Some people swear by things they picked up at school or university, others rely on the opinions of experts, while there are also some who get their intake of facts from the World Wide Web. And while some of the sources might seem more reliable than others, it's not uncommon that all of them might be incorrect sometimes.
There are plenty of scientific theories that have been proven wrong, so things that you've heard from 3 friends and aunt and your grandma can definitely be wrong. Here's a list of half-truths and all-lies that many people believe but actually have either been disputed or don't have any actual substance to them, according to Wikipedia. Scroll down, read through, and see if your own perception of truth and reality is challenged. Oh, and don't forget to comment and vote on your favorites!
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Vaccines Do Not Cause Autism Or Autism Spectrum Disorders
Although fraudulent research by British doctor Andrew Wakefield claimed a connection, repeated attempts to reproduce the results ended in failure, and the research was ultimately shown to have been manipulated.
A Common Belief Regarding Self-Harm Is That It Is An Attention-Seeking Behaviour; In Many Cases, This Is Inaccurate
Many self-harmers are very self-conscious of their wounds and scars and feel guilty about their behaviour, leading them to go to great lengths to conceal their behaviour from others. They may offer alternative explanations for their injuries, or conceal their scars with clothing.
This is very true!! It's sad that people think it's just attention-seeking ;ccc
Yes! The worst part is that it's characterizing the victims of these disorders as needy and attention-seeking when this is not the case. It's essentially victim-blaming, just instead of attacking crime victims it's attacking victims of mental illness.
Load More Replies...I have them on my arms (all over), legs, & stomach. I gave up on trying to hide them a few years ago, instead I use it as an example of what you DON'T want to do to yourself. My son & nieces saw the embarrassment I had when people asked about them (when I was trying to cover them) and the scars NEVER go away, so as they have grown-up they have seen them and told me flat out, by seeing what I did, and the fact they never go away- they would never do it. So maybe my pain saved them from some..
in 2011 i did it once with a needle to make scratches on my forearm-not thinking it through and having them higher, hidden under a sleeve. plus i made the mistake of crossing them so it was obviously not an accident-smh...what a pathetic moron. this was a time (of many ) when i was about to be kicked by my husband and lose my kids, due to an extremely stupid and horrifying set of mistakes for which i felt justified(some revenge)
Load More Replies...Even if it was attention seeking, if someone is prepared to go to those lengths to get someone's attention, they obviously need it, serious professional, compassionate medical attention and they should get it. It's not something to be condemned.
The pain & desperation to get rid of the anxiety, hurt and anger is real when it comes to self harm. The last thing on your mind is the attention the life long scars will bring. The only thought on your mine is peace, relief & making it through the crisis in your mind. Many years later, I don't hate the scars, they are constant reminders of how far I've made it. I'm grateful to be alive, and their scars of life. Mental illness is real, and I've got the scars to prove it!
Thanks , I didn't stop doing it but each one on my skin is a constant reminder of every single suffer, abuse, insult, injustice I have put up through my life. And for the ignorant people- I don't use blades only, like to burn myself with steel metal from the oven.
Load More Replies...Far more commonly, self-harm is an attempt at having control when one feels a serious lack of control in other areas of one's life.
Also an attempt to find something real when everything feels fake (an emotional disconnect issue)
Load More Replies...I knew a girl in my therapy group who once had razor scars on her wrist and the inside of her forearms. She had them permanently covered up with a tattoo that says "Grace." I thought it was beautiful.
For me it was diffenrent. I never did it, but once our family's cat scratched me so bad on my arm that I needed to put bandages on it. Every gossip adolescent heard and talked about me as "the lame girl that does THAT" like "omg she's so dumb!". A friend of mine ended up asking me about it, and of course I denied and explained the truth, until another friend confided that they were inded doing it. They weren't proud of it, they were feeling so bad about themselves they felt the need to feel something else, anything to feel better but they couldn't stand their own self. After that not only did I not justify myself anymore, I also stoped hiding the bandages. In those cases people seek others who did it, so I tried to atract the gossips to me. I still don't know if it was a good plan...
Yes. Even if you're diagnosed with depression, anxiety, PTSD, etc- you still might have a family member who tells you to "suck it up" or "get over it." Even if you hide your scars well and they don't see them until years later they'll say you did it for attention. Which is odd when they don't find out until a full decade later.
Load More Replies...To be fair though...MOST self-harmers who aren't just looking for attention will choose to cut in places like their thighs or stomachs where they can easily hide it with clothing. The attention seekers cut in the obvious places. And yes, sometimes this is because they don't know any other way to actually get help...but we have to acknowledge that there are people who cut just because they want to play victim.
As someone who has dealt with self harm issues for years, I would like to meet the a-hole that first suggested that and punch him in the face!
I will say I no longer hide mine or lie when asked. I want people to know it CAN get better and you shouldnt be ashamed of having issues in your life
Whats concerning is that we still don't know how much of depression is hereditary - we don't know how to proper help suicidal people - we don't even know if its possible to help them
It's actually bot true that's a big mystery. To not know the facts, which are well documented these days, is deliberate ignorance. Many have been done on genetic heretability and risk factors. Genetics can cause vunerability or have protective factors against mental illness but environmental triggers are the main factor - war, poverty, trauma, overwork, chronic illness, malnutrition, marginalisation, oppression, racism, transphobia, environmental degradation. Suicide is always preventable. Honestly it's not a mystery at all.
Load More Replies...I hide mine, but still doing the same.Pain I feel inside is sometimes unbearable so must make a wound outside to overcome it. In some occasions I just want to make sure that I am alive.Attention seeking? Please ...Life is just too f.... hard.It is wired defense mechanism.
Very true. Those who are not merely attention-seeking will hide every bit of it.
Over 10 years clean and it wasn't about the attention, it was about the high, at least for me. The pain and the endorphins would stop the crying and despret feelings. After I was just embarrassed and shameful. My parents and friends had zero idea till one day I flipped my s**t and my mom walked in on me slicing up my leg. It's definitely not always an attention thing, sometimes it's like a drug.
in my 20's when l was splitting up with my partner l tried suicide via cutting my wrists..l dismantled the blades from a disposable razor to cut my wrists..when l ran it over my left wrist, rather shallow, l thought "oohh, that hurt a bit much"..the thing is, l was so depressed about the breakup, and dissatisfied about my suicide failure that l proceeded to cut myself up both lower arms..one for each year we were together..11 in total..for many years my mother thought I'd been scratched by one of my cats, god bless her..it took till my 40's for the scars to finally disappear...I'm now into my mid 50's..I'm now glad my attempt failed because l have manged so many adventures since and watched my sons grow up to be good men and find great partners and give me three beautiful grandchildren..so in a way, a failure was a success in the end..l since found out that l was cutting the wrong way..I'm glad that l got THAT wrong..it wasn't my only attempt, but as you can see l failed on both times.
I have been mentally ill since before my teens. I started cutting when I was 17, I am 47 now. I have a tattoo covering the majority of my scars and can wear short sleeves to cover the rest. Cutting is very personal and private. Attention seeking is not the reason for it and suicide is not either. It's a way of copying. Not the best way to cope.
Also - if someone behaves in a destructive manner in order to get attention, one can bet said attention is desperately needed. People do, in fact, need attention. They need to know they are being seen and cared for. If they don't get it in healthy ways, they might turn to damaging ones.
They don't relish ER visits or telling others, they are calling out for help. You obviously don't listen because you are too butthurt. So what are they supposed to do? Just stop talking or trying? Get them help and listen to what they are saying, even if they put some of the blame on you. Truth be told looking at the way you react and talk about them, there is probably some truth in that. This might be the only way they know to communicate about the hurt inside them atm. Help them find other ways. If you don't soon enough you are gonna wish you were still in that ER room. Also talking about your own child like that? Disgusting. I sincerely hope they don't ever see it, nobody deserves that.
Most people who really want to kill themselves go to a quiet lonely place and do it.
Not true at all. Some will wait till thier loved one pops to the shops. Some will do so while everyone is having dinner. Some that die might not have meant it at all. Many that do want to, find it impossible to complete. For many, self harm is a way to stay alive. Many people make attempts and never tell anyone. Don't dismiss suicidality with statements that imply that only the people who died are 'really' suicidal. So many people live with suicidal ideation every day and it's an unimaginable hell.
Load More Replies...This is fallacious reasoning: just because they are ashamed of their actions does not mean they didn't do those actions for attention. We do things for the attention of everyone, for the attention of specific people, or even for our own attention. Self-harm is often an attempt to reinforce the idea that we care about ourselves: we harm ourselves, and when we give it the attention we sought, we feel like we matter. The more compassionate goal is to remove the stigma of seeking attention. When one seeks attention it is usually because of an underlying injury, and no one should be condemned for seeking attention/ help.
a lot of the time it's done in a moment of desperation when not really thinking about it so even if it's in a somewhat "obvious" part, they almost definitely weren't thinking about the next day
Load More Replies...It looks like you really wasted an opportunity to be a good parent. And you seem to relish causing suffering to your child. No wonder they were self harming.
Load More Replies...Ancient Greek Sculptures Were Originally Painted Bright Colors
They only appear white today because the original pigments have deteriorated. Some well-preserved statues still bear traces of their original coloration.
There Is No Such Thing As An "Alpha" In A Wolf Pack
An early study that coined the term "alpha wolf" had only observed unrelated adult wolves living in captivity. In the wild, wolf packs operate more like human families: there is no defined sense of rank, parents are in charge until the young grow up and start their own families, younger wolves do not overthrow an "alpha" to become the new leader, and social dominance fights are situational.
It Is Rarely Necessary To Wait 24 Hours Before Filing A Missing Person Report
In instances where there is evidence of violence or of an unusual absence, law enforcement agencies in the United States often stress the importance of beginning an investigation promptly. The UK government website says in large type, "You don't have to wait 24 hours before contacting the police."
Can you say that one more time? You don't have to wait 24 hours before contacting the police!
Goldfish Don't Have Short Memory Spans
The notion that goldfish have a memory span of just a few seconds is false. It is much longer, counted in months.
Humans Have More Than The Commonly Cited Five Senses
The number of senses in various categorizations ranges from five to more than 20. In addition to sight, smell, taste, touch, and hearing, which were the senses identified by Aristotle, humans can sense balance and acceleration (equilibrioception), pain (nociception), body and limb position (proprioception or kinesthetic sense), and relative temperature (thermoception). Other senses sometimes identified are the sense of time, echolocation, itching, pressure, hunger, thirst, fullness of the stomach, need to urinate, need to defecate, and blood carbon dioxide (CO2) levels.
Napoleon Bonaparte Was Not Short
He was actually slightly taller than the average Frenchman of his time. After his death in 1821, the French emperor's height was recorded as 5 feet 2 inches in French feet, which in English measurements is 5 feet 7 inches (1.70 m). He was actually nicknamed le Petit Caporal (The Little Corporal) as a term of endearment. Napoleon was often accompanied by his imperial guard, who were selected for their height—this could have contributed to a perception that he was comparatively short.
The Forbidden Fruit Is Not Apple
The forbidden fruit mentioned in the Book of Genesis is never identified as an apple, a misconception widely depicted in Western art. The original Hebrew texts mention only tree and fruit. Early Latin translations use the word mali, which can be taken to mean both "evil" and "apple". In early Germanic languages the word "apple" and its cognates usually meant simply "fruit". German and French artists commonly depict the fruit as an apple from the 12th century onwards, and John Milton's Areopagitica from 1644 explicitly mentions the fruit as an apple. Jewish scholars have suggested that the fruit could have been a grape, a fig, wheat, an apricot, or an etrog.
Albert Einstein Did Not Fail Mathematics Classes
Albert Einstein did not fail mathematics classes (never "flunked a math exam") in school. Upon seeing a column making this claim, Einstein said "I never failed in mathematics... Before I was fifteen I had mastered differential and integral calculus." Einstein did, however, fail his first entrance exam into the Swiss Federal Polytechnic School (ETH) in 1895, when he was two years younger than his fellow students, but scored exceedingly well in the mathematics and science sections, then passed on his second attempt.
Acne Is Mostly Caused By Genetics
Acne is mostly caused by genetics, rather than lack of hygiene, eating fatty food, or other personal habits.
Eight Glasses, Or Two To Three Liters, Of Water A Day Are Not Needed To Maintain Health
The amount of water needed varies by person (weight), diet, activity level, clothing, and environment (heat and humidity). Water does not actually need to be drunk in pure form, but can be derived from liquids such as juices, tea, milk, soups, etc., and from foods including fruits and vegetables.
Major source of water is fat metabolism, for which water is a by-product. Also, camels store fat in their hump and use it as a combined energy and water source (see fuel cells in space).
People Don't Swallow A High Number Of Spiders While Asleep
The widespread urban legend that one swallows a high number of spiders during sleep in one's life has no basis in reality. A sleeping person causes all kinds of noise and vibrations by breathing, the beating heart, snoring etc. all of which warn spiders of danger.
Hair Care Products Cannot Actually "Repair" Split Ends And Damaged Hair
They can prevent damage from occurring in the first place, and they can also smooth down the cuticle in a glue-like fashion so that it appears repaired, and generally make hair appear in better condition.
Thomas Edison Did Not Invent The Light Bulb
He did, however, develop the first practical light bulb in 1880 (employing a carbonized bamboo filament), shortly prior to Joseph Swan, who invented an even more efficient bulb in 1881 (which used a cellulose filament).
There Is No Evidence That Iron Maidens Were Used For Torture, Or Even Yet Invented, In The Middle Ages
Instead they were pieced together in the 18th century from several artifacts found in museums in order to create spectacular objects intended for (commercial) exhibition.
The Deep Web Is Not Full Of Porn, Drugs And Stolen Bank Details
The area that contains this illegal information is a small portion of the deep web known as the "dark web." Much of the deep web consists of academic libraries, databases, and anything that isn't indexed by normal search engines.
Sign Languages Are Not The Same Worldwide
Aside from the pidgin International Sign, each country generally has its own native sign language, and some have more than one (although there are also substantial similarities among all sign languages).
Sign languages are also natural languages with their own grammars, totally unrelated to that area's spoken language.
Fortune Cookies Were Invented In Japan, Not China
Fortune cookies, despite being associated with Chinese cuisine in the United States, were invented in Japan and introduced to the US by the Japanese. The cookies are extremely rare in China, where they are seen as symbols of American cuisine.
Vikings Didn't Have Horns On Their Helmets
There is no evidence that Vikings wore horns on their helmets. In fact, the image of Vikings wearing horned helmets stems from the scenography of an 1876 production of the Der Ring des Nibelungen opera cycle by Richard Wagner.
Christopher Columbus Was Not The First European To Visit The Americas
Leif Erikson, and possibly other Vikings before him, explored Vinland, which was either the island of Newfoundland, part of modern Canada, or a term for Newfoundland and parts of the North American mainland. Ruins at L'Anse aux Meadows prove that at least one Norse settlement was built in Newfoundland, confirming a narrative in the Saga of Erik the Red. Columbus also never reached any land that now forms part of the mainland United States of America; most of the landings Columbus made on his four voyages, including the initial October 12, 1492 landing (the anniversary of which forms the basis of Columbus Day), were on Caribbean islands that are now independent countries.
The Great Wall Of China Is Not Visible From Space Or From The Moon
The Great Wall of China is not, as is claimed, the only human-made object visible from space or from the Moon. None of the Apollo astronauts reported seeing any specific human-made object from the Moon, and even Earth-orbiting astronauts can see it only with magnification. City lights, however, are easily visible on the night side of Earth from orbit.
So we just place torches at equidistant markers along the wall, and boom! Visible from space.
Humans Did Not Evolve From Either Of The Living Species Of Chimpanzees
Humans and chimpanzees did, however, evolve from a common ancestor. The most recent common ancestor of humans and the other living chimpanzees lived between 5 and 8 million years ago.
We're distant cousins. And since they fling their own c**p, I try to stay as distant as possible.
The Historical Buddha Was Not Obese
The "chubby Buddha" or "laughing Buddha" is a 10th-century Chinese folk hero by the name of Budai. In Chinese Buddhist culture, Budai came to be revered as an incarnation of Maitreya, the Bodhisattva who will become a Buddha to restore Buddhism after the teachings of the historical Buddha, Siddhārtha Gautama, have been forgotten.
Sugar Does Not Cause Hyperactivity In Children
Double-blind trials have shown no difference in behavior between children given sugar-full or sugar-free diets, even in studies specifically looking at children with Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder or those considered sensitive to sugar.
I feel like something is missing here, is it not basically stating sugar does not effect children
The Redhead Gene Is Not Becoming Extinct Due To The Gene For Red Hair Being Recessive, Nor Will The Gene For Blond Hair Disappear
Although redheads and blonds may become more rare, they will not die out unless everyone who carries those genes (strictly speaking, alleles) dies or fails to reproduce.
I still find it hard to believe it's a recessive gene when my family is riddled with redheads.
There Was No Widespread Outbreak Of Panic Across The United States In Response To Orson Welles's 1938 Radio Adaptation Of H.g. Wells's The War Of The Worlds
Only a very small share of the radio audience was even listening to it, and isolated reports of scattered incidents and increased call volume to emergency services were played up the next day by newspapers, eager to discredit radio as a competitor for advertising. Both Wells and CBS, which had initially reacted apologetically, later came to realize that the myth benefited them and actively embraced it in later years.
Hair And Fingernails Do Not Continue To Grow After A Person Dies
Rather, the skin dries and shrinks away from the bases of hairs and nails, giving the appearance of growth.
Keratin is a dead substance. It's why you don't feel pain when cutting your hair/nails, but will feel pain if you pull them out.
George Washington Did Not Have Wooden Teeth
His dentures were made of gold, hippopotamus ivory, lead, animal teeth (including horse and donkey teeth), and probably human teeth purchased from slaves.
Did they just say "purchased" from slaves?? Um NO, they were FAR from "purchased"!!!
Vomiting Was Not A Regular Part Of Roman Dining Customs
Personally, I would like to see the sources cited for these statements. I think 50% are bogus BS. (I would also like to see someone say my first sentence 10 times fast..lol)
I agree, they definitely need to start citing sources. This one is better than the last few, but there's still a couple questionable ones here.
Load More Replies...Jesus Christ, I haven't believed a single one of these in years. If this stuff is still commonly believed.. then may Thor have mercy on us all.
I was thinking the same. People think any of these were real? Shocking.
Load More Replies...I don't know where you got all these facts but they must have come from a very stupid person.
First ting that bothered me was the OP presented their truth rather than the so-called fallacy. Made it more cumbersome to find the misinformation. Second, lots of inaccuracies.
Personally, I would like to see the sources cited for these statements. I think 50% are bogus BS. (I would also like to see someone say my first sentence 10 times fast..lol)
I agree, they definitely need to start citing sources. This one is better than the last few, but there's still a couple questionable ones here.
Load More Replies...Jesus Christ, I haven't believed a single one of these in years. If this stuff is still commonly believed.. then may Thor have mercy on us all.
I was thinking the same. People think any of these were real? Shocking.
Load More Replies...I don't know where you got all these facts but they must have come from a very stupid person.
First ting that bothered me was the OP presented their truth rather than the so-called fallacy. Made it more cumbersome to find the misinformation. Second, lots of inaccuracies.