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Colin Farrell In Tears As He Reveals Son’s Special Needs: “I Want The World To Be Kind To James”
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Colin Farrell In Tears As He Reveals Son’s Special Needs: “I Want The World To Be Kind To James”

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Colin Farrell opened up about a deeply personal aspect of his life: his son James’s journey with a rare neurogenetic disorder.

In a candid and heartfelt interview, the Irish star shed light on the lesser-known condition and shared the concerns and hopes he has for his son.

“I want the world to be kind to James,” the 48-year-old actor told People. “I want the world to treat him with kindness and respect.”

Highlights
  • Colin Farrell opened up about his son James's journey with a rare neurogenetic disorder.
  • James was diagnosed at 2½ years old with Angelman syndrome, which causes severe developmental delays.
  • “I want the world to be kind to James,” the 48-year-old actor said in an interview. “I want the world to treat him with kindness and respect.”
  • The Irish star launched the Colin Farrell Foundation to support individuals with intellectual disabilities.
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    “He’s cheeky and he’s bold and he’s bright, and he knows exactly what he wants,” Colin Farrell said about his 20-year-old son, James

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    Image credits: People /Instagram

    The Phone Booth actor and model Kim Bordenave welcomed their son James in 2003. When he was 2½ years old, he was diagnosed with Angelman syndrome—a rare neurogenetic disorder that can cause severe developmental delays.

    “He’ll be 21 in September – which is just mad – and he’s doing great,” he told Irish Independent about James. “He’s cheeky and he’s bold and he’s bright, and he knows exactly what he wants.”

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    James, who was born to the 48-year-old actor and model Kim Bordenave in 2003, was diagnosed with Angelman syndrome when he was 2½ years old

     

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    Now 20 years old, James is nonverbal and will age out of many of the support systems provided for families with kids who have special needs.

    “Once your child turns 21, they’re kind of on their own,” the loving father-of-two told People. “All the safeguards that are put in place, special ed classes, that all goes away, so you’re left with a young adult who should be an integrated part of our modern society and more often than not is left behind.”

    When James was born, they didn’t notice any symptoms that made them concerned about his well-being. But eventually, they realized he wasn’t hitting his benchmarks like sitting up or crawling.

    The Irish star was in tears as he spoke about the first time his son walked just a couple of weeks before his 4th birthday

     

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    The onscreen star gained more clarity when his second son, Henry, 15, was born to him and his former partner and Ondine costar, Alicja Bachleda-Curuś.

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    “James was a very silent baby. And I just thought I’d hit the lottery, and he was chill — and he’s anything but,” he recalled. “If James had been my second child and not my first, I would’ve known sooner, because when Henry was born and I heard him cooing, I was like, ‘A baby’s supposed to coo?'”

    Colin is also a father to his second son, Henry, 15, whom he shares with his former partner and Ondine costar, Alicja Bachleda-Curuś

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    Image credits: People /Instagram

    After James tested positive for Angelman syndrome, there were two questions that The Lobster star asked the doctor.

    “I remember the first two questions I asked were, ‘What’s the life expectancy and how much pain is involved?’ And the doctor said, ‘Life expectancy, as far as we can tell, is the same for you and for me, and pain, no,'” he said.

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    As James approaches his 21st birthday next month, Colin launched the Colin Farrell Foundation to raise awareness and support adult children with intellectual disabilities.

    The actor launched the Colin Farrell Foundation to support individuals and families living with intellectual disability through education, awareness, advocacy, and innovative programs

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    Image credits: People /Instagram

    “We want to take a good look at residential potential for families with young adults who are ready to go out into the world and have a greater sense of community and connection,” he said.

    “It’s really important for James and for all of our kids to feel like they are wanted, to feel like they’re part of the community,” he continued. “Not just out of charitable endeavors or being nice and doing the right thing, but out of a sincere desire to engage and learn about each other. They have earned the right to have a greater degree of individuality and autonomy of life and a greater degree of community.”

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    Blondie23
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This goes to show you never really know what is going on in someone's personal life. As a parent that has a special needs kid at home I can tell you that most people are completely clueless as to what it takes to be there and love these kids. I am glad to see his big heart!!!

    Iampenny
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    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just when I thought I couldn't love Colin Farrell more, I see this. What an amazing man and what a lucky young man is, to have such a devoted father, because a lot of people can't cope.

    Andrew Arons
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand this perfectly. When my son was diagnosed with severe autism, it broke my heart. But I understood that the world was going to throw at him for more than he could handle on his own. And I vowed I would always be his champion.

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    Blondie23
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This goes to show you never really know what is going on in someone's personal life. As a parent that has a special needs kid at home I can tell you that most people are completely clueless as to what it takes to be there and love these kids. I am glad to see his big heart!!!

    Iampenny
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just when I thought I couldn't love Colin Farrell more, I see this. What an amazing man and what a lucky young man is, to have such a devoted father, because a lot of people can't cope.

    Andrew Arons
    Community Member
    4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand this perfectly. When my son was diagnosed with severe autism, it broke my heart. But I understood that the world was going to throw at him for more than he could handle on his own. And I vowed I would always be his champion.

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