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40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful This will get buried but mine was hands down when a co-worker/decently close acquaintance told me to my face that maybe if I had prayed harder and put more faith in the lord my son wouldn't have died. B***h had worked with me since before I got pregnant, through the genetic dx while still pregnant, his birth, multiple surgeries etc. and knew damn well what the f**k happened and still had the gall to say that s**t. Mind you this was also like 6 years later and I'd already had two more children, countless hours of therapy, and with one statement she stabbed me in the heart all over.

In a horrid twist of fate - the eldest of her two children was k*lled in a motorcycle accident about 18 months ago. My heart broke for her and I did reach out to offer my condolences, no parent should ever experience that kind of loss.

But I would be a lying hag if I didn't admit that a hateful little voice inside me whispered to my soul 'maybe she shoulda prayed harder'.

LFF9002 , Rodolfo Clix/pexels Report

Final score:

185points

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Rayne OfSalt 2 months ago

I would have slugged her in the face, so the redditor is a better person than me.

114points

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful After discovering a past failed s*****e attempt, my parents said “How could you be so stupid? Do you know how bad that makes us look?” without once questioning how I got to that point. Maybe not the cruelest thing in the thread but it made me realize that my parents cared very little for me.

Edit: Thank you all so much for the kind words. I wanted to reply to everyone individually but I’m finding myself lacking the mental wherewithal right now. This incident was just shy of 10 years ago, and I’m in a much better place now, both literally and figuratively.

Warnackle , Kindel Media/pexels Report

Final score:

170points

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Alexia 2 months ago

OMG. Hope you are better now, OP. This was `not just cruel, it was horrible. I had such attempt myself (at 10 y.o.) but never told my parents. They were the reason I got to that.

56points

littleredhoodlum , Andrea Piacquadio/pexels Report

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful I crashed my motorcycle quite a few years ago now. I was being stupid and didn't have my gear on. So I have some very extensive scars on my arms and legs.

I'm super insecure about them. I've worn long sleeves since they've healed.

Last summer I was feeling good about myself and not caring. So I went to the beach in a bikini. I was sitting there reading a book when a group of girls behind me starts talking about me.

There were several comments about my appearance but the one that really stuck was, "God, she should just k**l herself so we don't have to look at her."

Yeah so much for self confidence that day.

Final score:

146points

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Mike F 2 months ago

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118points

SabrinaSpellman1 , cottonbro studio/pexels Report

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful My biological father came back into my life when I was 14 and had a girlfriend. Everything was great for a year until she made him choose between his new family, and me. I got a text message on Christmas Day saying "Father and daughter relationship not working out, all the best for your future. Please dont call me, it will cause me problems". I was devastated, but my Stepfather has been my REAL dad since I was 3 years old, and he was the best dad in the world - we lost him to Cancer in December. He was the best best man and I miss him very much.

Edit: I woke up this morning to so many lovely and kind comments and DM's about my Stepdad and I'm kind of overwhelmed by your lovely words. Thank you for letting me talk to you all about him, it means alot to be able to share the kind of man he was. I've really been struggling since he passed away, talking about him here has helped. The world was a better place when he was here with us. Thank you all :).

Final score:

141points

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Iampenny 2 months ago

Yeah, being a father has nothing to do with DNA, hugs to all the good Stepdads (and mums) out there

71points

laurieali , cottonbro studio/pexels Report

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful When I was 16 and looking to apply at Boston Pizza which had just opened up in our town, my dad said “don’t you have to be pretty to be a waitress?”

I’ve always been complimented on my looks by others, but dad’s comments have long stayed with me and I never feel pretty enough sadly, regardless of who tells me I am beautiful.

Parents, am I right?

Final score:

134points

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Ilikemybooksshakennotstirred 2 months ago

What an a*****e.

81points

BewilderedBanana 2 months ago (edited)

That's not a parent. That's a third rate sperm donor

13points

Mystery Kitteh 2 months ago

Bastard

11points

Mr Basics 2 months ago

I have a friend whose mother was like that as a child. Also pushed her into championship skating but the mother was so hated by the other parents and judges that the judges were accidentally cruel, never letting the girl win despite being so obviously better. And as a girl, my friend was punished with no dinner for not being stick thin or losing a contest. Way more other c**p happened to her through the years. It took those of us who love her quite some years to finally get her feeling good about herself, being so genuinely beautiful and good of mind.

8points

EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸 2 months ago

It's so strange the things that stay with you. In foster care i remember one foster father saying 'what did that ugly b do now'. In my bad moments i can still hear him.

9points

Kare Deter 2 months ago

I was constantly told I should be grateful I was taken in, after all I was so unlovable even my own mother didn't want me. Sadly, that's not even the worst.

4points

April Hodakowski 2 months ago

I feel this in my soul. My father was looking at pictures of me when I was a teenager. He said to me, "Not beautiful, but pretty." Every girl wants their dad to tell them they're beautiful. On top of that, my step father was an abusive alcoholic. Just to me. Not my half brother and sister who were his biological children. 53 y/o and have almost zero self confidence because of this. Many years of therapy haven't helped me come to terms with it. So, yeah, my life really, really sucks.

7points

April Hodakowski 2 months ago

On top of that, my stepfather now has dementia. Guess who's his guardian and conservator? My half siblings have pushed all the responsibility on to me. When I've asked them for help they've been 'too busy.' My brother has two very good teenage boys. My sister has never married or had children. I have 6 kids, 15 (soon to be 16) grandkids, and one great granddaughter. I often feel like I'm losing my mind. No one in my family appreciates anything I've done or continue to do. My brother told me I 'wasn't allowed' to spend any of dad's money on home improvements because he and his wife will need the money to pay for their boys college. I told him they get really good grades and participate in many extracurricular activities. They should apply for scholarships and get student loans. Just like most people do. Sigh...

7points

G A 2 months ago

Sort of s**t my miserable a**e father would have said. Never heard a positive or caring comment pass his lips about anyone or anything.

6points

Melissa Neubauer 2 months ago

Pls get therapy to erase your jerk father! My daughter has a similar story and is still insecure. Therapy helped a lot but there’s scars. DNA doesn’t make a person worth being in your life!

4points

Id row 2 months ago

My father once told me I should have a sign saying 'wide load' on my butt. I was 17, 5'7" and 115 pounds. Yeah, that stuff stays with you.

2points

Dread Pirate Roberts 2 months ago

What kind of doucherocket says something like that to their daughter?!

1point

Giraffy Window 2 months ago (edited)

Parents. My Grampy basically talked my tiny aunt into an ED when she was a teen. Always commenting on everything she ate, how much, what kind, everything was "going to go to your hips" She's decades since recovered(?)...Do you actually recover from ED's or is it more like "remission"? Didn't know any of this till after Grampy passed. I loved that man dearly and still do. Can't help it.

1point

SuperChicken 2 months ago

Wow. What a douche-canoe.

1point

Donna Drizin 2 months ago

I wish parents would realize how those remarks stay with us for the rest of our lives.

1point

Sue 2 months ago

Did he like to put you down often? I doubt it had to do with your looks. I'm sure he's no prize.

1point

Dangernoodle. 2 months ago

D******d

0points

John Jameson 2 months ago

"I always thought you had to have a heart to be a dad."

0points

Kinak 2 months ago

hopefully he was joking badly

0points

KillerKiwi 2 months ago

A******s, am I right?

0points

Just-4-2day 2 months ago

My dad had an amazing array of inventive insults. I have been told 1) That if he took my brain and shoved it up a gnat's butt, it would look like a bb in a box car. 🔥 2) When handing out brains, I thought they said trains and said "give me a toy one". 🔥3) When handing out brains, I was first in line.... then made to hold the door. 🔥 4) That I was very "pretty". Pretty ugly, Pretty likely to stay that way for a Pretty long time. 😥

0points

Maartje 2 months ago

You are beautiful. You are all beautiful. I bet you that if I were to meet you I can see something about you that entrances me .

0points

Mark Kelly 2 months ago

What the hell?

0points

notlikeyou1971 2 months ago

Out of AH come nothing but c**p. Remember that.

0points

Doodles1983 2 months ago

Mum: "You're getting a bit fat, Gem." The woman died 11 years ago and I still refuse to have a set of human scales in the house. The first and last time I recall my dad saying, "I love you." to me. About 2 weeks after she died.

0points

Doodles1983 2 months ago

I.e. Yes. Parents, right!?

0points

Ąåřţđęşịɠŋȿ 2 months ago

why would you say something like that to ANYONE, much less your own daughter??!!

0points

Joshua David 2 months ago

I've known hilarious dads who would 💯 absolutely say it their kids simply as a ruse but doesn't sound like he was kidding.

0points

Wolf princess quinn 2 months ago

He's toxic Cut him loose. My dad, we'll both of my parents were that. I'm 5'6: and got so thin I ended up in hospital. I'll never be thin enough in my head for that b***h and she died! Sorry. Not sorry

0points

George D 2 months ago

I can't imagine saying that to my daughter. The worst part of that is she now realizes this is how he thought of her this whole time. He's a lowlife.

0points

Mirolfur Grafarson 2 months ago

Could be simple dad joke, in my opinion

0points

Bernd Kittler 2 months ago

To my mind, that was never meant to be a "dad joke". It's "simply" cruel to tell this to 16 year old.

0points

Jonathan 2 months ago

The guy is total shite!

0points

JenniB 2 months ago

During university I put on a bit of weight (the good old frosh 15 stayed with me for a few years. I was up for a great job after Uni with a potato chip company, someone close to me asked if I was going to be the product tester...

0points

clairebear 2 months ago

Dad banter that landed wrong.

0points

Jessica Gilbert 2 months ago

My dad said something similar to me. I was in Mexico and a street vendor was saying I was so beautiful that I should be a movie star. My dad said audibly to my brothers “she’s pretty but she’s not that pretty.” It happened almost 20 years ago but I still remember it very well.

0points

LaserBrain 2 months ago

I used to tell my girlfriend that I thought she was beautiful. To me, she was, I really felt that way, because I loved her. Maybe by objective standards she wasn't. She would get angry when I told her, accused me of lying. Go figure.

0points

KimB 2 months ago

Sometimes it's not even a parent but even a grandparent or aunt/uncle you're close to. Family is supposed to support you no matter what. When you don't have that it causes problems especially when you're in your impressionable years.

0points

Moosy Girl 2 months ago

Haha yeah, my mom always made comments like that (still does), and when I turned into a horribly insecure teen/young adult she was all surprised pikachu face.

0points

KatSaidWhat 2 months ago

That's a sperm donor. who you actually got your looks from - remind him, see if he still thinks the same.

0points

earthling_probably , RDNE Stock project /pexels Report

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful My mom said that her life would have been better if I never existed.

Final score:

112points

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Mike F 2 months ago

I couldn't imagine the heartbreak.

42points

Pickles9878 , RDNE Stock project/pexels Report

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful Me: Korean American, US army veteran

You are stealing jobs from hard working white people, you should be ashamed of yourself.

Final score:

111points

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Hannah Taylor 2 months ago

Whaaaaaaaaaat?

56points

SandoMann , cottonbro studio/pexels Report

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful Ex-wife once told me that she wished my mom had died of the breast cancer that she beat when I was in 2nd grade. Shes been in remission for 20+ years now and has always been a sweet, thoughtful and smart lady. I had to leave the house to calm down - and luckily i left the relationship eventually.

Final score:

108points

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Mike F 2 months ago

That'll do it. What a jerk.

41points

2ndbreakfastfan , Wolrider YURTSEVEN/pexels Report

#10

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful There were years I worked multiple jobs to help support us while my ex was working on her doctorate. Once she had herself a tenure track university position, she let me know I wasn’t “educated enough to be married to a professor” like herself. I have my bachelor's degree. Well, I found myself sleeping on the sofa for about a week, while looking for an apartment so I could move out. During that time, every morning as she’d greet me with the phrase “Why haven’t you k*lled yourself yet?” I'm so lucky I'm out of that marriage.

Final score:

104points

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Susie Elle 2 months ago

Wow, what the actual ...?

83points

#11

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful In middle school a girl found out I had a crush on her and decided that best way to go about dealing with that was telling everyone at lunch how ugly she thought I was because I had acne at the time. Which really sucked. Because I was already *super* self conscious about it and kind of just a shy person in general.

Was made even worse because it was a small private school. So everyone knew everyone's business and there was no getting away from it. I stopped eating lunch in the lunchroom for all of that year. It sucked and the whole thing honestly made me feel like s**t for years.

As we got older and were in high school, I think she tried to get back on my good side. But she never actually apologized and honestly, that ship had already sailed for me. Too little and *way* too late.

On the last day of senior year I let all the air out of three of her tires.

Slowjams , Pavel Danilyuk/pexels Report

Final score:

101points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

You don't need to forgive that girl. Just keep on going about your life and leave her behind.

36points

#12

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful The worst was probably in fifth grade, just after my dad died. The whole school knew, and everyone was being really nice to me except one girl. I believe the exact quote was “go suck your dads d**k. Oh wait you can’t, he’s dead”.

It didn’t even hurt my feelings, more of just bewildered me like who says something like that?

anon , Liza Summer/pexels Report

Final score:

93points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

Who says something like that? A damaged person. A person who was treated badly in life and hurt over and over. But she made the decision to take that out on others instead of turning that internal pain into external kindness.

71points

#13

I was 13 when my mother called me a monster, a failure as a son, and herself a failure as a mother. What did I do that was so wrong?

Told the priest I believed that gay people deserve equal rights. That was in 2007.

anon Report

Final score:

91points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

Gay guy here. I couldn't think of anything more inspiring than what you said to the priest.

70points

So-many-books , Karolina Kaboompics/pexels Report

#14

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful “All girls take it too far with guys sometimes.” -my mom after finding out I was r**ed.

Edit. My mom and I years later talked it out and she apologized. We’re good now. But that comment will always be with me and I still have a hard time not blaming myself for what happened.

Final score:

85points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

Really? REALLY?? How could anyone think that, let alone say it...

62points

Kamilny , cottonbro studio/pexels Report

#15

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful Asked a girl out and just got "ew" as a response. So that was cool. A no would've been fine.

Final score:

84points

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Sue Denham 2 months ago

Lucky escape for you, I think.

56points

#16

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful This happened to every "unattractive" girl i went to school with. Im long out of school and stuff like that. But anyways.

It was a thing in my school where guys would go up to an "unattractive" girl in a group, infront of everyone, and ask them on a date. Just when the girl would start to believe it was real and give a response, the guys would all start laughing and the one who asked would tell her it was just a joke and that "no one would ever wanna go out with something like you". And yes. They would say something. Not someone... It hurts yeah. But its not the worst, just something i thought people should hear i guess.

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Final score:

81points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

Hey, it's alright, whether or not it's "the worst", it's still hurtful and your feelings are valid. I hope they get what's coming to them.

33points

#17

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful Don't call me mom in public, call me by first name.

anon , Kamaji Ogino/pexels Report

Final score:

78points

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Sue Denham 2 months ago

WhenI was seven my mother told me I was too old to call her "Mummy" anymore so I asked if I should call her "Mum". She said that was too common and never came up with an alternative so I never had a name to call her by after that.

43points

Thatisjake , Andrea Piacquadio/pexels Report

#18

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful I was in a car accident, no harm to me at all.
Told the story to a couple people.
One Litterly said, and I quote “I wish you would have died in the accident”.

Final score:

75points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

F*****g hell, this thread is making me so angry. I don't know how much more I can take. I'm sorry to everyone here, you all deserve so much better.

79points

#19

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful When I was a kid, my best friend was always kind of mean or standoffish with me at school but we hung out a lot just the two of us. At some point I confronted him and said "you keep doing this, are you embarrassed to be my friend?" and he just said " Yes. ".

Stalkachu , Mikhail Nilov/pexels Report

Final score:

74points

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Sue Denham 2 months ago

He wasn't your friend. I hope you found some better people to be with after that.

42points

#20

When I was 12 my family and I went to a farmer's market. This couple was handing out samples and the husband said
"Let the boys try some."

I said "I'm a girl."

The wife then yelled at me saying "Well grow some f*****g tits, then you'll look like a girl!!!!!"

Ouch.

cocoabean30 Report

Final score:

69points

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Susie Elle 2 months ago

You were freakin' 12 years old.

65points

galwaygirl_aus , cottonbro studio/pexels Report

#21

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful Was approached by a modelling agency once in a shopping centre with my best friends. I was very shocked as I'm quite self conscious at 5ft 11" and very curvy, so it was extremely flattering. Didn't have enough confidence to do anything about it so just left it as a nice memory. My best friend was bragging on my behalf to a group of kids in school the next week and one girl just looked me up and down and said "Oh I didn't know the menswear department of 'Middle aged clothes shop' were looking for models?'... I was 15f and it k*lled my confidence for years...

Final score:

68points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

A true best friend should stand up for you, shouldn't they?

32points

#22

My mom told me she was worried I would abuse her and my dad when they got old because I was abusive as a teenager. I agonized over that for a couple years before I finally convinced my parents to go to a therapy sessions with me, where I found out the teenage "abuse" she was referring to was, according to her, me pushing past her roughly once as a teenager and getting too many parking tickets.

I lived to please my parents for most of life, so hearing her accuse me of abuse when I'd sacrificed my own integrity for a long time to make them happy...that really hurt me.

hopelesslonging Report

Final score:

67points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

Oh, honey. I'm so sorry. I was always labelled 'manipulative' for standing up for myself, so I know how it feels.

51points

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#23

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful Nothing. When my best friend of 20+ years ghosted me, that was the cruelest thing.

MelissaMiranti , cottonbro studio/pexels Report

Final score:

60points

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Mystery Kitteh 2 months ago

Yeah Debbie

16points

#24

You’re a mistake and an embarrassment. You are a disgrace to this family. -My older brother in a restaurant with my parents watching. They said nothing to this but when I tried to tell him to just shut up I got yelled at. Yeah not only do I make better grades than him I also don’t ever get in trouble anywhere except for at home unlike him who is the exact opposite.

Sissonater Report

Final score:

60points

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Anna Ekberg 2 months ago

I really despise parents that have favorites and show it, the whole "golden child" concept should just die out.

45points

#25

"You've always had some excuse for why you did poorly in school" - my dear old mother

I'm 21 years old & only now getting diagnosed with ADHD because she never believed me. Thanks mom, almost getting kicked out of university was really great.

QueenCostco Report

Final score:

57points

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Michael Largey 2 months ago

Wonder what her excuse was for doing poorly as a parent.

27points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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#26

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful My mother told me once that no one nice or decent would ever want me/be able to love me. Crazy how much stuff like this sticks on your relationships

Edit: you guys are amazing people to be willing to share your stories--I'm so sorry all of you have had to experience this nastiness. I hope you're all currently doing well and I appreciate all of you <3.

partisanmilkhotelx , Karolina Kaboompics/pexels Report

Final score:

56points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

Even after all I've been through, it still seriously blows my mind that a parent could say/do things like that.

28points

#27

Me severely depressed

My boss: “Happiness is a choice.”.

drjackboone Report

Final score:

55points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

Your boss belongs in the video game We Happy Few

25points

#28

"It's a good thing you can't have kids, you would make a terrible mother."

Also:

"You won't be a real woman until you have children.".

SalemScout Report

Final score:

53points

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Ash 2 months ago

This is heartless and cruel to say:(( it's horrible how seemingly grown up people refuse to take any responsibility for their words and allow themselves to bombard other people in worst ways because of their own insecurities. I had been told "Maybe you should give birth to a child and probably THAT would teach you to be capable of loving anybody" .

14points

#29

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful "Even Legos go deeper than your d**k".

Robin_7883 , Alex Green/pexels Report

Final score:

51points

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Sue Denham 2 months ago

Well, I have to wonder how you'd know that.

75points

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#30

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful This wasn't really said to me, but it was said to my mom about me. I had admitted to my grandma that there was a girl that we both knew that I had a crush on (I'm a girl). I said it quick so I didn't think she'd catch it. But she did. A while later, she looked my mom dead in the eye and said something like, "It's such a shame. Your daughter WAS so pretty. Such a WASTE." So I'm a shame AND a waste... And if you think she ended there oh hoho!!! You're wrong!!! She later called my sister EXTREMELY FAT in front of me (I went up against her for that one). And right after we shunned her from our family, I found out there was a chance that she was "watching" my big bro because he, "Reminds her of her dead husband." She did way WAY worse than that to my mom. Even calling my mom a parasite in the middle of a restaurant. I'm glad she left. We almost got kicked out of our home because of her f*cked up lies.

RoseQuartz100501 , cottonbro studio/pexels Report

Final score:

51points

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Hannah Taylor 2 months ago

She deserved to be dumped in the worst nursing home on the planet.

23points

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#31

Telling doctor "I have a new pain-"
Interrupts me right there with "It doesn't matter"

Being told you don't matter is cruel!

sparks4242 Report

Final score:

49points

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Mystery Kitteh 2 months ago

Yeah, I've been dealing with this the last 5 years. I'm afraid to actually talk to a doctor anymore

26points

#32

"Your freckles look like you stood behind a screen door and had s**t flung on you." This was a neighbor who was looking to hook up. It never happened and I quit talking to him.

sukiintheshower Report

Final score:

49points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

I wish I had freckles, they're so awesome

39points

#33

My brother told me he wished I was stillbirth instead of his twin and that nobody in our family wants me

anon Report

Final score:

46points

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Anna Ekberg 2 months ago

So he's the evil twin then? What a vicious and evil thing to say.

43points

lonewolf210 , Mikhail Nilov/pexels Report

#34

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful Had a huge crush on a friend in high school and asked her to a dance, she said no which was fine. Nothing was weird.

Then about a week later she started telling me how upset she was that no one had asked her to the dance and when I brought up I had her response was:

You don't count

Apparently she thought I had just asked her to be nice or something. When I told her that wasn't the case she still said no but apologized for saying it. Still really hurt though.

Final score:

45points

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Doctor Strange 2 months ago

Been there too. Just a few weeks ago, had a girl complaining about how she was never anyone's first choice and couldn't find anyone. I didn't say anything, but I wanted to go "I asked you out. You shot me down because I wasn't good enough."

12points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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#35

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful “Your friend deserved to get stabbed.” (Friend got a knife pulled on him in a fight at a party, stabbed him 7 times, critically wounded him and partially paralyzed him for life).

akaponokh , Engin Akyurt /pexels Report

Final score:

43points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

Whoever said that should experience it for themselves, it might change their mind.

28points

#36

"I'm so disappointed in you. It's like I don't even know you anymore."

-my mom, after she discovered I had online friends... who I had known for 4 years. God forbid I take a road trip to see them, I guess...

_Fengo Report

Final score:

43points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

What the f**k kinda reaction is that??

21points

#37

"No one will love you like I love you, because you're uninteresting, boring, & annoying."

Getting past it a day at a time, but I do occasionally find myself apologizing my husband for being "boring/annoying.".

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43points

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Mystery Kitteh 2 months ago

She is still with him? Run girl, run

33points

#38

40 Times People Forgot To Keep Their Mouth Shut And Said Something Utterly Awful "You're awkward" - coworker to me in my nervous first few weeks at a new job.

It was small but confirmed my fears that I might not fit in, the anxiety to follow was crushing.

Ended up making plenty of friends at my new job, he isn't one of them.

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Final score:

40points

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Alexandra 2 months ago

There you have it in a nutshell. There was nothing 'wrong' with OP: he just was in the wrong place with the wrong people. If you don't fit in or feel you don't fit in, that doesn't mean you're not able to fit in anywhere else: it just means that this environment does not suit you. Go and find the place that's right for you. If you have a toxic family, find another family: they dont' have to be blood-related. If you have a toxic spouse who makes you feel small all the time? With the right partner you have a chance to bloom. People are like plants: they will flower given the right conditions.

22points

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#39

Bully ones said to me "im glad your grandpa died of cancer"

to this day i still regret not punching him to the floor for saying that.

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39points

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Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

That's the thing with anger, right? It begs to stick around.

14points

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#40

My mom told me once after a teenage fit I had: "go live under a bridge, we'll see how long you last". That stuck with me even through adulthood. Sometimes mothers just know what to say to totally destroy you and make you and the same time. Love ya mom!

Final score:

36points

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Jas Warner 2 months ago

I'm tired of the "terrible 2" and the "teenage stage". Like please quit blaming your age for things. I work in childcare. Alot of wonderful 2 year olds. When I work at a cps school some teens were very respectful and joked around with me. Mom was definitely sick of the bratty stuff she had to endure.

15points

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Alexandra 2 months ago

When I read posts like this I am left feeling mankind should just declare bankruptcy. I just can't wrap my head around how people can be so malevolent, stupid, ignorant, selfish, malicious and without any idea what their words do to other people, the havoc they create by their mindless garbage.

17points

Sky Render 2 months ago (edited)

We are gifted with the advantage of amazing complex brains capable of such fantastic feats of reasoning and logic, and cursed with mouths that utter complete garbage on a whim without consulting with those amazing brains of ours first. We also lack basic protocols for those brains to prevent them from becoming loaded up with delusions in place of actual knowledge.

3points

Moosy Girl 2 months ago

How about some kittens and puppies, BP? I think we could all use them after this. :p

14points

Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

"If you were a better son, your father would be alive right now" That one hurt.

11points

MaryHadaLittleLamb 2 months ago

Jesus Christ. That's messed up.

6points

Tobias Reaper 2 months ago (edited)

i was going through a really bad period of depression feeling like i didn't matter feeling lonely and was told by someone who i had known for nearly 20 years and was supposed to be my best friend if you dont cheer up we (meaning our friend group) are not going to want to talk to you anymore. They moved away a few years ago and i cut off contact and havent spoken to they in like 8 years i am better for it have an amazing bestie who always supports me.

7points

Horosho Bodka 2 months ago

I was about 4 the first time my father told me it was my fault we were so poor. "If you'd never been born, my life would be great right now. All this is your fault." That took decades of therapy to get mostly over...

6points

Admiralu 2 months ago

I hope you are doing better. Please do tell him that if he had used a rubber it wouldn't have been an issue. Just so he can have some payback.

1point

René Sauer 2 months ago

Is something wrong me? For pretty much all of them my first thought was to bury my fist in their mouth...

5points

Tamra 2 months ago

Nope, nothing wrong with you. I felt the same.

1point

The cats’ slave 2 months ago

Oh I have several from my darling mother. Throughout my childhood she would regularly tell me in great detail what my abusive father did to her, then tell me that I was just like him. As a child she said “you do know that you were a mistake don’t you?” As an adult after my PhD graduation, when asked by others how it had gone, replied “I’ve never been so embarrassed in my life”. Never knew that any of this wasn’t normal until I started therapy.

4points

Giraffy Window 2 months ago (edited)

My mum directing my attention to young guys in public when I was a teen, and gleefully teasing me that they'd looked at me. Everywhere we went. I was raised churchy and was DEEPLY confused about what modesty actually meant. I thought we weren't supposed to look like anyone men would want to look at ("don't be a stumbling block") so I couldn't fathom why mum would act so pleased/proud for me about it? I already wasn't allowed to hang out alone with my guy friends because I could "cause them an erection" or we might do thesex. This only served to alienate me from making close healthy friendships, because I was too scared to give the wrong impression to potential friends.

3points

Anička 2 months ago

I can definitely empathize! Getting over the 'i am sinful just for existing, much less feeling normal human things,' is really hard.

1point

Arlene Harris 2 months ago

yeah I should have read this one before I read the inspiring therapist one, not the other way around :-(

3points

Salty_Sasquatch 2 months ago

The old saying 'sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me' is absolutely WRONG. It should be 'sticks and stones will break my bones but words will ALWAYS hurt me'.

3points

Enlee Jones 2 months ago

In 5th grade I was standing up in front of the class and the teacher called on a boy to stand up with me. This boy (let's call him Cedric because that was his name) always had it out for me and I have no idea why since I was the quiet kid and kept to myself. Anyway, Cedric made a big show of sighing loudly and then shouting "I don't want to stand next to the dog!" loud enough to be heard in the next school district. F#ck you, Cedric. I hope you have a daughter who is just like me.

3points

Ansgar 2 months ago (edited)

"You're a lazy b****h!" - I was 16, my mother had recently died, there was nobody to help with the grieving process. Nobody knew I was sliding into a depression, all I could manage was to go to school every day, after that my energy would be drained. Thanks for the comment, dad. That really made me feel better. /s

3points

Iampenny 2 months ago

It's shocking to see so much hate some parents have towards their children. I mean, it's all shocking, but especially from your own parents/family.

3points

Captive 2 months ago

When I was 18 I had a scooter accident and hurt my foot, called my father to take me to clinic. Bad idea. The entire way he scolded me furiously how stupid I am to have an accident and that Noone would marry me anymore. Wth? This and other toxic traits and voila, I'm married and far away from him

3points

Ash 2 months ago

"No wonder you don't have friends. I'm surprised people talk to you AT ALL".

3points

Stephanie Did It 2 months ago

My grandmother to me, age four, and my brother, age six: "You only live here because no one else wanted you."

3points

Steve Kenney 2 months ago

I'm kind of glad to read that my mom was not the only parent who was emotionally abusive to their kids. I suspect a lot of parents were forced into marrying and having kids by society and regretted then took it out on their kids. Don't get married or have kids if you don't want to, it's OK to not do it.

2points

Makenzie McNeal 2 months ago

I have a few experiences, I was told I was the reason my parents relationship was failing, that I made my mom want to k*ll herself, and that I was just like my bio-dad. I've been name called by them with not so nice words. And so many more things.

2points

️ ️~ lefty libra️ ~ 2 months ago

"i guess you werent as smart as i thought you were." -someone that id been through so much with, as i explained to her how i couldnt adjust to the people at my school, how much i hated them. ive know her for 5 years now, cut contact in october. i could never hate her, but i cant love her as much anymore. she was like a mother to me. it shattered my heart to hear that, but at the same time it felt nice to move on. i miss her everyday.

2points

Adrian River 2 months ago (edited)

Worst thing that happened to me was when my mom told me she lost a son when i joined the Marines. I was out of touch with her for years and even then, her sister had to get on her case to make her attitude change, that only got me tolerated. Now she is in advanced care and my brother does not understand why I look at my own shedule before galloping off to visit her every day.

2points

J. Guigon 2 months ago

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Nerd Groupie 2 months ago

Unfortunately I have a very good memory. It sucks because of things like this. Alcoholic mean grandpa when I brought him a beer he asked for: "Maybe you're not such a little b*tch, huh?" Emotionally/psychologically abusive boyfriend when asked what physical characteristic he'd change about me: "Big a$$." I'd battled my weight my entire life and basically hadn't eaten for two years at this point. Frenemy from junior high when we were adults "Remember when we called you Peachfuzz because of your hairy face?" They never called me that to my face, I didn't know until that point. A coworker gave me some business casual clothes and I wore one of the shirts to work. She goes "Can you believe I was ever that big?!" (The shirt wasn't exactly billowy on me)

1point

Minh Chau Do 2 months ago

My mom said, "I should probably send you to the streets for a night, naked" once, and another time, said "You're a failure. All that money I spent on you, and yet you give me nothing! You only drain my energy and make me tired! I wish you were never born." after I got a C+ on my test. That was when I was like 10 or 11. Still hurts a bit.

1point

randomhungryhamsterperson 2 months ago

my mum once called me ugly cow for not wanting to put my hamster in my ball once

1point

ElfVibratorGlitter 2 months ago

Not sure what I was expecting. :( Sticks and stones may break my body, But words can tear me apart.

1point

Yettichild 2 months ago

My mother told me that her husband would always come before her children. She was on her 3rd marriage and I was 14 or 15 years old. Now she wonders why I don't talk to her.

1point

NoName 2 months ago

I don't know... maybe it's because I grew up in a family of loud Italians that didn't take s**t from anyone. But, perhaps a pop in the mouth would make people think twice before shooting it off again. Act like a belligerent a*****e, get treated like one. Folks get WAY too comfy voicing their s**t opinions like it's the Gospel. Be humane or get humbled. Ugh, disgusting people really ruin it for the rest of society.

0points

Dreaming Spirit 2 months ago

I have one that's not awful, more like awkward, but at the time I was utterly mortified. I always looked older that I was, maybe it was my glasses, or maybe the old lady haircuts my mom gave me. When I was 11 or 12, I went to a shop with my grandma to get some new underwear. The shop assistant took a glance at me and selected a transparent lacy set with a thong saying it would be perfect for a date. I was so embarrassed I remember it almost 30 years later :D

0points

Amy Manzanares 2 months ago

My mother has gaslighted me, made me the villain of her story, withheld love from me, played on my fears and spent my entire life trying to make me like her and my sisters. I'm adopted, they aren't. I've spent my life (54 years) trying to figure out who I am and how I can please my mother. I have several mental health diagnoses and have had a very difficult and traumatic life compared to my middle upper class sisters. I was visiting for Thanksgiving as I live in a different state from my entire family. My last night there my mother and I got into a fight. I tried to diffuse it She tried taunting me into participating. I finally asked what she wants from me. "I want you to be a normal person!" Nope. I finally saw the toxicity! No contact for you!

0points

Yu Pan 2 months ago

When I was 20, my dad said to me, "we had thought you won't live past 16". Not sure why he (or anyone) would think that; I was a healthy child, didn't have any complications when my mom had me, and aside from the usual colds and flu, I have no serious illness. Till this day, I still can't figure it out why he said that.

0points

Isabella 2 months ago (edited)

When I was a teenager, I had a crush on one of my brother's friend. My dear brother told.me that how can I imagine that his friend will ever look at me, because "you never looked at yourself in a mirror"? This hurt me really bad and it has ruined my confidence and selfesteem for years, although I had no reason for it, on the contrary.

0points

Douglas Tucker 2 months ago

It is easy to say this and it took me some time to get it but never take ownership of any of the mean things directed at you. Move on or move away with the simply thought, "Is that really the best they could try to hit me with?"

0points

Doctor Strange 2 months ago

In high school, it was report card day. I had all A's or B's, but I had 3 C's. My father's response? His exact words: "Get out of my sight. I can't even look at you. You make me sick." And then he wonders why I never believe him when he says he's proud of me.

0points

Allen Packard 2 months ago

First off, I'm a Christian for context. Lost my triplet sons after my ex wife decided bed rest meant going to walk around a flea market for 6 hours. Then she decided then was great time to help her friend move. (I was at work, her mother was supposed to be helping her). The boys came later that evening and died at 23 weeks. My ex's aunt told me at the funeral "that's what you get for not following God's plan".

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Alexandra 2 months ago

17points

Sky Render 2 months ago (edited)

3points

Moosy Girl 2 months ago

How about some kittens and puppies, BP? I think we could all use them after this. :p

14points

Ranger Kanootsen 2 months ago

"If you were a better son, your father would be alive right now" That one hurt.

11points

MaryHadaLittleLamb 2 months ago

Jesus Christ. That's messed up.

6points

Tobias Reaper 2 months ago (edited)

7points

Horosho Bodka 2 months ago

6points

Admiralu 2 months ago

I hope you are doing better. Please do tell him that if he had used a rubber it wouldn't have been an issue. Just so he can have some payback.

1point

René Sauer 2 months ago

Is something wrong me? For pretty much all of them my first thought was to bury my fist in their mouth...

5points

Tamra 2 months ago

Nope, nothing wrong with you. I felt the same.

1point

The cats’ slave 2 months ago

4points

Giraffy Window 2 months ago (edited)

3points

Anička 2 months ago

I can definitely empathize! Getting over the 'i am sinful just for existing, much less feeling normal human things,' is really hard.

1point