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Unbelievable Note From CEO Asking Workers To Donate Their PTO To Hospitalized Long-Term Employee Goes Viral
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Unbelievable Note From CEO Asking Workers To Donate Their PTO To Hospitalized Long-Term Employee Goes Viral

Unbelievable Note From CEO Asking Workers To Donate Their PTO To Hospitalized Long-Term Employee Goes Viral“This Is Pathetic”: The Internet Is In An Uproar Over CEO Asking Employees To Donate Their PTO To Hospitalized Worker, As She’s Running LowCEO Is Blasted Online After Asking Employees To Donate Their PTO To Hospitalized And Ill Employee“This Is Pathetic”: CEO Gets Blasted Online After Urging Employees To Donate PTO To A Co-Worker In The Hospital“This Has Become Quite A Drain On Her Family’s Income”: CEO Tries To Guilt Employees Into Donating PTO To A Hospitalized Co-WorkerIll Employee Runs Out Of PTO, Boss Asks Her Coworkers To Donate TheirsPeople Are Infuriated At This CEO Who Asked Employees To Donate Their PTO Days To A Coworker Who's Been HospitalizedPeople Are Disgusted At This CEO Who Asked Other Employees To Donate Their PTO For Their Sick Coworker
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Spending time in the hospital is a nightmare for many reasons, but aside from the concerns about your health and how terrible all of the food is, you might also spend your stay worrying about how expensive your medical bills are becoming and how many days of work you’ve had to miss. That’s why it’s great to have paid time off, or PTO. But unfortunately, that’s usually quite limited, and your company’s CEO might not be extremely generous with it. Below, you’ll find a notice from one CEO that was recently shared with employees, and then posted on the Antiwork subreddit, that is now under scrutiny for being insensitive and tone deaf.

The point of having paid time off is so that employees can use those days at their own discretion

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But after one worker was forced to use all of their PTO in the hospital, their company’s CEO had the audacity to urge others to sacrifice their own days off

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If you’re unfamiliar with an American paid time off or PTO policy, according to The Balance, it’s a combination of vacation, sick and personal days all pooled into one bank of paid days off. These days can be used however an employee likes, which means employers don’t need to be informed about why their workers have decided to take a day off. These policies can be very helpful for employees who need to take days off for doctor’s appointments or health issues that they don’t want to have to disclose to their employers, and they can protect employees from losing money whenever they get sick or choose to take a vacation.

In theory, PTO is beneficial for employees, as it allows them to take time off without needing a specific reason

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But there can also be issues associated with PTO. In situations like this post on Reddit, companies and CEOs can be unwilling to budge or negotiate on how many days of PTO employees are allowed to use, without considering extenuating circumstances like being hospitalized or coping with a family tragedy. According to a study from the WorkatWork Association in 2019, the average amount of PTO days employees receive is determined by how long they’ve been working at a company. The days given ranged between 17-29 on average, with the smallest amount being given to employees who had been with a company for less than one year and nearly a month going to employees who had been with a company for two decades or more. 

That may seem like plenty of paid time off, but especially for employees with health issues or who have children and might need to stay home taking care of them at times, the days can add up quickly. And suddenly, a worker might not have any days left for actual vacations or rest. And while the average American who receives PTO does not end up using all of it most years, they definitely should take advantage of those days. Time off is important to avoid burnout and to enjoy a higher quality of life. According to the American Psychological Association, a relaxing vacation can contribute to a person’s overall health, lowering their risk of heart disease, reducing their stress, lowering depression and anxiety rates, improving productivity and increasing their overall satisfaction.  

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“If you take a truly restful vacation, the benefits can last not just weeks but months,” Christine Carter, PhD, a sociologist and a senior fellow at the Greater Good Science Center at the University of California in Berkeley, told Everyday Health. Even staying at home for a day or two to rest can be helpful. “Think about the healthy comfort items that would come with a vacation, and give yourself permission to have those,” Carter advises. “Sit in your backyard and read something enjoyable, or just get outside and expose yourself to nature.”

Yet the biggest problem in this situation on Reddit is the fact that the CEO is attempting to guilt their employees into giving up the days off that they have earned and deserve, rather than using their power in the company to provide extra paid days off for the employee in need. They could also provide unpaid days off and start a fund to raise money for the hospitalized worker, perhaps on a platform like GoFundMe and kick off the donations with a few thousand dollars. If they were really concerned about this individual who has worked at the company for 17 years, they could certainly find a way to help them out. Corporate greed never ends though, and unfortunately, it has clouded this CEO’s judgment and empathy. 

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In practice, however, PTO days often end up simply becoming sick days or going unused altogether

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We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation in the comments below, pandas. Have you ever experienced a similar issue at work? And how would you respond if your CEO urged you to give up your own days off when they have the power to provide more? Then, if you’re interested in reading another article from Bored Panda discussing how to utilize your PTO correctly, check out this article next! 

After this notice was shared online, readers began chiming in with their own similarly frustrating experiences

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Many people also called out the CEO for being greedy and insensitive

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seid ibrahim
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so grateful that I am from Europe. 32 days vacation days per year, and when I am sick, I get up to 28 days of fully paid sick leave and even after that health insurance pays 85% of my salary. I feel sad for my US fellows

Marie Dahme
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s worse when you have to quit working and you have a disability. I had to file with the government to *prove* I was disabled enough NOT to work. And I paid into this system with taxes taken out of my paycheck when I was working. I now get my disability from social security and my medical benefits from Medicare & Medicaid. But it was two years of not working, lost my home to foreclosure, had my fiancé cover my bills for two years. You can’t work while you’re applying for disability and you need money to survive. I was 49 when this happened. No one plans on things like in life. But in the US, they want you to work until 65…or push it until 72 and then file for retirement benefits. By then your body is worn out from not being able to go to Dr either because you couldn’t afford to go to the doctor because of no health insurance OR you worked too many hours during the week and your boss never allowed for PTO for an appointment…they ask inappropriate questions like what do you….

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Philenzortia
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've told this many times. But since I live in a development country and this post is from someone in the USA, a "first world country". My mom was in the hospital for a month because she had an ischemia. She needed to have someone with her all the time, my brother didn't had a job back then and my bosses knew about that but they let me take the time off to be with her and sort things while she was there. AN ENTIRE FREAKING MONTH and they payed my wage as usual. None of my coworkers had to give their time to me because that concept doesn't exists here. We are entitled (as far as I remember) to 5 days of domestic calamity by law. My bosses didn't care about that and they gave me the entire month. I don't work there anymore but I'll always be grateful to them.

James016
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being in the UK, this just doesn't happen here, as we have employee rights, though my first question to the CEO or anyone asking me to donate my PTO would be how much of your PTO are you donating. Of course this CEO could just keeping paying this staff member.

Giin
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not family or friend and they've been off work for more than 3 months, why would they keep paying them?

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seid ibrahim
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so grateful that I am from Europe. 32 days vacation days per year, and when I am sick, I get up to 28 days of fully paid sick leave and even after that health insurance pays 85% of my salary. I feel sad for my US fellows

Marie Dahme
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s worse when you have to quit working and you have a disability. I had to file with the government to *prove* I was disabled enough NOT to work. And I paid into this system with taxes taken out of my paycheck when I was working. I now get my disability from social security and my medical benefits from Medicare & Medicaid. But it was two years of not working, lost my home to foreclosure, had my fiancé cover my bills for two years. You can’t work while you’re applying for disability and you need money to survive. I was 49 when this happened. No one plans on things like in life. But in the US, they want you to work until 65…or push it until 72 and then file for retirement benefits. By then your body is worn out from not being able to go to Dr either because you couldn’t afford to go to the doctor because of no health insurance OR you worked too many hours during the week and your boss never allowed for PTO for an appointment…they ask inappropriate questions like what do you….

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Philenzortia
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've told this many times. But since I live in a development country and this post is from someone in the USA, a "first world country". My mom was in the hospital for a month because she had an ischemia. She needed to have someone with her all the time, my brother didn't had a job back then and my bosses knew about that but they let me take the time off to be with her and sort things while she was there. AN ENTIRE FREAKING MONTH and they payed my wage as usual. None of my coworkers had to give their time to me because that concept doesn't exists here. We are entitled (as far as I remember) to 5 days of domestic calamity by law. My bosses didn't care about that and they gave me the entire month. I don't work there anymore but I'll always be grateful to them.

James016
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being in the UK, this just doesn't happen here, as we have employee rights, though my first question to the CEO or anyone asking me to donate my PTO would be how much of your PTO are you donating. Of course this CEO could just keeping paying this staff member.

Giin
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not family or friend and they've been off work for more than 3 months, why would they keep paying them?

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