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Dad’s Shower Door Pics Goes Viral Along With Recognition Of His Stay-At-Home Wife’s Work
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Dad’s Shower Door Pics Goes Viral Along With Recognition Of His Stay-At-Home Wife’s Work

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“There’s no tougher job than being a mom,” goes the old saying. A survey by Pew appears to confirm this, with parents finding that caring for their children is much more exhausting than the work they do for pay.

Women’s work dominates the ‘invisible’ economy – they account for almost three-quarters of all unpaid work. Women conduct 76% of childcare, 67% of domestic work, 69% of care of adults and 57% of volunteering, and at the same time are increasingly becoming the breadwinners of their families, too.

Gender stereotypes regarding women being mostly responsible for ‘caring’ work are prevalent, and this extra mental and physical burden is undervalued in both an economic and emotional sense. Why should a woman be expected to come home and do a ‘second shift’ when they get home from work?

The first step in solving any problem is to recognize it. Many men are simply unaware and unappreciative of the inherent unfairness of the current state of things, so when a guy takes the time to acknowledge the sacrifices his wife makes for the family, it is important and welcome.

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This lovely couple have a video blog called Six Shots with Zack and Heather, which you can check out on their Facebook Page here. Zack has been widely praised for his honest and heartfelt recognition of the true value of Heather’s 24/7 care for their newborn baby, something that men often dismiss as ‘just playing with the kid all day.’

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Image credits: Six Shots with Zack and Heather

The post started an interesting discussion about the realities of being a stay-at-home parent, as well as the importance of recognizing and properly valuing the hours and hours of extra work that women put in each week. Just because no money is involved, it doesn’t make it any less worthy!

What do you think? Why do you believe that women do so much of the unpaid work in our society? What can be done to achieve a fairer balance, or at least more recognition and appreciation for this fact? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!

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Ilona Baliūnaitė

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I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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James is a Bored Panda reporter who graduated with a BA in Peace And Conflict Studies and an MA in African Affairs. Before Bored Panda, he was an English teacher and also travelled a lot, doing odd jobs from beer-slinging to brickie's labourer and freelance journalism along the way. James loves covering stories about social and environmental issues and prefers to highlight the positive things that unite us, rather than petty internet squabbles about fictional characters. James is the grumpy, contradictory one who thinks that Bored Panda, due to its large audience, has a social responsibility to inspire and inform its readers with interesting issues and entertaining, well-researched stories. Let's do our bit to make our little corner of the internet a smarter, more truthful and less angry place!

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Si
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devi L.
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sweet that he noticed the glass and figured she wipes it to keep an eye on the baby. Other ppl wouldn't have noticed it or put two and two together or some wouldn't even care. So this is sweet

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Pamela24
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've recently come across a lot of the classic "boomer jokes" that have this one premise that marriage is a torture and you constantly suffer (which I just don't understand - as long as you're fortunate to live in a society that lets you choose your SO - why wouldn't you choose someone you like?). This is a great antidote to that. Not everyone would notice the glass and realize what it truly meant but he did.

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Craig Lee
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think a lot of people chose a S.O. based on face value things. If that's all people care about, then that's what they'll receive. It usually takes a little more maturity to appreciate the little things or place value on them.

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Si
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devi L.
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sweet that he noticed the glass and figured she wipes it to keep an eye on the baby. Other ppl wouldn't have noticed it or put two and two together or some wouldn't even care. So this is sweet

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Pamela24
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've recently come across a lot of the classic "boomer jokes" that have this one premise that marriage is a torture and you constantly suffer (which I just don't understand - as long as you're fortunate to live in a society that lets you choose your SO - why wouldn't you choose someone you like?). This is a great antidote to that. Not everyone would notice the glass and realize what it truly meant but he did.

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Craig Lee
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think a lot of people chose a S.O. based on face value things. If that's all people care about, then that's what they'll receive. It usually takes a little more maturity to appreciate the little things or place value on them.

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