I'm in home healthcare. My whole job is to attend to my patients.

I cannot tell you how many of my patient's family members have called my agency and complained about my "Bad attitude" and unwillingness to help.

When asked what I did, its usually that I refused to clean up the entire house or do all the dishes.
I am not a maid, I'm taking care of your loved one. I'm only required to clean up their space and wash the plates and utensils they use.