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Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

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Weddings are a joyous occasion that seems to bring out the worst in people – namely the bride. There is no shortage of bridezilla stories and the demands they make for their family in friends on their wedding day, which seems to be more in line with a military boot camp than a wedding party. From what they can eat to dress based on weight, we’ve seen all the public shaming-worthy cases.

Recently, a wedding guest shared her encounter with a bride to be to the Facebook group ‘that’s it, I’m wedding shaming (non-ban-happy edition)‘ – where people “come together to bond over cringe-worthy weddings and wedding-related events.” The woman, a friend of the groom, was informed by the bride that her tattoos and hair color did not go with the wedding photo theme and madness ensued.

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Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Image credits: Alessandro-Tomiello (not the actual photo)

The woman who shared the post explained that she had “worked really hard to get along with this girl,” whose fianće was her friend. Described as “challenging at times” she explained that she mostly got along with the bride – but found her demands to be ridiculous – and others agreed. The exchange began with an innocent request, but when the OP refused this bride showed just how rude people can be.

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

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The OP prefaced the screenshots with the backstory and said she hadn’t told the fianće yet but had plans to in person

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

And added that she preferred names and faces were obscured when sharing the post to avoid even further drama between their friends and family

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

People were shocked at the request and the behavior of the bride

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

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Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

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Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

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Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

Bride Asks Guest To Cover Her Tattoos For The Wedding, So She Shares Their Full Conversation On Bride Shaming Group

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Michelle Antoinette 5 years ago

This happened to me once!! I was friends with this girl and asked to be in her bridal party. I said yes gladly. At the time I didn't have nearly as many tattoos as I have now but I did have my whole back piece. She asked me to cover my tattoos. Me being nice said ok i will try and find a solution. It was summer. All I could find to go with this dumb dress color she picked was sweaters. NAH. Soooo, She had her makeup artist cake up makeup on my back. It was disgusting, empty and messy. I felt like a shell of myself covering who I am to appease someone else's garbage standards. Made me feel ashamed and depressed to be a part of her wedding. Needless to say our friendship faded away after that. Oh and she got a divorce. Haha

68points

Bonnie Clyde 5 years ago

She probably treated the husband with the same disrespect she showed you.

33points

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Jason Rennie 5 years ago

That does sound ridiculous but at least she had her make up person do it rather than demanding you solve the problem and pay for it. This woman is even worse.

3points

Paula Hannon 5 years ago

That is stupid who is even gonna see your back, especially pictures would only be of your front.

3points

lakitha tolbert 5 years ago (edited)

Women’s like that always getting divorced. I’m not even surprised. They’ve spent their whole life making demands of the people around them and everyone just rolling over for it, up until she meets that one person who won’t, and then they have a meltdown. She probably demned her husband marry her. Their whole identity is wrapped up in what their wedding looked like, and not whether or not they’re actually happy.

2points

Ed Lesperance 5 years ago

ivorce? No surprise.

0points

Tricia Evans 5 years ago

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Hans 5 years ago

My wedding was the day of my wife and me. However, what made it our special day was the family and friend who were our guests, not our egos. This helped to make it a day to remember, rather than one that looked fancy on photos or would impress other people.

49points

Jordan W. 5 years ago

nice one :)

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Tami Landis 5 years ago

Ridiculous! My husband and I eloped just because I didn't want to deal with the drama of a wedding, even if it was my own! Both of our parents were divorced and remarried. I wasn't even going to go there. So, he had a tux, I had a dress, and we got married on a private beach with just the minister and his wife to take pictures! I have NEVER regretted it

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Michelle Antoinette 5 years ago

This happened to me once!! I was friends with this girl and asked to be in her bridal party. I said yes gladly. At the time I didn't have nearly as many tattoos as I have now but I did have my whole back piece. She asked me to cover my tattoos. Me being nice said ok i will try and find a solution. It was summer. All I could find to go with this dumb dress color she picked was sweaters. NAH. Soooo, She had her makeup artist cake up makeup on my back. It was disgusting, empty and messy. I felt like a shell of myself covering who I am to appease someone else's garbage standards. Made me feel ashamed and depressed to be a part of her wedding. Needless to say our friendship faded away after that. Oh and she got a divorce. Haha

68points

Bonnie Clyde 5 years ago

She probably treated the husband with the same disrespect she showed you.

33points

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Jason Rennie 5 years ago

That does sound ridiculous but at least she had her make up person do it rather than demanding you solve the problem and pay for it. This woman is even worse.

3points

Paula Hannon 5 years ago

That is stupid who is even gonna see your back, especially pictures would only be of your front.

3points

lakitha tolbert 5 years ago (edited)

Women’s like that always getting divorced. I’m not even surprised. They’ve spent their whole life making demands of the people around them and everyone just rolling over for it, up until she meets that one person who won’t, and then they have a meltdown. She probably demned her husband marry her. Their whole identity is wrapped up in what their wedding looked like, and not whether or not they’re actually happy.

2points

Ed Lesperance 5 years ago

ivorce? No surprise.

0points

Tricia Evans 5 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Hans 5 years ago

My wedding was the day of my wife and me. However, what made it our special day was the family and friend who were our guests, not our egos. This helped to make it a day to remember, rather than one that looked fancy on photos or would impress other people.

49points

Jordan W. 5 years ago

nice one :)

4points

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Tami Landis 5 years ago

Ridiculous! My husband and I eloped just because I didn't want to deal with the drama of a wedding, even if it was my own! Both of our parents were divorced and remarried. I wasn't even going to go there. So, he had a tux, I had a dress, and we got married on a private beach with just the minister and his wife to take pictures! I have NEVER regretted it

14points

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