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Nice guys: you know them, you hate them, but you can't get enough of them. There's something addicting about watching these unlikeable fellas in the wild. Maybe it's just our curiosity wondering if they will hit a new low?
Anyway, the best place to observe these specimens is the appropriately titled subreddit r/NiceGuys. We already released a post on this online community, but it keeps growing and featuring more interactions with them, so we have to keep up and make an update!
By the way, for those of you who don't know what I'm talking about, a "nice guy" is a term used around the internet to describe a man who believes he's entitled to a woman just because he's treating her in a nice way. Continue scrolling and, believe me, you'll get it in no time.
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#1
Not Really A Nice Guy But Things Nice Guys Do/Expect
For our earlier piece on a particularly obnoxious nice guy, counsellor & psychotherapist Tati Silva agreed to share her thoughts on the archetype.
“[I think it's] a man that is physically less attractive [and] tends to compensate by being nice to be able to connect to people," Silva told Bored Panda. "They will overcompensate with over-the-top behaviors. The ‘nice guy’ will use all the tools to charm the person they are interested in. However, if it is not replicated, the ‘nice guy’s’ true colors come to light.”
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#2
I Thought Of Making This After A Particularly Nice Weekend
#3
And He Wonders Why He’s Still Single
Silva also agrees with Dr. Glover in that a ‘nice guy’ has a sinister side.
"In the mind of the ‘nice guy’, the person he is pursuing should repay his action by becoming his girlfriend or boyfriend, for him that is how these things work. The ‘nice guy’ will lash out if he does not get what he wants, which might be indirectly influenced by misogynistic entitlement complexes.”
#5
A Nice Guy From Mccall's Magazine, 1953
#6
"Nice" Guys Apparently Target Minors
#7
Chivalry Is Alive And Well
Silva said that misogyny occurs unconsciously, connecting with hatred that forms early in life, often as a result of a trauma involving a female figure they trusted. Of course, there are exceptions. “This doesn’t apply to everyone, there are genuinely nice guys and girls out there that will be okay to be put in a friend-zone, respecting your opinion. They won’t expect anything back.”
#8
The Entitlement To Touch Women
Lydia Dean-Melchior 3 years ago
What is gentlemanly about a man who doesn't get the hint that this particular woman doesn't want her hair tucked behind her ear? And, that he continues to reach up to tuck her hair behind her ear, when she clearly doesn't like it, is kinda creepy.
#9
Just...wow
Lydia Dean-Melchior 3 years ago
"Who had enough of entitled women". So,... he started murdering them! Wow!! WTF?!?
#10
Can't Even Escape Them On Meme Pages
Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger 3 years ago
Yeah, hint: If you are nice, funny, smart, good-looking, etc., people will notice on their own! IF you have to tell them you are something special, you most likely are just deluded with a touch of narcissism and douche 😜
But ‘nice guys’ place themselves as the victim to get what they want — they are nice, so they deserve a chance. At least in their mind. “They evoke notions of fairness when they complain about not receiving the attention they seek.”
“For all the masked ‘nice guys’ out there, it is ok to be vulnerable, be yourself with the person that you would like to date, it might take you a few steps further in your relationship instead of a complete shutdown,” Silva added. “People have the right to say no and owe nothing in return. True kindness is given without expecting nothing in return.”
#11
Street Art
#12
Yes, Because Paying For Someone’s Food On A Date Means That You’re Entitled To Get Some
Lauren Caswell 3 years ago
If you want to spend money for a guarantee of sex: hire a prostitute. That is literally their job. Dating isn't discount prostitutes. Men or women.
#13
I'm Sure She Would Love This Guy Turning Up At Her Door
#14
A Friend Of Mine Decided She Wasn't Interested In This Guy. I Wonder Why?
#15
Never Leave The House, Be Social Or Enjoy Your Life Because If You Do, No Good Man/Nice Guy Will Ever Want You...
#16
Shoot Your Shot I Guess /Sarcasm
#17
Nice Guy Wants To Convert To Islam So That He Gets His Complimentary Wife...
#18
That’s Not The Point Of The Post Though? She Wants To Be Friends With People Who Don’t See Her As A Sex Toy, Not Date Them
#19
After A Nice Guy Found Out My Cousin Was A Sexual Assualt Survivor, He Tried To Get Her Number From Me So He Can Provide "Helpful Advice"
Alex the Country Dog 3 years ago
That was violating just to read. Disgusting. That person needs reported on a predator watchlist. Seriously.
#20
This Was Just Right There, And I Instantly Though Of This Sub
Hotdogking 3 years ago
I was just thinking “this guy seems genuinely nice” and then this time traveler shows up
#21
Today I Was Reminded Why I Don’t Post Photos Of Myself On Social Media
#22
Man Annoyed His Female Friend Won’t Sleep With Him
Lydia Dean-Melchior 3 years ago
Should have ended with..." someone who appreciates you in a sexual way." I mean just because his lady friend doesn't want to have a sexual relationship with him does not mean she doesn't appreciate him, or their friendship.
#23
The Cringe Is Real
#24
Found On Facebook
Andy Acceber 3 years ago
Imagine being this awful with other humans. Does he also lash out at men who don't want to befriend him?
#25
This Guy Always Tried Pushing The Convo To Sexual Places, And I've Repeatedly Shut Him Down. This Was The Last Straw
#26
Is It Really That Easy To Summon Them From Their Caves?
#27
It’s Women’s Fault They Get D*ck Pics
#28
I Blocked Him But He Keeps Calling Me From Restricted Numbers...
#29
He Stopped Responding
#30
Saw This Post By The Hard Times And Immediately Thought Of This Sub
#31
A Nice Guy Who Is Also A Sex Offender... She Dodged A Bullet
#32
Came Across A Nice Guy Who Wants To Know Why He's Being Turned Down
#33
20 Year Old ‘Rich’ Nice Guy, Hitting On My 16 Year Old Niece
Andy Acceber 3 years ago
If anyone says "I'm a really nice guy," run. Truly nice people don't need to say they're nice. It's a definite red flag.
#34
Thank God I Was Only 13 At The Time And Not A 30 Year Old Lurker
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Autumn 3 years ago
Just wanna say that people know when you're only being nice in the hopes of a sexual favour. The creepiness is pretty much evident from the get go. It's like a 6th sense that women/people develop to keep safe from potential weirdos.
Vicky Z 3 years ago
Exactly! And that's the answer to everyone that says: oh i can't flirt anymore because women think I'm a creep!
Load More Replies... Vicky Z 3 years ago
What breaks my heart is that we haven't learnt to answer back properly! And by properly i mean to be really rude and tell those guys to f**k off!! We learn from a young age to be polite and kind and say thanks but no and this runs so deep in our system that we keep doing it even when they humiliate and insult us!!! If there are no safety reasons i would say we should be more aggressive not because we need to be like them to get the message but because enough is enough!
Becky Samuel 3 years ago
Unfortunately there are *always* safety reasons. A man who grew up close to where I lived just killed his girlfriend, her two children, and a little girl on a sleepover.
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Oskar vanZandt 3 years ago (edited)
These kinds of posts concern me... it really is disturbing that there are so many men/boys out there with a skewed sense of entitlement in regards to women. I take women to dinner(and they sometimes take me) and spend time with them because I like them and enjoy their company...
Stella 3 years ago
That sense of entitlement also always reminds me that these kinds of men are not just an awkward nuisance, but seriously scary. Almost all of them sound like they're on the verge of raping or attacking a woman. Maybe it's sexist, but it's something I keep in the back of my mind any time I'm semi-alone with a man/men.
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Autumn 3 years ago
Just wanna say that people know when you're only being nice in the hopes of a sexual favour. The creepiness is pretty much evident from the get go. It's like a 6th sense that women/people develop to keep safe from potential weirdos.
Vicky Z 3 years ago
Exactly! And that's the answer to everyone that says: oh i can't flirt anymore because women think I'm a creep!
Load More Replies... Vicky Z 3 years ago
What breaks my heart is that we haven't learnt to answer back properly! And by properly i mean to be really rude and tell those guys to f**k off!! We learn from a young age to be polite and kind and say thanks but no and this runs so deep in our system that we keep doing it even when they humiliate and insult us!!! If there are no safety reasons i would say we should be more aggressive not because we need to be like them to get the message but because enough is enough!
Becky Samuel 3 years ago
Unfortunately there are *always* safety reasons. A man who grew up close to where I lived just killed his girlfriend, her two children, and a little girl on a sleepover.
Load More Replies... Oskar vanZandt 3 years ago (edited)
These kinds of posts concern me... it really is disturbing that there are so many men/boys out there with a skewed sense of entitlement in regards to women. I take women to dinner(and they sometimes take me) and spend time with them because I like them and enjoy their company...
Stella 3 years ago
That sense of entitlement also always reminds me that these kinds of men are not just an awkward nuisance, but seriously scary. Almost all of them sound like they're on the verge of raping or attacking a woman. Maybe it's sexist, but it's something I keep in the back of my mind any time I'm semi-alone with a man/men.
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