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Even though we live in a world largely run by the beauty industry, it’s certainly not all about diets, fitness, and make-up. Some things have way more depth than any of those conventional beauty things being pushed into our daily routines by the market. Sometimes there’s way more life and beauty in a wrinkle than in a fresh, polished face. Brenda Stearns, Instagrammer and a proud mama of 5, is here to show you that the beauty of womanhood is way more than just a perfect body and that everyone is perfect in their own wonderful way.
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Brenda Stearns is a Mexican-born mama of 5
This mama of Mexican origin moved to the US years ago and started a family by a lucky little accident. She once accidentally texted the wrong number and in a twist of faith ended up marrying the guy behind the phone, Isaiah.
Who recently shared her postpartum belly photo on the Internet
The couple had their first baby back in 2011 and their second a year later. Both of the first births left Cesarean scars on Brenda’s body. She then gave birth three more times in 2014, 2015 and 2018. All of these were natural unmedicated births.
While giving birth to five kids left some marks on her body
The happy family now lives in Ohio, raising and homeschooling their kids there. It doesn’t mean it was sunshine and rainbows all the way there though. Brenda admits she suffered from postpartum depression after her body was not getting back to her pre-baby shape after she gave birth to her 5th child.
She is a strong believer in the beauty of motherhood
Luckily, she then decided to stop focusing on that and accept her body how it really is. “The reality is that my body is strong and beautiful and so is yours,” said she, inspiring other mamas to think positively about their bodies, too. “Abs and flat tummies are great! But have you ever considered that your body literally rearranged its organs to bring another life into the world,” she added.
And says that every mother is beautiful in her own way, despite having scars or not
“There are mamas that will never wear the scars of pregnancy and birth. If that’s you: I want you to know that you are no less of a mother. You are loved, you are strong, you are brave, and you are oh so beautiful!” said Brenda.
Even though she’s been told by some that her postpartum body is not beautiful
To remind herself of the beauty of her motherhood, she took a photo with a card, saying, “Hey mama, you are beautiful” and posted it on social media, saying, “It doesn’t matter what our bodies look like at this present moment — it’s time to celebrate our own beauty!
This beautiful mama spreads the message of positivity, saying there is no such thing as ideal beauty
Despite her positive content, not everyone was happy about seeing her postpartum pictures online. But Brenda just laughed it off and stuck to the most important thing – always remembering that her children don’t see her imperfections, they rather see her as the whole person she is.
Her meaningful messages earned her almost 40K Instagram followers
“They know our hearts and love us unconditionally. And that is all that matters,” Brenda said. These are words to live by in this age of fraudulent beauty. Hooray to this beautiful mama and her wonderful family!
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See how people lovingly reacted to the postpartum images she shared
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Lucas 5 years ago
This will no doubt be an unpopular view but I also don't think large families should be promoted. Houses are being built at an alarming rate on green belt land in my country due to housing shortages. Floods are occuring not simply because of large amounts of rain but because housing is preventing the land from draining. The planet doesn't need ever increasing numbers of humans causing more and more harm. So, shoot me down, I'm expecting it but why not show some consideration and keep your families small?
Ksenia M 5 years ago
I agree with you Lucas! In the old days people used to have as many children as they could fully expecting most of them to die very young but the few who lived would be enough to take care of the land once the parents could not (terribly enough, that is still true for some countries with very low quality of living). The world has changed though and our perception of families and children should change accordingly.
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Musicon HaidaGwaii 5 years ago
It's also ok to think stretched out baggy skin flaps are not beautiful looking. Not everything about women's bodies needs to be beautiful. Can't we just exist without being held to beauty standards?
Silke Weinreb 5 years ago
Body positivity? Yes, please. Objectification of female bodies as mothers of all things? Hell, no! Please reframe this to convey that the human body is what it is (aesthetically (un)appealing) without contributing to the harmful discourse of female bodies being acceptably different from conventional concepts of beauty only when/after having given birth. It is unquestionably a good thing, when a person is at peace with his*her body, but this should not be a matter of having given life. Ever. Please re-think this line of framing, Bored Panda. Thank you.
Starbelly Eleven 5 years ago
F*****g THANK YOU. I'm childfree and my 46-year-old body is slowly morphing into a dumpster fire. I feel great about it anyway; it's strong and healthy. I want to be beautiful too, even though I didn't birth FIVE (barf) kids.
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Lucas 5 years ago
This will no doubt be an unpopular view but I also don't think large families should be promoted. Houses are being built at an alarming rate on green belt land in my country due to housing shortages. Floods are occuring not simply because of large amounts of rain but because housing is preventing the land from draining. The planet doesn't need ever increasing numbers of humans causing more and more harm. So, shoot me down, I'm expecting it but why not show some consideration and keep your families small?
Ksenia M 5 years ago
I agree with you Lucas! In the old days people used to have as many children as they could fully expecting most of them to die very young but the few who lived would be enough to take care of the land once the parents could not (terribly enough, that is still true for some countries with very low quality of living). The world has changed though and our perception of families and children should change accordingly.
Load More Replies... Musicon HaidaGwaii 5 years ago
It's also ok to think stretched out baggy skin flaps are not beautiful looking. Not everything about women's bodies needs to be beautiful. Can't we just exist without being held to beauty standards?
Silke Weinreb 5 years ago
Body positivity? Yes, please. Objectification of female bodies as mothers of all things? Hell, no! Please reframe this to convey that the human body is what it is (aesthetically (un)appealing) without contributing to the harmful discourse of female bodies being acceptably different from conventional concepts of beauty only when/after having given birth. It is unquestionably a good thing, when a person is at peace with his*her body, but this should not be a matter of having given life. Ever. Please re-think this line of framing, Bored Panda. Thank you.
Starbelly Eleven 5 years ago
F*****g THANK YOU. I'm childfree and my 46-year-old body is slowly morphing into a dumpster fire. I feel great about it anyway; it's strong and healthy. I want to be beautiful too, even though I didn't birth FIVE (barf) kids.
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