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I Made A Comic About Mindfulness And How It Helps You Control Negative Emotions
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I Made A Comic About Mindfulness And How It Helps You Control Negative Emotions

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“Be mindful” is something we hear often, but what does “mindfulness” mean? What does it do? How does it work? I aimed to answer these questions by making a comic that shows mindfulness in action.

I have been meditating daily for a few years now. I remember when I started to meditate for 20 minutes a day and use mindfulness techniques, I noticed a difference in my behavior and headspace in a matter of weeks. Most useful in changing my behavior was a technique I found called “mindful noting.” In the practice of mindful noting, one notes what is currently happening in a detached way. You simply “take notes” on yourself as if you were a scientist watching yourself. You might note what position your body is in, what you’re doing, and what you are feeling. You might note right now “Sitting, looking at phone, feeling calm.”

Using this method it is easy to catch oneself at the tipping point. For example, I noticed I would catch myself as I started to cheat on my diet when stress eating. I would note “standing, cutting cake, feeling anxious.” And from there it would be much easier to set down the cake and walk away and do something to address my anxiety.

This works for getting off task, for keeping track of thoughts and feelings, and also for catching yourself RIGHT before you tip into the abyss of negative emotions. I noticed I could let go of a train of thought if it was heading into a bad and unproductive place. Just noticing the anger and watching it, rather than actively getting into thinking angry thoughts could save an entire day from being drenched in sadness, anger, or hatred. Without fanning the flames of anger, the feeling of anger dies extremely quickly. In a matter of seconds an overwhelming wave of rage can evaporate into a gentle ripple. Don’t believe me? The next time you catch yourself in the middle of anger, take note that it’s happening, and watch the feeling of anger in a detached way.

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I wanted to share this because I found it so valuable in my everyday life, and maybe it could clear up some common questions about how it works. Thank you for reading!

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    At the time I was making this comic I was actually recovering from being quite depressed. I made the Evernut comic to give myself structure. I was just trying to illustrate ideas that I found helpful, in a way that I hoped would be entertaining. I was particularly inspired to make this comic because I found mindfulness to be a useful tool for keeping myself from spiraling into a dark mindset, and thought maybe people would be interested to see an “example” of mindfulness from the internal perspective of a practitioner.

    After 3 years from making this post, I still meditate, not as much as I feel that I should though. When I wrote this comic I was very strict with myself in meditating for a solid hour every day. Now I meditate maybe 20 minutes a day, and I miss some days here and there.

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    I would say if something about my attitude has changed it would be how I react when I find my mindfulness slipping. I used to judge myself for slipping. I have a tendency to be idealistic with myself and forget that at the end of the day, I am a hairless ape, not a machine. Now I don’t really judge myself, because I see how natural it is for the mind to wander and fumble. I often get my best ideas by letting my mind wander and fumble. Now if I slip up for a while and I catch myself, I just go straight into noting my thoughts, emotions, and what is happening in my senses.

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    Through the writer, podcaster, and neuroscientist, Sam Harris I learned of someone named Douglas Harding, who teaches a style of meditation that is very immediate, and inspiring of awe of everything in existence without requiring us to add anything to our experience, such as beliefs in certain deities or invisible forces. In fact, Douglas Harding’s style of meditation is freaky for what it so clearly collapses within experience. He does a particularly good job of showing this knothole to a westerner’s mind, there isn’t anything to be lost in translation like when talking to a meditative adept from the East. If you were interested to hear more about it, this is the interview with a student of his, Richard Lang, that hooked me.

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    I have many ideas for projects, but as of right now I am training up my skills to become a 3D artist for games and movies, and I am looking for work. Here is my portfolio if you’d be interested, I am not sure if you know of anyone who could use work like this, but hey, why not shoot my shot?

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    And of course, people can follow me at @WeirdOfOzz on Instagram if they would like to see my art, which is always being updated. You can also check out my Evernut comics.

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    ChiveChilly
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    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know this isn't really the point of this, but I LOVE your drawing style! Simple without being boring to look at

    Daria Z
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this blue guy is called an 'inner observer', the neutral aspect of ourselves. Not to confuse with an inner critic =)

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like this. The part about staying with the feeling rather than the thoughts. Good idea.

    Miss Frankfurter
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The chemicals released into your body at the point you become angry disapate at about 20 seconds.

    Veee V
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use this technique often... Been 5+ years that I have had a major temper incident! :) It takes me 27 seconds to cool down and realise that there are certain things which are not in my hand and what has happened has happened!

    Daniella Reynolds
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had never heard of this practice of mindfulness before. Thank you for it; and for the very easy to follow illustrations!

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Breathe. Count to ten. Count to a hundred. Take a short walk. Look at the big picture. Indulge in a few revenge fantasies (but make them stay fantasies—-do NOT act on any of them!). Figure out a better, more mature, and constructive (or at least really f*****g clever) way to deal with the problem of a coworker stealing your ideas. Or, if you know the boss is aware it’s not her idea, then shrug it off since it’s it worth ruining your day over something that will end badly for Linda and not you, should the boss decide to call her out on it. All of which is way better than either exploding in a rage in front of everyone, or ruining your day by eating yourself up with angry thoughts for hours on end. It’s not worth it. Believe me, it will catch up with Linda one day, and it will not be pretty.

    Katinka Min
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ozz, would you mind, if I use your comic in a coaching session? To visualize the power of awareness and a detached perspective?

    Dodo
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure it works great for minor issues like a co-worker. Definitely doesn't help when your whole life is a problem though.

    Jennifer Potter
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wrooooong - as someone who has worked through big issues, I can tell you that the little practices build up to teach you how to handle the bigger ones. AND, bonus: learning how to take even a second before acting (through the habits of mindfulness) helps enable you to figure out what you are feeling, what you might need/want more than the impulsive act, and helps you understand that in every moment, you have a choice. Try it try it try it!!!! I recommend DBT/CBT classes - they are a way to learn some more doable and helpful tools like the ones above

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    Damilola Omotoso
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    5 years ago

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    Radboud Pol
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't work. Just like 'serenity now' it just bottles up the anger. ;)

    BDawg
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’d agree except at the bottom of the last photo it says “now to confront Linda”. But yes, anyone who’s constantly letting things go without confronting the cause after a calm down will explode. Been there 🙋🏻‍♀️

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    Jennifer Potter
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooooh, I dare you to sign up with somewhere professional, go through the full instructions consistantly and accurately, and THEN say something about it!

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    ChiveChilly
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know this isn't really the point of this, but I LOVE your drawing style! Simple without being boring to look at

    Daria Z
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this blue guy is called an 'inner observer', the neutral aspect of ourselves. Not to confuse with an inner critic =)

    Mimi M
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like this. The part about staying with the feeling rather than the thoughts. Good idea.

    Miss Frankfurter
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The chemicals released into your body at the point you become angry disapate at about 20 seconds.

    Veee V
    Community Member
    5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use this technique often... Been 5+ years that I have had a major temper incident! :) It takes me 27 seconds to cool down and realise that there are certain things which are not in my hand and what has happened has happened!

    Daniella Reynolds
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had never heard of this practice of mindfulness before. Thank you for it; and for the very easy to follow illustrations!

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Breathe. Count to ten. Count to a hundred. Take a short walk. Look at the big picture. Indulge in a few revenge fantasies (but make them stay fantasies—-do NOT act on any of them!). Figure out a better, more mature, and constructive (or at least really f*****g clever) way to deal with the problem of a coworker stealing your ideas. Or, if you know the boss is aware it’s not her idea, then shrug it off since it’s it worth ruining your day over something that will end badly for Linda and not you, should the boss decide to call her out on it. All of which is way better than either exploding in a rage in front of everyone, or ruining your day by eating yourself up with angry thoughts for hours on end. It’s not worth it. Believe me, it will catch up with Linda one day, and it will not be pretty.

    Katinka Min
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ozz, would you mind, if I use your comic in a coaching session? To visualize the power of awareness and a detached perspective?

    Dodo
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure it works great for minor issues like a co-worker. Definitely doesn't help when your whole life is a problem though.

    Jennifer Potter
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wrooooong - as someone who has worked through big issues, I can tell you that the little practices build up to teach you how to handle the bigger ones. AND, bonus: learning how to take even a second before acting (through the habits of mindfulness) helps enable you to figure out what you are feeling, what you might need/want more than the impulsive act, and helps you understand that in every moment, you have a choice. Try it try it try it!!!! I recommend DBT/CBT classes - they are a way to learn some more doable and helpful tools like the ones above

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    Damilola Omotoso
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    This comment has been deleted.

    Radboud Pol
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't work. Just like 'serenity now' it just bottles up the anger. ;)

    BDawg
    Community Member
    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’d agree except at the bottom of the last photo it says “now to confront Linda”. But yes, anyone who’s constantly letting things go without confronting the cause after a calm down will explode. Been there 🙋🏻‍♀️

    Load More Replies...
    Jennifer Potter
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ooooh, I dare you to sign up with somewhere professional, go through the full instructions consistantly and accurately, and THEN say something about it!

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