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People Are Outraged At A Spa That Mocked A 10-Year-Old Cancer Patient And Called Her A Boy
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People Are Outraged At A Spa That Mocked A 10-Year-Old Cancer Patient And Called Her A Boy

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Iliana Bellard is a 10-year-old girl who was first diagnosed with Anaplastic Large Cell Lymphoma, an aggressive form of cancer that attacks the lymph nodes, in early 2018. Her mother recalls that it was stage 4 cancer at the time of the diagnosis and that the doctors put the girl on palliative care as they had little hope at that time. Starting from her shoulder and going to her heart, the girl had 7 tumors spread throughout her body. Even though the prognosis seemed grim, Iliana proved to be a true fighter.

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    During her treatment, Iliana found that while stuffed animals, coloring books and board games eventually grew boring, one thing kept her entertained and distracted from the pain. Slime making became her thing and brought a smile back to her face. The girl’s family even started a fundraiser titled “Iliana’s Slimy Smiles” to raise money for “slime kits” which the girl could bring to other children going through therapy.

    While Iliana is in remission, there are still some obstacles left in her path. To celebrate the girl feeling better, her mother, Eliabeth Bellard, wanted to take Illiana out for some quality mother-daughter time in the girl’s first public outing since chemo treatment, and what’s a better way to do that than getting a relaxing manicure? When the woman chose to go to “Imperial Salon and Day Spa” in Stafford, Virginia, she expected some well-deserved pampering for her daughter and herself, not to be irritated at the salon workers mistreating her daughter.

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    In an emotional Facebook post, Elizabeth revealed that while getting a manicure at the salon, some of the workers started making distasteful remarks about Illiana. The women kept saying that the girl recovering from cancer treatment looks like a boy. “When arriving at the salon the nail technician began to say how nasty Ilianas nails were because they were so brittle. At that point I explained that Iliana had just completed chemotherapy and that was the cause of her brittle nails. Towards the end of finishing her nails another nail tech walks up and says to the one sitting there that it looks like she is putting nails on a boy. She said Iliana looks like a boy and is going to look dumb with nails when everyone thinks she’s a boy.” Elizabeth told Bored Panda.

    Elizabeth also posted a picture she snapped while it all was happening, saying that her daughter just laid her head down on the table while the work was being finished. The girl said that she felt embarrassed when the nail technician called her a boy. ” I explained to the manager again that Iliana had just finished chemo and that his staff was making fun of her. He at no point apologized but offered to draw something on Ilianas nails. Iliana declined and said she just wanted them to finish so we could leave.” the mother added.

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    After Beth’s Facebook post reached people’s feeds, many were outraged, calling the salon’s treatment of the little girl harsh and unbelievable. People also reached out to support Iliana and her mother which prompted the woman’s second post.

    After the harsh criticism from the public, the salon’s representatives followed up with an online apology.

    “We do not now, or ever support any of our employees making comments to any of our amazing clients. We value each and every one who walks into our spa. We deeply apologize that this has happened.”

    There were reports that one employee was fired and other two suspended. Although the service made efforts to apologize in public, they did not send a personal apology to the family. “They have not reached out personally for an apology. They stated on their news interview that they would like to apologize face to face. We have not been contacted.” Elizabeth explained.

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    Here’s what people had to say about the situation

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    Giedrė Vaičiulaitytė

    Giedrė Vaičiulaitytė

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    As a writer and image editor for Bored Panda, Giedrė crafts posts on many different topics to push them to their potential. She's also glad that her Bachelor’s degree in English Philology didn’t go to waste (although collecting dust in the attic could also be considered an achievement of aesthetic value!) Giedrė is an avid fan of cats, photography, and mysteries, and a keen observer of the Internet culture which is what she is most excited to write about. Since she's embarked on her journalistic endeavor, Giedrė has over 600 articles under her belt and hopes for twice as much (fingers crossed - half of them are about cats).

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    Giedrė Vaičiulaitytė

    Giedrė Vaičiulaitytė

    Author, Community member

    As a writer and image editor for Bored Panda, Giedrė crafts posts on many different topics to push them to their potential. She's also glad that her Bachelor’s degree in English Philology didn’t go to waste (although collecting dust in the attic could also be considered an achievement of aesthetic value!) Giedrė is an avid fan of cats, photography, and mysteries, and a keen observer of the Internet culture which is what she is most excited to write about. Since she's embarked on her journalistic endeavor, Giedrė has over 600 articles under her belt and hopes for twice as much (fingers crossed - half of them are about cats).

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    Alia G.
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    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. Whether they knew she had done chemo or not, those remarks are incredibly inappropriate. Poor girl. She's beautiful, and just because her hair isn't long it doesn't make her any less feminine.

    Rafaella Bueno
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. The way the article is written and all does give me mixed feelings, because it makes it seem like they were a******s because they said something to a girl who was sick and had an "excuse" to look like that, not because they were just being a******s, period. As if if she wasn't sick and just liked to have short hair it would've been okay to be rude.

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    Jo Choto
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why, as a mother, would you let these comments about your daughter go unchallenged? Why would you not correct them and then leave the store immediately, and follow up with the manager. Why allow your daughter to suffer like that, and say and do nothing?

    Helena R
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought that too, it's unclear in the article whether or not the mother said anything at the moment of the incident. What is clear though is that she took a picture of her upset daughter and posted it on social media, and I just don't see how that makes the situation any better for the young child

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    Kyana Winter
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend has short hair and just tell people to f**k off when the make fun of her. No one needs that negative energy

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    Alia G.
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. Whether they knew she had done chemo or not, those remarks are incredibly inappropriate. Poor girl. She's beautiful, and just because her hair isn't long it doesn't make her any less feminine.

    Rafaella Bueno
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. The way the article is written and all does give me mixed feelings, because it makes it seem like they were a******s because they said something to a girl who was sick and had an "excuse" to look like that, not because they were just being a******s, period. As if if she wasn't sick and just liked to have short hair it would've been okay to be rude.

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    Jo Choto
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why, as a mother, would you let these comments about your daughter go unchallenged? Why would you not correct them and then leave the store immediately, and follow up with the manager. Why allow your daughter to suffer like that, and say and do nothing?

    Helena R
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought that too, it's unclear in the article whether or not the mother said anything at the moment of the incident. What is clear though is that she took a picture of her upset daughter and posted it on social media, and I just don't see how that makes the situation any better for the young child

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    Kyana Winter
    Community Member
    6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend has short hair and just tell people to f**k off when the make fun of her. No one needs that negative energy

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