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Male Colleague Complains About Seeing A ‘Disgusting’ Tampon Box In Woman’s Locker, So She Makes The Box Look Even More ‘Extra’

Male Colleague Complains About Seeing A ‘Disgusting’ Tampon Box In Woman’s Locker, So She Makes The Box Look Even More ‘Extra’

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Menstruation is one of the most natural bodily functions in the world. Yet it still grosses people out; even its byproducts can be “a problem.”

At the end of 2020, Reddit user DrMedBay found herself in an awkward situation. Working in healthcare, a sector where every minute counts, she started keeping a box of tampons in her locker. It sounds silly as I type this, but one of her male coworkers wasn’t happy about it and complained to the higher-ups that he could see the box whenever the locker was open.

So DrMedBay’s superior calls her in and tells her to take care of the situation. Not to spoil her story, all I’ll say at this point is that she told this story on the subreddit r/MaliciousCompliance, so that in and of itself should tell you that she found a way to follow and disobey the order at the same time.

Continue scrolling to learn how she did it!

Image credits: Zinkevych (not the actual photo)

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Don’t get the wrong impression, not everyone who works with DrMedBay is like that. On the contrary, she said her colleagues are incredible, hardworking people. “I can’t count the number of times they’ve covered shifts, come in early, skipped lunch, and helped out in departments that weren’t theirs,” DrMedBay told Bored Panda. “I love them so much.”

By now, her entire department has heard about the tampon incident and they’ve all been incredibly supportive. “One coworker of mine even gave a character reference in front of the committee board for me and it means so much to me. The male coworker who complained has moved to a different shift where he has less patient contact and little to no contact with me at all.”

Once the committee board passed the petition to supply feminine hygiene products in the staff bathroom all the ruckus went mostly away. “I still haven’t received the ‘letters of apology’ from my boss and coworker that HR told them to write and I have no clue if they completed their sensitivity training,” DrMedBay said. “But my boss hasn’t had any contact with me since and actively avoids me. I have no clue what will happen when I have to ask for time off or anything else that has to cross his desk, but for now, it’s alright.”

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Some men have tried to avoid similar situations by tracking their colleagues’ periods with apps. A woman talking to news.com.au, for example, said her male colleagues began keeping an eye on her cycle after an argument at work. Fortunately, most of these apps have been shut down and are no longer available.

As for DrMedBay, she still keeps the tampon box in her locker and has received Snickers and thumbs up from her female coworkers who know about what happened and see it in her locker when she has it open. DrMedBay also had a male coworker put tampons in the breast pocket of his lab coat and go talk to the coworker who complained specifically to annoy him and make her laugh. So she’s fine!

Here’s what people said after reading the story

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Rokas Laurinavičius

Rokas Laurinavičius

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Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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Rokas Laurinavičius

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Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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Ilona Baliūnaitė

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I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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Ilona Baliūnaitė

Ilona Baliūnaitė

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I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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Rose the Cook
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What kind of pervert goes around checking the contents of women's lockers?

WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The kind that later complains to their boss about a box of tampons in someone else's locker.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't believe how childish and pathetic the guy and boss are being. Just ridiculous. How does that guy walk past tampons and pads in the shops? Or does he skip that aisle coz he's too sensitive.

Daria Z
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow that guy seems pretty prudish. How's it possible when one works in healthcare?..

CalicoKitty
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fast paced health environment could concievably be anything from emergency/paramedicine to hospital pharmacy. Women's health is just a tiny blip on the radar of even a fully qualified doctor - and considering the fact that women are still running around untreated with a condition that causes the uterine wall to escape and grow in the wrong places like some kind of alien mold, it's fair to say healthcare has a long way to go before it reaches a state of equity. Plus, only doctors have to do interviews (from which zero feedback is given, if you're wondering about nepotism and transparency) to enter the uni/college courses. Allied health disciplines - including nursing and paramedicine - do nothing of the sort.

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Rose the Cook
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What kind of pervert goes around checking the contents of women's lockers?

WilvanderHeijden
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The kind that later complains to their boss about a box of tampons in someone else's locker.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't believe how childish and pathetic the guy and boss are being. Just ridiculous. How does that guy walk past tampons and pads in the shops? Or does he skip that aisle coz he's too sensitive.

Daria Z
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow that guy seems pretty prudish. How's it possible when one works in healthcare?..

CalicoKitty
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fast paced health environment could concievably be anything from emergency/paramedicine to hospital pharmacy. Women's health is just a tiny blip on the radar of even a fully qualified doctor - and considering the fact that women are still running around untreated with a condition that causes the uterine wall to escape and grow in the wrong places like some kind of alien mold, it's fair to say healthcare has a long way to go before it reaches a state of equity. Plus, only doctors have to do interviews (from which zero feedback is given, if you're wondering about nepotism and transparency) to enter the uni/college courses. Allied health disciplines - including nursing and paramedicine - do nothing of the sort.

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