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CPS Gets Involved As Woman Refuses To Let 9YO Sister Go Illiterate Over Parents’ Odd Beliefs

CPS Gets Involved As Woman Refuses To Let 9YO Sister Go Illiterate Over Parents’ Odd Beliefs

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Some folks believe that they can give their kids a better education than a dedicated school. In a few cases, that might even be true but, unfortunately, many families just don’t want their children to be taught that the ridiculous things they believe are actually false.

A concerned sibling asked the internet if she should contact child protective services for her sister who was being homeschooled by her conspiracy-prone parents. We reached out to the person who made the post via private message and will update the article when they get back to us.

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    People who believe conspiracy theories can’t stand their kids being taught anything different

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    So one netizen considered calling CPS when she realized her homeschooled 9YO sister couldn’t read

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    Homeschooling is a very broad concept

    Depending on where you live, homeschooling might be outright banned or fairly normal. For example, in the US, it is relatively common, while in Germany and France it’s heavily restricted, often for the reasons this woman is concerned about. In general, homeschooling tends to fall into two camps, folks with the resources to prefer private, dedicated tutors for their kids or people who have religious “reasons” to be opposed to schooling.

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    As in this story, COVID did end up “pushing” a lot of parents to homeschool their children, in one way or another. In many cases, it was simply parents stepping in to assist when education moved to a more remote learning environment. However, there was an unfortunately large number of folks who saw COVID as a time to begin questioning everything from basic science to the shape of the planet.

    The result is that it can be hard to discuss the effectiveness of homeschooling, because the results and conditions vary so greatly. Researchers have noted that socioeconomic status plays a massive role in educational outcomes, as a family that can hire professionals at home is, generally, going to have a better educated chance than a non-college educated person attempting to teach a child after work.

    Existing studies suggest that overall, there are often not that major educational differences between traditional schooling and homeschooled children. However, at the same time, these researchers also suggest that not drawing too far-reaching conclusions about this as the data has a number of issues.

    It’s clear that this 9-year-old is already behind her peers

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    However, no matter how you spin it, a nine year old should probably be able to read if she is being “educated” in any way. Setting aside the conspiracy theories, which are their own massive can of worms, the inability to read is the literal opposite of any sort of education. Just from this fact alone, you could surmise that the parents aren’t homeschooling her to make sure she gets the “right” education, they are homeschooling her to ensure she doesn’t have the tools to get any education.

    No matter what the parent’s “true” motivations, this is setting their daughter back horribly and her sister is absolutely right to consider calling child protective services. Without the ability to read, she literally can’t just learn other things, it’s such a core skill for anything. Illiteracy isn’t an option in the 21st century.

    Unless steps are taken, this girl will be stuck at the same, roughly first grade level into her teens, which will have far-reaching effects on her future. While education doesn’t exist just to prepare people for the workforce, there aren’t a lot of jobs one can do and climb with that don’t require the ability to read. The truth is, while a parent can often explain a handful of concepts, covering any amount of curriculum takes a lot more resources than a delusional adult normally has.

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    Unfortunately, as often with conspiracy theorists, these folks are convinced they are right but are simultaneously so shaky in their beliefs that even exposure to the official “lies” is enough to sway anyone. They are free to believe whatever delusions they would like to entertain, but it can’t be at the cost of their kid’s future.

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    Ozymandias
    Community Member
    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "sChOoL hAs ThE DeViL's TeAcHiNgS" it's the same thing at home, mom. how do we know this isn't hell

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    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's child abuse. Good for OP to look out for her sister.

    Jayjay
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What does their "home schooling" consists of if she cannot even read? You should call Protective Child Services immediately!

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "worried about her being taken away" - That's the only thing that's going to help her

    Don Adams
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have read a good deal of the Bible, and do profess to bring of the Christian faith, however, I do not participate in any religion, as each religion has had someone's particular belief imprinted on it, and they all seem at odds with each other. King James Bible, Matthew 19:14: But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven. However, no mention of the world being flat.

    Katie Barnes
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a teacher in Canada and went through this a few years ago. Parent was anti-education because it's too woke, she pulled her kids out during black history month, pride week, any lessons on reconciliation... then pulled them out permanently and claimed to be homeschooling them. I am in the most conservative province in the country and our government is really pushing for private and homeschooling- there wasn't much follow up. The mom claimed she was teaching them (while working full time and leaving them alone all day) and gave some downloaded HS curriculum she wasn't following as "proof". Super sad. We had another family pull their kids out during covid and leave them alone while working all day, no adults in house, the oldest was 11. Same thing. Claimed they were doing home schooling and did hire a tutor for it.. for 2 hours a week total between 4 kids. So sad. Parental rights trump common sense here.

    Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In parts of my greater area, (New Jersey, New York State, NYC) there are large Ultra-Orthodox Jewish populations. Becoming the majority of townsfolk in a community they become in charge of school systems (subsidizing private schools, not funding public schools). Because there is more religious study there are people who are graduating without basic math or reading skills. it's strange to me but the world is big enough for us all.

    Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey
    Community Member
    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The New York Times https://www.nytimes.com › 2022/09/11 › nyregion › ha... Sep 12, 2022 — New York's Hasidic Jewish religious schools have benefited from $1 billion in government funding in the last four years but are unaccountable to outside ... 18 Hasidic Schools Failed to Provide Basic Education ... The New York Times https://www.nytimes.com › 2023/06/30 › nyregion › n... Jun 30, 2023 — Eighteen private schools run by the Hasidic Jewish community have been breaking the law by not providing their students with an adequate secular education.

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    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And religion ruins another family along with a child's life and future. I hope CPS can help

    Kimberly Bailey
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Personal religious beliefs aside I don’t have a problem with parents who want to teach their children about it or homeschooling them. But there must be rules about it or it’s just abuse! A 9 year old should be able to read simple words.

    Betsy S
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Canada it's CFS. Children and Family Services. In case any of you USians wanted to know.

    Swan
    Community Member
    1 week ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Have child-protecting-seervices ever worked ?

    Ozymandias
    Community Member
    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "sChOoL hAs ThE DeViL's TeAcHiNgS" it's the same thing at home, mom. how do we know this isn't hell

    Load More Replies...
    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's child abuse. Good for OP to look out for her sister.

    Jayjay
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What does their "home schooling" consists of if she cannot even read? You should call Protective Child Services immediately!

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "worried about her being taken away" - That's the only thing that's going to help her

    Don Adams
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have read a good deal of the Bible, and do profess to bring of the Christian faith, however, I do not participate in any religion, as each religion has had someone's particular belief imprinted on it, and they all seem at odds with each other. King James Bible, Matthew 19:14: But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven. However, no mention of the world being flat.

    Katie Barnes
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a teacher in Canada and went through this a few years ago. Parent was anti-education because it's too woke, she pulled her kids out during black history month, pride week, any lessons on reconciliation... then pulled them out permanently and claimed to be homeschooling them. I am in the most conservative province in the country and our government is really pushing for private and homeschooling- there wasn't much follow up. The mom claimed she was teaching them (while working full time and leaving them alone all day) and gave some downloaded HS curriculum she wasn't following as "proof". Super sad. We had another family pull their kids out during covid and leave them alone while working all day, no adults in house, the oldest was 11. Same thing. Claimed they were doing home schooling and did hire a tutor for it.. for 2 hours a week total between 4 kids. So sad. Parental rights trump common sense here.

    Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In parts of my greater area, (New Jersey, New York State, NYC) there are large Ultra-Orthodox Jewish populations. Becoming the majority of townsfolk in a community they become in charge of school systems (subsidizing private schools, not funding public schools). Because there is more religious study there are people who are graduating without basic math or reading skills. it's strange to me but the world is big enough for us all.

    Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey
    Community Member
    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The New York Times https://www.nytimes.com › 2022/09/11 › nyregion › ha... Sep 12, 2022 — New York's Hasidic Jewish religious schools have benefited from $1 billion in government funding in the last four years but are unaccountable to outside ... 18 Hasidic Schools Failed to Provide Basic Education ... The New York Times https://www.nytimes.com › 2023/06/30 › nyregion › n... Jun 30, 2023 — Eighteen private schools run by the Hasidic Jewish community have been breaking the law by not providing their students with an adequate secular education.

    Load More Replies...
    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And religion ruins another family along with a child's life and future. I hope CPS can help

    Kimberly Bailey
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Personal religious beliefs aside I don’t have a problem with parents who want to teach their children about it or homeschooling them. But there must be rules about it or it’s just abuse! A 9 year old should be able to read simple words.

    Betsy S
    Community Member
    1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Canada it's CFS. Children and Family Services. In case any of you USians wanted to know.

    Swan
    Community Member
    1 week ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Have child-protecting-seervices ever worked ?

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