30 Y.O. Woman Takes DNA Test For Fun Only To Discover Her Long-Term Boyfriend Is Her Full Sibling
Life is crazy, sometimes hellish even.
It will gift you the best memories you’ll reminisce about until you’re ready to depart from Earth. It will surprise you with the wildest opportunities that’ll turn your world upside down – yet it will also test your limits and knock you down when you’re most vulnerable.
Stuff will change you, and sometimes you won’t even recognize yourself. You will lose your dearest peers; you will question your decisions, your career paths, and the overall meaning of your existence – things will happen, and half of the time, they won’t be sweet.
On the other hand, life would be so boring if it wasn’t this hectic, but perhaps only with stories like these do you begin to ponder the unexpectedness that might knock on your door next.
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“I just found out that I’ve been dating my biological brother for 6 years” – this woman turned to Reddit’s r/offmychest community to reveal that she and her long-term partner are actually biological siblings. The startling and life-changing tale has managed to receive only 239 upvotes and 128 comments despite being uploaded a couple of months ago.
After six years of dating, this woman learned her boyfriend is actually her biological brother
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The woman began her post with a brief introduction: she’s 30 years old and her “brother” is 32. She was adopted as a baby – yet, she wasn’t aware of this until she was already in high school. The OP also added that she never felt betrayed, nor did she ever care because she has a great family.
The OP and her partner are both adopted, and when they met it was one of the things they bonded over
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Now, the author’s boyfriend is also adopted, and when they first met, it was one of the things they really bonded over as they both had lovely families and only found out later in school.
The couple’s relationship was great – they understood each other quickly and they were both really attracted to each other. The OP revealed that she’s never met a person to whom she felt such an immediate attraction and familiarity. However, she has a couple of guesses as to why everything felt so easy: the boyfriend with whom she shared a bed and did all the things that a normal couple would is actually her brother – not even her half-brother but her full brother.
They developed a great bond in no time, and she realized that it’s probably because he is her full sibling
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The one thing that the OP emphasizes is their agreement to remain childfree; she said she doesn’t want to deal with possible health complications and have to raise a kid with them knowing that their mommy and daddy are siblings.
The woman discovered this rather horrifying info when they did a DNA test to see their ancestry and “what exactly they are.” She ordered two, and they both spit in the provided tube and sent the samples out.
The pair did everything a normal couple would, and she discovered this life-changing info when they did a DNA test to see their ancestry
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It took approximately a month for the results to come back. She was excited to look into her heritage, but before she could even get to it, she saw that she and her beloved partner are siblings. Needless to say, the woman was shocked.
Once she discovered this information, she didn’t tell her boyfriend. She hoped that the DNA company had made a mistake – however, she did confess that things began to make sense. The pair would always receive those “You guys look so alike” or “He’s the male version of you” remarks. They would usually laugh it off, but she spent the whole morning looking at their pictures and realized that they indeed do look like each other.
She eventually revealed the discovery to her boyfriend – however, he said he didn’t want to freak out until they had done a “real” test
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The man tried to remain calm, but the OP sensed his unease and said that it was strange lying next to him
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The woman said that she’s still pretty much in love with her boyfriend; after all, they’ve been together for more than half a decade. They have a beautiful house together and have managed to build a very comfortable life. She sincerely hoped that the test was incorrect and planned to get another one soon.
She then updated the post, seemingly only a day or so after the upload, and she said that she showed her partner the results of the DNA test. He didn’t want to freak out or make any big decisions until they got a professional test done – however, the author could tell that he was pretty alarmed.
What do you think about this wild tale, and what would you do if you were in the OP’s position?
Fellow community members shared their flabbergasted reactions
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If you love each other and can safely say you don't want kids then someone needs to get fixed to avoid it accidentally happening. You can both adopt if you want to share your life with a child later on. And keep this in the closet between you both. You both didn't know. You're both adults. And if you don't mind it just think that you're the closest soul mates you can be.
She is on reddit, not here to see this response. But I definitely agree with your comment.
Load More Replies...I would have to agree as well, although much care, thought, communication and commitment would have to go into staying together and one or both of them getting "fixed". If they grew apart because life is uncertain that could be hazardous in many ways.
I expect that most redditors who wins up on BP get told by eager pandas. I'm on Reddit and raised OP's attention once or twice.
Both parties to make sure weird accidents don't happen. I knew a woman, got married, had a baby, got Norplant, got pregnant, norplant taken out, had next baby, got norplant again, got pregnant again, norplant taken out again, had baby, got tubes tied... sure enough got pregnant again. Had baby, got her tubes retied, and insisted her husband did too. 4 kids in 5 years. They were DONE.
Addressing the author of a post directly even though he or she may never read it is a common rhetorical device.
I agree. This is the right answer. They should stay together if they want. There isnt any inherent issue with dating your brother. The issue is inbreeding. They need to get one of them sterilized.
There is definitely an inherent issue with dating a sibling, except for cases like this. They aren't sibling in any way other than biologically, if they had grown up together it would be much different and much more disgusting. As they are, I'd say keep the no kids decision and act like you never found out. It's kind of too late anyway honestly
I'm not sure if that's really what they meant. Growing up together as siblings (biological or not) isn't the same as growing up together as friends or neighbors etc. I thought they were referring to the former rather than the latter.
Please stop downvoting Ozacotor. Downvoting gets people banned, sometimes permanently. It is not a dislike button, it is supposed to be a reporting tool for harresment, hate, and spam. BP does not review the comments. It is automated and people will get a message saying they have been banned for suspicious behavior. It is one of BP's biggest flaws. So, Ozacotor's opinion may be different than the norm, or they may be a cultural difference, but they do not deserve to get banned for their comment. If you don't like it, don't upvote it.
BP stopped banning people for downvotes months ago if not longer. Now they only take away points.
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I'm gonna downvote you even harder now
So I suppose you never heard of childhood sweethearts or highschool sweethearts? Nothing taboo about dating or marrying someone you grew up with that you are not related to whatsoever.
Critical thinking ppl. They meant as in growing up in the same household even though they aren’t blood relatives. If a couple tells ppl their step siblings ppl start acting as if they are committing incest even though they aren’t blood related. Not the same as the next door neighbors playing in the sand box together then getting married later in life. Same as grooming. An older guy knowing you as a child or teen and dating you later in life isn’t grooming unless as a child or teen he was inappropriate whether it be comments, looks, “advice” as well as a few other things.. but it’s still seen as taboo and wrong. So the person wasn’t comment you are addressing is perfectly right
My family is bizarre. My brothers are my brothers even though we share no consanguinity. I grew up withbthek, on many occasions I shared bedrooms with them. I probably lived with their parents more than I lived with my own. My mom gave me their last name when I was born. My mom and their mom were best friends. I once tried to see if I could.view them as attractive. I REALLY CAN'T TELL!!! I love them, but in a sister kind-of-way. I think I could probably tell if I weren't so close to them. On the other hand, I have always thought my cousin Ben was extremely cute, and didn't know we weren't blood-related until I was 9. I would never have done anything, and still wouldn't, but he is still very attractive and we are in our 40's. His uncle is the man that raised me. Where I come from is nice to know, and I'm glad to have met some.of my bio-fsther's family (Bob), and I'm his only child, but Nate is my dad. He was the one that was there.
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What's the inherent issue? I really can't think of any. It's super gross, but that's just how I (and most other people of course) feel about it. But what if some didn't, what would be the issue then?
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It is still wrong. Whether you see it or not.
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The issue is it's gross as f**k.
I agree with be royal! You had no clue, no shared childhood. With IVF today, there may be many more couples in a similar situation. An example is the fact that TWO of my husband's (yeah married more than once) were actually my COUSINS. We were not adopted, grew up in different areas of the country, but when ancestry research was done (we all did it!) it turned out that I was biologically related to BOTH of them. We just laugh about it. But I do consider my former bil in one instance as my brother, and after my divorce from his brother,(the actual ex husband) we dated for some time as well, including sex, etc. I did get pregnant by him, but had a miscarriage. So stay with your boyfriend. Sounds like you have a good relationship, don't get weirded out now. It's not like a guy I knew that dated his REAL sister. (Grew up together.)
I knew a girl that had to leave the state of Washington to get married. And the reason another state okayed it was because she had already gone through menopause. She didn't even have to change her last name when she married her cousin.
100% agree - I feel like if they'd have grown up together, it's definitely different, but the thing is. they didn't. They were strangers to each other, and their bond has clearly always, for the past 6 years, been a BF/GF bond as opposed to a sibling bond. Is it worth ending a happy relationship over this, when it's something that won't effect any children born, and that no one really has to know?
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It's illegal in the majority of western civilisation, they could move to a red neck town and blend right in ..
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Your sick. God is revealing the truth to them so they can stop living in sin and you say hey cool incest is great as long as you don't have kids. Your sick not to mention Godless
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That's absolutely disgusting.
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That's disgusting. Might as well say it's okay for a parent to date their own child as long as they're both consenting.
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Ummm terrible advice! This would be beyond a sick situation! To suggest hey bed your whole sibling both from broken bio homes with already high probability of tendency to violence, psychopathy mental illness and crime while your at it adopt another person being an innocent child likely damaged already throw them in your bone my literal bro a thon it's acceptable wonder what next deviancy is made sterile enough to be okay and expose yet another generation..see this is the cycle of abuse. No it's not ok to ever EVER knowingly be boning a sibling a relative of any type. Period. Are we really having to explain this? I mean I'm from the Southern USA so the fact I have to is just like daaaamnn.
It's kind of interesting that pretty much everybody is saying there's nothing wrong with it, but also saying to keep it a secret.
Because people are a**holes and will say mean things. Why expose yourself like that. The shock was big enough, they have to process the whole thing, and mean comments will make it harder.
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FINALLY! COMMON SENSE! All of these sickos promoting incest should be lobotomized.
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Finally a sensible person. Thank you. She's a skank. Flat out skank. Not to mention who then posts it online?
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People are not *ssholes for being disgusted by siblings having romantic relationships. It's taboo for a reason - while their children may not have problems, their grandchildren could & pass those problems down through generations. Also, try living with a serious, painful genetic disease. They are rare because each of your parents have to have half of the code. When you're siblings, the chances just quadrupled. We do not want to normalize incest. Because just like w/every other box we've opened, all of the wicked, immoral and iniquitous behaviors that 5 years ago people would have been revolted by now ignore. There's actually a movement to normalize "consensual" relationships between 38 yr old & an 8 yr old! Pedos are trying to claim they are the "victim" of they own sexual preferences towards pre pubescent children! Just no. In this case, what's done is done but we're not going to normalize it or advertise it. Keep private things private.
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People these days don't understand the difference of being an a*****e or giving someone a hard truth. The bottom line is, regardless of how difficult it is to find love. You don't settle for a brother or sister. And encouraging a brother and sister to continue having sex is just so wrong. Even if someone gets surgery to prevent children. Everyone just wants to accept everything these days. No one is talking about anything crossing a line. Thats pretty alarming.
Because they've been together six years, have a life together, and would have literally never known if not for a passing whim. It's alarming you can't see any nuance to that situation or recognize the very real struggle both these people are now faced with.
Maybe it's easy for people to judge because theyve never had someone they care about that they can relate to the situation. For me, I have been in a real relationship for seven years, he's the love of my life, and we also decided to never have kids. But if I found out we were related, I couldn't imagine giving up my soul mate today over that. But not everyone is lucky enough to have someone they love that much so I'd imagine it's just hard for them to relate.
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But they DO know, so to continue is just gross.
Forever, psychologically they are not siblings. They didn't grow up together. So the only issue to be addressed is the possibility of inbreeding.
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Yeah but they’re still related to each other. That’s like saying it’s okay for a son to continue dating his mom as long as they dont have any kids. It’s wrong period.
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So you're okay with a dad who abandoned his child to start dating her because he wasn't around when she grew up? Man, this world is disgusting.
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Umm yeah that is like her not my real parents comment .so like does the whole not growing up together..will their tards be any less tards by that tard logic?
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They ARE siblings, you tranny lunatic. Go O.D.
Oh sure, incest happens all the time and the couple keeps quiet about it, no one bats an eye. But when one couple who didn't even KNOW about the incest decides to talk about it, everyone loses their minds!
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Agreed! Everyone accepts everything now a days. This is disgusting
Yes, heavens forbid we should be more tolerant towards others who are literally doing nothing to harm anyone else in the world. They are committed to not having children which is the only potential issue in that it might cause harm to the child. What's really disgusting is two people who are incensed about what two consenting adults are doing in the privacy of their own home. How about stop worrying so much about the sex other people are having and mind your own genitals.
There is the whole incest is illegal thing. If it became known, they could get charged if they continued their relationship.
They can't be charged with anything as long as they are adults. But they can't ever get legally married in most states and certainly should not be having kids.
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Charged? They should be tossed into a volcano for this wretched behavior. Not to mention those advocating it like the "authors."
Well said ~ three cheers for tolerance! Fior acceptance! For unconditional Love of our fellow humans, completely sans judgement!
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Incest should not be tolerated, and the fact that so many are justifying it shows how backwards we are.
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Yeah why dont you have sex with your son or something just don’t have any kids
whoa thats NOT THE SAME AT ALL! Siblings have long been allowed 2 marry or be together all over the world in diff places 4 centuries yet no society has ever condoned anyone being with their own parent! + they arent hurting ANYONE or ANYTHING as long as they dont have kids so really, even if u PERSONALLY think its gross, its really not ur business, imo. If u live in a FREE society u kno it comes at a cost...like maybe havin 2 think things are "gross" sometimes. luckily freedom means others dont (or shouldnt)get 2 decide wat consenting adults do in bed as long as there r no kids involved. Why dont u worry bout the fact that B*********Y is still legal in a bunch of states cuz they dont care about animal rights... NOT cuz the states arent cool with b*********y..seems like they ARE ok with it since its LEGAL. Yet sumhow ppl in love who never knew they were related & met as adults cant continue their 'ship? awful. They should have the choice 2 B 2gether even if others dont aprove
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It is our business because she chose to post about it publicly. If she didn’t want any of us to comment then she could have brought this subject up with a therapist and not on the internet and no one would be the wiser.
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Shut up, since you cannot spell. Firstly, "diff" is not a word, and should be replaced with different, and secondly, "diff places 4 centuries" does not make sense. To be concise, your whole post doesn't make sense and your opinion is invalid.
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When you open the door to one taboo, you open them all. Incest is incest. The law does not distinguish. If you tolerate bio siblings having sexual relationships, then father/son, father/daughter, mother/daughter & mother/son are ok too. And siblings living within the same household.
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Uh oh found the brother banger. Callie you are fn VILE. Is Thanksgiving & Xmas in your family more of an orgy than a traditional get-together? Go mind your vagine with a glass bottle followed by a hammer.
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It all started with that pride c**p, it was just to allow the make the most vile behavior "acceptable". At first it was "oh waah be nice to us." Now it has come full circle with faggo teachers sneaking hormones to minors. Hopefully the mRNA will exterminate these monkeypox carriers.
So ur either a troll or a backwards, overly religious person who picks & chooses wat parts of the bible are vital to follow and which arent, (as ur ilk is known 2 do) despite what Jesus ACTUALLY taught. If any of these so called Christians who rant & rave about stuff like being gay or abortion ACTUALLY cared what Jesus wanted, theyd all be socialists. Jesus looked at greed and wealth as evil, he promoted charity, GIVING, renouncing materialism, protecting the environment etc, all of which goes against typical right wing capitalist ideas. But extreme/evangelical christianity now is totally a hypocritical joke, with pple claiming theyre the most christian yet living the opposite way Jesus wanted. Also this 1; judge not lest ye be judged! But who is the most judgy group ever!? Overly religious ppl! shock! Mind ur own bees wax & worry about YOURSELF. Gays just make things more glittery & fun, they dont hurt anything by just being themselves. Grow up & join us in the new millennium pls.
Christian here and I really HATE those bigoted over religious people who give the rest of us and Christianity as a whole a bad name. The first commandment is to love God and the second thy brethren. The only commandment Jesus gave to people was to love others as He has loved us. There was never a commandment where God needs people to judge and point on his behalf. People use religion as a cover or excuse to freely hate on what they consider different from them. Quoting Jesus "Let he that has no sin cast the first stone!"
Nope can't agree with your last sentence (altho I loved and absolutely second every sentence before it). We do not want these people with us. Let them fade into obscurity as the years pass until they and the frankly hideous opinions they hold are forgotten x
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Jesus also said homosexuality was an abomination.
The Bible actually doesn't say that. But the mistranslations do imply that. The Bible says don't be a pedo.
Bible was saying men who have sex with boys are an abomination to God. Pretty clear that is a pedo. Early Christians were eager to be very different from the Romans and Greeks who were in power. Pedophilia was just one of many problems with that society.
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I would like to point out that the KJV actually does say that, and KJV is the closest English translation to the original.
B******t. The king James version of the bible was completed in 1611 by just 8 members of the protestant church of England. There were (and still are) NO original texts to survive to translate from. The oldest manuscripts were written down hundreds of years after the last apostle died, from fables spread by mouth. There were around 8,000 of those manuscripts with no two remotely alike. Not that it mattered because the KJV translators used none of these anyway. Instead, they edited previous mistranslations to create a version that adhered to King James' personal Christian ideology because otherwise they would have been executed. So the KJV is a book edited in the 17th-century from 16th-century mistranslations of 8,000 contradictory copies of 4th-century scrolls that claim to be letters from the 1st century.
@hanginwithmygnomies But if the KJV says a man shouldn't lie with a man, then the translation is incorrect. The original second man was actually a boy.
Joe, it shouldn't matter to you or anyone other than the people involved. It's called accepting that in free societies people have the right to live their lives in way you may personally disagree with, as long as they are not harming anyone. You also have the exact same freedom, and if you do not believe in freedom for all, then you do not believe in freedom for yourself either.
@Uncle Addy, I can understand your outrage because I find incest gross too. I also do think that it can harm the bloodline at some point if it’s too pervasive but I don’t advocate death or murder or throwing people into a volcano even if you meant that as a joke it’s still not right. The OP and her boyfriend/brother didn’t know for sure that they were even related. I don’t really blame them all that much unless they continue the relationship wether they choose to have kids or not. They can change their minds later on and want to have kids. I do blame the birth parents but mostly the state and adoption agencies that handled their cases because somewhere down the line they should’ve known that the same exact parent (s) were giving away babies for adoption. Never keep the knowledge of blood relationships away from blood because this type of nasty stuff happens.
These people were undoubtedly in foster care and just never told. After all, their parents didn't bother to let them know they were adopted until they were almost adults. It's likely they have other older or younger full siblings nearby too.
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NO, sloot. Incest harms the whole of society but commie tw@ts such as yourself want to live in a world of horrors & filth. Die.
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Wow yes cause clearly that's so NOT the same thing. But thanks we can always count on the r******d to crawl off the short uses when they hear anything vaguely r******d happening thinking they can feed within it's hate. Beat it dirt bag
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Get lost chasen, you disgusting sodomite. Go eat some razors.
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That needs to be made illegal again as well. Faggos & slizzers make me sick. It has been forced down our throats for decades & you can't find a store without some rainbow diarrhea from the last week of may to the first week of july.
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I totally agree. It's because no one has any moral compass Amy more. The best solution is to hi separate and get counselling in how to move forward.
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Found the sister banging pedo. Insulting people who are against incest, what is wrong with you, creep?
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Love how people are assholes for thinking the ho boning her own brother and bright enough to post about online and describe the sacrificing two adults whom I'm sure and rightfully should be are probably ashamed as hell in the millisecond she even bothers to mention them are described by her as "not my real parents"..oh yeah clearly the moral are the assholes while she's the clearly not a b***h brother boner except she is y'all she is. Or claims. Personally I think she's full of s**t knows nothing about DNA testing particularly comparison between opposite gender siblings & complexity how many actual types of tests that can take and costs..not to mention even then not a 100 hundred percent just last couple huge changes just in X inheritance for example we now know in two percent of these Genotype varieties they can tend to actually pass down from the contributing Sperm and the X genotype of Paternal grandmother will pass to this female. Same happens a bit less with Y and Maternal Father
Lots of things are perfectly fine yet get a lot of judgement, lots of people are assholes
Because otherwise their whole world gets blown up. Why must they tell the people that they deal with irl? Hmm? There’s no obligation to share every detail with everyone. Period. Society is a jacked up control used to make people share absolutely everything when it’s not necessary. They don’t gotta. Are you going to make them?
Gosh exactly what I was thinking...so if it's ok then why keep it a secret huh? It's because they all know this shouldn't be happening..yes they didn't know at first but now they know it's just wrong.. I read it on Reddit and the OP response ... They're literally full blown siblings.
Nonsense. Nothing wrong with it at all. You would keep it secret because of all the superstitious fools and gossips who would love to make their lives miserable!
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Go dig out your moms guts out in the bedroom. Just dont have any kids. Dont worry it’s not wrong according to you Fool
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Go die you filthy child molester. How many times were you arrested for diddling neices & nephews?
Cause making it public would gain them nothing but judgement - why invite unnecessary trouble? It's not a moral/ethical issue for narrow-minded outsiders to decide if its wrong since its between 2 consenting adults. Since they don't plan to have children, it affects no one else but them. i.e. its a personal decision for them to decide what is best for themselves.
They're being too cold to keep it a secret because of people like you and your comments.
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Fetch a rope & hang yourself, beth brotherficker.
Man oh man, am I ever glad you're not MY Uncle, Andy... You came across as violently angry and cruel...
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Thank you for being here and agreeing with me.
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I agree wholeheartedly with you kim.....this is just not ok and nothing good about it and normal people would need lots of therapy and cleansing to get past this type of situation....the world has morphed into something that accepts any and everything, if this were a mother and son would it still be ok...or a daddy and daughter...yeah there are those in this present world who would find a way to say something horrific like love is love. Stay true to what you know is right kim and never allow the darkness that's taken over this world and it's inhabitants to consume you.
They were complete strangers before dating, they live together and have a long term relationship, if they never got tested, this wouldn't be weird, they would be completely unaware. Parent/children relationships are wrong due to the parental connection, same with pairs of siblings because they GREW together, but this doesn't apply here, since they were raised entirely apart and never knew each other, and didn't know their connection before dating, which would be the f****d up part. They are just two random people that share the same set of genes
You use the example “if” it’s not justifiable. From the point they were unaware they’re siblings it wasnt wrong due to the innocence factor but from the moment they knew, it became wrong. It is like when a child does something wrong but isnt aware or know because of innocence. Once they get older and know its wrong, than its wrong period.
Ashi Mari, I 100% agree with you! I couldn't have said it better myself! You have a good heart! This is LOVE we're talking about! It is what it is!! Anyone can tell the people with the negative nasty comments are not good hearted people!! That Uncle Addy person on here should be forced to give up the cell phone and given a wall phone!! He's completely disgusting in every way!!!! Mother Earth needs to swallow his a*s!!! I'm pretty sure you agree 👍
Oh well, if not one, but TWO babies are both given up for adoption into DIFFERENT families, and they weren't told about their bio parents' names or the fact they do have a full blooded sibling somewhere, whose fault exactly was that? I'd say keep the secret to the grave. Also, non-blood siblings who grow up together getting hooked up is more disgusting. Also more gross if the relationship is about a father/daughter or mother/son. Since the parent would know they have had produced some kids somehow, and also the age gap for that matter.
It's like being gay well my experience. Can't tell anyone because it becsmes a big deal even though they know. I know because my family believes. It's one of those things. I was once happy but sadly the truth came out and we didn't stay together. I'll never forget and yet I still enjoy life writing books tho there's only one out. ☺️
You just keep on writing! The opinions of "everyman" are essential for the balance of real Truth which exists in every cell of all things ~ in all Universes! Bruce Cockburn wrote "Maybe the Poet" which reiterates how essential YOUR Truth, MY Truth, ALL Truths need to be heard ~ these trillions of Truths each holds the same place in the scheme of it all, and carries equal weight from which Ultimate Universal Truth can be heard in the harmonizing of howling Wolves, Crickets, the Wind passing through and around Trees, Human voices and our moans of ecstacy....and FELT as Vibrational Connections, even to the quarks floating, joining between and amongst every Atom... I DO get carried away by the excitement of all this... but I better ease on down the road before I get accosted for my Free Spirited Truth...
Actually most courts are lenient in cases like this. It's because of the psychological damage. Imagine you find out your spouse of 50 years is your full sibling, but you met as strangers and fell in love. It's more complicated than black and white and the courts of the world know that
And how is the law supposed to know about this? Legally they are not siblings. This is between them, unless they tell someone.
If the law must be enforced no matter what, then the adoptive parents and adopted children must also be disclosed of full information about the bio parents, their siblings, and everyone's adoptive families name and full contact info. But oh, that also "invades privacy"? Head I win, tail you lose indeed.
Because society on the whole tends to be self-righteous and judgmental. Just look at some of the comment in this thread.
It's completely unpredictable how people would react. it can turn away a parent, a friend, it can make hate. They must keep it a secret. They both have to castrate themselves because if a child is born (s**t happens) with a disease, they would hate themselves for their whole life.
Probably because depending on the state, they could both go to jail
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It's not interesting, it's fn disgusting just how many sickos out there support this vile trash.
Yeah, cuz too many tolerant OPEN MINDS might conjoin as one hella dangerous "Black Hole of Love"!! Eeeeeeeeek...a friggin' Love Machine! Joy could well ruin our barely balanced economy! Also: Does ANYONE reading this remember a movie called. "What's so Bad about Feeling Good?" I've asked this a "few" times in various places, but have YET to get a single ~ yes, it's a wonderful movie and I might just have to make an updated version! &5
If you guys aren't having kids I see no problem with it. I probably wouldn't introduce him as "my brother/boyfriend" though. Option B is move to West Virginia. You won't even stand out there :p
Did you need to get your brother/boyfriends permission to say that? ;)
I know some people in West Virginia, and a few too many have some not too wholesome "family bonds" if you know what I mean. Alabama got a break on this one lol
That being said, Trump's kids never went without, but he still made the older ones work their butts off and prove they deserve what they got. Nothing was just "handed to them because daddy is rich". In fact they didn't even know he was as wealthy as he was. They thought they were just "comfortable". So props to the man for making his kids know the value of money.
Hubby from west Virginia but sadly when we got our marriage license they asked if we were related. He's as white as you can get I'm latina
I'm from WV too, and I don't care what people say about WV because it is pretty darn Podunk. People get offended over the stupidest of things... Big deal, someone said something about WV, and you just happen to be from there. You probably haven't even traveled the entire state. Parts of WV used to be really great, 30 years ago, but these days, it's a sesspool of backwater, uneducated cryptids.
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So am I. West Virginia fvcking sucks, you can’t say anything good about it. The people are b!tches and the actual place is ugly and claustrophobic.
I was born in Arkansas and I think it is time to bring trash talk like this to an end. I don't understand how people advocate and demand certain words be stricken from our vocabulary but this nasty/hateful speech is okay? It's not funny. It's not a joke, it's hurtful. I was a child when grown a$$ men started asking me about sleeping with family.
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if you were still in Arkansas they probably wanted in on the action.
Or maybe Alabama. Was a little hard to read the post without sweet home Alabama playing in full volume in my head.
Even though this was meant as a joke, look at the people who got bent over it. Being too sensitive is getting more problematic every day...
For the record, there are a ton of cool people in West Virginia making art, opening businesses, helping their communities, and just trying to live well in spite of chronic disinvestment and a reliance on coal and oil industries that leaves normal people in precarious economic conditions. But there's a ton of natural beauty, a growing eco-tourism industry, and some small cities that are very much up-and-coming. It's worth checking out this wild and wonderful state if you get the chance. I recommend New River Gorge National Park!
Lmfao, omg I choked on my water because of this whole thread you started. 🤣🤣
DJBenne, there was no mention of public indecency, anyone snorting a relatives cremated remains, nor wrasslin' gators. In this way, we know Florida wasn't involved 😁
I am actually from MD originally but moved to central WV as a child. I find it sad that people think this about us but if it keeps people out- that's great---because it's a beautiful, safe state. I am not a fan of the politics here but I just do my voting and move on with my day. With all that said, I did the DNA tests as well...and if you want to talk about inbreeding... my paternal grandmothers side is a mess.They are from Western NC and Eastern TN--- There are so many double, triple, quadruple cousins...over years and years of marrying into the same families between third cousins and back. I have three times more cousin matches on that side that I do my Maryland family. Thankfully, my paternal grandparents moved to Baltimore, MD to open up the gene pool. My point is, WV gets made fun of for this but it's really an Appalachia thing and quite common in rural America in general during those time periods.
My mother and I both grew up.in the pacific northwest. When she went to marry a guy in texas that was raised in Alabama, they made them have a DNA test done. Ummmmm.... the odds of them being related are slim to none. My mom's ancestors were like Yankees and Texas from wayback. His family pretty much stuck to to southeast. Needless to say, outside of them both coming from Europe in the way Way Way back, there are no ties that could be found (thank God for that I must say). So just because someone is from somewhere doesn't mean everyone that is there is that way. By the way, WV is quite lovey geographically speaking. I have only known one person from there and he is a doctor with 11 children. He eventually bought a bed & breakfast as a residence. If you like beautiful scenery I recommend some of the smaller cities and towns north of Seattle, WA. La Conner is quite beautiful. Anacortes is beautiful until you know about the demographics. 45% are filthy rich, 45% are below poverty level.
I'm also from West Virginia and I never had sex with any of my relatives
You mean Kentucky Arkansas and Alaska. Kentucky and Arkansas have more inbred relationships than West Virginia. Get your facts right if you are badmouthing other people and states they're from. Fugates are more famous than the Whitaker family
They happen in California and Colorado too and not just off in small towns or or the corner down south by Utah where Warren Jeffs was making sure only a small handful of his middle aged men got to stick around with their 14 wives and all the boys are thrown out, or worse, when they reach 14 themselves.
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First of all don't know where you get your facts at but Kentucky isn't that bad, yea giving eastern Kentucky their is some like that but there's really not many like that here, hell to be safe I got with a woman outside of the state just in case. And judging by your profile picture your the one that looks inbred. Just saying before you criticize another state and the people in it might make sure your ready for what will be said about you in return. We can go back and forth all day and night, I'm ready for it but you won't win, besides do you have all your fingers and toes, and what's your IQ like a 35 lol you look like one that sleeps with their daddy, maybe a uncle. Well that's all I need to say now but will be waiting for your reply good night.
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What has humanity come to...cant believe so many people are encouraging this relationship. All I have to say is this is your test, get over it and start acting like brother and sister if not go your own separate ways.
Look. I respect your opinion, but society isn't all like that. Plus, it's an uncommon situation. You kinda HAVE to sympathize.
From your wording, you sound like you're coming from a religious point of view, but if you believe humans came from two people... Then you also believe there's a lot of incest in the human line. Not to mention the choke point of Noah, were again humanity all stem from one family. The Bible has a lot of specific mentions of people marrying their sisters too, including Abraham.
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I did not realize how many depraved people is in the world. they are full brother and sister and you're saying keep having a sexual relationship you like the rest of them is going to burn in hell God revealed the truth to them so they can stop sinning. you are a filthy person spiritually and mentally next you be saying to your daughter hey read this article and says it's okay others is doing it
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No no if she gon be a bone my own bio bro kinda ho and post this c**p she should it tattooed on her forehead license shirt required to introduce him. I mean if it's ok then what's the prob? My grandma always said if you wouldn't want to admit to me and the other ladies about the people and places doing then probably shouldn't be doing that. In other words embarrassed=stop
Lol what? People are embarrassed to say they met on Tinder or watch anime embarrassment isn't a signal you should stop doing something
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Lemme guess... you molested every sibling you have, john. Go jump off a building, scumrat.
If you love each other and can safely say you don't want kids then someone needs to get fixed to avoid it accidentally happening. You can both adopt if you want to share your life with a child later on. And keep this in the closet between you both. You both didn't know. You're both adults. And if you don't mind it just think that you're the closest soul mates you can be.
She is on reddit, not here to see this response. But I definitely agree with your comment.
Load More Replies...I would have to agree as well, although much care, thought, communication and commitment would have to go into staying together and one or both of them getting "fixed". If they grew apart because life is uncertain that could be hazardous in many ways.
I expect that most redditors who wins up on BP get told by eager pandas. I'm on Reddit and raised OP's attention once or twice.
Both parties to make sure weird accidents don't happen. I knew a woman, got married, had a baby, got Norplant, got pregnant, norplant taken out, had next baby, got norplant again, got pregnant again, norplant taken out again, had baby, got tubes tied... sure enough got pregnant again. Had baby, got her tubes retied, and insisted her husband did too. 4 kids in 5 years. They were DONE.
Addressing the author of a post directly even though he or she may never read it is a common rhetorical device.
I agree. This is the right answer. They should stay together if they want. There isnt any inherent issue with dating your brother. The issue is inbreeding. They need to get one of them sterilized.
There is definitely an inherent issue with dating a sibling, except for cases like this. They aren't sibling in any way other than biologically, if they had grown up together it would be much different and much more disgusting. As they are, I'd say keep the no kids decision and act like you never found out. It's kind of too late anyway honestly
I'm not sure if that's really what they meant. Growing up together as siblings (biological or not) isn't the same as growing up together as friends or neighbors etc. I thought they were referring to the former rather than the latter.
Please stop downvoting Ozacotor. Downvoting gets people banned, sometimes permanently. It is not a dislike button, it is supposed to be a reporting tool for harresment, hate, and spam. BP does not review the comments. It is automated and people will get a message saying they have been banned for suspicious behavior. It is one of BP's biggest flaws. So, Ozacotor's opinion may be different than the norm, or they may be a cultural difference, but they do not deserve to get banned for their comment. If you don't like it, don't upvote it.
BP stopped banning people for downvotes months ago if not longer. Now they only take away points.
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I'm gonna downvote you even harder now
So I suppose you never heard of childhood sweethearts or highschool sweethearts? Nothing taboo about dating or marrying someone you grew up with that you are not related to whatsoever.
Critical thinking ppl. They meant as in growing up in the same household even though they aren’t blood relatives. If a couple tells ppl their step siblings ppl start acting as if they are committing incest even though they aren’t blood related. Not the same as the next door neighbors playing in the sand box together then getting married later in life. Same as grooming. An older guy knowing you as a child or teen and dating you later in life isn’t grooming unless as a child or teen he was inappropriate whether it be comments, looks, “advice” as well as a few other things.. but it’s still seen as taboo and wrong. So the person wasn’t comment you are addressing is perfectly right
My family is bizarre. My brothers are my brothers even though we share no consanguinity. I grew up withbthek, on many occasions I shared bedrooms with them. I probably lived with their parents more than I lived with my own. My mom gave me their last name when I was born. My mom and their mom were best friends. I once tried to see if I could.view them as attractive. I REALLY CAN'T TELL!!! I love them, but in a sister kind-of-way. I think I could probably tell if I weren't so close to them. On the other hand, I have always thought my cousin Ben was extremely cute, and didn't know we weren't blood-related until I was 9. I would never have done anything, and still wouldn't, but he is still very attractive and we are in our 40's. His uncle is the man that raised me. Where I come from is nice to know, and I'm glad to have met some.of my bio-fsther's family (Bob), and I'm his only child, but Nate is my dad. He was the one that was there.
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What's the inherent issue? I really can't think of any. It's super gross, but that's just how I (and most other people of course) feel about it. But what if some didn't, what would be the issue then?
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It is still wrong. Whether you see it or not.
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The issue is it's gross as f**k.
I agree with be royal! You had no clue, no shared childhood. With IVF today, there may be many more couples in a similar situation. An example is the fact that TWO of my husband's (yeah married more than once) were actually my COUSINS. We were not adopted, grew up in different areas of the country, but when ancestry research was done (we all did it!) it turned out that I was biologically related to BOTH of them. We just laugh about it. But I do consider my former bil in one instance as my brother, and after my divorce from his brother,(the actual ex husband) we dated for some time as well, including sex, etc. I did get pregnant by him, but had a miscarriage. So stay with your boyfriend. Sounds like you have a good relationship, don't get weirded out now. It's not like a guy I knew that dated his REAL sister. (Grew up together.)
I knew a girl that had to leave the state of Washington to get married. And the reason another state okayed it was because she had already gone through menopause. She didn't even have to change her last name when she married her cousin.
100% agree - I feel like if they'd have grown up together, it's definitely different, but the thing is. they didn't. They were strangers to each other, and their bond has clearly always, for the past 6 years, been a BF/GF bond as opposed to a sibling bond. Is it worth ending a happy relationship over this, when it's something that won't effect any children born, and that no one really has to know?
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It's illegal in the majority of western civilisation, they could move to a red neck town and blend right in ..
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Your sick. God is revealing the truth to them so they can stop living in sin and you say hey cool incest is great as long as you don't have kids. Your sick not to mention Godless
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That's absolutely disgusting.
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That's disgusting. Might as well say it's okay for a parent to date their own child as long as they're both consenting.
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Ummm terrible advice! This would be beyond a sick situation! To suggest hey bed your whole sibling both from broken bio homes with already high probability of tendency to violence, psychopathy mental illness and crime while your at it adopt another person being an innocent child likely damaged already throw them in your bone my literal bro a thon it's acceptable wonder what next deviancy is made sterile enough to be okay and expose yet another generation..see this is the cycle of abuse. No it's not ok to ever EVER knowingly be boning a sibling a relative of any type. Period. Are we really having to explain this? I mean I'm from the Southern USA so the fact I have to is just like daaaamnn.
It's kind of interesting that pretty much everybody is saying there's nothing wrong with it, but also saying to keep it a secret.
Because people are a**holes and will say mean things. Why expose yourself like that. The shock was big enough, they have to process the whole thing, and mean comments will make it harder.
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FINALLY! COMMON SENSE! All of these sickos promoting incest should be lobotomized.
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Finally a sensible person. Thank you. She's a skank. Flat out skank. Not to mention who then posts it online?
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People are not *ssholes for being disgusted by siblings having romantic relationships. It's taboo for a reason - while their children may not have problems, their grandchildren could & pass those problems down through generations. Also, try living with a serious, painful genetic disease. They are rare because each of your parents have to have half of the code. When you're siblings, the chances just quadrupled. We do not want to normalize incest. Because just like w/every other box we've opened, all of the wicked, immoral and iniquitous behaviors that 5 years ago people would have been revolted by now ignore. There's actually a movement to normalize "consensual" relationships between 38 yr old & an 8 yr old! Pedos are trying to claim they are the "victim" of they own sexual preferences towards pre pubescent children! Just no. In this case, what's done is done but we're not going to normalize it or advertise it. Keep private things private.
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People these days don't understand the difference of being an a*****e or giving someone a hard truth. The bottom line is, regardless of how difficult it is to find love. You don't settle for a brother or sister. And encouraging a brother and sister to continue having sex is just so wrong. Even if someone gets surgery to prevent children. Everyone just wants to accept everything these days. No one is talking about anything crossing a line. Thats pretty alarming.
Because they've been together six years, have a life together, and would have literally never known if not for a passing whim. It's alarming you can't see any nuance to that situation or recognize the very real struggle both these people are now faced with.
Maybe it's easy for people to judge because theyve never had someone they care about that they can relate to the situation. For me, I have been in a real relationship for seven years, he's the love of my life, and we also decided to never have kids. But if I found out we were related, I couldn't imagine giving up my soul mate today over that. But not everyone is lucky enough to have someone they love that much so I'd imagine it's just hard for them to relate.
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But they DO know, so to continue is just gross.
Forever, psychologically they are not siblings. They didn't grow up together. So the only issue to be addressed is the possibility of inbreeding.
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Yeah but they’re still related to each other. That’s like saying it’s okay for a son to continue dating his mom as long as they dont have any kids. It’s wrong period.
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So you're okay with a dad who abandoned his child to start dating her because he wasn't around when she grew up? Man, this world is disgusting.
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Umm yeah that is like her not my real parents comment .so like does the whole not growing up together..will their tards be any less tards by that tard logic?
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They ARE siblings, you tranny lunatic. Go O.D.
Oh sure, incest happens all the time and the couple keeps quiet about it, no one bats an eye. But when one couple who didn't even KNOW about the incest decides to talk about it, everyone loses their minds!
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Agreed! Everyone accepts everything now a days. This is disgusting
Yes, heavens forbid we should be more tolerant towards others who are literally doing nothing to harm anyone else in the world. They are committed to not having children which is the only potential issue in that it might cause harm to the child. What's really disgusting is two people who are incensed about what two consenting adults are doing in the privacy of their own home. How about stop worrying so much about the sex other people are having and mind your own genitals.
There is the whole incest is illegal thing. If it became known, they could get charged if they continued their relationship.
They can't be charged with anything as long as they are adults. But they can't ever get legally married in most states and certainly should not be having kids.
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Charged? They should be tossed into a volcano for this wretched behavior. Not to mention those advocating it like the "authors."
Well said ~ three cheers for tolerance! Fior acceptance! For unconditional Love of our fellow humans, completely sans judgement!
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Incest should not be tolerated, and the fact that so many are justifying it shows how backwards we are.
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Yeah why dont you have sex with your son or something just don’t have any kids
whoa thats NOT THE SAME AT ALL! Siblings have long been allowed 2 marry or be together all over the world in diff places 4 centuries yet no society has ever condoned anyone being with their own parent! + they arent hurting ANYONE or ANYTHING as long as they dont have kids so really, even if u PERSONALLY think its gross, its really not ur business, imo. If u live in a FREE society u kno it comes at a cost...like maybe havin 2 think things are "gross" sometimes. luckily freedom means others dont (or shouldnt)get 2 decide wat consenting adults do in bed as long as there r no kids involved. Why dont u worry bout the fact that B*********Y is still legal in a bunch of states cuz they dont care about animal rights... NOT cuz the states arent cool with b*********y..seems like they ARE ok with it since its LEGAL. Yet sumhow ppl in love who never knew they were related & met as adults cant continue their 'ship? awful. They should have the choice 2 B 2gether even if others dont aprove
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It is our business because she chose to post about it publicly. If she didn’t want any of us to comment then she could have brought this subject up with a therapist and not on the internet and no one would be the wiser.
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Shut up, since you cannot spell. Firstly, "diff" is not a word, and should be replaced with different, and secondly, "diff places 4 centuries" does not make sense. To be concise, your whole post doesn't make sense and your opinion is invalid.
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When you open the door to one taboo, you open them all. Incest is incest. The law does not distinguish. If you tolerate bio siblings having sexual relationships, then father/son, father/daughter, mother/daughter & mother/son are ok too. And siblings living within the same household.
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Uh oh found the brother banger. Callie you are fn VILE. Is Thanksgiving & Xmas in your family more of an orgy than a traditional get-together? Go mind your vagine with a glass bottle followed by a hammer.
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It all started with that pride c**p, it was just to allow the make the most vile behavior "acceptable". At first it was "oh waah be nice to us." Now it has come full circle with faggo teachers sneaking hormones to minors. Hopefully the mRNA will exterminate these monkeypox carriers.
So ur either a troll or a backwards, overly religious person who picks & chooses wat parts of the bible are vital to follow and which arent, (as ur ilk is known 2 do) despite what Jesus ACTUALLY taught. If any of these so called Christians who rant & rave about stuff like being gay or abortion ACTUALLY cared what Jesus wanted, theyd all be socialists. Jesus looked at greed and wealth as evil, he promoted charity, GIVING, renouncing materialism, protecting the environment etc, all of which goes against typical right wing capitalist ideas. But extreme/evangelical christianity now is totally a hypocritical joke, with pple claiming theyre the most christian yet living the opposite way Jesus wanted. Also this 1; judge not lest ye be judged! But who is the most judgy group ever!? Overly religious ppl! shock! Mind ur own bees wax & worry about YOURSELF. Gays just make things more glittery & fun, they dont hurt anything by just being themselves. Grow up & join us in the new millennium pls.
Christian here and I really HATE those bigoted over religious people who give the rest of us and Christianity as a whole a bad name. The first commandment is to love God and the second thy brethren. The only commandment Jesus gave to people was to love others as He has loved us. There was never a commandment where God needs people to judge and point on his behalf. People use religion as a cover or excuse to freely hate on what they consider different from them. Quoting Jesus "Let he that has no sin cast the first stone!"
Nope can't agree with your last sentence (altho I loved and absolutely second every sentence before it). We do not want these people with us. Let them fade into obscurity as the years pass until they and the frankly hideous opinions they hold are forgotten x
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Jesus also said homosexuality was an abomination.
The Bible actually doesn't say that. But the mistranslations do imply that. The Bible says don't be a pedo.
Bible was saying men who have sex with boys are an abomination to God. Pretty clear that is a pedo. Early Christians were eager to be very different from the Romans and Greeks who were in power. Pedophilia was just one of many problems with that society.
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I would like to point out that the KJV actually does say that, and KJV is the closest English translation to the original.
B******t. The king James version of the bible was completed in 1611 by just 8 members of the protestant church of England. There were (and still are) NO original texts to survive to translate from. The oldest manuscripts were written down hundreds of years after the last apostle died, from fables spread by mouth. There were around 8,000 of those manuscripts with no two remotely alike. Not that it mattered because the KJV translators used none of these anyway. Instead, they edited previous mistranslations to create a version that adhered to King James' personal Christian ideology because otherwise they would have been executed. So the KJV is a book edited in the 17th-century from 16th-century mistranslations of 8,000 contradictory copies of 4th-century scrolls that claim to be letters from the 1st century.
@hanginwithmygnomies But if the KJV says a man shouldn't lie with a man, then the translation is incorrect. The original second man was actually a boy.
Joe, it shouldn't matter to you or anyone other than the people involved. It's called accepting that in free societies people have the right to live their lives in way you may personally disagree with, as long as they are not harming anyone. You also have the exact same freedom, and if you do not believe in freedom for all, then you do not believe in freedom for yourself either.
@Uncle Addy, I can understand your outrage because I find incest gross too. I also do think that it can harm the bloodline at some point if it’s too pervasive but I don’t advocate death or murder or throwing people into a volcano even if you meant that as a joke it’s still not right. The OP and her boyfriend/brother didn’t know for sure that they were even related. I don’t really blame them all that much unless they continue the relationship wether they choose to have kids or not. They can change their minds later on and want to have kids. I do blame the birth parents but mostly the state and adoption agencies that handled their cases because somewhere down the line they should’ve known that the same exact parent (s) were giving away babies for adoption. Never keep the knowledge of blood relationships away from blood because this type of nasty stuff happens.
These people were undoubtedly in foster care and just never told. After all, their parents didn't bother to let them know they were adopted until they were almost adults. It's likely they have other older or younger full siblings nearby too.
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NO, sloot. Incest harms the whole of society but commie tw@ts such as yourself want to live in a world of horrors & filth. Die.
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Wow yes cause clearly that's so NOT the same thing. But thanks we can always count on the r******d to crawl off the short uses when they hear anything vaguely r******d happening thinking they can feed within it's hate. Beat it dirt bag
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Get lost chasen, you disgusting sodomite. Go eat some razors.
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That needs to be made illegal again as well. Faggos & slizzers make me sick. It has been forced down our throats for decades & you can't find a store without some rainbow diarrhea from the last week of may to the first week of july.
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I totally agree. It's because no one has any moral compass Amy more. The best solution is to hi separate and get counselling in how to move forward.
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Found the sister banging pedo. Insulting people who are against incest, what is wrong with you, creep?
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Love how people are assholes for thinking the ho boning her own brother and bright enough to post about online and describe the sacrificing two adults whom I'm sure and rightfully should be are probably ashamed as hell in the millisecond she even bothers to mention them are described by her as "not my real parents"..oh yeah clearly the moral are the assholes while she's the clearly not a b***h brother boner except she is y'all she is. Or claims. Personally I think she's full of s**t knows nothing about DNA testing particularly comparison between opposite gender siblings & complexity how many actual types of tests that can take and costs..not to mention even then not a 100 hundred percent just last couple huge changes just in X inheritance for example we now know in two percent of these Genotype varieties they can tend to actually pass down from the contributing Sperm and the X genotype of Paternal grandmother will pass to this female. Same happens a bit less with Y and Maternal Father
Lots of things are perfectly fine yet get a lot of judgement, lots of people are assholes
Because otherwise their whole world gets blown up. Why must they tell the people that they deal with irl? Hmm? There’s no obligation to share every detail with everyone. Period. Society is a jacked up control used to make people share absolutely everything when it’s not necessary. They don’t gotta. Are you going to make them?
Gosh exactly what I was thinking...so if it's ok then why keep it a secret huh? It's because they all know this shouldn't be happening..yes they didn't know at first but now they know it's just wrong.. I read it on Reddit and the OP response ... They're literally full blown siblings.
Nonsense. Nothing wrong with it at all. You would keep it secret because of all the superstitious fools and gossips who would love to make their lives miserable!
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Go dig out your moms guts out in the bedroom. Just dont have any kids. Dont worry it’s not wrong according to you Fool
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Go die you filthy child molester. How many times were you arrested for diddling neices & nephews?
Cause making it public would gain them nothing but judgement - why invite unnecessary trouble? It's not a moral/ethical issue for narrow-minded outsiders to decide if its wrong since its between 2 consenting adults. Since they don't plan to have children, it affects no one else but them. i.e. its a personal decision for them to decide what is best for themselves.
They're being too cold to keep it a secret because of people like you and your comments.
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Fetch a rope & hang yourself, beth brotherficker.
Man oh man, am I ever glad you're not MY Uncle, Andy... You came across as violently angry and cruel...
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Thank you for being here and agreeing with me.
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I agree wholeheartedly with you kim.....this is just not ok and nothing good about it and normal people would need lots of therapy and cleansing to get past this type of situation....the world has morphed into something that accepts any and everything, if this were a mother and son would it still be ok...or a daddy and daughter...yeah there are those in this present world who would find a way to say something horrific like love is love. Stay true to what you know is right kim and never allow the darkness that's taken over this world and it's inhabitants to consume you.
They were complete strangers before dating, they live together and have a long term relationship, if they never got tested, this wouldn't be weird, they would be completely unaware. Parent/children relationships are wrong due to the parental connection, same with pairs of siblings because they GREW together, but this doesn't apply here, since they were raised entirely apart and never knew each other, and didn't know their connection before dating, which would be the f****d up part. They are just two random people that share the same set of genes
You use the example “if” it’s not justifiable. From the point they were unaware they’re siblings it wasnt wrong due to the innocence factor but from the moment they knew, it became wrong. It is like when a child does something wrong but isnt aware or know because of innocence. Once they get older and know its wrong, than its wrong period.
Ashi Mari, I 100% agree with you! I couldn't have said it better myself! You have a good heart! This is LOVE we're talking about! It is what it is!! Anyone can tell the people with the negative nasty comments are not good hearted people!! That Uncle Addy person on here should be forced to give up the cell phone and given a wall phone!! He's completely disgusting in every way!!!! Mother Earth needs to swallow his a*s!!! I'm pretty sure you agree 👍
Oh well, if not one, but TWO babies are both given up for adoption into DIFFERENT families, and they weren't told about their bio parents' names or the fact they do have a full blooded sibling somewhere, whose fault exactly was that? I'd say keep the secret to the grave. Also, non-blood siblings who grow up together getting hooked up is more disgusting. Also more gross if the relationship is about a father/daughter or mother/son. Since the parent would know they have had produced some kids somehow, and also the age gap for that matter.
It's like being gay well my experience. Can't tell anyone because it becsmes a big deal even though they know. I know because my family believes. It's one of those things. I was once happy but sadly the truth came out and we didn't stay together. I'll never forget and yet I still enjoy life writing books tho there's only one out. ☺️
You just keep on writing! The opinions of "everyman" are essential for the balance of real Truth which exists in every cell of all things ~ in all Universes! Bruce Cockburn wrote "Maybe the Poet" which reiterates how essential YOUR Truth, MY Truth, ALL Truths need to be heard ~ these trillions of Truths each holds the same place in the scheme of it all, and carries equal weight from which Ultimate Universal Truth can be heard in the harmonizing of howling Wolves, Crickets, the Wind passing through and around Trees, Human voices and our moans of ecstacy....and FELT as Vibrational Connections, even to the quarks floating, joining between and amongst every Atom... I DO get carried away by the excitement of all this... but I better ease on down the road before I get accosted for my Free Spirited Truth...
Actually most courts are lenient in cases like this. It's because of the psychological damage. Imagine you find out your spouse of 50 years is your full sibling, but you met as strangers and fell in love. It's more complicated than black and white and the courts of the world know that
And how is the law supposed to know about this? Legally they are not siblings. This is between them, unless they tell someone.
If the law must be enforced no matter what, then the adoptive parents and adopted children must also be disclosed of full information about the bio parents, their siblings, and everyone's adoptive families name and full contact info. But oh, that also "invades privacy"? Head I win, tail you lose indeed.
Because society on the whole tends to be self-righteous and judgmental. Just look at some of the comment in this thread.
It's completely unpredictable how people would react. it can turn away a parent, a friend, it can make hate. They must keep it a secret. They both have to castrate themselves because if a child is born (s**t happens) with a disease, they would hate themselves for their whole life.
Probably because depending on the state, they could both go to jail
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It's not interesting, it's fn disgusting just how many sickos out there support this vile trash.
Yeah, cuz too many tolerant OPEN MINDS might conjoin as one hella dangerous "Black Hole of Love"!! Eeeeeeeeek...a friggin' Love Machine! Joy could well ruin our barely balanced economy! Also: Does ANYONE reading this remember a movie called. "What's so Bad about Feeling Good?" I've asked this a "few" times in various places, but have YET to get a single ~ yes, it's a wonderful movie and I might just have to make an updated version! &5
If you guys aren't having kids I see no problem with it. I probably wouldn't introduce him as "my brother/boyfriend" though. Option B is move to West Virginia. You won't even stand out there :p
Did you need to get your brother/boyfriends permission to say that? ;)
I know some people in West Virginia, and a few too many have some not too wholesome "family bonds" if you know what I mean. Alabama got a break on this one lol
That being said, Trump's kids never went without, but he still made the older ones work their butts off and prove they deserve what they got. Nothing was just "handed to them because daddy is rich". In fact they didn't even know he was as wealthy as he was. They thought they were just "comfortable". So props to the man for making his kids know the value of money.
Hubby from west Virginia but sadly when we got our marriage license they asked if we were related. He's as white as you can get I'm latina
I'm from WV too, and I don't care what people say about WV because it is pretty darn Podunk. People get offended over the stupidest of things... Big deal, someone said something about WV, and you just happen to be from there. You probably haven't even traveled the entire state. Parts of WV used to be really great, 30 years ago, but these days, it's a sesspool of backwater, uneducated cryptids.
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So am I. West Virginia fvcking sucks, you can’t say anything good about it. The people are b!tches and the actual place is ugly and claustrophobic.
I was born in Arkansas and I think it is time to bring trash talk like this to an end. I don't understand how people advocate and demand certain words be stricken from our vocabulary but this nasty/hateful speech is okay? It's not funny. It's not a joke, it's hurtful. I was a child when grown a$$ men started asking me about sleeping with family.
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if you were still in Arkansas they probably wanted in on the action.
Or maybe Alabama. Was a little hard to read the post without sweet home Alabama playing in full volume in my head.
Even though this was meant as a joke, look at the people who got bent over it. Being too sensitive is getting more problematic every day...
For the record, there are a ton of cool people in West Virginia making art, opening businesses, helping their communities, and just trying to live well in spite of chronic disinvestment and a reliance on coal and oil industries that leaves normal people in precarious economic conditions. But there's a ton of natural beauty, a growing eco-tourism industry, and some small cities that are very much up-and-coming. It's worth checking out this wild and wonderful state if you get the chance. I recommend New River Gorge National Park!
Lmfao, omg I choked on my water because of this whole thread you started. 🤣🤣
DJBenne, there was no mention of public indecency, anyone snorting a relatives cremated remains, nor wrasslin' gators. In this way, we know Florida wasn't involved 😁
I am actually from MD originally but moved to central WV as a child. I find it sad that people think this about us but if it keeps people out- that's great---because it's a beautiful, safe state. I am not a fan of the politics here but I just do my voting and move on with my day. With all that said, I did the DNA tests as well...and if you want to talk about inbreeding... my paternal grandmothers side is a mess.They are from Western NC and Eastern TN--- There are so many double, triple, quadruple cousins...over years and years of marrying into the same families between third cousins and back. I have three times more cousin matches on that side that I do my Maryland family. Thankfully, my paternal grandparents moved to Baltimore, MD to open up the gene pool. My point is, WV gets made fun of for this but it's really an Appalachia thing and quite common in rural America in general during those time periods.
My mother and I both grew up.in the pacific northwest. When she went to marry a guy in texas that was raised in Alabama, they made them have a DNA test done. Ummmmm.... the odds of them being related are slim to none. My mom's ancestors were like Yankees and Texas from wayback. His family pretty much stuck to to southeast. Needless to say, outside of them both coming from Europe in the way Way Way back, there are no ties that could be found (thank God for that I must say). So just because someone is from somewhere doesn't mean everyone that is there is that way. By the way, WV is quite lovey geographically speaking. I have only known one person from there and he is a doctor with 11 children. He eventually bought a bed & breakfast as a residence. If you like beautiful scenery I recommend some of the smaller cities and towns north of Seattle, WA. La Conner is quite beautiful. Anacortes is beautiful until you know about the demographics. 45% are filthy rich, 45% are below poverty level.
I'm also from West Virginia and I never had sex with any of my relatives
You mean Kentucky Arkansas and Alaska. Kentucky and Arkansas have more inbred relationships than West Virginia. Get your facts right if you are badmouthing other people and states they're from. Fugates are more famous than the Whitaker family
They happen in California and Colorado too and not just off in small towns or or the corner down south by Utah where Warren Jeffs was making sure only a small handful of his middle aged men got to stick around with their 14 wives and all the boys are thrown out, or worse, when they reach 14 themselves.
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First of all don't know where you get your facts at but Kentucky isn't that bad, yea giving eastern Kentucky their is some like that but there's really not many like that here, hell to be safe I got with a woman outside of the state just in case. And judging by your profile picture your the one that looks inbred. Just saying before you criticize another state and the people in it might make sure your ready for what will be said about you in return. We can go back and forth all day and night, I'm ready for it but you won't win, besides do you have all your fingers and toes, and what's your IQ like a 35 lol you look like one that sleeps with their daddy, maybe a uncle. Well that's all I need to say now but will be waiting for your reply good night.
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What has humanity come to...cant believe so many people are encouraging this relationship. All I have to say is this is your test, get over it and start acting like brother and sister if not go your own separate ways.
Look. I respect your opinion, but society isn't all like that. Plus, it's an uncommon situation. You kinda HAVE to sympathize.
From your wording, you sound like you're coming from a religious point of view, but if you believe humans came from two people... Then you also believe there's a lot of incest in the human line. Not to mention the choke point of Noah, were again humanity all stem from one family. The Bible has a lot of specific mentions of people marrying their sisters too, including Abraham.
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I did not realize how many depraved people is in the world. they are full brother and sister and you're saying keep having a sexual relationship you like the rest of them is going to burn in hell God revealed the truth to them so they can stop sinning. you are a filthy person spiritually and mentally next you be saying to your daughter hey read this article and says it's okay others is doing it
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No no if she gon be a bone my own bio bro kinda ho and post this c**p she should it tattooed on her forehead license shirt required to introduce him. I mean if it's ok then what's the prob? My grandma always said if you wouldn't want to admit to me and the other ladies about the people and places doing then probably shouldn't be doing that. In other words embarrassed=stop
Lol what? People are embarrassed to say they met on Tinder or watch anime embarrassment isn't a signal you should stop doing something
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Lemme guess... you molested every sibling you have, john. Go jump off a building, scumrat.
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