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Dad Makes Daughter Do House Chores In Return For Menstrual Pads, The Internet Goes Berserk On Him

Dad Makes Daughter Do House Chores In Return For Menstrual Pads, The Internet Goes Berserk On Him

The Internet Is Furious With This Dad Who Is Making His Daughter Do Chores To Repay Him For Buying Her Menstrual ProductsDad Makes Daughter Do Chores In Exchange For Menstrual Products, And People Are Not OK With ThisDad Threatens To Stop Buying Daughter Menstrual Products If She Doesn't Do Chores, Gets Called Out For His SexismDad Expects His Daughter To Do Chores But Not His Son, Because The Girl Has To 'Repay' Him For Menstrual ProductsDad Makes His Daughter Do Chores But Not His Son, Says She's 'Paying Him Back' For Menstrual ProductsDad Is Bombarded With Criticism After Saying He Expects His Daughter To Do Chores In Return For Him Paying For Her Menstrual ProductsDad Comes Under Fire From Everyone After Saying He Expects His Daughter To Do Chores In Return For Him Paying For Menstrual ProductsDad Receives No Sympathy After Saying He Expects His Daughter To Do Chores In Return For Him Paying For Menstrual ProductsEveryone With Common Sense Says This Dad Is A Jerk For Saying He Wants His Daughter To Do Chores In Return For Him Paying For Menstrual ProductsSexist Man Seeks Validation On The Internet For Making His Daughter Do House Chores In Exchange For Menstrual Products, The Internet Loses It
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How some people react to the fact that women menstruate can sometimes make you think that we’re living in the Dark Ages. And one dad took the cake when it came to making the internet lose it with how backward his thinking is.

A dad asked the ‘AITA’ community over on Reddit if he was in the wrong for making his daughter do extra chores because he has to “spend extra” on her each month because of her periods. Let me repeat that: this dad makes his teenage daughter do chores as a way to ‘pay him back’ because he spends additional money each month on her because of her biology.

You’ll find the dad’s full post below, dear Pandas. Spoiler warning: it’s so unfair, you might just spend a minute or two staring blankly at the screen, wondering how people like this can exist.

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    A dad infuriated the internet when he shared how he makes his daughter do chores around the house in exchange for menstrual products

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    What adds an extra layer of unfairness to the whole circus of a situation is that this dad doesn’t make his son do any chores. Even though he spends a ton of extra money on his son’s extracurricular activities.

    The dad has an overly pragmatic, utilitarian, and you could say even robotic view of his family members: he looks at his relationship with them in purely economic terms. He believes that his son has a better chance of getting a college scholarship, so he invests more money into him and doesn’t want him to ‘waste’ his time doing chores.

    Meanwhile, he thinks that his daughter’s extracurricular activities are “just a hobby” and he doesn’t think that they’ll go anywhere.

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    What’s more, when his daughter rebelled and said that she won’t be doing any chores anymore because it isn’t fair, her dad called her a brat, causing her to run away and live with her aunt. The dad was furious that his siblings were “coddling her” and supporting her.

    Reddit was furious with the entire situation. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with asking your kids to pitch in around the house, but to make it conditional and withholding menstruation products is just downright wrong. One redditor hit the nail on the head when they said that the father was “pink taxing” his daughter’s entire existence and turned her into an indentured servant.

    Period-shaming, unfortunately, is far more common than you’d think the modern world would allow for. For instance, one study found that a whopping 42 percent of American women have experienced period-shaming while 58 percent said that they felt embarrassed for even being on their period at all. It’s a natural part of life, but how some parts of society react to it is devastating.

    Here’s how people reacted to the story. Like you probably expected, people were dumbstruck by the unfairness of it all

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    Jonas Grinevičius

    Jonas Grinevičius

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    Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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    Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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    I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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    Ilona Baliūnaitė

    Ilona Baliūnaitė

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    I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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    UncleRussian
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah no... The fact that he says that his sons curriculum can get him into college and hers is just a hobby already tells me that he's the type of guy who calls an engineer Hotline and if he hears a woman says "Can I speak to a man please?"

    Bird lover
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That scenario reminds me of a friend of mine, she runs a local Tires & Auto Repair and one time a dude came in to get his car fixed and my friend greets him and stuff until he says "Can I get a guy to fix my car, it's not that I'm sexist or anything, I just think they might have some more experience." (My friend ran the place as mentioned earlier and was the MOST experienced, which she explains) but he insists on a guy. My friend got fed up and explained that either SHE was gonna fix his car or HE was gonna find another place. AND HE LEFT. He f*****g left rather than let a girl fix his car.

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    varwenea
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    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He is most definitely the AH!!! To menstrual-shame and pink-tax his own daughter is forking insane!!! E is right to move out, even his son is telling him.

    Tammy Schoch
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No ones pointing out the awful way that he's teaching his son to treat women as well. Great role model Dad.

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    UncleRussian
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah no... The fact that he says that his sons curriculum can get him into college and hers is just a hobby already tells me that he's the type of guy who calls an engineer Hotline and if he hears a woman says "Can I speak to a man please?"

    Bird lover
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That scenario reminds me of a friend of mine, she runs a local Tires & Auto Repair and one time a dude came in to get his car fixed and my friend greets him and stuff until he says "Can I get a guy to fix my car, it's not that I'm sexist or anything, I just think they might have some more experience." (My friend ran the place as mentioned earlier and was the MOST experienced, which she explains) but he insists on a guy. My friend got fed up and explained that either SHE was gonna fix his car or HE was gonna find another place. AND HE LEFT. He f*****g left rather than let a girl fix his car.

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    varwenea
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He is most definitely the AH!!! To menstrual-shame and pink-tax his own daughter is forking insane!!! E is right to move out, even his son is telling him.

    Tammy Schoch
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No ones pointing out the awful way that he's teaching his son to treat women as well. Great role model Dad.

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