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Time and again we have written about choosing beggars, the kind of people who feel like the whole world revolves around them. Not only do they act entitled, but they go into a full breakdown if someone refuses to fulfill their unfair expectations. To see what I mean, scroll through our previous posts with blood-boiling examples of choosing beggars here, here and here.
But luckily the world is built on karma, and if there’s darkness there must be light too. Just like this corner of Reddit titled “Choosing Givers” which is basically an antidote to the previously mentioned notorious subreddit. Choosing Givers is thoroughly dedicated to good-hearted, selfless people who make this world go round and remind us that whatever happens, we still gotta believe in humanity.
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#1
The Opposite Of Choosing Beggars - My Wife Trying To Sell Her Car
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#2
Cashier Pays For An Elderly Mans Groceries Who Doesn’t Even Realise
#3
This Guy Selling His Action Figures On Ebay
When you scroll through this list, you can’t help but wonder what exactly drives these selfless acts and behaviors. Are some people born altruists, or is it something they acquire throughout their lives? After all, humans have a notorious reputation for being selfish creatures who put their own needs ahead of everyone else's.
According to researchers, altruism involves helping others at a cost to the self, not only when such behavior is supported by strategic considerations like reciprocity or cooperation, but even in the absence of expectation for future benefit. In other words, people who choose to do something good for others don’t necessarily expect anything good back from them.
#4
My Best Friend Fully Supporting Me And My Artwork By Commissioning Me And And Refusing To Pay Less Than Full Price
#5
My Landlords Response To Me Not Being Able To Pay Rent On Time. We Need More People Like Him In Our Lives. He Is The Definition Of Being A Bro. I've Got Tears In My Eyes Rn
Angharad Eatough 3 years ago
Why can't all people be like this amazing landlord? Sometimes i just wonder how on earth did we get people this kind, and they could be neighbours with absolute a**holes?
#6
Bought A Used Car From An Older Gentleman And Found This After I Got Home
Lauren Caswell 3 years ago
It's all this stuff that keeps the world going. Unspoken kindness and respect just because you can
This illuminating study suggested that each altruist act is a choice just like any other, with pros, cons, and even the occasional mistake. The authors of the study found that generous choices took more time to make than selfish ones, especially for those who made more selfish choices overall, consistent with their decision-making model. Interestingly, about half of the generous choices participants made appeared to be mistakes.
#7
Buying A Stranger Some Work Boots That He Couldn’t Afford So That He Can Keep His Job
Sonia Bailey 3 years ago
This is a lovely story, but is it typical in the US for companies to expect employees to pay for their own PPE? In the UK companies are legally obliged by health and safety regulations to provided any and all PPE.
#8
My Mother-In-Law Passed Unexpectedly Yesterday Morning. Her And My Wife Were Supposed To Go Get Haircuts Together Soon So My Wife Went To Get One Just To Get Out Of The House And When She Went To Pay They Told Her Someone Else Had Paid For It And Left This Note On The Back Of The Receipt
#9
A Text From Our Landlords This Morning
Dorothy Parker 3 years ago
Oh my. It gives me hope for the future that there are people like this.
In reality, the strength of good-hearted people who don’t expect anything back has to do with their sense of compassion. And compassion starts with empathy — imagining putting ourselves in the mind of another person and imagining what they’re going through. Once we’ve empathized, and feel their suffering, the second half of compassion is wanting to end that suffering. This is when good-hearted actions may occur.
But most importantly, in order to make a compassionate move, a person has to get themselves out of the way and to think of the other person. On the other hand, it’s been suggested that compassionate behavior may be appealing for people because it reduces the feelings of guilt from their privilege and good fortune.
#10
My Friend Is A Manager At A Popular Fast Food Restaurant And Posted This On Fb Yesterday
#11
An Absolute Win
#12
I Run A Small Roadside Stand In Nj Where Eggs Are Pay What You Can. A Bro Decided To Pay It Forward
Vasana Phong 3 years ago (edited)
I’m glad to see there’s still people using the honest system, I do remember as a kid driving by in NJ( the farm area) some stalls have people tending it, some just have a sign to pay and put $ here
#13
The Opposite Of A Cb!
#14
I'm A Cook In A Restaurant. Someone Came In And Gave These To The Hostess And Told Her To Give Them To Every Employee And Then Immediately Left. I Didn't Even Get To Thank The Person Because They Were Already Gone. Thank You So Much!
Heidi Cormier 3 years ago
That's crazy amazing!! Being a server has always been rough. Now it's bananas!! That's the stuff that helps me to at least keep pushing through yet another insane service lol
#15
Blue Was Selling One Of Her Favourite Watches To Pay For Her License And Red Offered To Pay The $200 So She Could Keep Her Watch And Get The License
Gaby Almodovar 3 years ago
Great guy... but what a f****d up, dystopian country they are living in!
#16
Paying Stranger’s Parking Meter So They Avoid Getting A Ticket
#17
When You Appreciate Someone's Work...
Vasana Phong 3 years ago
We’ve always been good tippers, if someone is doing a service for us, and the price is so low, we would feel guilty and give them much more, lately it’s been the mom and pop auto mechanics
#18
A Lady Was Seeking Advice On Euthanizing Her Suffering Pet And Cremation Bc She Can’t Afford It Right Now. A Local Stranger Is Meeting Her Tonight To Pay For The Whole Process
#19
Apparently I’m A Choosing Giver
#20
Perfectly Fits Here
#21
One Of My Former Coworkers Absolutely Flooring Me With His Kindness. I’m 25, Have No Ged Or Driver’s License, And Live With Parents Who Aren’t Very Kind To Me. He Said He’d Probably Give Me The Car As Well
Scagsy 3 years ago
My old grandma used to say 'Giving of oneself is greater than giving money'. As a little girl, she grew up in poverty and used to get up before dawn to go check the street gutters for lost coins from the night before. I think what she meant was that you didn't have to be rich to help people less fortunate than yourself. No amount of money ever bought a second of time.
#22
My Wife And I Are Bartenders And Our Landlord Pays For A Guy To Come Out Once A Week And Mow The Property. He Left This On Our Doorstep Today. We All Need More People Like Blake
#23
Not Trying To Flex, Simply Hoping It Inspires Some To Give If They Are Able
#24
My Friend, The Polar Opposite Of A Choosing Beggar
InfectedVoice 3 years ago
A beer on me is the most British way of settling it ever, all day long.
#25
The Opposite Of A Choosing Begger, Because We All Need A Little Positivity Now And Then
#26
I Think I’ve Found The Opposite Of A Choosing Beggar...?
Jyri Hakola 3 years ago
Understandable. If you have an excess wooden pallet without any intentions for a hipster-desingned balcony and no crobar / car to haul it away, that seems to be reasonable payment for someone to get rid of that.
#27
Don’t Think It’s Supposed To Work This Way...not A Choosing Beggar
WilvanderHeijden 3 years ago
If only there were ways to transfer money from one bank account to another......
#28
Mrbeast Being Mrbeast
Animelover13ฅ(• ɪ •)ฅ 3 years ago
He’s a YouTuber who donates a lot of money (at least that’s what I know)
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Raven DeathShade 3 years ago
Mr. Beast is an insanely famous amd rich YouTuber, I think just under PewDiePie in terms of subs, but I don't sub to either of them. He enjoys giving money away to people.
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#29
My In-Laws Being Bros. A Skunk Has Made Itself At Home In Our Crawlspace And It's Gonna Cost Us Over $4k To Get It Removed And Have The House Sealed. They Offered To Pay For It
Kimi Tomminello 3 years ago
Lol being a cheap and redneck farmer all I can think of is the time I spent in a crawlspace dressed in plastic bags and ski goggles to sedate and remove a skunk. You definitely go nose blind on the smell and even covered in plastic bags I still smelled like skunk for about a month afterwards. The skunk was fine and released about an hour away from my house (farm at the time). Still laugh at myself for this. I looked ridiculous.
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Sonia Bailey 3 years ago
In November, the area I live in was hit badly by a storm - thousands of trees down. In the village where I live, a lovely man with a chainsaw offered to come around and help clear any trees that were causing issues - he came around ours as we had a large tree fall and completely block our elderly neighbours driveway (thankfully missing his house!). He spent nearly three hours (with my husbands help, clearing away a massive conifer tree so that the access to my neighbour was clear. He spent all day going around the village asking people if they needed help with tree clearance and even did it the weekend after! As far as I know, he didn't receive a penny for this - we offered him several times to pay! He was the village MVP!!
Melissa TO 3 years ago
That's awesome! We had similar happen after Hurricane Charley hit us. Guys came around with chainsaws and cleared the roads and helped us get the big trees off our homes and yards. It was amazing! Thank you to those people who helped us after the storm! People came from all over to help, they brought food and water. The red cross drove through neighborhoods handing out MRE's. And all of our neighbors helped each other out. My husband would fire up the generator each morning to make a big pot of coffee and go door to door to bring hot coffee to the neighbors.
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Cigdem Kanburoğlu 3 years ago
We need more posts like this. Thank you for sharing, I feel better for humanity. We need to see the good examples more.
MiniMaus 3 years ago
Took my car to my usual mechanic ( fab guy) for a look at an issue I had with the car. Go to pick up the car and he says " couldn't find anything wrong and it seems to have correct itself whatever it was". Asked how much I owed him. " no charge. when there's something really wrong with it I'll charge you". Where do you find someone who's time is not valuable ? I brought him a lemon pie and oddly enough it was his favourite - lol
Yort 3 years ago
Once when we were moving in to a new apartment (one of those deals where they split a house into an upstairs and downstairs apartment), we’re struggling - my mom in her 50s, me 17 and small, my sister was 22? This group of guys were doing lawn care a few houses down. They come over, half of them don’t seem to speak English, the apparent leader has broken English, he asks if we need help. Eventually we’re like “yeah, sure” so this team of 6 Hispanic landscapers moved all of our furniture in, up the stairs into the apartment, along with boxes and stuff. They finish and my mom offers them money. We didn’t have a lot, it was basically everything in her wallet. The lead guy refuses. Mom is like “please take it, you helped out so much. Buy your guys some pizza.” The guy refuses again. Finally my mom suggest donating it to his church and then the guys are all like “Oh, yeah, okay.” We never saw them again. I hope they’re all doing well. It was very kind.
Jo Choto 3 years ago
A lot of these relate to money, but it's possible to be kind and help someone with your time as well.
ZAPanda 3 years ago
Yep. I've trained about 5 guys on IT - programming, system administration, etc., for free. Also bought them lunch. It's important to share your skills, not just your money. Teach a person to fish, and all that.
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Imogene Cargeaux 3 years ago
I dig the switch up! However, not nearly as entertaining as "choosy beggars." Hahaha. Maybe it's because these ppl make me feel inferior. Unlike the choosy beggars who make me feel better about myself bahaha.
Paula Glasscoe 3 years ago
Young lad was asking on a local page if anyone had a pushbike for sale as he was currently back in work after a tough time and was walking 2 hours each way. I had my cycle serviced, bought lights, hiviz gear and a pump and gave it to him. Anyone with the determination of this lad deserves a leg up!
Tamra Stiffler 3 years ago
What a wonderfully kind and generous thing to do. 😌
Load More Replies... Haily Jynne 3 years ago
My Great-Grandma won $500 once gambling. (She spent money to get it, and really enjoyed it. She can also afford it.) She was at a cousin's baseball game, and heard that one of the players was struggling financially. She brought him to her car, and gave him $400. She figured that it wasn't really"her money" because she didn't earn it, so didn't figure it a huge loss of money, just a diminished lucky earning. He and his wife came the next game a few weeks later and told her that his father had come and stolen $300 from them. Her kindness completely negated the stolen money, and left them with $100. I love her and her incredible kindness.
Peet 3 years ago
I started a course in woodworking/furniture making. I needed a plane but they go for €100 ($120-ish) each. I found one on Ebay, an elder man was selling it for €25... When i came to his garage, I noticed that he was selling a lot of great tools. Some even for 10% of the second hand value. I told him to raise his prices. I had €40 in my pockets (all i could miss at that time) and bought some great quality chisels next to the plane. I showed him some pictures of my creations and told about the course. When i arrived home this man called me: "I want my tools to be in good hands, i leave the advertisements open for another two weeks, you get what's left for free. Please give me a call... Two weeks later my car was loaded to the max with all kinds of tools, nails, screws, screwdrivers, planes, sanding machines, glue, clamps etc. Estimated new worth €5000…
Veronica Sjöberg 3 years ago
Long story short; once i had to take a flight back home from another country with my youngest son (a baby). When i got home it was almost midnight and i realized my husband (who didnt travel back with us) had the keys for our apartment and i could not get in. It was freezing outside and i was stressed. A young man that i didnt know came out from the student house on the other side of the street with a blanket and said he saw us from his window and thought we needed help. It could be a really dangerous situation but i was tired and scared my son would get cold so i decided to trust him. He gave me food and his bed for the night for me and my son (he slept on the sofa). In a tiny student apartment. I called for help to get in to our apartment the next day but that restored my faith in humanity and that some people still just want to help. No hidden agenda - just for the sake of being a good fellow human. I'm forever grateful and will pass it on. Just like the people here!
Gavin Johnson 3 years ago
Paying It Forward is an enjoyable and properly decent thing to do. You don’t have to make big gestures, it can be a smile for the senior citizen outside the supermarket, you can buy a coffee for a stranger, heading through a toll booth? Pay for the car behind. You’ll be met with smiles. Do it, you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the response.
Manuel Delgado 3 years ago
If more people knew that It feels so much better giving than receiving...
Liz the Wanderer 3 years ago
Part of us are compassionate and amazing people in this world! We can all strive to pay it forward!
Leslie Burleson 3 years ago
This is what I love seeing on BP. A cynical , sarcastic joker ... but we need to be nicer to each other . Does this mean I'm getting old or ... *gasp* mature ?
Robert Thompson 3 years ago
I always pay for the car behind me at the car wash. It is a cheap and easy way to do my "good deed" for the day.
Jaeger (Jaeger) 2 weeks ago
BORED PANDA!!!! Stop with this, I’ve read this post before you tried to scam people and wanted to read it again! Knock it off, no one’s paying you guys
Nicole Simmons 3 years ago
I'm working on getting a friend a gift. It involves getting something 3D printed. I was having terrible luck with my searches and finally found someone who prints things on Etsy. I said I knew I didn't have the right file type and explained how I was trying to work on getting a gift for my friend but I wasn't familiar with all the terms so I wasn't having much luck at all. They not only were very kind about my questioning of things, they provided me with a link to a place where I could possibly get someone to make me my image in the file type needed, which led me to another awesome person who is not only incredibly kind and made me feel good about the things I was getting done, but because I was giving him a bunch of time and had several things that needed to be done, he gave me a deal! I'm planning on going back to the person who helped me so much to get them printed when they are ready! They did all this, helping me with terms and such without any guarantee that this would go beyond
Lovin' Life 3 years ago
I love post like this! It's so heartwarming to know there are still good people in such a world in which we live. Maybe there is hope for humanity after all. Thanks for sharing. It was a great read on a bad day.
Pangoro 3 years ago
How about you don't s**t on this, ok? Not everything is fake. And honestly, I could use a lot more genuine kindness and positivity. The powers that be do not need your help with destroying optimism so just...SHUT IT!
Load More Replies... Sonia Bailey 3 years ago
In November, the area I live in was hit badly by a storm - thousands of trees down. In the village where I live, a lovely man with a chainsaw offered to come around and help clear any trees that were causing issues - he came around ours as we had a large tree fall and completely block our elderly neighbours driveway (thankfully missing his house!). He spent nearly three hours (with my husbands help, clearing away a massive conifer tree so that the access to my neighbour was clear. He spent all day going around the village asking people if they needed help with tree clearance and even did it the weekend after! As far as I know, he didn't receive a penny for this - we offered him several times to pay! He was the village MVP!!
Melissa TO 3 years ago
That's awesome! We had similar happen after Hurricane Charley hit us. Guys came around with chainsaws and cleared the roads and helped us get the big trees off our homes and yards. It was amazing! Thank you to those people who helped us after the storm! People came from all over to help, they brought food and water. The red cross drove through neighborhoods handing out MRE's. And all of our neighbors helped each other out. My husband would fire up the generator each morning to make a big pot of coffee and go door to door to bring hot coffee to the neighbors.
Load More Replies... Cigdem Kanburoğlu 3 years ago
We need more posts like this. Thank you for sharing, I feel better for humanity. We need to see the good examples more.
MiniMaus 3 years ago
Took my car to my usual mechanic ( fab guy) for a look at an issue I had with the car. Go to pick up the car and he says " couldn't find anything wrong and it seems to have correct itself whatever it was". Asked how much I owed him. " no charge. when there's something really wrong with it I'll charge you". Where do you find someone who's time is not valuable ? I brought him a lemon pie and oddly enough it was his favourite - lol
Yort 3 years ago
Once when we were moving in to a new apartment (one of those deals where they split a house into an upstairs and downstairs apartment), we’re struggling - my mom in her 50s, me 17 and small, my sister was 22? This group of guys were doing lawn care a few houses down. They come over, half of them don’t seem to speak English, the apparent leader has broken English, he asks if we need help. Eventually we’re like “yeah, sure” so this team of 6 Hispanic landscapers moved all of our furniture in, up the stairs into the apartment, along with boxes and stuff. They finish and my mom offers them money. We didn’t have a lot, it was basically everything in her wallet. The lead guy refuses. Mom is like “please take it, you helped out so much. Buy your guys some pizza.” The guy refuses again. Finally my mom suggest donating it to his church and then the guys are all like “Oh, yeah, okay.” We never saw them again. I hope they’re all doing well. It was very kind.
Jo Choto 3 years ago
A lot of these relate to money, but it's possible to be kind and help someone with your time as well.
ZAPanda 3 years ago
Yep. I've trained about 5 guys on IT - programming, system administration, etc., for free. Also bought them lunch. It's important to share your skills, not just your money. Teach a person to fish, and all that.
Load More Replies... Imogene Cargeaux 3 years ago
I dig the switch up! However, not nearly as entertaining as "choosy beggars." Hahaha. Maybe it's because these ppl make me feel inferior. Unlike the choosy beggars who make me feel better about myself bahaha.
Paula Glasscoe 3 years ago
Young lad was asking on a local page if anyone had a pushbike for sale as he was currently back in work after a tough time and was walking 2 hours each way. I had my cycle serviced, bought lights, hiviz gear and a pump and gave it to him. Anyone with the determination of this lad deserves a leg up!
Tamra Stiffler 3 years ago
What a wonderfully kind and generous thing to do. 😌
Load More Replies... Haily Jynne 3 years ago
My Great-Grandma won $500 once gambling. (She spent money to get it, and really enjoyed it. She can also afford it.) She was at a cousin's baseball game, and heard that one of the players was struggling financially. She brought him to her car, and gave him $400. She figured that it wasn't really"her money" because she didn't earn it, so didn't figure it a huge loss of money, just a diminished lucky earning. He and his wife came the next game a few weeks later and told her that his father had come and stolen $300 from them. Her kindness completely negated the stolen money, and left them with $100. I love her and her incredible kindness.
Peet 3 years ago
I started a course in woodworking/furniture making. I needed a plane but they go for €100 ($120-ish) each. I found one on Ebay, an elder man was selling it for €25... When i came to his garage, I noticed that he was selling a lot of great tools. Some even for 10% of the second hand value. I told him to raise his prices. I had €40 in my pockets (all i could miss at that time) and bought some great quality chisels next to the plane. I showed him some pictures of my creations and told about the course. When i arrived home this man called me: "I want my tools to be in good hands, i leave the advertisements open for another two weeks, you get what's left for free. Please give me a call... Two weeks later my car was loaded to the max with all kinds of tools, nails, screws, screwdrivers, planes, sanding machines, glue, clamps etc. Estimated new worth €5000…
Veronica Sjöberg 3 years ago
Long story short; once i had to take a flight back home from another country with my youngest son (a baby). When i got home it was almost midnight and i realized my husband (who didnt travel back with us) had the keys for our apartment and i could not get in. It was freezing outside and i was stressed. A young man that i didnt know came out from the student house on the other side of the street with a blanket and said he saw us from his window and thought we needed help. It could be a really dangerous situation but i was tired and scared my son would get cold so i decided to trust him. He gave me food and his bed for the night for me and my son (he slept on the sofa). In a tiny student apartment. I called for help to get in to our apartment the next day but that restored my faith in humanity and that some people still just want to help. No hidden agenda - just for the sake of being a good fellow human. I'm forever grateful and will pass it on. Just like the people here!
Gavin Johnson 3 years ago
Paying It Forward is an enjoyable and properly decent thing to do. You don’t have to make big gestures, it can be a smile for the senior citizen outside the supermarket, you can buy a coffee for a stranger, heading through a toll booth? Pay for the car behind. You’ll be met with smiles. Do it, you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the response.
Manuel Delgado 3 years ago
If more people knew that It feels so much better giving than receiving...
Liz the Wanderer 3 years ago
Part of us are compassionate and amazing people in this world! We can all strive to pay it forward!
Leslie Burleson 3 years ago
This is what I love seeing on BP. A cynical , sarcastic joker ... but we need to be nicer to each other . Does this mean I'm getting old or ... *gasp* mature ?
Robert Thompson 3 years ago
I always pay for the car behind me at the car wash. It is a cheap and easy way to do my "good deed" for the day.
Jaeger (Jaeger) 2 weeks ago
BORED PANDA!!!! Stop with this, I’ve read this post before you tried to scam people and wanted to read it again! Knock it off, no one’s paying you guys
Nicole Simmons 3 years ago
I'm working on getting a friend a gift. It involves getting something 3D printed. I was having terrible luck with my searches and finally found someone who prints things on Etsy. I said I knew I didn't have the right file type and explained how I was trying to work on getting a gift for my friend but I wasn't familiar with all the terms so I wasn't having much luck at all. They not only were very kind about my questioning of things, they provided me with a link to a place where I could possibly get someone to make me my image in the file type needed, which led me to another awesome person who is not only incredibly kind and made me feel good about the things I was getting done, but because I was giving him a bunch of time and had several things that needed to be done, he gave me a deal! I'm planning on going back to the person who helped me so much to get them printed when they are ready! They did all this, helping me with terms and such without any guarantee that this would go beyond
Lovin' Life 3 years ago
I love post like this! It's so heartwarming to know there are still good people in such a world in which we live. Maybe there is hope for humanity after all. Thanks for sharing. It was a great read on a bad day.
Pangoro 3 years ago
How about you don't s**t on this, ok? Not everything is fake. And honestly, I could use a lot more genuine kindness and positivity. The powers that be do not need your help with destroying optimism so just...SHUT IT!
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