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Ellidi (ae/aer/aers) • commented on 3 posts 2 years ago

Our Readers Share How Their Friends And Family Reacted To Them Coming Out (30 Stories)

Genderfluid can be any gender. Bigender switches between two genders, and is a type of gender fluid. Bigender could be agender and female or any combination, but male/female is most common.

Our Readers Share How Their Friends And Family Reacted To Them Coming Out (30 Stories)

Probably, but similar to someone saying they are nonbinary, it depends. My genderfluidity tends to be vaguely female, so I use ae/aer because those fit best regardless of gender along with whatever pronouns fit the best that day. Some genderluid people use any/all pronouns all the time, some only use the ones that work that day. Like max said, always assume they/them until told otherwise. Also, you can check bios to see if that says what to use. Genderfluid people are confusing, and I am one!

Our Readers Share How Their Friends And Family Reacted To Them Coming Out (30 Stories)

Genderfluid can be any gender. Bigender switches between two genders, and is a type of gender fluid. Bigender could be agender and female or any combination, but male/female is most common.

Our Readers Share How Their Friends And Family Reacted To Them Coming Out (30 Stories)

Probably, but similar to someone saying they are nonbinary, it depends. My genderfluidity tends to be vaguely female, so I use ae/aer because those fit best regardless of gender along with whatever pronouns fit the best that day. Some genderluid people use any/all pronouns all the time, some only use the ones that work that day. Like max said, always assume they/them until told otherwise. Also, you can check bios to see if that says what to use. Genderfluid people are confusing, and I am one!

Our Readers Share How Their Friends And Family Reacted To Them Coming Out (30 Stories)

Genderfluid asexual techinically-lesbian-but-I-prefer-gay demiromantic here. First, I can't believe there's three very similar identities in one place. Second, I highly reccommend finding a safe place to journal and writing at least one sentence using your pronouns and decribing your gender every day. Helps with the imposter syndrome, and it's easier to look at trends (demigirl vs genderfluid vs bigender etc). Third, please reach out if you ever want support. I've been evading parents for years, I'll do my best to help you. I know how hard losing those safe places can be. If you want to talk about queer stuff, just rant, or need a distraction, please message. Last, when you have no one to talk to, it may seem believable that they are the only ones who will love you. But that isn't true. Eventually, there will be people who respect you enough to give you the freedom you deserve. There will be people who love you. They just don't know you exist yet.

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Ellidi (ae/aer/aers) • commented on 6 posts 3 years ago

21 Mistakes And Traps To Avoid When Visiting These European Countries, Revealed By This TikTok Account

is that escalator a ramp??

30 Non-Americans Share How They Spot American Tourists From A Mile Away

Is "midwestern US" okay?

21 Mistakes And Traps To Avoid When Visiting These European Countries, Revealed By This TikTok Account

is that escalator a ramp??

30 Non-Americans Share How They Spot American Tourists From A Mile Away

Is "midwestern US" okay?

40 ‘Cool Guides’ People Shared On This Group That Contain Information They Don’t Teach At School (New Pics)

Ted, you have failed us!

32 Times When Dogs Got Kicked Out Of Daycare For The Funniest Reasons, Shared By Owners Online

Charlie is super gorgeous!

This Online Community Shares Pics Of Products That Make Its Members Say "I Need It" (50 Pics)

This is genius. especially for somethign like avocados, so you can organize by ripeness, and not need to always poke them

This Online Community Shares Pics Of Products That Make Its Members Say "I Need It" (50 Pics)

Then you eat the ones in front so they don't go bad

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Ellidi (ae/aer/aers) • upvoted 24 items 3 years ago

30 Of The Most Hilarious “My Family Is Weird Tweets” People Shared For Jimmy Fallon’s Challenge

Wonder where he might have heard that?

25 Of The Most Devastating Thanksgiving Fails This Year

Mine should have identified as a small chicken. I cooked a 16 pounder because my daughter's friends always come by on their Thanksgiving house-hops. Not this year. Three of us, one big bird. It's almost gone now, but the dog is the only one who isn't sick of turkey...

30 Of The Most Hilarious “My Family Is Weird Tweets” People Shared For Jimmy Fallon’s Challenge

Wonder where he might have heard that?

This Will Be Me In About 25-30 Years! Dirty Old Bird #thanksgivingfail

Child Fees Should Be A Thing And Dogs Should Be Free

Hey Pandas!! How Do You Deal With Your First Crush

Okay, I'll try to help. But age, gender, parental guidelines would helpful. I have a twitter, instagram, and also can talk in comments if you want.

30 ‘Today I Learned’ Facts That Show It’s Never Too Late To Learn (New Pics)

Darwin's award winner?

This Online Community Shares Pics Of Products That Make Its Members Say "I Need It" (50 Pics)

he died from lead poisoning?

This Online Community Shares Pics Of Products That Make Its Members Say "I Need It" (50 Pics)

Does it work for chicken eggs too? ;-)

30 Things Married Folks Wish All Unmarried People Knew About Marriage

Read up on (or check YouTube) for the "five languages of love". We luckily intuitively got it pretty right for the first 8? Years, but learning about this concept was a game changer nevertheless. Greatly helps with "honeymoon phase gone", communication, "doesn't appreciate me anymore", feeling lonely in marriage,.. At least 2/3 of the advice here gets covered I'd say

Hey Pandas, What Band Saved Your Life?

Ezi, her song Not Going Down Today is what keeps me going when life gets hard

Hey Pandas, What Band Saved Your Life?

I mainly listen to trap music but Queen, Gorllaz, Lovejoy, Pink Floyd, Lemon Demon, and Van Halen are great

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Liking your partner is just as important if not more than loving them.

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Getting married will NOT help solve any issues in your relationship.

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Once the butterflies go away, it's your job to create butterfly moments.

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Have things you enjoy doing with your spouse that don't involve sex. The most stable marriages are ones where you and your spouse could be friends if you weren't married. Goes for dating, too, IMO.

This Purse

These Dog-Themed Playing Cards

Home Theater Bunker

House Key

A Clock Clock

Hey Pandas, What Band Saved Your Life?

RED, The Birthday Massacre. Whispers in the Dark by Skillet.

Hey Pandas, What’s The Most Messed Up Song You Ever Heard? (Closed)

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Ellidi (ae/aer/aers) • submitted 6 list additions 3 years ago

Hey Pandas, Do You Believe In Friction?

Hey Pandas!! How Do You Deal With Your First Crush

Hey Pandas, What Is The Weirdest Scar You Have And How Did You Get It? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What’s The Most Messed Up Song You Ever Heard? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, It’s Your Funeral. What Is Your Swan-Song, But Also Another Song To Make The Mourners Laugh? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What Band Saved Your Life? (Closed)

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Hey Pandas, List Lgbtq+ Labels.

Hey Pandas, Any Lgbtq+ Advice?

Ellidi (ae/aer/aers) • submitted 6 list additions 3 years ago

Hey Pandas, Do You Believe In Friction?

Hey Pandas!! How Do You Deal With Your First Crush

Hey Pandas, What Is The Weirdest Scar You Have And How Did You Get It? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What’s The Most Messed Up Song You Ever Heard? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, It’s Your Funeral. What Is Your Swan-Song, But Also Another Song To Make The Mourners Laugh? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What Band Saved Your Life? (Closed)

Ellidi (ae/aer/aers) • commented on 3 posts 2 years ago

Our Readers Share How Their Friends And Family Reacted To Them Coming Out (30 Stories)

Genderfluid can be any gender. Bigender switches between two genders, and is a type of gender fluid. Bigender could be agender and female or any combination, but male/female is most common.

Our Readers Share How Their Friends And Family Reacted To Them Coming Out (30 Stories)

Probably, but similar to someone saying they are nonbinary, it depends. My genderfluidity tends to be vaguely female, so I use ae/aer because those fit best regardless of gender along with whatever pronouns fit the best that day. Some genderluid people use any/all pronouns all the time, some only use the ones that work that day. Like max said, always assume they/them until told otherwise. Also, you can check bios to see if that says what to use. Genderfluid people are confusing, and I am one!

Our Readers Share How Their Friends And Family Reacted To Them Coming Out (30 Stories)

Genderfluid asexual techinically-lesbian-but-I-prefer-gay demiromantic here. First, I can't believe there's three very similar identities in one place. Second, I highly reccommend finding a safe place to journal and writing at least one sentence using your pronouns and decribing your gender every day. Helps with the imposter syndrome, and it's easier to look at trends (demigirl vs genderfluid vs bigender etc). Third, please reach out if you ever want support. I've been evading parents for years, I'll do my best to help you. I know how hard losing those safe places can be. If you want to talk about queer stuff, just rant, or need a distraction, please message. Last, when you have no one to talk to, it may seem believable that they are the only ones who will love you. But that isn't true. Eventually, there will be people who respect you enough to give you the freedom you deserve. There will be people who love you. They just don't know you exist yet.

Ellidi (ae/aer/aers) • commented on 16 posts 3 years ago

21 Mistakes And Traps To Avoid When Visiting These European Countries, Revealed By This TikTok Account

is that escalator a ramp??

30 Non-Americans Share How They Spot American Tourists From A Mile Away

Is "midwestern US" okay?

40 ‘Cool Guides’ People Shared On This Group That Contain Information They Don’t Teach At School (New Pics)

Ted, you have failed us!

32 Times When Dogs Got Kicked Out Of Daycare For The Funniest Reasons, Shared By Owners Online

Charlie is super gorgeous!

This Online Community Shares Pics Of Products That Make Its Members Say "I Need It" (50 Pics)

This is genius. especially for somethign like avocados, so you can organize by ripeness, and not need to always poke them

This Online Community Shares Pics Of Products That Make Its Members Say "I Need It" (50 Pics)

Then you eat the ones in front so they don't go bad

50 Times Real-Life Looked Like It Didn't Render Properly

This one is satisfying to look at

50 Times Real-Life Looked Like It Didn't Render Properly

I don't see paint, just a floating building

50 Times Real-Life Looked Like It Didn't Render Properly

Minecraft leaf

50 Times Real-Life Looked Like It Didn't Render Properly

Falling over in 3...2...1...wait it's still standing

50 Times Real-Life Looked Like It Didn't Render Properly

the reflection of the clouds is the clincher

50 Times Real-Life Looked Like It Didn't Render Properly

To be or not be (a church)

50 Times Real-Life Looked Like It Didn't Render Properly

Minecraft texture <3

50 Times Real-Life Looked Like It Didn't Render Properly

Your device does not have enough memory to render this building

50 Times Real-Life Looked Like It Didn't Render Properly

Stop-motion tree

50 Times Real-Life Looked Like It Didn't Render Properly

I love how the "plants" are staying a perfectly even distance away from the fence

Ellidi (ae/aer/aers) • upvoted 20 items 3 years ago

30 Of The Most Hilarious “My Family Is Weird Tweets” People Shared For Jimmy Fallon’s Challenge

Wonder where he might have heard that?

This Will Be Me In About 25-30 Years! Dirty Old Bird #thanksgivingfail

25 Of The Most Devastating Thanksgiving Fails This Year

Mine should have identified as a small chicken. I cooked a 16 pounder because my daughter's friends always come by on their Thanksgiving house-hops. Not this year. Three of us, one big bird. It's almost gone now, but the dog is the only one who isn't sick of turkey...

25 Of The Most Devastating Thanksgiving Fails This Year

What's the use of asking that anyway when you have your back turned?

25 Of The Most Devastating Thanksgiving Fails This Year

My thought exactly

Child Fees Should Be A Thing And Dogs Should Be Free

Hey Pandas!! How Do You Deal With Your First Crush

Okay, I'll try to help. But age, gender, parental guidelines would helpful. I have a twitter, instagram, and also can talk in comments if you want.

30 ‘Today I Learned’ Facts That Show It’s Never Too Late To Learn (New Pics)

Darwin's award winner?

This Online Community Shares Pics Of Products That Make Its Members Say "I Need It" (50 Pics)

Does it work for chicken eggs too? ;-)

This Purse

These Dog-Themed Playing Cards

Home Theater Bunker

House Key

This Online Community Shares Pics Of Products That Make Its Members Say "I Need It" (50 Pics)

he died from lead poisoning?

A Clock Clock

Married-People-Give-Marriage-Advice-For-Unmarried-People

Have things you enjoy doing with your spouse that don't involve sex. The most stable marriages are ones where you and your spouse could be friends if you weren't married. Goes for dating, too, IMO.