Run, don't walk out of there

Move the Fck Out, like right now! And roast that control freak psychopath down to his bones, while doing it.

Who cares if you are fat or not? Even if you were as big as a whale, that still wouldn't give him to the right to criticize and control you. Even with a religious/conservative upbringing, at age 35 OP has got to know this is bad news and uses some critical thinking skills you learned at the post secondary education and get the hell out.

Run and then run some more

WTF is a "high value" person ? Only a narcissist would say that.

Dump this dude. Full stop. Control freaks are control freaks for life, as I'm convinced there's something mentally wrong with people like this.

Let me tell you about the characteristics of a high-value man. I know these well, as I have been married to one for 35 years. A high-value man loves other people more than himself, and sacrifices himself to their needs. If he earns a lot of money, he shares it generously and wisely. If he has a low income, he gives in other ways. A high-value man accepts and cherishes people for themselves, and treats them with respect and compassion. He looks for opportunities to serve. He isn't perfect, but he tries very hard to be because he sets much higher standards for himself than for others. As I write this, it occurs to me that while most of you who read this comment will not know my darling husband, you will recognize the name Jimmy Carter. A prime example of a high-value man.

For people saying 'you moved in after only six months, my partner asked me to move in with him after two weeks, that was 33 years ago and we are still together

I'll never understand why some people think that the way to get a girlfriend or boyfriend is to love bomb them until they move in together but then rip them to shreds so they feel too useless to leave. It's sick.

I’ve been there took me 14 long long years to wake up to it was a long time ago now but it left me with scars so deep I trust no one ! This man is a nasty coercive pos as deserves NO ONE ! Im so glad to read you saw it instantly I was only 20 when I met mine n I had been married at 18 to a wife beater that one I left in 6 mths no one hits me but coercive it mostly creeps up on you you don’t see it coming when I left I re earned had two amazing kids I’m 60 now they re 23f -20 m been divorced 13 yrs cos the past well it took its toll on me badly and if anyone treated my kids like that I’d be like your mum only I’d wanna unalive him ! Blessed be lovely we got your back x

When she leaves, she should tell him "I just wasn't getting any value for my money".

Even if you have to couch surf for a month or two, get the f**k out girl

There's no such thing as a "high value man" that tells you he's a "high value man". That's some serious BS there and who wants to be with someone so delusional and obviously abusive.

"High value man" is one of the biggest and brightest red flags someone can wave into your face

"High value man?" Sounds like he thinks he's buying you with his "high value" and that that makes you a possession he owns. Isolating you from friends, making you financially dependent, undercutting your self esteem, controlling what you wear etc, are all classic abuser moves. Cut your losses. Good luck, and get gone.

These are kind of men with "If I can't have you, no one can" mentality. Leave. Immediately.

Girl, run for the hills and don't look back!!! F**k these "high value men" and their Andrew Tate b******t.

So she comes from a very religious part of the world and is just now learning how to navigate relationships with men. Hmmmmmvery religious part of the world. That allowed this women to move in with a man she new for 6 mths without marriage. If you are going to make sh*t up at least do a good job of it.

You've only been there a week, you can't have even unpacked properly yet.

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This is why we don't move in with someone after only 6 months.