replies...Chiropractice, homeopathy, acupuncture, and TCM are just scams that often do damage in the long run.
Acupuncture is much less problematic than the other three, which I totally agree with. The only time that acupuncture is an issue is if it is used *instead of* proper medical treatment instead of alongside it.
Load More Replies...Yeah there's definitely a fair bit of both going on unfortunately. Where are you from if you don't mind me asking? I'm from UK and looking back on school history lessons and curriculum, there is a wealth of information that people would rather you didn't know. For obvious reasons I suppose