Flight Attendants Kick Out Passenger Who Barely Fits In Their Seat Due To Obese Seatmate
When boarding a plane to travel, we can only hope that the flight is safe, smooth, comfortable and without drama. But time and again, there are stories making headlines about sagas in the sky. One of the issues that crops up is how airlines, and fellow flyers, are or aren’t accommodating plus-size passengers.
One person shared how they requested to swap seats with an “extremely obese” neighbor passenger, to prevent being squashed against the window. What should have been a courteous exchange of words, and possibly seats, turned into a full-blown dramatic embarrassment for both flyers and ended with one of them being asked to leave the plane. The passenger turned to the internet after their formal complaint to the airline fell on deaf ears.
Flight attendants are tasked with ensuring the safety and comfort of passengers on board a plane
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But when one traveler thought the cabin crew would assist them, the exact opposite happened…
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American Airlines requires passengers to book two seats if they need extra space to “travel comfortably and safely”
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American Airlines (AA) states on its website that the airline will “do [their] best to find the most comfortable and usable seats for your needs.” But passengers requiring “extra space” during travel need to inform the airline when booking their flight.
“If you need more than one seat to travel comfortably and safely, you must book an additional seat by calling Reservations,” reads the AA site. It further explains that the airline “will make sure you get 2 adjacent seats at the same fare” and adds that a passenger might be offered a seat in a higher class of service with more space. In that case, they’ll have to pay the difference in fare.
In the event a passenger didn’t book an extra seat in advance, AA advises that they ask an airport agent to check if 2 adjacent seats are available. “If we can’t accommodate your needs on your original flight, you can buy seats on a different flight at the same price as your original seats,” states the website.
AA is not the only airline with this policy. United Airlines (UA) gives a bit more detail on their site, stating that they “require that all passengers fit comfortably in their seat on the plane.” UA notes that passengers might have to make additional arrangements “if you can’t buckle your seatbelt, even when using a seatbelt extender, the seat armrests don’t stay down when you’re in your seat, [or] you’re in the space of the seat next to you when seated.”
United advises passengers to either book an extra seat in economy class at the same price or to upgrade to a premium cabin where the seats are wider. The airline adds that if an extra seat isn’t available, passengers will need to change their flight to one that has extra seats. But they offer compensation in the event you’re inconvenienced. “If you’re not in your home city, state, or country, and your new flight requires you to stay overnight we can give you meal and hotel vouchers as well,” reads the policy.
Some believe airlines are discriminating against plus-size passengers
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Not all airlines have the same policy when it comes to passengers “fitting comfortably and safely” in their seats. Some charge extra, some don’t. And there are those who have no policy on the plus-size matter at all. In 2023, close to 40,000 people signed a petition asking the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) to “protect plus-size passengers” and implement a standard policy that “prioritizes the comfort and well-being of all passengers.”
Plus-size travel influencer Jae’lynn Chaney was behind the campaign. Chaney has been using a seatbelt extender since she was a child. “I kind of knew that planes were not built for people like me by the time I was 12,” she told CNN, adding that she’d sometimes try to “tuck her seatbelt underneath her stomach” so that flight attendants didn’t know it wasn’t buckled.
Chaney called on airlines to “provide accessible additional seats to customers-of-size” or those who may “encroach onto another passenger’s space.” The influencer says some airline policies are “discriminatory” because passengers like her are “paying twice for the same experience.”
She believes plus-size passengers should not be charged extra. “These passengers should be provided with an extra free seat, or even multiple seats, to accommodate their needs and ensure their comfort and safety, as well as those around them, during the flight,” reads her petition.
The same year, CNN reported that “while the average width of an airplane seat has been shrinking for decades, bodies are getting larger around the world, with experts predicting that over half of the global population will be overweight or obese by 2035.”
“That’s not normal”: netizens weighed in on the issue
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Exactly! The woman was refusing to make room for another passenger to get to their seat. She should have been ejected at that point. As for the picture. Taking pictures of people in public places is generally allowed. She has no grounds to complain, especially if he was attempting to take a picture of his seat and she was in it.
Load More Replies...I think if I paid for a seat I should get the use of that seat. I also have an aversion to being touched by other people so there is no way in hell I would squeeze past a fat woman like that.
Same, I think I'd have troubles not saying anything during the flight too, I'd fell disgusted if I had to be squished by a stranger that way. It's not ok at all
Load More Replies...People who can't fit between two armrests should be forced to pay for the seats they occupy (even if it is just a portion of that space). They should also have a maximum total weight: i.e. passenger plus luggage. If you're 50kg, then you can bring 100kg of luggage (if you can haul it). If you're 150kg (just to throw some random numbers out there), you're all out; no luggage for you!
Definitely. Take up more than 1 seat, pay for 2. Should be required.
Load More Replies...I wonder if she/they did it on purpose. Husband takes the aisle seat. Nobody wants to be crammed in there. Just refuse and you have 2 seats for yourself apparently.
Almost definitely! They should be charged extra for these shenanigans.
Load More Replies...I’m a bigger girl and even I say that woman wasn’t right. At a certain size you should have to pay for 2 seats.
I'm fat, and this kind of s**t makes me so angry. We, as fat people, have a responsibility to handle OUR largeness, and when it comes to flying or being in any cramped confines or small spaces, it's up to US to accommodate others, NOT the other way around. I would have bought two seats, the window and the middle, so there would have been no issues.
I commend you on being responsible for yourself. Too many people are entitled daffodils who expect everyone in the world to cater to them.
Load More Replies...It was probably that insufferable fat 'influencer' they keep posting articles about on BP. I'm fat, but being morbidly obese and getting offended when someone calls you on it is ridiculous. Actions have consequences.
It's like being covered in spikes, but not taking accountability if you stab someone with them.
Load More Replies...I exclusively fly on an airline which allows me to purchase 2 seats and refunds the second seat after my flight is completed. I have Lyme disease and the accompanying arthritis, so I need to extend my legs and sit on the port side of the plane so that I can walk with my cane after arrival at my destination. I have never taken anyone else's space and keep my legs directly in front of my second seat. I have had filthy looks from boarding passengers, and complaints, but, I have my placard from the airline which the FAs completely understand is valid and move those people to vacant seats. I wish that all airlines were this accommodating to disabled people or people who may physically require the extra space to be safe and comfortable.
Would love to know which airline this is. Due to my health issues, this would enable me to travel more.
Load More Replies...If you are person if size. Buy 2 seats!! Not fat shaming, being realistic!
Wasn't it a thing that if you were over a certain weight or couldn't fit into one seat you should purchase 2 tickets. Which 1. Had to do with the comfort of the other passengers as what OP describes sounds horrible to deal with, and honestly just a big no for me. 2.It actually screwed with the weight of the plane as it wasn't designed for each passenger to weight more than 90-ish kg.
I think this comment section did not go in the direction BP thought it would and I'm here for it!
Can't the woman in the middle seat be required by the FA to lower the armrest between her and the window seat?
For reasons of safety and convenience, airlines require passengers' cabin baggage to be properly stowed away. The same rule should apply to passengers' butts.
I’ve had this happen! I had bruises from being sat on and smelled like the gentleman’s sweat when I finally got off the plane. I couldn’t even hold a book over my lap because he was sitting on me. It was awful! For the record, I was a 110# 5 foot female. He needed his seat and much of mine.
I am a large person myself, the middle seat should have moved. She didn't just wake up that morning with surprise onset fatness. She knew she was too big to be playing peekaboo with gravity on a plane well in advance, the least she could do is avoid being some body horror jungle gym of flesh and get up for the other person.
Some people are in denial of their issues. That's why the first step is admitting you have a problem.
Load More Replies...That should have been handled better but guessing FA had already dealt with enough and did not want to be called out for fat shaming.
I've had a similar experience, however I was in the middle seat and a big fella had me squished. I'm tall and is 200lbs, as I work out daily (stress-reduction therapy + body building). I was very uncomfortable during the trip, I didn't really say anything as I'm non-confrontational. The lady next to me (window seat)was aware of my discomfort though. I played it off as "I need more leg room" or something not-related. Airlines need to fix these issues so all patrons are comfortable. It shouldn't be a tug-a-war game with space. This is also the reasons why I chosen to travel to train more. It's 300% more relaxing and their seats are actually accommodating for various physiques.
Part of what I like about flying Southwest is I have a chance to choose my seat based on who is already sitting in the adjacent seat(s). If it looks like I'll be squeezed in, I can keep walking further back. Of course, if I sit next to an empty seat it's up in the air who will sit next to me. I'm sad they're changing their seating policy to be like all the other airlines. They're losing part of what makes them special ☹️
Load More Replies...Why have you allowed them to kick you out ?! You paid for your journey. They have to deliver. Other peoples' obesity is none of my, nor is it yours - we don't judge, but we won't take anybody's shid either. If I pay for a journey, I absolutely will arrive there. Nothing to discuss.
Ya... that's not how it works. If the flight crew orders you off the plane you have two choices. Grab your carry on and exit, or wait around until you are escorted off in cuffs, criminally charged, and permanently banned from commercial flights around the world. You get an A+ for confidence, though.
Load More Replies...speaking as someone who was formerly overweight/obese. If you're that fat, you need to recognise that you're as fat as you are and pay for two seats. If you don't want to do that, either don't travel, or lose some weight. People should not have to miss flights because of your poor life choices.
I guess the 6% "Both parties are at fault" people are the ones who also don't realize how they upset everyone around them
Also American should follow their own rules and make her buy two seats.
I would have asked the flight attendant to show me how to squeeze by by doing it herself. Then I would have asked for the purser and requested either the other person's removal since she failed to abide by airline rules (specifically the fitting into her seat) or a seat swap since if there was an emergency i couldn't get past her.
They make device to measure your carryon to be sure it will fit... maybe they need to do the same for people. Or have some kind of dividers you can slide next to you on the seat so that you aren't actually touching the other person.
Why is this true, the passenger did nothing wrong, he was denied his seat.
I am a small person and fit in a plane seat with ease (5’4”, 120) and when you’re in coach, they’re STILL not comfortable seats. Anyone who is a bit tall or wide (overweight or just athletic) is uncomfortable. Plane seats are simply too small. However, if you are of a size where you are encroaching on another passenger’s space, you should purchase a second seat - for safety, and for the comfort of yourself and those around you. It’s fair: you pay for what you use. If we both buy a glass of wine, you don’t get a larger serving than I do because you’re a larger person.
They absolutely kicked off the wrong person. If you've allowed yourself to expand so large that you cannot fit into a standard seat....than you have to buy two! Or you have to shell out for first class. You're not entitled to encroach on the space that others paid for.
Ha ha! Totally wrong person got kicked off the plane. However, I would have climbed over the obese one and brushed my a*s on her face and then sat on the part of her that was on my side. Then again, I am not a doormat. I have done that on train. Some word exchange followed but so what.
100% accurate or not it sounds like the lady should have bought 2 tickets if she can't fit on her one seat. Either way a passenger shouldn't have to spend an entire flight being touched by a stranger, even if it's not on purpose.
Load More Replies...Exactly! The woman was refusing to make room for another passenger to get to their seat. She should have been ejected at that point. As for the picture. Taking pictures of people in public places is generally allowed. She has no grounds to complain, especially if he was attempting to take a picture of his seat and she was in it.
Load More Replies...I think if I paid for a seat I should get the use of that seat. I also have an aversion to being touched by other people so there is no way in hell I would squeeze past a fat woman like that.
Same, I think I'd have troubles not saying anything during the flight too, I'd fell disgusted if I had to be squished by a stranger that way. It's not ok at all
Load More Replies...People who can't fit between two armrests should be forced to pay for the seats they occupy (even if it is just a portion of that space). They should also have a maximum total weight: i.e. passenger plus luggage. If you're 50kg, then you can bring 100kg of luggage (if you can haul it). If you're 150kg (just to throw some random numbers out there), you're all out; no luggage for you!
Definitely. Take up more than 1 seat, pay for 2. Should be required.
Load More Replies...I wonder if she/they did it on purpose. Husband takes the aisle seat. Nobody wants to be crammed in there. Just refuse and you have 2 seats for yourself apparently.
Almost definitely! They should be charged extra for these shenanigans.
Load More Replies...I’m a bigger girl and even I say that woman wasn’t right. At a certain size you should have to pay for 2 seats.
I'm fat, and this kind of s**t makes me so angry. We, as fat people, have a responsibility to handle OUR largeness, and when it comes to flying or being in any cramped confines or small spaces, it's up to US to accommodate others, NOT the other way around. I would have bought two seats, the window and the middle, so there would have been no issues.
I commend you on being responsible for yourself. Too many people are entitled daffodils who expect everyone in the world to cater to them.
Load More Replies...It was probably that insufferable fat 'influencer' they keep posting articles about on BP. I'm fat, but being morbidly obese and getting offended when someone calls you on it is ridiculous. Actions have consequences.
It's like being covered in spikes, but not taking accountability if you stab someone with them.
Load More Replies...I exclusively fly on an airline which allows me to purchase 2 seats and refunds the second seat after my flight is completed. I have Lyme disease and the accompanying arthritis, so I need to extend my legs and sit on the port side of the plane so that I can walk with my cane after arrival at my destination. I have never taken anyone else's space and keep my legs directly in front of my second seat. I have had filthy looks from boarding passengers, and complaints, but, I have my placard from the airline which the FAs completely understand is valid and move those people to vacant seats. I wish that all airlines were this accommodating to disabled people or people who may physically require the extra space to be safe and comfortable.
Would love to know which airline this is. Due to my health issues, this would enable me to travel more.
Load More Replies...If you are person if size. Buy 2 seats!! Not fat shaming, being realistic!
Wasn't it a thing that if you were over a certain weight or couldn't fit into one seat you should purchase 2 tickets. Which 1. Had to do with the comfort of the other passengers as what OP describes sounds horrible to deal with, and honestly just a big no for me. 2.It actually screwed with the weight of the plane as it wasn't designed for each passenger to weight more than 90-ish kg.
I think this comment section did not go in the direction BP thought it would and I'm here for it!
Can't the woman in the middle seat be required by the FA to lower the armrest between her and the window seat?
For reasons of safety and convenience, airlines require passengers' cabin baggage to be properly stowed away. The same rule should apply to passengers' butts.
I’ve had this happen! I had bruises from being sat on and smelled like the gentleman’s sweat when I finally got off the plane. I couldn’t even hold a book over my lap because he was sitting on me. It was awful! For the record, I was a 110# 5 foot female. He needed his seat and much of mine.
I am a large person myself, the middle seat should have moved. She didn't just wake up that morning with surprise onset fatness. She knew she was too big to be playing peekaboo with gravity on a plane well in advance, the least she could do is avoid being some body horror jungle gym of flesh and get up for the other person.
Some people are in denial of their issues. That's why the first step is admitting you have a problem.
Load More Replies...That should have been handled better but guessing FA had already dealt with enough and did not want to be called out for fat shaming.
I've had a similar experience, however I was in the middle seat and a big fella had me squished. I'm tall and is 200lbs, as I work out daily (stress-reduction therapy + body building). I was very uncomfortable during the trip, I didn't really say anything as I'm non-confrontational. The lady next to me (window seat)was aware of my discomfort though. I played it off as "I need more leg room" or something not-related. Airlines need to fix these issues so all patrons are comfortable. It shouldn't be a tug-a-war game with space. This is also the reasons why I chosen to travel to train more. It's 300% more relaxing and their seats are actually accommodating for various physiques.
Part of what I like about flying Southwest is I have a chance to choose my seat based on who is already sitting in the adjacent seat(s). If it looks like I'll be squeezed in, I can keep walking further back. Of course, if I sit next to an empty seat it's up in the air who will sit next to me. I'm sad they're changing their seating policy to be like all the other airlines. They're losing part of what makes them special ☹️
Load More Replies...Why have you allowed them to kick you out ?! You paid for your journey. They have to deliver. Other peoples' obesity is none of my, nor is it yours - we don't judge, but we won't take anybody's shid either. If I pay for a journey, I absolutely will arrive there. Nothing to discuss.
Ya... that's not how it works. If the flight crew orders you off the plane you have two choices. Grab your carry on and exit, or wait around until you are escorted off in cuffs, criminally charged, and permanently banned from commercial flights around the world. You get an A+ for confidence, though.
Load More Replies...speaking as someone who was formerly overweight/obese. If you're that fat, you need to recognise that you're as fat as you are and pay for two seats. If you don't want to do that, either don't travel, or lose some weight. People should not have to miss flights because of your poor life choices.
I guess the 6% "Both parties are at fault" people are the ones who also don't realize how they upset everyone around them
Also American should follow their own rules and make her buy two seats.
I would have asked the flight attendant to show me how to squeeze by by doing it herself. Then I would have asked for the purser and requested either the other person's removal since she failed to abide by airline rules (specifically the fitting into her seat) or a seat swap since if there was an emergency i couldn't get past her.
They make device to measure your carryon to be sure it will fit... maybe they need to do the same for people. Or have some kind of dividers you can slide next to you on the seat so that you aren't actually touching the other person.
Why is this true, the passenger did nothing wrong, he was denied his seat.
I am a small person and fit in a plane seat with ease (5’4”, 120) and when you’re in coach, they’re STILL not comfortable seats. Anyone who is a bit tall or wide (overweight or just athletic) is uncomfortable. Plane seats are simply too small. However, if you are of a size where you are encroaching on another passenger’s space, you should purchase a second seat - for safety, and for the comfort of yourself and those around you. It’s fair: you pay for what you use. If we both buy a glass of wine, you don’t get a larger serving than I do because you’re a larger person.
They absolutely kicked off the wrong person. If you've allowed yourself to expand so large that you cannot fit into a standard seat....than you have to buy two! Or you have to shell out for first class. You're not entitled to encroach on the space that others paid for.
Ha ha! Totally wrong person got kicked off the plane. However, I would have climbed over the obese one and brushed my a*s on her face and then sat on the part of her that was on my side. Then again, I am not a doormat. I have done that on train. Some word exchange followed but so what.
100% accurate or not it sounds like the lady should have bought 2 tickets if she can't fit on her one seat. Either way a passenger shouldn't have to spend an entire flight being touched by a stranger, even if it's not on purpose.
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