I'm at the point of reading these 'bridezilla' stories and think people make them up....... but, then again, people are people and some are just, well, bad people

walking barefoot on sea of legos is kinda too kind for such a a*****e

If the groom has one iota of sense, he'll cancel the wedding, and leave no forwarding address.

"Help lol" is all to know to decide not to attend the wedding. And not read any further.

Many years ago, as my BFF prepared for her wedding, another very good friend was diagnosed with cancer. The second friend was asked to a bridesmaid before the cancer diagnosis. Guess what my friend did? She asked the rest of us to spend our time and energy taking care of friend with cancer! She changed her own plans of a pre-wedding all-girls trip because the sick friend would be too ill to travel. She then suggested the rest of us forget her wedding gifts and put the money into an account to benefit the ill friend and her family. As soon as the wedding was complete, she and her new husband left the venue to visit our mutual friend at the hospital and to take her some goodies. The reception started late because of this side-trip - no one cared. THIS is how a good person responds. Actually, this is how a HUMAN responds. I wish I could share this with the bride and her soon-to-be-sorry husband to be.

Perhaps a better way for this bridezilla to handle this was not to megaphone it to everyone else and, instead, sit down with the bridesmaid in question in private and politely come up with a solution. As in "Hey, I know the chemo is making your hair fall out and I worry about other people making you uncomfortable at the wedding by staring at you..because you know how insensitive people can be. So what I propose is this. Let's go shopping for a wig for you, my treat, and we'll make a day of it..if you are up to it." Most likely, the friend would appreciate the effort, especially if given the option to accept or decline. If she declines, then the next question would be "This whole event is going to be physically exhausting. I want to make sure you think you're up for it. I don't want you getting more sick on my account. I will understand if you want to back out." If your friend says they are up for it, then live with it. I think people would respect the bride more for doing so.

I've known a few soggy pop tarts in my day. Good riddance.

I choose to think of these moments in a positive light. Now you know who your real friends are.

I wonder what this paragon of humanity and joy would do if her groom became paralyzed and had to use a wheel chair for the wedding? Oh! Wait! There wouldn't be one, would there?

1) Good call on whoever told her. 2) Backing out is EXACTLY the right response. 3) The rest should either shave their heads the morning of the wedding, or just not show up even after attending rehearsal. 4) All future contact with said bride should be cut off, with no further explanation. Lastly, I am sorry about people like this and you will rock the world when you beat cancer. People like this need to be left alone. Very, very alone. In a dark corner.

My DIL invited the woman who had just broke up my marriage and told me it was her wedding and she could invite who she wanted. I didn't go to my own son's wedding and ruined her photos. She was also asked a ton of questions about where I was. My son understood and tried to intervene but bridezilla wasn't sane.

WHAT A C**T!! IF I WERE ANY OF THOSE OTHER BRIDESMAIDS I WOULD NOT BE IN HER WEDDING EITHER!

The Bridezilla is certainly no friend. There was absolutely no concern for the person with cancer, her only concern was her wedding. Does she not realize that tomorrow she could have cancer? I am so sorry for the idiot who is marrying this cold, selfish, unfeeling iceberg.

My mom died of cancer and my family and I were with her until the end. If it was me and my fiancée's wedding I would be more concerned about her health than the aesthetics. I would ask if she would be up to being a bridesmaid and what I could do to make it easier for her. I hope she recovers and, if she is not married yet, that she has the best wedding ever that out shines her so called friends in every way. To anyone out there with cancer know that I am routing for you to beat it and that your recovery is speedy and full of support. Love to you all X

I hope someone warned THE GROOM so he could skip the wedding, too.

I will never understand bridezillas like this. This is just a sh*tty human being to be honest. If one of my close friends had cancer and was supposed to be in my wedding, given that they felt well enough to still participate I would be so grateful to have them (some hair, no hair, I don't care!) however they came. What is wrong with people?

All the other bridesmaids should just wear bald caps to the wedding

I went through chemo... losing my hair was beyond traumatic.. what a nasty witch

Pretty sure that's not fake because and I quote "soggy pop tart"!! I have alopecia myself and I think the bride is an absolutely horrible woman who needs a wake up call as well as educating. How Horrendous for the (former) bridesmaid 😞

If you are only choosing bridesmaids for their aesthetic and not their friendship, then you are not a person who understands love and commitment (let alone compassion). No amount of photoshopping can get out that degree of ugly in a person.

Years ago I lost a very dear lady friend of mine to cancer. She tried multiple treatments including Chemo. Needless to say I am feeling a lot of anger towards that Douchebaggette. Not only has she lost a friend of hers because of her actions but it's possible she may lose her friend to Cancer.

That would be a deal breaker for me. I would end the 'friendship' immediately without hesitation or remorse. That's the great thing about narcissists and toxic people. Eventually, they reveal themselves. At that stage its quite academic and very fortunate indeed to have been given the opportunity to view these people as they truly are. Your decision to keep them in your life is thus done for you - how convenient. In this respect, the garbage takes itself out.

If I were another one of her bridesmaids, I would quit my bridesmaid duty in support of the one who has cancer.

When someone shows you who they are.... believe them. Be well!

I think the wrong person got cancer here.

so hard to believe there are people like this. I hope no one goes to her wedding

Douchebaggette and soggy pop tart are great 👍. I hope the lady with cancer gets it to go into remission and go away for good... and that she has a better life after all this, with a more sincere friend.

Anyone else need follow-up? I'd love to know how the wedding turned out (if it's happened yet) once word of this reached any and all involved parties. Bridezillas like these need to have "their day" ruined as much as is humanly possible.

Yeah that bride is terrible but LOL congrats to chemo lady for her humorous sarcasm and creative insults.

I was very proud of my DIL on her wedding day. As a woman who had a vision of what I'd like 'my' day to go, Actually, it's an 'our' day. When a twist comes, it shows grace to how the bride reacts and handles those 'bumps'. For the day her and my son married, we had a 13-inch snowfall. She did have to regroup a few times that day. The fellow who conducted the ceremony had told the couple that they had a slight advantage over other couples in that they faced a challenge on day one of their marriage with the way they handled the few disappointments of how the day laid itself out, who joined the party, who ended up missing out on being there. There are other stories of Wedding Day foul-ups, and how the brides/grooms brought grace to their day. Some folks show how grown-up they are.

Okay. Bridezilla sounds awful in the most boringly cliche way. But her now ex bridesmaid sounds like someone I would gladly go have drinks with. 'Soggy poptart'. I absolutely love it! Ihope she kicks cancer's butt!

the b***h!

If i were the guy, I would dump her... right there for being such an inconsiderate brat. If this is all that someone means to her, what could/would she do to me if I came into the same situation? If I were one of the bridesmaids, I would decline as well...

.....and all this so that the bride can have a pretty picture. How fake the world has become since the advent of social media. The numbers of REAL people in the world nowadays is dwindling fast.

All the other bridesmaids should drop out of the wedding, in solidarity for the cancer patient. The bridezilla does not deserve their presence at her wedding, she would have done the same thing if one of them were ill.