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27 People Share The Most Disturbing Anonymous Notes That Someone Left For Them
InterviewSimilar to stumbling upon a mystery like in a Nancy Drew book, finding frightening anonymous letters is downright unsettling. The startling revelation that someone has been watching you can send shivers down your spine, whether it's in the form of a note left in your locker, tucked into your shopping cart, or hidden under your door. The absence of information about the sender might be frustrating, leaving you wondering who they are and what they want from you. It's similar to attempting to put together a puzzle without all the components.
The article also includes an exclusive interview with a clinical and forensic psychologist Elizabeth Rapti, so make sure to keep on reading.
That said, we've put together a list of eerie messages that people have received and subsequently shared online.
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Creepy Note Left By Burglar
A Stalker's Note Left On A Hiking Trail
I Will Just Keep Walking Then
Bored Panda had the opportunity to interview Elizabeth Rapti, a clinical and forensic psychologist, about the topic of anonymous messages and notes that are perceived as disturbing or unsettling. When asked about what motivates people to send such messages, the psychologist shared her professional opinion.
"As a psychologist, I believe that for some people, the feeling of hate can fill an inner gap," Elizabeth began. "Sometimes hate through anonymity can be an easy emotion to pull off if a person is vulnerable and finds it hard to express their emotions."
Rapti went on to explain that anonymous messages are often linked to hate speech and are associated with the isolation of someone. "This is what people who purposefully communicate through anonymous messaging are all about," she concluded.
Found My Tires Slashed, And This Note On My Car
Found When Returning From Work Today
It's an ex. She's more of the pity crazy opposed to scary crazy. Regardless, I installed a deadbolt and had my locks changed.
Well I Found This On My Car Last Night
We also wanted to know about the psychological impact of receiving a creepy anonymous note, so the psychologist went on to explain, "Hate speech can have profound effects on the psychological state of adolescents and young adults; however, not all young people are affected in the same way. The effects depend on various factors, such as their previous experiences, mental resilience, and their supportive environment," she shared before continuing on to explain.
"Among other things, they may experience low self-esteem, intense loneliness or isolation, suffer from sleep disorders, increased anxiety, and feelings of fear and insecurity. Besides, we have seen that in cases where the teenager is exposed to anonymous hate speech for a long period of time, it has been found that he can present depressive symptoms."
My Friend Found This Note From A "Secret Admirer" On Her Car This Morning. Yes, Those Are His Teeth
I Received A Terrifying Scary Note In My Mailbox
looks like they wrote this with their non-dominant hand to hide their handwriting.
Clown And Note Received Anonymously In The Mail
When asked how one can manage their emotions in such a situation, Rapti emphasized the importance of a support system. "The role of relatives and friends of the victim is important, they are called upon to create a safe space, showing full acceptance and empathy for the situation of the victim, taking particular care not to further incriminate him."
Elizabeth also suggested that a psychologist could be helpful in managing the incident and enhancing the mental resilience of the individual, developing their assertiveness and self-esteem. "At the same time, the psychologist helps the person receiving hate speech to explore a possible supportive context," she added.
I Found This Note In My Coat Sleeve While I Was Leaving Work. I Don’t Have Any Work Enemies… Or So I Thought
When I leave a note like this I at least sign my name. It really means nothing without it.
Found This Stapled To A Tree Outside My House
This Ominous Note That Was Left On My Desk At Work
The psychologist also shared her professional opinion about effective ways for law enforcement agencies to investigate cases involving anonymous notes and messages.
"First of all, for the police to go so far as to examine anonymous messages, it means that there has been a complaint by the victim of a serious criminal offense. From there, the police under normal circumstances collect the evidence to proceed with the internal investigation procedures of each case," she explained.
Someone’s Been Leaving Notes On My Car At Work, This Is The Most Recent And In Depth One Yet. Nope
Creepy Letter Shoved In Mailbox
No words in English, Scotch, or Trukese could describe my feelings of disgust right now. Does anyone here speak Khuzdul?
This Anonymous Note Was Just Left In My Mailbox
She went on to share that text messages are important evidence in a criminal case and cell phone data is usually collected by the police. In order to identify the perpetrators, an analysis of the electronic traces, which result from the investigation of the electronic messages that have been sent to the victim, is carried out with special technological equipment of the latest technology.
"This technological equipment cannot be perceived by the anonymous user," Rapti stated. "The analysis of the electronic traces can provide significant information about the location of the sender, the time the messages were sent, and the device used to send them. Additionally, the content of the messages can also provide valuable insights into the identity of the sender."
Overall, Rapti highlighted the importance of law enforcement agencies taking anonymous notes and messages seriously and utilizing the latest technological equipment to investigate them thoroughly.
This Note That Someone Put On My Math Teachers Door
Creepy Note That Was Left For Me While I Napped During An Airport Layover
My Neighbor Came Home To This Note On Her Door
so a creepy illiterate male stalker, probably in his 50s, guessing from the handwriting style.
According to the psychologist, sending anonymous messages is a malicious and criminalized act that is driven by a hostile feeling towards the recipient or a group.
"The reasons someone sends anonymous messages are in no way benevolent and this is also the reason for hiding information. A hostile feeling towards another person or group consisting of malice, hatred, and a desire to harm or even destroy the object of hatred. Normally the nature of the content is often racist, sexist, or homophobic. Usually, the anonymous messages express threats to the lives of others, or to their relatives, while serious material damage and damage to relatives and shops can be caused, in the form of threats beyond the messages that someone can receive."
Creepy Note On My Door
Creepy Letters My Dad Got In His Mail
Someone Left A Very Creepy Note On My Door Tonight... Stay Safe Everyone
Rapti also noted that, "The cases of anonymous messages have been greatly reduced given that technologies have now developed internet user protection databases, which either prevent such malicious actions, or reject messages originating from anonymous senders."
"Raising awareness of the fact that anonymous messages are considered as a criminal act is important, provided that people quite often hide themselves behind an anonymous message. We need to acknowledge that this act has consequences and those who are sending anonymous messages need to consider that before they take that action. Besides, I would suggest that the victims should seek assistance from psychologists and law enforcement agencies regarding that issue," Elizabeth said lastly.
Stalker Leaving Notes On My Car Signed By “Buffalo Bill” (Silence Of The Lambs Reference)
Ok. Creepy af especially the Buffalo Bill part, but they have pretty handwriting. Still would never respond to something like that!
I agree-handwriting is magnificent, its a shame some creep got it
Load More Replies...in case you can't read it:"i don't want to be rude or anything because i don't know if you have someone already..but i think you're absolutely gorgeous! since the first time i layed eyes on you i been f****d up bout chu!👀....i use to live in your building but i dont anymore due to the fire, im the one that happened to lol...but this is my way of extending an invitation I WOULD LOVE to go out to dinner a like 6 flags whatever. im really interested in spending time with you & i hope you feel the same <3-le rico (i think) aka buffalo bill"
Thanks! I suck at reading cursive so this really helped
Load More Replies...That is 100% feminine handwriting, so it's extra weird they refer to themselves as Buffalo Bill.... it's either a woman write it to f**k with someone's head or an extremely effeminate man (who would quite match the whole Buffalo Bill thing and be extra scary)
No guy, even writing to a girl/woman they like, will dot their i with a heart. This is all female.
Cannot read the writing, so pointless note as far a I am concerned!
This Note Taped To The Back Of A Stop Sign In My Neighborhood
This Note Someone Left On My Mom's Car
This Note I Found In My Front Yard
'Try to live as liberal(?) and AIDful you can. TREAT those who NEED the help not the selfish. BLESS THE EARTH AND OTHERS AROUND you AND BLESSINGS WILL FALL INTO YOUR PATH. Love your park(?)' Weird thing to randomly leave someone... Possibly religious, but if it is it would probably do the opposite of evangelising.
Someone Came Into My Work And Left Me This Note. It Had A Random Debit Card Number On The Back, But I Won’t Post That. What Do You Guys Think?
Oh, honey, when I was 8, I too was a were/shifter who could change into any animal there is XD ...at least in my imagination.
Creepy Hand Written Note Found On A Piece Of Debris In Roadside Ditch Next To An Abandoned House
ThANk (probably meant think?) about your family + kids. LEAVE A Time. ANd I meet you here. It has a box labeled "time" with space for someone to put a time.
Receiving secret admirer notes after age 15 or so is generally deeply disturbing. If you have a crush on someone and are curious to know if they might be interested, and if you are in a public place where the other person won't feel trapped or cornered, please take a deep breath and say hello. Watching from afar and sending a note will not make a woman feel flattered, it will make her feel unsafe.
fascinating. Seems like it can be broken down into roughly 4 categories: incels who do not have the balls to approach a girl they fancy; psychopaths/schizophrenics who need to be hospitalised; burglars; and road rage incidents.
When my daughter was in college she was in a bad accident where she rolled an SUV to avoid a dresser that had fallen off a truck in the middle of the road. Seriously injured. Girlfriend in the car too with out of state parents so I was taking care of both. I went to get her stuff out of the car. Someone left a witch stuffed toy on the console. All the clothes and belongings were stolen. Suitcases and everything. A nurse at the hospital stold her cell phone and used it to call her contacts to tell them my daughter was on drugs. Not true. All this and more on a major freeway in Texas. She had taken the wrong road to get from my house to the state fair.
Oh, my heart... that must have been a terrifying weight on your mind while trying to cope with aftermath of an accident. That nurse should be imprisoned and license revoked. Hope both young people are now thriving and healed.
Load More Replies...Bowie Knife. On my pillow. As I was sleeping. Crazy ex jimmied my locks, took all my money and food, killed my bird, then left hunting knife on my pillow. I'm deaf, so it was an especially hateful attempt to scare me. Pfffft.
I got a dozen roses, on my ex and I's anniversary, all the heads of the roses was cut off. She wrote, "Miss you, wish this was you". Yeah. Nope.
Can see why they are an ex... who spends so much money on beauty only to destroy it, with malice?
Load More Replies...Some of these notes reminded me of a thought I have a lot. I wish that it was acceptable for people to complement each other casually without it being creepy. You pick up a coffee from the barista and say casually, "Your hair looks great," or you pay for your groceries and tell the cashier, "That's an epic beard!" I don't want anything from you, and don't want to get to know you. I just think that you look good. You must have put some effort into that, and it shows! But, you get guys who walk into a store, see the cashier right by the door, and ask, "How young do you date?" (Yes, I saw that happen at a PetSmart.) People like that make it so people just saying that you look good is creepy.
It's totally acceptable to give little compliments like that to people. If you are anxious about giving off the wrong vibe, maybe say it with a smile at the time you are about to be walking away, so they know you are just being friendly and not expecting anything.
Load More Replies...All of these reiterate the need for people to learn to defend themselves. (And some people to consider moving.)
Yes. I'd add 2 more: situational awareness... and the bone-deep resolve to fight for your right to live.
Load More Replies...The "Elephant In the Room Trophy" goes to everyone who thinks that women have "no reason" to fear for their safety while in their homes, workplaces or public venues. All of these stalkers give us a reason to fear for our lives on a regular basis.
Receiving secret admirer notes after age 15 or so is generally deeply disturbing. If you have a crush on someone and are curious to know if they might be interested, and if you are in a public place where the other person won't feel trapped or cornered, please take a deep breath and say hello. Watching from afar and sending a note will not make a woman feel flattered, it will make her feel unsafe.
fascinating. Seems like it can be broken down into roughly 4 categories: incels who do not have the balls to approach a girl they fancy; psychopaths/schizophrenics who need to be hospitalised; burglars; and road rage incidents.
When my daughter was in college she was in a bad accident where she rolled an SUV to avoid a dresser that had fallen off a truck in the middle of the road. Seriously injured. Girlfriend in the car too with out of state parents so I was taking care of both. I went to get her stuff out of the car. Someone left a witch stuffed toy on the console. All the clothes and belongings were stolen. Suitcases and everything. A nurse at the hospital stold her cell phone and used it to call her contacts to tell them my daughter was on drugs. Not true. All this and more on a major freeway in Texas. She had taken the wrong road to get from my house to the state fair.
Oh, my heart... that must have been a terrifying weight on your mind while trying to cope with aftermath of an accident. That nurse should be imprisoned and license revoked. Hope both young people are now thriving and healed.
Load More Replies...Bowie Knife. On my pillow. As I was sleeping. Crazy ex jimmied my locks, took all my money and food, killed my bird, then left hunting knife on my pillow. I'm deaf, so it was an especially hateful attempt to scare me. Pfffft.
I got a dozen roses, on my ex and I's anniversary, all the heads of the roses was cut off. She wrote, "Miss you, wish this was you". Yeah. Nope.
Can see why they are an ex... who spends so much money on beauty only to destroy it, with malice?
Load More Replies...Some of these notes reminded me of a thought I have a lot. I wish that it was acceptable for people to complement each other casually without it being creepy. You pick up a coffee from the barista and say casually, "Your hair looks great," or you pay for your groceries and tell the cashier, "That's an epic beard!" I don't want anything from you, and don't want to get to know you. I just think that you look good. You must have put some effort into that, and it shows! But, you get guys who walk into a store, see the cashier right by the door, and ask, "How young do you date?" (Yes, I saw that happen at a PetSmart.) People like that make it so people just saying that you look good is creepy.
It's totally acceptable to give little compliments like that to people. If you are anxious about giving off the wrong vibe, maybe say it with a smile at the time you are about to be walking away, so they know you are just being friendly and not expecting anything.
Load More Replies...All of these reiterate the need for people to learn to defend themselves. (And some people to consider moving.)
Yes. I'd add 2 more: situational awareness... and the bone-deep resolve to fight for your right to live.
Load More Replies...The "Elephant In the Room Trophy" goes to everyone who thinks that women have "no reason" to fear for their safety while in their homes, workplaces or public venues. All of these stalkers give us a reason to fear for our lives on a regular basis.