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"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community

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Do Not Post Group Pics Unless Everyone Approves

Do not post group pictures on social media with friends unless everyone involved knows & approves of said pic.

Everyone Is Friends In The Bar Bathroom

Everyone is friends in the bar bathroom after 11, no matter what.

Do Not Post Group Pics Unless Everyone Approves

Do not post group pictures on social media with friends unless everyone involved knows & approves of said pic.

Everyone Is Friends In The Bar Bathroom

Everyone is friends in the bar bathroom after 11, no matter what.

Once You Have Any Sort Of Link To A Guy, He’s Off-Limits To All Friends

Stupid or not, the original Girl Code is that once you have any sort of sexual/romantic link to a guy (even just saying you like him) he is 100% off-limits to all friends. (This rule is more nuanced when the object of desire is another woman.)

Carry Some Extra Pain Killers

Also added to sanitary products, pain killers!! If you got em handy, help a b***h out!

Protect Each Other

- Protect each other. Don't care if it's your sister or a complete stranger. - text your friends to check if they got home safe - stay with them while their uber or taxi etc comes - Check over that message she is going to send to the guy she likes to see if it sounds okay. Some communications require a group effort - Sanitary items to all vaginal having humans who need.

If Someone’s Being Harassed, You Link Up And Walk With Them

If their strap is twisted, untwist it. Always carry extra feminine products, and extra hair Ties. And if she’s being harassed, you just link up and walk with her, no questions asked. Also, my daughters have a literal code... if they ever text me the secret code, I will drop everything I’m doing and call them immediately, make up a major crisis and demand to come get them immediately. Make it 100% my fault, but give them an immediate out to any situation they don’t feel able to simply walk away from.

Keep An Eye On Other Girls’ Drinks When You’re At The Bar

My personal unspoken rule is keep an eye on other girls drinks when you are at the bar. Even if I don't know them. I have asked random strangers to keep an eye on mine and they are always like, "GIRL YES we have to look out for each other!"

Tell Her When You See Him Cheating

Tell her when you see him cheating, snap a pic for proof if you can. I've lost friends for this but I'll still do it every time.

Do Not Get Together With Your Friend’s Ex

Do not....f**k your friends boyfriend or ex-boyfriend

“Human Wall” A Girl If The Only Option Is To Pee In Public

Human wall any girl if the only option is to pee in public

You Always Pretend To Know Each Other When A Guy Is Being A Jerk

You always pretend that you know each other when a guy is being a jerk and you (or they) need a way out of a conversation.

Always Wait To Be Confided In

There is an almost imperceptible line between intrusive prurience and interest in the sex lives of your friends that's defined by their inclination to share rather than you inquiring or making insinuations. Many friends will discuss sex candidly, others will use discretion, and some will resent the intrusion; always wait to be confided in rather than commit an indiscretion. There are weird assumptions about the 'sisterhood' that we talk about penis sizes etc without reserve. This is untrue.

If It Can Be Fixed In 5 Minutes Or Less, Tell Her; If It Can’t, Then There’s No Need To Say Anything

The 5-minute rule. If it can be fixed in 5 minutes or less tell her! If it can't (bloat situation etc..) then there's no need to say anything because it will literally only make her feel bad.

If You Walk Into The Bathroom And Someone’s Being Quiet, You Do Your Business And Leave Quickly

If you walk into the bathroom and the girl in there is being quiet, you do your business and leave as quickly as you can. Girl is trying to poop!

No Woman Gets Left Behind At The Club

No women left behind at the club. You look out for and take care of your girls and don’t let random men drag them away without their explicit permission.

If She’s Dating An Abuser, Make Sure She Knows She’s Welcome Anytime

If she's dating a known abuser, take turns getting her out of the house. Play cards, shop for shoes, ask her to help you lay out the garden, make pie. Never broach the subject yourself - just make sure she knows she's welcome any time, day or night, with or without advance notice.

When You See “The Look,” You Step In

As far as I've ever seen, every girl knows 'the look'. 'The look' is a look a girl gets on her face when she is in a situation that she doesn't want to be in, it's part 'help me' and part 'get me out of here'. When you see this look, you step in. Doesn't matter if you know the girl or not.

Always Console The Crying One

Console the crying one

If Someone Says They Love Something You’re Wearing, You Always Tell Them Where You Bought It From

This could be a trend across genders too but when a girl says they love something you are wearing you always tell her where you bought it and how much it was and ESPECIALLY if you got it for a discount.

Always Give A Hair Tie If Someone Asks For It

if you're wearing a hair tie on your wrist and someone asks for a hair tie, you give it to them (and accept that you likely will never see it again)

When Your Friend Gets Back With Her Ex, You Support Her, But You Also Tell Her The Truth

If your friend gets back with her s***ty ex you always support your friend but you also tell her the truth and say if the relationship is toxic.

If Your Friend Starts To Puke, You Always Hold Her Hair Back

if friend drinks too much and starts to puke, always hold her hair back for her

If You See A Girl Doing Something She Might Regret The Next Day, You Go Over And Ask If She’s Okay

This one especially applies to college girls. If you're at a party and you see a girl doing something she might regret the next day due to drinking WAY too much, you go over there and make sure shes okay.

If There’s Lipstick On Their Teeth, You Let Them Know Without Making A Huge Deal About It

Lipstick on their teeth, eyeliner in the corner of their eye, skirt tucked into pantyhose. You let them know without making a huge deal about it.

You Help Other Women Who Seem To Be In Trouble

You help other women who seem to be in trouble. When I was a teenager my mom and I went to Walmart to get groceries. We split up to save time and a man started stalking me through the aisles. I finally got out to a main area and saw a lady with two kids. Walked right up to her and stood as close as possible. She was confused but when I made a motion at the guy, she understood. She loudly thanked me for getting the milk and called me honey. Also referred to her son as my brother. Once the guy left she stayed with me until I saw my mom, and then stayed where she was until I got to my mom and motioned that I was okay. That lady deserves an award for helping me that day.

If You Get Breast Cancer, Let As Many People As Possible Feel Your Lump

If you get breast cancer, let as many people as possible feel your lump so they know what they are looking for! Before my mastectomy, my breast made a lot of new friends—early detection can mean the difference between life and death.

Always Give Out Feminine Hygiene Products If Needed

Always give each other tampons and pads when needed.

From 534 Lbs To 214 Lbs In 4 Years

The Pic On The Left Was Exactly 3 Years Ago. When I Was The Best Man At My Buddy’s Wedding. I Was Close To 600 Lbs. Around 230 Lbs Now

Water Is The Way To Go. Always

Drink water instead of pretty much anything else. Except coffee. I'm not a monster.

Lost 200 Pounds During Covid. Today I Completed A Half Marathon

In Who Cares News I’ve Lost 183 Pounds Over The Last 18 Months So That’s Cool I Guess

The One Where I Felt Unworthy vs. The One Where I Started Loving Myself

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Always Wait To Be Confided In

If It Can Be Fixed In 5 Minutes Or Less, Tell Her; If It Can’t, Then There’s No Need To Say Anything

The 5-minute rule. If it can be fixed in 5 minutes or less tell her! If it can't (bloat situation etc..) then there's no need to say anything because it will literally only make her feel bad.

Once You Have Any Sort Of Link To A Guy, He’s Off-Limits To All Friends

Carry Some Extra Pain Killers

Also added to sanitary products, pain killers!! If you got em handy, help a b***h out!

Always Give A Hair Tie If Someone Asks For It

if you're wearing a hair tie on your wrist and someone asks for a hair tie, you give it to them (and accept that you likely will never see it again)

You Always Pretend To Know Each Other When A Guy Is Being A Jerk

You always pretend that you know each other when a guy is being a jerk and you (or they) need a way out of a conversation.

Always Console The Crying One

Console the crying one

If You See A Girl Doing Something She Might Regret The Next Day, You Go Over And Ask If She’s Okay

If Your Friend Starts To Puke, You Always Hold Her Hair Back

if friend drinks too much and starts to puke, always hold her hair back for her

When Your Friend Gets Back With Her Ex, You Support Her, But You Also Tell Her The Truth

If your friend gets back with her s***ty ex you always support your friend but you also tell her the truth and say if the relationship is toxic.

“Human Wall” A Girl If The Only Option Is To Pee In Public

Human wall any girl if the only option is to pee in public

If You Get Breast Cancer, Let As Many People As Possible Feel Your Lump

Protect Each Other

If There’s Lipstick On Their Teeth, You Let Them Know Without Making A Huge Deal About It

Lipstick on their teeth, eyeliner in the corner of their eye, skirt tucked into pantyhose. You let them know without making a huge deal about it.

Do Not Get Together With Your Friend’s Ex

Do not....f**k your friends boyfriend or ex-boyfriend

If Someone Says They Love Something You’re Wearing, You Always Tell Them Where You Bought It From

Everyone Is Friends In The Bar Bathroom

Everyone is friends in the bar bathroom after 11, no matter what.

Tell Her When You See Him Cheating

Tell her when you see him cheating, snap a pic for proof if you can. I've lost friends for this but I'll still do it every time.

If You Walk Into The Bathroom And Someone’s Being Quiet, You Do Your Business And Leave Quickly

If you walk into the bathroom and the girl in there is being quiet, you do your business and leave as quickly as you can. Girl is trying to poop!

Do Not Post Group Pics Unless Everyone Approves

Do not post group pictures on social media with friends unless everyone involved knows & approves of said pic.

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"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community

Do Not Post Group Pics Unless Everyone Approves

Everyone Is Friends In The Bar Bathroom

Do Not Post Group Pics Unless Everyone Approves

Everyone Is Friends In The Bar Bathroom

Once You Have Any Sort Of Link To A Guy, He’s Off-Limits To All Friends

Carry Some Extra Pain Killers

Protect Each Other

If Someone’s Being Harassed, You Link Up And Walk With Them

Keep An Eye On Other Girls’ Drinks When You’re At The Bar

Tell Her When You See Him Cheating

Do Not Get Together With Your Friend’s Ex

“Human Wall” A Girl If The Only Option Is To Pee In Public

You Always Pretend To Know Each Other When A Guy Is Being A Jerk

Always Wait To Be Confided In

If It Can Be Fixed In 5 Minutes Or Less, Tell Her; If It Can’t, Then There’s No Need To Say Anything

If You Walk Into The Bathroom And Someone’s Being Quiet, You Do Your Business And Leave Quickly

No Woman Gets Left Behind At The Club

If She’s Dating An Abuser, Make Sure She Knows She’s Welcome Anytime

When You See “The Look,” You Step In

Always Console The Crying One

If Someone Says They Love Something You’re Wearing, You Always Tell Them Where You Bought It From

Always Give A Hair Tie If Someone Asks For It

When Your Friend Gets Back With Her Ex, You Support Her, But You Also Tell Her The Truth

If Your Friend Starts To Puke, You Always Hold Her Hair Back

If You See A Girl Doing Something She Might Regret The Next Day, You Go Over And Ask If She’s Okay

If There’s Lipstick On Their Teeth, You Let Them Know Without Making A Huge Deal About It

You Help Other Women Who Seem To Be In Trouble

If You Get Breast Cancer, Let As Many People As Possible Feel Your Lump

Always Give Out Feminine Hygiene Products If Needed

From 534 Lbs To 214 Lbs In 4 Years

The Pic On The Left Was Exactly 3 Years Ago. When I Was The Best Man At My Buddy’s Wedding. I Was Close To 600 Lbs. Around 230 Lbs Now

Water Is The Way To Go. Always

30 Of The Best Pearls Of Wisdom, As Shared By These Friendly Internet Cooks

30 Of The Best Pearls Of Wisdom, As Shared By These Friendly Internet Cooks

30 Of The Best Pearls Of Wisdom, As Shared By These Friendly Internet Cooks

30 Of The Best Pearls Of Wisdom, As Shared By These Friendly Internet Cooks

30 Of The Best Pearls Of Wisdom, As Shared By These Friendly Internet Cooks

Lost 200 Pounds During Covid. Today I Completed A Half Marathon

In Who Cares News I’ve Lost 183 Pounds Over The Last 18 Months So That’s Cool I Guess

The One Where I Felt Unworthy vs. The One Where I Started Loving Myself

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"People Who Are Incapable Of Admitting They Are Wrong" And 30 Other Deal-Breakers, As Shared By Our Community

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Always Wait To Be Confided In

If It Can Be Fixed In 5 Minutes Or Less, Tell Her; If It Can’t, Then There’s No Need To Say Anything

Once You Have Any Sort Of Link To A Guy, He’s Off-Limits To All Friends

Carry Some Extra Pain Killers

Always Give A Hair Tie If Someone Asks For It

You Always Pretend To Know Each Other When A Guy Is Being A Jerk

Always Console The Crying One

If You See A Girl Doing Something She Might Regret The Next Day, You Go Over And Ask If She’s Okay

If Your Friend Starts To Puke, You Always Hold Her Hair Back

When Your Friend Gets Back With Her Ex, You Support Her, But You Also Tell Her The Truth

“Human Wall” A Girl If The Only Option Is To Pee In Public

If You Get Breast Cancer, Let As Many People As Possible Feel Your Lump

Protect Each Other

If There’s Lipstick On Their Teeth, You Let Them Know Without Making A Huge Deal About It

Do Not Get Together With Your Friend’s Ex

If Someone Says They Love Something You’re Wearing, You Always Tell Them Where You Bought It From

Everyone Is Friends In The Bar Bathroom

Tell Her When You See Him Cheating

If You Walk Into The Bathroom And Someone’s Being Quiet, You Do Your Business And Leave Quickly

Do Not Post Group Pics Unless Everyone Approves