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Most of us own at least one thing we prefer to hide from strangers' eyes. You know, those little secrets we keep tucked away deep in the closet under lock and key. We might plan to take them to our graves, but if there’s one thing we know about truth — it comes to the surface one way or another.

Sorting through a deceased person’s belongings is a tough experience, one that brings out a myriad of emotions. But while going through their stuff might be painful, it can also lead to some unexpected discoveries. Redditor ChairForces wanted to find out what these items are, so they asked: "People who cleaned out their loved one's home after they died, what is the strangest thing you found?"

Surprisingly, quite a lot of users decided to come forward and share the objects they uncovered. From hidden letters and bayonets to rodents' skeletons, we selected some of the most interesting things this thread had to offer. So continue scrolling and make sure to share your own stories with us in the comments!

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Last month i had the sad task of clearing out my dad's home, He lived alone as he separated from my mum when I was 5 (I'm almost 32).

I found that he kept every single card i had ever sent him, every little note I ever left him when I lived with him in my teens and more recently cards and doodles from my little boy.

Nothing unsavory, he was just a lonely man who really loved his daughter and grandson.

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Natalie Phipps
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my mum passed away in 2009, my sister and I were clearing out her clothes and in one of her drawers, I found a tiny t-shirt of mine from when I was about 4 years old. It was my absolute favourite (it was a white tee with the Pink Panther on it and silver glitter around the edges of him) and I had no idea she'd kept it. My heart broke a bit more at that moment - realising she'd kept hold of it for all those years. I was 31 when she died.

Mary Rose Kent
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s far too young! I’m so very sorry you didn’t get more time with her.

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pigasus1
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes a person becomes broken, and realizes it once they have children. They are afraid of damaging their children the way their parents damaged them.... So because America, they don't have access to mental health care, they leave the family thinking that it's the lesser evil. Our country would be so much better and happier and peaceful if you only realized that each human is entitled to good health care..... Especially with the richest nation in history. Don't keep listening to our politicians telling the lies that Corporate America bribes them to tell, quit paying for welfare for billionaires and multimillionaires and lets start taking care of ourselves and break up every Large Corporation in America, and claw back what they have stolen and redistribute it fairly.

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America has mental health care. Please seek help in your county if you need it. It's often on a sliding scale as in free to the poor.

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Laura Dawson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

he wasn’t lonely, living alone doesn’t make you lonely. 🙄

Mary Rose Kent
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He might have been lonely for other reasons. I get lonely because I’m so far from my friends, but I cope pretty well because we’re not out of contact, just too far for regular visits. Nonetheless, I love, love, love living alone.

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Paddling Panda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad just passed away and as we went through his things, we discovered that he had kept every single business card for every single job each of us three kids have worked in our respective careers. He also still had 90-minute cassette I made for him of me playing piano when I was 15. He was at sea for several months at a time throughout his career and I'd sent him the cassette because he loves classical music. He listened to it all the time, so much so that when I met some of his crew mates when I was 26, they knew who I was and thanked me for the music. Rest easy, Daddy. I hope that you're enioying all the music you love and dancing up a storm..

Helen Vertannes
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When my mum died at 73 6 years after my dad at 68 I found every single birthday and mothering Sunday card. It brought both tears and a smile. It used to take me ages to track down mothering Sunday cards. She didn't believe in mothers say as she knew how the tradition started over here.

Cold Contagious
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's very precious though. So many memories he held dear to him.

Shortstuff
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mum had kept every card, scrap of paper, flower, drawings etc from my daughter, who was 48 when my mother passed away.

Courtney Johnson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad had a Rubbermaid bin full of every card his kids had sent him. It broke my heart to get rid of them, but the dementia kept him from reading them. Miss my pops! I do thr same thing with cards from my parents or daughter. Memories you can't get back.

Steve Fischer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still keep a shirt from my youngest granddaughter when she was three. She's seventeen now but it will always stay with me.

shodokai
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I found the same thing when my Dad passed. All my cards, letters and notes, carefully boxed and some mounted on the wall over his work bench in the garage.

GlitterQueen541
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When we cleaned out my dad's storage unit, we found a few boxes with every school project, paper, drawing, etc... my favorite was one with just a small doodle and he had written on the back "[My Name] while waiting for me at the office" and then the date next to it.

SinéadQ
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am sorry for your loss. He sounds like a man that loved you dearly.

Tiina Agur
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You say, he was just a lonely man, who really loved his daughter ... why assume he was lonely, though?

Celtic Pirate Queen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We lived in Seattle, when my husband got a job offer in San Diego (2013). My Dad & Stepmom were kind enough to put us up. We thought it would just be a few weeks, but it turned into a year. My Dad & I really reconnected during that time and became very close. Almost 1 month to the day of us getting our own place, my Dad informed me that he had stage 4 lung cancer (he was gone in 4 months). I helped my stepmother clean out "all that which remains". Heartbreaking was finding the file folder he had kept of every letter & card I had sent him for the past 30+ years. I'm tearing up just thinking about it.

bastillee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sure those cards and drawings gave him great comfort. Hang onto them.

Felicia Dale
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom did this, too- and I kept most of her cards and notes. Treasure.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh jeez, I didn't realize that was weird. I've kept every card received since 1999 and every drawing made by my kids. In my defense, I only kept key items of clothes... ehhh..but it really wasn't that much...just a jumbo sp@c* bag... Ok. Maybe I'm weird.

Jaaawn
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My partner and I do this and every so often we look through our memory book. So cute.

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    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away My grandmother hoarded silver dollars over the years and hid them throughout her house. When we cleaned it up after she died we found the coins everywhere - every spot where you could imagine hiding a coin had one or two. The whole hoard ended up being worth about $7000.

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    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away Cousin after a motorcycle accident, cleaned out his apartment along with his brother. Nothing strange in particular, then went over to his computer to erase his history (as a bro should) turns on, linux OS , encrypted asked for password then a loud bang just goes off the computer just dies.

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    Rick
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think we all know what he had on there to go to such lengths to keep hidden. Sorry.

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    Robert T
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure which is worse - the letter itself, or the fact that they kept it!

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    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away When we cleaned out my ex's grandmother's house, I stumbled upon her stash of how-to sex books, along with hand-written budgets from the 1940's. This dear woman was one of the most proper and gentle kind of people you would ever meet, and if you had known her, you would have been very surprised. My eyes kind of bugged out for a second, then I chuckled and showed my ex. He just nodded his head and quietly said, "Well, I am glad to know gramps was gettin' some". His aunt looked at one of the books and said, "Let's see if we're doin' it right."

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    Caro Caro
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Aunts reaction ... Hahaha. I might have said the same thing :D

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    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away Cleaning out my grandparent's house after they passed away...

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    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away My grandpa had four grenades he brought back from WWII in his garage. Still live. We had to call in the bomb squad.

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    Scagsy
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I better keep these, you never know when you're gonna need four grenades in civvy street. Always come in handy.

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    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away When my dad passed, my older sister (from his first marriage) came to help go thru stuff.

    All our lives my dad had his army locker. None of us knew what was inside. He always kept it locked. So we had to know. The mystery of our entire lives were now ready to be cracked open.

    Busted the lock off. Opened it. Some old army patches and souvenirs from his army days, stuff of his dad's and grandpas army days. Pics from his time overseas. Letter from government agency interested in him. Legal papers. Cool stuff.

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    We never should have opened that locker.

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    kim morris
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's great! He loved your mom. He loved his other wife. It wasn't some rando woman, this is a good thing.

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    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away My mom found over three grand in cash stuffed between the cushions of my estranged father's sofa. It was just enough to pay the mortgage and bills whatnot until my sister's social security payments started kicking in. (She was a minor and my mom was still receiving child support for her.) Thanks, dad.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had clients on an estate case where the family discovered that their recently deceased grandpa had hidden money in his books. He had a MASSIVE collection of books. Took the family something like 6 weeks to go through all of them one page at a time, but they ended finding almost $10,000.

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    Not strange in a "wtf" sense but in a we didn't expect some things to survive that long. I had an uncle who died when he was a kid in a car accident. My grandma kept everything ever possibly related to him in her storage room. It wasn't particularly dusty either so i assume she still looked at the things regularly. Everything from graded papers, doodles, all his old toys, and pictures. Taken care of and in great condition even though it all must've been 50years old at that point.

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    AZ Panda
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the saddest I've read so far... hopefully it helped in her grief... didn't add to it.

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    This is late. But here ya go.

    I hadn't talked to my dad in about 3 years. I went with my brother and mom to clean out his place. My dad was a great artist, he would doodle alot. I found a stack of white bristol board. On the top board, was a note to me. A moose (I love moose, but he didn't know that because I became fond of them after we stopped talking.) and a self portrait of him and a beer can (alcohol took him). It was weird to me. It was a massive sign of an apology. It was the closure I sort of needed but did not realize that when I found it.

    We reckon it was his last doodle. I still have it close to me today. His death brought my family closer and we don't deal with stupid drama anymore.

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    Nine thousand bucks in old-fashioned '50s [money] and somebody's beef jerky-looking finger with [a] ring stuck on it.

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    My grandfather's house. I was there at the time. My Dad and my uncle was there too. We were catalouging all of my granddad's stuff so we could work out what would go to who, and what we could get rid of. However, there was a cupboard we couldn't open. It was hidden in the top of an old grandfather clock, and it was tightly locked.

    Nearly 2 months later, my uncle Matt had taught himself how to pick locks, and we all went back to my grandfather's house, and Matt picked the lock and opened the cabinet. And guess what we found?

    A revolver with a single bullet loaded, and 10,000 pounds.

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    Scagsy
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The way that '10,000 pounds' is written, would suggest that this is from the UK. With some exceptions, handguns are outlawed and ammo is scarce so the fact that gramps had this gun opens up a whole raft of questions. What did he have it for? Had he used it? Where did he get it? Was he a criminal?

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    My grandmother was a hoarder but also an antiques collector. There would be a stack of 7 boxes, 6 of them would have useless junk and the 7th would have $5000 worth of jewelry so we had to go through everything.

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    MJLstrd
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandmother wasn't a hoarder as such, but when Mom & I cleaned out the house we found all the gifts any of her family had given her. She had never used them because "they were too good to use." That's the generation that came of age just before and during the first world war.

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    #20

    My nan recently died, after finding her birth certificate we discovered that she'd been spelling her name wrong her entire life.

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    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away My great uncle's house had a rodent's skeleton that said "F*** you, Marty."

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    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away Helped clean out my hoarding grandmother’s house. We found my father’s ashes.

    The ashes she affirmed that she scattered at the family farm.

    We also found my uncle. They were both in the original container and sealed.

    WHAT DID SHE SCATTER?

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    When I went through my wife's things, I found her father's suicide note. I didn't even know he had left a note. Not a good day.

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    I helped clean out a girlfriend’s grandparents’ house. Along with finding some racially insensitive salt and pepper shakers, there was also a desk with a hidden compartment that her mom found. Her mom pulled out about 5 photos of grandma and grandpa having sex.

    And they were recent photos.

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    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away Was clearing out my fraternal grandfather's place with my dad and I discovered some bayonets, a whole collection of them, dating back to the Crimean war. They were wrapped in a bundle, with some letters, diaries and medals.

    I went to show my dad and he was unimpressed. He then pulls out a large roll of what looks like blankets and unrolls it to reveal a full size ceremonial cavalry sabre.

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    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away Back when I was an Avon lady, I helped our regional director clean out a house when one of the little old Avon ladies in the district passed away. We found out that she'd been a hoarder, and her teeny little house was packed nearly from floor to ceiling, with these little canyon-like trails through it. In addition to an entire ROOM full of extra and unused Avon products (the more you sold, the more you get for free - either for your own use or to sell and get some extra cash), there were places where, behind the piles of Stuff, dust had accumulated to more than an inch and a half thick. It was like doing an excavation - and each layer was a different decade.

    It was so strange and sad.

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    Kimi Tomminello
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom is like this. I had been out of contact with her for a while and then a scare happened that my daughter and I had to go to her house to try to find her. Boxes and cans of food, clothing, construction supplies, animal waste all floor to ceiling with tiny little paths. Idk if I'm going to help her clean this hoard up when the town starts fining her for excessive waste/ unsafe environment again.

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    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away My family and I had to clean out my grampas apartment and we found 3 sets of binoculars. Now, that alone wouldn't be particularly weird, but we still had no idea why he had them. At least, not until we looked out his bedroom window, and realized we had the perfect view of a neighborhood swimming pool, complete with two bikini-clad ladies. We all kinda just laughed about it.

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    That my mom actually cleaned the room she fell in and that she cut a bush that was partly covering her window. The same window the EMT used to get her out of the house. All of that 3 days before. Like she knew a aneurysm would pop in her head days before.

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    A couple of years before my dad died, he dated a younger woman who claimed she loved him and wanted to marry. They later went their separate ways but my Dad never told me the full story. After his death I was going through his belongings and found a 4 inch stack of Western Union money transfers from him to the woman's family (~15,000 USD). Later found out she is nothing but a scam artist and preys on single older men. She convinces them she is in love and wants to marry, and gets them to spend money lavishly on fake wedding materials, reservations, etc.

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    Katie Lutesinger
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope that piece of excrement got caught and went straight to jail where she belongs.

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    #30

    After grandmas death we found grandpa. Well his ashes. In an unopened FedEx box with a note from the crematorium saying essentially “you never picked this up.” The thing is he has an urn and a spot at the cemetery. Apparently the cemetery just has the stone but no grandpa.

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    #31

    My grandpa lost his voice due to cancer surgeries when I was young and spoke with a synthesizer. It wasn’t always easy to understand him so he wrote a lot down. About 4 years later my grandma died, then my grandpa 4 years after her and we cleaned out their house. In my grandma’s room under a doily on the dresser we found a note written by my grandpa saying that started with wanted her to go lay on her bed then more description of what he would do to her. We stopped reading after we realized what it was so I don’t know the full details. Some cousins were grossed out, but I thought it was sweet they were still that active in their 70s despite major illnesses for both.

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    #32

    My Grandma was a bit of a hoarder and would hold on to the weirdest things. When we opened up one of the cabinets in one of her bathrooms I found a jar labeled "old". I opened it up and found a set of dentures that looked like they hadn't been used in a very long time. When we went down to the basement I was emptying out a drawer and found a large envelope. Inside of it were photos of a naked woman somewhere that I didn't recognize. I had never seen what my Grandma looked like before she was, well, old. So it took me a second to realize what I was looking at. I handed them to Mom and, with a bit of dread, asked if they were pictures of Grandma. Mom's eyes bugged out and all she said was "oh my god." So yeah. I saw naked pictures of my Grandma. I could have gone without that.

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    Peggy Shafer
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So many prudish responses to the entries about grandparents' sex lives and nudity? Really, people?

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    #33

    My grandmother was a hoarder. When she died in 2001 we were able to move thru her apartment via "trails" with c**p literally stacked neck-high on either side.

    Found lots of unpaid utility bills at least 20 years old. A c**p ton of pink White Cloud toilet paper hidden in a closet. Diet Coke cartons from the mid-80s. Her oven was stuffed full of Little Debbie Oatmeal Cream Pies. Dozens of them! (Which she never ate due to having a bad gallbladder) My personal favorite was the stacks and stacks of Costco-sized cans of Veg-All. Oh, and a loaded handgun under her pillow. And every burnt out light bulb she ever used piled high in her bathtub. It's like she was preparing for the zombie apocalypse.

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    #34

    All her love letters to an affair she was having behind her husband's back for two years during their 30 year marriage. They were pretty bad, not like p**nographic bad, but harshly dismissive of their relationship, like, "he's a good man, doesn't beat me, loves the kids, and makes good money. I stay with him out of a source of obligation, mostly. I married him at a time when I thought money and stability is what I needed, and love and passion would come in time. Ultimately, it did not." Apparently it ended abruptly, and no one knew who he was.

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    #35

    My great aunt was a architectural photographer for various interiors magazines for most of her life. When her partner died we found dozens of boxes of slides - like actual slides you'd use a projector for - of what must've been every project she'd ever done. She had them turned into slides like she wanted to show off every cover of better homes and gardens she ever shot plus all the alternates. It was weird.

    Also, though this was something we knew existed, we found great-grandma's 'neck massager' that she bought out of some magazine stuffed into the couch cushions. She found it in one of those magazines that sell as seen on TV c**p labeled as a 'personal massager' and very innocently thought it meant an actual massager. she'd bring it out when everyone was around and turn it on and rub her neck with it.

    Now every Christmas we hand it out to a new unsuspecting victim, and they get the pleasure of opening a massive, hard plastic beige vibrator in front of everyone.

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    #36

    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away When my Grandma died, we found a cup with nail clippings in it. Like when she cut her toe or finger nails she put them all in a cup. It was halfway full so she must have been saving for awhile.

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    Joe Reaves
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where was she from? In more superstitious areas people are weird about just throwing out nail cuttings or hair cuttings because they can be used to hex you.

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    #37

    Yeah...finding out about a brother in another country was interesting.

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    #38

    We found a blood-stained German cross pin/medal with an old yellowed note in my grandpa's handwriting saying "taken from German soldier, Aachen, octo 1944". Probably not that strange, considering that my grandpa was in the army during WWII, but it was a bit chilling. He was always so gentle and mild, it was strange to think of him taking a "souvenir" from a soldier he had killed. Seemed too bloodthirsty for the type of man he was.

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    Kimi Tomminello
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He may have held on to it to remind him of who he's not. My grandfather was a WW2 vet who was a decorated soldier had a jar of teeth labeled "dead". I don't think I need to elaborate. He told my dad on his deathbed he would look at the jar to remind him of who he never wanted to be again.

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    #39

    In our grandparents' home, my parents found a cemetery deed for a 6-grave plot located in a state about 1,200 miles away.

    Apparently, the cemetery deed was a "wedding present" given to them by an unknown donor who was encouraging them to move to that part of the country.

    As far as we know, that 6-grave plot still belongs to our family and will remain unused.

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    My grandma's ex-husband's father was apparently some kind of doomsday prepper/would-be inventor. When he died, I didn't go along to clean out his garage, but I understand that among the junk stashed in there was a drum of mercury and a landmine.

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    Robin Roper
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You'd have to have a hazmat team get rid of the mercury and a bomb squad get rid of the landmind

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    #41

    For anyone who knows they will have to be the one to do the cleaning, from a person who had to clean out both parent's houses...

    There is a pretty high probability that you will find sex toys.

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    Honu
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did find some old porn in the garage. I'm pretty sure my dad would've had more but likely got rid of it knowing he was terminally ill, or it was on his computer. I refrained from looking at the browsing history. I think it's great that he and mom had a good sex life throughout their marriage, but I wouldn't want to intrude that far on their privacy.

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    #42

    We found a hand-dug basement behind a large kitchen cabinet. There is a family story how my great uncle was accused of murder, but the body was never found. Some of us think the body is in the basement.

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    #43

    When my great grandmother died, we found a very old, black cut off ponytail wrapped in brown paper, hidden in the back of some drawers. No one in my family has black hair...?

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    #44

    With my grandfather we found several pictures of a girl no one knew, a few DNA test results that were positive, and the entire Mormon bible in Spanish.

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    #45

    My mother had a large collection of handwritten erotic campfire sing-alongs stowed away.

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    #46

    I did this for a living for 5 years. Best things I found were expensive art, cash, gold etc. I've discovered a hidden sex dungeon. The deceased male was widowed 5 years prior and made it to 93. All the equipment looked pretty new. Most odd item I found was a photo album of their family which had a cut of everyone's hair in it. Given time I could probably think of a lot more.

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    #47

    While helping my dad go through my moms things after she died we come across a stack of 4 old hat boxes and 3 cylindrical cases. I immediately knew that the cylindrical cases were Shriner fez cases because I already have 2 that I had collected years ago. Sure enough there were 3 beautifully bejeweled fezzes in those cases. The hat boxes contained a collection of different vintage hats including several amazing, completely feathered hats. The strange part was that neither my dad nor I knew that she had even bought any hats let alone that she had amassed such a collection. I'm a vintage seller on eBay and we talked almost every single day yet she never mentioned anything about them.

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    Cold Contagious
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's interesting. Wonder if someone in the family had been a Shriner? My daughter's spine surgery was done at the Shriner hospital in Lexington KY and they were spectacular to her. Her or I have never been treated so well at any other hospital ever.

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    #48

    My grandfather recently passed away and we cleaned out the garage. We found 12 sets of sunglasses, 5 wallets with $1200 cash and in his second freezer we found 22 ice creams on a stick. He loved ice cream apparently.

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    #49

    When my mum died I found a book with the cover wrapped in paper. It had my grandads name in the cover and was a book about marriage and sex. It explained everything that goes on in the bedroom and how to keep a happy marriage. I love the thought that my grandad had this secret book that he kept, even 50 years after his wife died. I like to imagine him sitting with the book, red faced while my granny knits oblivious.

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    Huddo's sister
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandma did this, but they weren't always explicitly sex book, she even covered romance novels.

    #50

    When my Grandpa passed away, he left all kinds of mathematical notes all over his bedroom. Maybe he was a genius? He did get 3 Master's degrees in Holland. His family was aristocracy over there. Then he brought his family to the U.S. and couldn't get a good job.

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    Yayaboobo
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This so sad. Not fair that brilliant minds get wasted for being different.

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    #51

    Mom died in January. Dad found valentine cards addressed to each of us kids while changing the bed sheets.

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    Insono
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww that's so sweet of her to prepare that probably knowing she wouldn't be there anymore to give them to you herself. A sweet last gift of mother love!

    #52

    Not so much strange but after my nan died and my dad was cleaning her room he found an envelope in the very bottom of her dresser with a lock of his baby hair she'd kept for nearly 60 years. He was amazed because he didn't even know she'd done that.

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    #53

    My grandpas collection of playboy centerfolds. No actual whole playboy magazines, just the centerfolds, neatly stacked in a box.

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    #54

    Cleaning out my uncles home with his immediate family I found a Nazi book. When I opened it, it was a dedication book to the "Fuhrer" written by school children. There were photos of each student on each page and they appeared to be young, aged 7-10. Each page was separated by an attached piece of tissue and the books spine had not been "broken". On each of the student's page, there was beautiful artwork and words and though I don't speak German, there were recognizable words of Thank You's and it had a tribute feel. I felt that if it had been my book I would have donated it to a museum or somewhere that it could be studied. My cousins kept it and I don't know what they did with it afterwards.

    This was found in the mountains of Arizona in a large cabin style home. Lot's of other treats were found.

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    #55

    When my mom’s brother passed away in 1995, my family were the ones that sorted his house cleaning as none of the other siblings were interested. We found cash stashed everywhere. He had over £50,000 in his bank and a few thousand stashed around the house. Me and my brother found this massive knife that could well have been considered a machete of some sort. He was a placid man and the fact he owned this was a surprise.

    Other than that, it was mostly possessions of his mother around the house that he’d not gotten rid off after her death 2 years previous. Very sad for my mom having lost them both in 2 years. Still remember that day clearly.

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    #56

    Omg my time to shine.

    Let me list a few crazy things I’ve found in my mother’s house so far.

    Dried blood soaked sheets neatly folded in the bathrooms. We have to clean out the closets with bleach afterwards.

    Her former boyfriend’s teeth not in a typical teeth plastic container but in a jewelry box.

    The papers she sent her lawyer during the custody dispute with my father almost twenty years ago. The second paper was a list of reasons I was supposed to remain with her, first reason listed was “Daughters need to only live with their mothers.”

    8000 photos so far. Nothing really good. My mom liked disposable cameras and would keep all of the photos from each one.

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    Seabeast
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Blood soaked sheets and her ex-boyfriend's teeth? Maybe you need to rent a ground-penetrating radar device. 😳

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    #57

    When my wife’s father died, we found some papers in his desk with measurements written down labeled arms, legs and back. He had been having some health issues for a few months before he died and could be a little eccentric so we thought he had been measuring his body for some reason and puzzled over it for a while. Then one day a few months later it came to me that they weren’t his measurements, but rather measurements for a chair he planned to build. He was a amateur wood worker and that must have been an upcoming project.

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    #58

    My grandma died in April we are still in the process of helping my grandpa clean out the house, but among the strangest things we found were receipts from the 90's and Christmas gifts she had already bought.

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    Mary Rose Kent
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We were very, very poor for most of my childhood, so my mother often did her next year’s Christmas shopping during the post-Christmas season, but clothes were always gotten just before until we were clearly fully grown.

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    #59

    Gran was in a nursing home. Gran was tee total. Gran had multiple small bottles of wine hidden everywhere (all unopened) as well as dozens of knives. Cutlery knives not stabby knives. She didn't eat in her room so I have no idea why she had them.

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    When cleaning out my grandma’s house we got around to her bedroom and found a HUGE picture of me from when I was a toddler. I knew I secretly was her ‘favorite’ grandchild, but we were really surprised to find a photo that big and nothing comparable like that from the other grandchildren.

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    Huddo's sister
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's funny, though hopefully it didn't mean she treated the others worse.

    #61

    Keys. Oh so many keys. My dad died and my mom and I found several dozen keys that we had no idea what they unlocked.

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    Mary Hiers
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I save keys too, because you never know. My HS best friend's husband lost his cat one summer when he was a kid. They eventually discovered it was locked in the garage of a neighbor who had gone on vacation. Well, another neighbor saved old keys, so they got her box of keys and eventually found one that opened the garage, so they could rescue the cat!

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    #62

    When we cleaned out my grandpa's house we found probably 10 slingshots in a tiny one story house. Just slingshots everywhere. He was a pretty awesome guy.

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    My dad lived with us in an in-law suite. Cleaning out his living area after he died I found a notebook filled with the comings and goings of our next door neighbor. Turns out my dad thought our AMERICAN next door neighbor looked too middle-eastern and might be a terrorist.

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    #64

    In my Great Grandparents house we found a very well hidden stash of Saltpeter (Potassium nitrate or KNO3). We think my grandpa's mom was slowly poisoning his dad in an attempt to chemically castrate him. No idea how long it went on, but he died almost 15 years before she did.

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    M O'Connell
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That doesn't actually work, it's an urban legend originating from a movie. Perhaps it was well-hidden because it's explosive, and having it around isn't too unusual, stump-remover is 99% KNO3.

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    #65

    30 Unexpected, Bizarre, And Disturbing Things People Found In Their Loved One's Homes After They Passed Away The night my grandpa died, me and my cousins were snooping around through the house while our parents were at the hospital, and we found hidden away in one of the cabinets, a plastic skull head decoration with bulging eyeballs covered in blood and green slime, and tentacular arms sticking out from the sides. It was late at night, and very out of place and the lights were off so it scared the living hell out of us. I took a video of us finding it. It’s pretty funny to look back at it now

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    #66

    When my dad died I found money stashed in drawers and cabinets. A couple thousand dollars.

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    #67

    I found my mother's "Jews for the Preservation of Firearm Ownership" card in an old wallet.

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    #68

    my grandfather was apparently very high up in the local freemasons chapter, and my grandmother kept all of his stuff after he died in 1997. grandma passed away last august and my mom brought home the freemasons books he had had and a couple briefcases of paper. that was pretty weird

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    #69

    My grandpa liked to spend money. When moving a couch I found a credit card zipped into the couch cushion hidden from my grandmother.

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    #70

    We found a packet of wylers lemonade mix that expired in 1986. In 2012. Those things last like a decade at least too.

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    Jill Hojnacki
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My aunt still had a partially empty box of the baby cereal they fed me when I was brought to visit as a baby tucked away in the cupboard. I was born in 1955.

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    #71

    We found a table that was half put together in my brother's house. Went out the back and there was a table exactly the same, they got stuck building it at the same place and clearly thought they'd buy another and start again.

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    #72

    My mom went to clean out my aunt's house after her husband (my uncle) died and they were selling the house. They essentially had no marriage, he lived in the basment, spoke to no one. Never went out. Was a really weird guy even when he was younger, like a stereotypical nerd. My mom found pamplets on p**is enlargement he had picked up at a doctors office as well as invoices for p**is enlarging devices. If he hadn't died was he actually going to get his weiner enlarged?? and for what?? We'll never know

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    #73

    When my family cleaned out my uncle's house after he died they found thousands of empty no2 cartridges for making whipped cream. Nobody was surprised, in fact they specifically did not let us kids help because they assumed there would be some and didn't want to expose us to drugs, but it wasn't that long after that I learned what "whipits" were and then my other uncle told me how funny it was gathering up bags and bags of them after he died.

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    #74

    My grandma's closet was filled with water and electricity bills way back 2010. We were sure we already threw it away but old people really can rummage through trash and take things back. There were also canned goods in it, snacks she opened then didn't eat again (or forgot), and some of our stuff that we've been looking for (thermometer, batteries, hand towels, etc). She was such a hoarder.

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    When my great grandmother died, we had to clean out the whole house and she had soooo many stacked newspapers by her chair that all 10 piles went as high as your hips. I just found a lot of old candy, saved bags of chips, and unopened packages

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    Huddo's sister
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, the number of lollies we found in my grandma's stuff. We would think we got it all and then find some more! It's no wonder her diabetes wasn't controlled and she lost her foot.

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