After First Date Girl Asks Guy If They Could Just Be Friends, Guy’s Response Takes Her By Surprise
Nobody likes being rejected, but some people deal with it worse than others. In fact, some people can’t even cope with being rejected by somebody they aren’t even interested in! That’s what happened recently after a guy and a girl had a date together. The girl texted the guy (a Redditor named ToastedCookieOats) the following day to tell him that she “didn’t see him as a romantic partner” but hoped that they could remain friends. The guy politely revealed that the feeling was mutual and…well…things escalated pretty quickly from there. Check out the full hilarious conversation below.
When a guy texted a girl the day after a date, he probably wasn’t expecting the conversation to go like this…
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Share on FacebookOh my God, that girl should get her s**t together... Guy tried to be polite and her reaction was simply awful. I wouln't get into further discussion seeing how fast she got furious without a real reason...
Wow I am sorry but she seems really stupid not trying to be rude like her but he was just saying he felt they were friends too...
I think it's okay to be rude in this case. She seems INSANE.
Load More Replies...And this, Ladies and Gentleman, this is what real human trash looks like. Big respect for the guy for handling the situation in such a polite way and not getting down to the level of the other side.
I laughed so hard bc on my "period-days" this could so be me. But no..hahah I want to marry that guy. He keeps answering her and being polite. That is so rare these days. He should get a diploma!
Ok, so normally there is two sides to a story, but... holy c**p she's just insane...
This is the moment when I am ashamed that this... thing... is also called a woman in common knowlegde... :/
Haha.. It's clear who couldn't handle the rejection though she tried to blame it all on him...
Better this happened after THE FIRST DATE versus dating for a while and then finding out what an absolute a*****e the other person is. Electronic communication is so cold ... people feel they can say anything to someone over a text or email and then in person are more diplomatic choosing their words carefully.
For me, it's actually the opposite. I tend to say more random things IRL and choose words more carefully in text.
Load More Replies...The guy made a lucky escape. This lady has some serious ego issues. What a troll she turned out to be.
She's so narcissistic that she can't take a rejection. That's so funny because she's trying to play it off like she's hot s**t. Disgusting personality. #puke
Hahahahah!!! Love it, that is hilarious! I really appreciate my wife now, glad I avoided crazy women like that!
Maybe "I'm sorry for not being good -rich- enough for your expectations" or sth like this.
Load More Replies...I am as much surprised as the poor guy who was texting her. Did she think that he would be crying to get her? What the actual F? Good for him that she doesn't want to be a friend of him. If I was him, I won't even get into this weird conversation, I would block her after her crazy way to say: excuse me?!! lol
She's stupid she's trying to sound smart and is making her case worse he agreed with her that there was no romantic connection and then she
Dunno if it's true or not, but it was the perfect read to get me started for the day. Love a nice guy who knows when to stop being nice.
f*****g awesome , she's having a fight with herself , in italy they call this s**t Playing the piece and dancing to it lol. is there any way to contact her in order to attend more of this ? seems pretty easy to get her bitching, cheap entertainment at it's best
He carried a patient, twisted his ankle and she didn't get impressed???? That girl has no heart! I would date him for sure... Plus people who pays attention to their phone on a date are no other thing than rude...
People have no filter when you text. It's so much easier to say things texting. She's a complete psycho don't get me wrong, but doubtful she or anyone else could say that directly to another. Still there is no need to bash a guy just because u don't like him.
We should just feel sorry for people like this. She must have some serious mental issues to behave in such a way.
Borderline Personality Disorder is a likely scenario here...
Load More Replies...I have a weird feeling she was trying to see if he would react like those other pigs you see that can't handle rejection. This man deserves a medal and I wonder if there are more texts like this where the girl cant handle rejection because I have only see guys react bad until this one.
Yep, I've had one similar, but in my case the woman flip flopped back and forth from really sweet to super insane. Bullet dodged!
Load More Replies...It makes me more misanthropic, personally, to see just how horrible people can be, so easily, and so often. If this horrible human behavior entertains you, that just increases my misanthropy. :-P
Load More Replies...Such an angry woman. Explains why she was available in the first place.
There are men like this, too. There are countless examples of it on the web.
Load More Replies...That is terrible!! The guy is a true gentleman and handled himself very well! He will find a great woman someday!
Boy, oh boy, seeing this from the other side is sad. As a woman who has been slammed with terrible accusations and insults many times when I have rejected a guy, it is nice to see a guy who took it well. There needs to be more guys out there like him, and less women like her. That girl is a piece of work!
It's ridiculous that she thinks she can reject the guy and he doesnt have the right to do the same to her. LOL
He dodged a gold digging b*tch with an ugly heart. She turned him down, but it's not okay for him to be cool with it and turn her down aswell. She's the Salty one here. LOL 😂😂😂
HAHAHAHA! What a b***h! She got what she deserved! I applaud this guy!
It seems that she had a complex to begin with. She didn't feel confident about her looks. More than likely she assumed he had no interest in her nasty self. I'd say there was a 80%chance he only has to say sorry to hear your not into me, I really thought your pretty and felt comfortable with you. She expected that. This is why she few off the handle.
Oh I know what happened, she has no interest in him but wants to be in a relationship, so she is telling him that because she thinks he will beg to get her back. Only problem is he wasn't actually that interested in her so she got angry and tried to turn the tables and pin the whole situation on him
She just pulled the "double standard" s**t on him quick!!! What a b***h!!!
I did some online dating about 8 years ago and most of the people were really nice, but everyone is so vulnerable when dating and a few people had very odd and unpleasant reactions to any hint of rejection. Even when it was said nicely and without anything insulting. It looks like that is what happened here. He handled it quite well and she was really inappropriate and defensive. It's probably because she doesn't feel good about herself or confident about dating. I wish them both well.
S**t is that really real her? or she is going through some crazy s**t in her life? May God help her to be a better person and has a better life!!
It's alright for her to reject him by saying don't see them being together romantically, but when he agrees he's the bad guy? B***h needs a good smack over the head with a shovel
I honestly have nothing to say about the guy, besides the fact that he basically acts like just a typical guy, but as for the girl, based on what he had said about her, she sounds like the typical person who thinks of everyone else negatively, since I personally don't see any intention from the guy in doing so, as well as, she thinks she can get a hot-looking guy who makes a ton of money (in which there's no such guy, unless if she's into gangsters really! LOL!) when she looks like she's overweight?! Like get real! She needs a serious reality check! ROFL!
inb4 this was satire, anyone can make something like this with photoshop and a screen cap button.
So if the guy is 30 I'm assuming the woman is about the same age, or at least well into her twenties. Not that this type of behavior is acceptable even from teenagers. Some millennial women really are human beings only in the strict biological sense.
Why can't more people be polite and easy to deal with like the guy?She needs to realize her s**t stinks like everyone else's, maybe worse
did anyone else read her comments with the "b***h" voice in their mind?
Could you please make this b***h's name public so other men can dodge this evil woman's bullet, too? She's like a poisoned apple.
Ridiculous, if this is real. But somehow I think most of those conversations are staged, these days.
As a male in the dating world, I can assure you this isn't staged.
Load More Replies...Dude handled things like an absolute champ...that landwhale wanted her dumb little ego boost by trying to reject him, since that's what pathetic people do for attention...and he handled her rude moronic behind...
Clearly she was mad because she was hoping it would be one sided, by her and she got butthurt when it backfired on her.
Wow, What a snotty b***h. The guy was a gentleman all the way. I hope she dies a miserable slow painful death!
Can I please have that guy instead? I'm definitely rather overweight, but I'm not insane, I'm very good in bed and chatting and definitely don't text other people while on a date. Give the rest of us a break b***h...
Well u no the way I look at it women can't handle rejection. But it OK when there reject us men an we have to take it. Us men have feeling to.
She wanted him to beg, she wanted to be able to brag it up that she was the s**t and this guy just couldn't get over her etc etc, and when he did not rise to that she got nasty. Stupid hoe
If I said "Let's just be friends" to a guy and he said " I agree", I think i'd be relieved. This b***h deserves to die a spinster.
Never get involved with anyone that cannot grasp the concept of irony...
What a b***h! She is in for some lonely times until she realizes that men across the board do not like that kind of childishness and lack of engagement on a date. Nice guy definitely dodged a bullet
troll post, come on i refuse to believe this stupidity exist outside b-movies
Oh so it's okay for her to reject him but when he agrees he's the bad guy? She needs a good smack over the head with a shovel. Crazy b***h
so she thinks she can reject and ridicule someone but cant take on a (polite) retaliation...what a dumbass.
James ( author of article ) are you going to correct the title of this article or are you going to wait until you have actually read it first? Or does that kind of professionalism not apply to journalists who only write click-Bait.
Guys, I'm pretty sure the blue bubbles was a man, and the white bubbles were a woman.
That was just. Wow. Just, just wow. That girl got issues. Major issues
wtf? that really doesn't make any sense.... rude girl. but maybe she's lonely.......?
Good riddance, goodbye, don't let the door hit you in the a*s! He dodged a huge bullet!
That first text what have got deleted because he wasn't interested anyway right?.. blocked out of the gate 😝
While I'm sure some of these {exchanges} are real, a lot I'm starting to think are contrived for click bait and internet-chewing-gum publication. I'm incredulous to believe that anyone actually responds like that.
Whoa, just wow. This poor dude and this horrendously nasty excuse for a female. I can't call her a woman when she behaves like that and childish is too good an excuse to try and play off too. Yikes good going Sir for dodging this unbalanced nightmare!
That girl is seriously r******d. Can't a man blow you off without you losing your mind? Why would you eve take a thing like that so personal if you were right in the head? She behaves like a spoiled child. She has some serious issues and she could also use some therapy.
did anyone else read her comments in their mind with the "b***h" voice?
I think he handled her over-exaggerated tantrum rather well. She was childish & foul-mouthed. She's not even worthy of being in the friend-zone! He can do way better!
There is some ongoing theories that is a common attitude for "Western Women." The way she acted on the date. The follow up. The whole thing. Full offense on her part, while I wouldn't be surprised if she played herself as a "victim to another terrible man" on her end.
O..kay.. - scoots away and eats my popcorn - and i thought i had bad temper..
I'm going to say this isn't a woman thing, this is a being a needy over-reacting b***h thing, because I'm ashamed to be in the same gender as that.
She was hoping he would chase her, and when he didn't, she lost it. Typical basic b***h reaction. 30 years from now, she will be lamenting why she's alone with 28 cats. LOL
She is probably going through some stuff. Hopefully she will learn to respect others better even if that is the case.
Well, that's clearly a case of Borderline personality disorder. She should see a shrink. They can fix a BPD pretty good meanwhile.
He should expose her name like some did to guys that acted like her.
Crazy b***h! Poor guy! I hope this didnt discourage him from going on dates or made him feel insecure about himself. Women like that should be taken to intensive therapy and behaviour management. Such immature replies. I cringed every time she "LOL"ed and "LOSER"ed..
Sounds like how my ex-girlfriend broke up with me. The same sort of cold heartlessness.
Reminds me of how my ex-girlfriend broke up with me, Just the same attitude and heartlessness.
Seems like shes the one that cant hack being rejected. And she attacked his looks in the first place! So low
been there, seen this... and close friends and family still asks why I'm single
Crazy much?? That Double standards a*****e broad was way out of line. I would've dropped and fu bomb faster than him.
I'm not gonna say anything. Because....you know....feminists....they are everywhere. But this c**t deserves to be rammed by a horsedick..:v
I wouldn't had continued the conversation. Saying I was being a Gentleman and obviously you are no Lady. And leave. Who needs to say or see such angst?
This dude... He was the one who got triggered and spat it at that girl who was just trying to be nice and kind even though she wanted a little more than just friendship. Honestly, they wouldn't have a nice time together because of this guy's shocking attitude. She's better off by herself and living happily. I still can't believe this dude...
She was hoping he would chase her and when he didn't, she lost it. Typical basic b***h who will end up alone with 28 cats...
Well i thinks she's playing hard to get while the others unfortunately wasnt able to cope up with the way she is trying to play things... Sad that it ends up into a raging conversation between them... Or maybe a slash of their ego smashed and slapped very hard...
Agreed. I guess the down-votes you got were from people who don't know what it is (or have it).
Load More Replies...doctors don't carry patients. pa's, na's, and orderlies do.
Load More Replies..."this is not an isolated case" true. SOME women are this asinine and b****y. just like SOME guys are complete douches.
Load More Replies...No, Both women and men have always been able to act terribly since the beginning of time(Remember Adam and Eve, for example?) It's not like some new form of woman has been formed. PLEASE!!
Load More Replies...Yes seems to be only you, this lines are over every single blue area
Load More Replies...Not 'girls' but only some stupid bitches like that one :/
Load More Replies...Oh my God, that girl should get her s**t together... Guy tried to be polite and her reaction was simply awful. I wouln't get into further discussion seeing how fast she got furious without a real reason...
Wow I am sorry but she seems really stupid not trying to be rude like her but he was just saying he felt they were friends too...
I think it's okay to be rude in this case. She seems INSANE.
Load More Replies...And this, Ladies and Gentleman, this is what real human trash looks like. Big respect for the guy for handling the situation in such a polite way and not getting down to the level of the other side.
I laughed so hard bc on my "period-days" this could so be me. But no..hahah I want to marry that guy. He keeps answering her and being polite. That is so rare these days. He should get a diploma!
Ok, so normally there is two sides to a story, but... holy c**p she's just insane...
This is the moment when I am ashamed that this... thing... is also called a woman in common knowlegde... :/
Haha.. It's clear who couldn't handle the rejection though she tried to blame it all on him...
Better this happened after THE FIRST DATE versus dating for a while and then finding out what an absolute a*****e the other person is. Electronic communication is so cold ... people feel they can say anything to someone over a text or email and then in person are more diplomatic choosing their words carefully.
For me, it's actually the opposite. I tend to say more random things IRL and choose words more carefully in text.
Load More Replies...The guy made a lucky escape. This lady has some serious ego issues. What a troll she turned out to be.
She's so narcissistic that she can't take a rejection. That's so funny because she's trying to play it off like she's hot s**t. Disgusting personality. #puke
Hahahahah!!! Love it, that is hilarious! I really appreciate my wife now, glad I avoided crazy women like that!
Maybe "I'm sorry for not being good -rich- enough for your expectations" or sth like this.
Load More Replies...I am as much surprised as the poor guy who was texting her. Did she think that he would be crying to get her? What the actual F? Good for him that she doesn't want to be a friend of him. If I was him, I won't even get into this weird conversation, I would block her after her crazy way to say: excuse me?!! lol
She's stupid she's trying to sound smart and is making her case worse he agreed with her that there was no romantic connection and then she
Dunno if it's true or not, but it was the perfect read to get me started for the day. Love a nice guy who knows when to stop being nice.
f*****g awesome , she's having a fight with herself , in italy they call this s**t Playing the piece and dancing to it lol. is there any way to contact her in order to attend more of this ? seems pretty easy to get her bitching, cheap entertainment at it's best
He carried a patient, twisted his ankle and she didn't get impressed???? That girl has no heart! I would date him for sure... Plus people who pays attention to their phone on a date are no other thing than rude...
People have no filter when you text. It's so much easier to say things texting. She's a complete psycho don't get me wrong, but doubtful she or anyone else could say that directly to another. Still there is no need to bash a guy just because u don't like him.
We should just feel sorry for people like this. She must have some serious mental issues to behave in such a way.
Borderline Personality Disorder is a likely scenario here...
Load More Replies...I have a weird feeling she was trying to see if he would react like those other pigs you see that can't handle rejection. This man deserves a medal and I wonder if there are more texts like this where the girl cant handle rejection because I have only see guys react bad until this one.
Yep, I've had one similar, but in my case the woman flip flopped back and forth from really sweet to super insane. Bullet dodged!
Load More Replies...It makes me more misanthropic, personally, to see just how horrible people can be, so easily, and so often. If this horrible human behavior entertains you, that just increases my misanthropy. :-P
Load More Replies...Such an angry woman. Explains why she was available in the first place.
There are men like this, too. There are countless examples of it on the web.
Load More Replies...That is terrible!! The guy is a true gentleman and handled himself very well! He will find a great woman someday!
Boy, oh boy, seeing this from the other side is sad. As a woman who has been slammed with terrible accusations and insults many times when I have rejected a guy, it is nice to see a guy who took it well. There needs to be more guys out there like him, and less women like her. That girl is a piece of work!
It's ridiculous that she thinks she can reject the guy and he doesnt have the right to do the same to her. LOL
He dodged a gold digging b*tch with an ugly heart. She turned him down, but it's not okay for him to be cool with it and turn her down aswell. She's the Salty one here. LOL 😂😂😂
HAHAHAHA! What a b***h! She got what she deserved! I applaud this guy!
It seems that she had a complex to begin with. She didn't feel confident about her looks. More than likely she assumed he had no interest in her nasty self. I'd say there was a 80%chance he only has to say sorry to hear your not into me, I really thought your pretty and felt comfortable with you. She expected that. This is why she few off the handle.
Oh I know what happened, she has no interest in him but wants to be in a relationship, so she is telling him that because she thinks he will beg to get her back. Only problem is he wasn't actually that interested in her so she got angry and tried to turn the tables and pin the whole situation on him
She just pulled the "double standard" s**t on him quick!!! What a b***h!!!
I did some online dating about 8 years ago and most of the people were really nice, but everyone is so vulnerable when dating and a few people had very odd and unpleasant reactions to any hint of rejection. Even when it was said nicely and without anything insulting. It looks like that is what happened here. He handled it quite well and she was really inappropriate and defensive. It's probably because she doesn't feel good about herself or confident about dating. I wish them both well.
S**t is that really real her? or she is going through some crazy s**t in her life? May God help her to be a better person and has a better life!!
It's alright for her to reject him by saying don't see them being together romantically, but when he agrees he's the bad guy? B***h needs a good smack over the head with a shovel
I honestly have nothing to say about the guy, besides the fact that he basically acts like just a typical guy, but as for the girl, based on what he had said about her, she sounds like the typical person who thinks of everyone else negatively, since I personally don't see any intention from the guy in doing so, as well as, she thinks she can get a hot-looking guy who makes a ton of money (in which there's no such guy, unless if she's into gangsters really! LOL!) when she looks like she's overweight?! Like get real! She needs a serious reality check! ROFL!
inb4 this was satire, anyone can make something like this with photoshop and a screen cap button.
So if the guy is 30 I'm assuming the woman is about the same age, or at least well into her twenties. Not that this type of behavior is acceptable even from teenagers. Some millennial women really are human beings only in the strict biological sense.
Why can't more people be polite and easy to deal with like the guy?She needs to realize her s**t stinks like everyone else's, maybe worse
did anyone else read her comments with the "b***h" voice in their mind?
Could you please make this b***h's name public so other men can dodge this evil woman's bullet, too? She's like a poisoned apple.
Ridiculous, if this is real. But somehow I think most of those conversations are staged, these days.
As a male in the dating world, I can assure you this isn't staged.
Load More Replies...Dude handled things like an absolute champ...that landwhale wanted her dumb little ego boost by trying to reject him, since that's what pathetic people do for attention...and he handled her rude moronic behind...
Clearly she was mad because she was hoping it would be one sided, by her and she got butthurt when it backfired on her.
Wow, What a snotty b***h. The guy was a gentleman all the way. I hope she dies a miserable slow painful death!
Can I please have that guy instead? I'm definitely rather overweight, but I'm not insane, I'm very good in bed and chatting and definitely don't text other people while on a date. Give the rest of us a break b***h...
Well u no the way I look at it women can't handle rejection. But it OK when there reject us men an we have to take it. Us men have feeling to.
She wanted him to beg, she wanted to be able to brag it up that she was the s**t and this guy just couldn't get over her etc etc, and when he did not rise to that she got nasty. Stupid hoe
If I said "Let's just be friends" to a guy and he said " I agree", I think i'd be relieved. This b***h deserves to die a spinster.
Never get involved with anyone that cannot grasp the concept of irony...
What a b***h! She is in for some lonely times until she realizes that men across the board do not like that kind of childishness and lack of engagement on a date. Nice guy definitely dodged a bullet
troll post, come on i refuse to believe this stupidity exist outside b-movies
Oh so it's okay for her to reject him but when he agrees he's the bad guy? She needs a good smack over the head with a shovel. Crazy b***h
so she thinks she can reject and ridicule someone but cant take on a (polite) retaliation...what a dumbass.
James ( author of article ) are you going to correct the title of this article or are you going to wait until you have actually read it first? Or does that kind of professionalism not apply to journalists who only write click-Bait.
Guys, I'm pretty sure the blue bubbles was a man, and the white bubbles were a woman.
That was just. Wow. Just, just wow. That girl got issues. Major issues
wtf? that really doesn't make any sense.... rude girl. but maybe she's lonely.......?
Good riddance, goodbye, don't let the door hit you in the a*s! He dodged a huge bullet!
That first text what have got deleted because he wasn't interested anyway right?.. blocked out of the gate 😝
While I'm sure some of these {exchanges} are real, a lot I'm starting to think are contrived for click bait and internet-chewing-gum publication. I'm incredulous to believe that anyone actually responds like that.
Whoa, just wow. This poor dude and this horrendously nasty excuse for a female. I can't call her a woman when she behaves like that and childish is too good an excuse to try and play off too. Yikes good going Sir for dodging this unbalanced nightmare!
That girl is seriously r******d. Can't a man blow you off without you losing your mind? Why would you eve take a thing like that so personal if you were right in the head? She behaves like a spoiled child. She has some serious issues and she could also use some therapy.
did anyone else read her comments in their mind with the "b***h" voice?
I think he handled her over-exaggerated tantrum rather well. She was childish & foul-mouthed. She's not even worthy of being in the friend-zone! He can do way better!
There is some ongoing theories that is a common attitude for "Western Women." The way she acted on the date. The follow up. The whole thing. Full offense on her part, while I wouldn't be surprised if she played herself as a "victim to another terrible man" on her end.
O..kay.. - scoots away and eats my popcorn - and i thought i had bad temper..
I'm going to say this isn't a woman thing, this is a being a needy over-reacting b***h thing, because I'm ashamed to be in the same gender as that.
She was hoping he would chase her, and when he didn't, she lost it. Typical basic b***h reaction. 30 years from now, she will be lamenting why she's alone with 28 cats. LOL
She is probably going through some stuff. Hopefully she will learn to respect others better even if that is the case.
Well, that's clearly a case of Borderline personality disorder. She should see a shrink. They can fix a BPD pretty good meanwhile.
He should expose her name like some did to guys that acted like her.
Crazy b***h! Poor guy! I hope this didnt discourage him from going on dates or made him feel insecure about himself. Women like that should be taken to intensive therapy and behaviour management. Such immature replies. I cringed every time she "LOL"ed and "LOSER"ed..
Sounds like how my ex-girlfriend broke up with me. The same sort of cold heartlessness.
Reminds me of how my ex-girlfriend broke up with me, Just the same attitude and heartlessness.
Seems like shes the one that cant hack being rejected. And she attacked his looks in the first place! So low
been there, seen this... and close friends and family still asks why I'm single
Crazy much?? That Double standards a*****e broad was way out of line. I would've dropped and fu bomb faster than him.
I'm not gonna say anything. Because....you know....feminists....they are everywhere. But this c**t deserves to be rammed by a horsedick..:v
I wouldn't had continued the conversation. Saying I was being a Gentleman and obviously you are no Lady. And leave. Who needs to say or see such angst?
This dude... He was the one who got triggered and spat it at that girl who was just trying to be nice and kind even though she wanted a little more than just friendship. Honestly, they wouldn't have a nice time together because of this guy's shocking attitude. She's better off by herself and living happily. I still can't believe this dude...
She was hoping he would chase her and when he didn't, she lost it. Typical basic b***h who will end up alone with 28 cats...
Well i thinks she's playing hard to get while the others unfortunately wasnt able to cope up with the way she is trying to play things... Sad that it ends up into a raging conversation between them... Or maybe a slash of their ego smashed and slapped very hard...
Agreed. I guess the down-votes you got were from people who don't know what it is (or have it).
Load More Replies...doctors don't carry patients. pa's, na's, and orderlies do.
Load More Replies..."this is not an isolated case" true. SOME women are this asinine and b****y. just like SOME guys are complete douches.
Load More Replies...No, Both women and men have always been able to act terribly since the beginning of time(Remember Adam and Eve, for example?) It's not like some new form of woman has been formed. PLEASE!!
Load More Replies...Yes seems to be only you, this lines are over every single blue area
Load More Replies...Not 'girls' but only some stupid bitches like that one :/
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