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“The Office Is Too Quiet”: Person In Disbelief Their Coworker Would Want To Return To The Office
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“The Office Is Too Quiet”: Person In Disbelief Their Coworker Would Want To Return To The Office

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Remember Covid? The pandemic we had a couple of years back that made the whole world rethink a lot of things about how we function as individuals and a society?

While the immediate threat is not entirely gone, we have learned to live with it, and have actually learned a couple of other things from the entire experience.

One of the biggest lessons was that many of us can realistically do our jobs from home. Despite what our corporate overlords might say on the matter. And can actually do it more efficiently. So what gives?

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Work from home has certainly opened up new opportunities for employees to find a workplace they’d be most comfortable with

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However, sometimes there’s that one guy who might just ruin it all because that fits the corporate agenda and it leaves folks like this flabbergasted

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Image credits: u/UselessWidget

The Redditor sparked a bit of a discussion on whether and how companies gaslight employees regarding remote work and whether employees are truly that delusional

Image credits: Yan Krukau (not the actual photo)

A Redditor by the nickname of u/UselessWidget recently sparked a bit of a discussion (a very useful and productive one, in fact) about remote work following an event that took place in the company they worked at.

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OP was in a big all-hands call that day when one of the execs read an anonymous employee’s comment about the lack of ambient noise in the premises. It went on to say that it is a really nice building—one that would benefit from more people gracing it with their presence instead of performing their usual corporate duties from their remote location of choice.

This seemed to be both surprising and upsetting to OP. Part of them felt like it was an obvious ruse instigated by the executives to start justifying mandatory office work. And the other part felt like it was someone’s genuine comment, but it came from someone who gets their social fulfilment from being in the office, and doesn’t understand there’s more to life than the office.

Some commenters were skeptical of this anonymous individual actually existing, and actually being a plant of some executive, but if the person is real, OP’s take is that they’re sabotaging their fellow coworkers with these statements. “If you are unable to find personal fulfilment outside the office, […] please find a hobby. Seriously. It’s so […] sad knowing that these live-to-work people are out there and they’re trying their best to take away one of the greatest things to happen to this generation’s working class.”

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OP went on to say that this all seems like corporate gaslighting that aims to make folks believe coming back to the office is a return to “normal.” It’s trying to hide a negative dynamic that would plunge employees into a culture of micromanagement, reduced personal comfort, diminished productivity, a work-life balance with blurred lines, and, ultimately, less happiness.

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Folks online agreed that this is textbook gaslighting. This one commenter elaborated that companies are prone to gaslighting because work from home means they can’t micromanage, and it exposed the office industry for its toxic culture and unnecessary practices.

An executive of a tech company in the comments also spilled the tea that such statements and comments are always well-thought through. The sole reason here is that there’s always an agenda behind it, and the executives are the ones to deliver it. Be it by true means or not.

And yet others humored the idea that there might actually be someone out there throwing these lonely comments out into the corporate ether. All of this sends a very desperate message of loneliness and folks don’t want to be a part of that desperation, going so far as to claim that “I know many others feel the same way.” If that were true, they’d be at the office right now.

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Image credits: Ivan Samkov (not the actual photo)

While there is reason to be skeptical about OP’s statements regarding the popularity of remote work, it turns out that the stats are on their side. Around 98% of workers would like to be able to work remotely at least some of the time. This is due to the need for flexibility, autonomy and work-life balance that remote work offers.

As it stands now, a bit under 13% of people work entirely from home and around 28 work hybrid (part from home, part on-site). It is estimated that by 2025, up to 22% of workers (nearly a quarter, when you think about it) will be mostly working remotely.

Until then, however, only 16% of companies in the US are reported to be operating fully remotely. These are companies that pioneered remote work, emphasizing that the work from home model is more than possible in today’s world and they serve as an example for others to follow suit.

For the most part, there are a number of reasons why companies insist on having employees around the office. All claims of micromanagement aside, managers do have to consider that remote work makes it more challenging to onboard newcomers (80% quit if things don’t go well), productivity on average dwindles per week (by 3.5 hours), and there just are some things that work better when you’re in person.

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Ultimately, it boils down to personal preference and approaching your boss on the opportunities for a preferred model of work is the thing that can guarantee you are a happy bee in this necessary evil of a colony we call work.

So, what are your thoughts on everything that you’ve read here today? Which side of the work model fence are you on? Let us know the what’s and why’s in the comment section below!

Many online thought that this is textbook gaslighting, but also had to take the opportunity to be witty about it. Because it’s the internet

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Some time ago, Robertas used to spend his days watching how deep the imprint in his chair will become as he wrote for Bored Panda. Wrote about pretty much everything under and beyond the sun. Not anymore, though. He's now probably playing Gwent or hosting Dungeons and Dragons adventures for those with an inclination for chaos.

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I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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James016
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had 2 colleagues who were super keen to get back to the office purely because they lived in studio flats so living in one room which then becomes your work place where you don’t have space for a proper workstation setup is very tough mentally.

VioletHunter
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even if you have all the space in the world, it can quickly become unhealthy to never leave home and meet other people.

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VioletHunter
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have plenty of colleagues who prefer to be in the office. There were some who didn't want to return at all. We have a compromise now. Not everyone has the same opinion as you. People who advocate for never meeting their colleagues in person at all even though the work environment is good and there is no drama, are antisocial. People who want to force their colleagues to be in the office every day of the week are control freaks. Neither should be indulged imo.

Skulls.N.Succulents
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People can like their colleagues and stil don't want to deal with traffic, the commute and less of a work life balance. Doesn't mean they are antisocial they are just anti wasting time!

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LH25
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have co-workers who truly would rather be in the office. One has a small apartment and likes getting out of it. Another has a wife and son who have disabilities and can't focus on work from home. Our policies accommodate all of us.

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James016
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had 2 colleagues who were super keen to get back to the office purely because they lived in studio flats so living in one room which then becomes your work place where you don’t have space for a proper workstation setup is very tough mentally.

VioletHunter
Community Member
1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even if you have all the space in the world, it can quickly become unhealthy to never leave home and meet other people.

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VioletHunter
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have plenty of colleagues who prefer to be in the office. There were some who didn't want to return at all. We have a compromise now. Not everyone has the same opinion as you. People who advocate for never meeting their colleagues in person at all even though the work environment is good and there is no drama, are antisocial. People who want to force their colleagues to be in the office every day of the week are control freaks. Neither should be indulged imo.

Skulls.N.Succulents
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People can like their colleagues and stil don't want to deal with traffic, the commute and less of a work life balance. Doesn't mean they are antisocial they are just anti wasting time!

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LH25
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have co-workers who truly would rather be in the office. One has a small apartment and likes getting out of it. Another has a wife and son who have disabilities and can't focus on work from home. Our policies accommodate all of us.

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