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Woman Learns The Cost Of A Prank After 2-Year Relationship Goes Up In Flames

Woman Learns The Cost Of A Prank After 2-Year Relationship Goes Up In Flames

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Trust is the foundation of any relationship, but what happens when it’s put on the line in the name of a joke? In today’s post from the subreddit r/AITAH, a man recounts how his girlfriend’s elaborate “prank” with a mutual friend of theirs jeopardized everything they had built in two years. The woman said she was just playing around, but the guy’s definition of fun doesn’t include coming home to his partner straddling someone else in their bedroom.

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    Sometimes you can’t know for sure if you’re partner is cheating or not, so we asked marriage and family therapist Dr. Talal H. Alsaleem, PsyD, LMFT, also known as the Father of Modern Infidelity Counseling, about the most common signs to look out for. Of course, every situation is different, but Dr. Talal told Bored Panda there are three that stick out:

    #1 Over protection of privacy and access to digital interactions

    “Secrecy is one the most common elements of infidelity,” he explained to us, adding that it manifests in a variety of ways, including:

    • Closing out of chat windows when a partner walks in the room
    • Deleting the computer history
    • Erasing online interactions
    • Deleting texts
    • Pretending to be working on something else when engaging in internet infidelity behaviors
    • Password changes
    • Taking phone everywhere
    • Using a burner phone

    #2 Engaging in selfish behaviors

    “When you don’t feel close to someone, you are less inclined to think and or care about their needs and desires, because you feel that they don’t care about yours,” Dr. Talal said.

    #3 Superficial conversations

    According to the therapist, a lack of intimacy breeds lack of trust and a decrease in vulnerability. As a result, “you are less likely to have a deep, soulful conversation with your partner about your hopes, dreams, and the things that bother you.”

    #4 Living Separate lives

    Dr. Talal said that when the bond is strong, we tend to spend a lot of time with our partners and wholeheartedly enjoy mutual activities. But when it’s weak, couples start drifting apart and look for things to do by themselves or with other people that they feel close to.

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    Most of those who read the story said the man did nothing wrong

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    However, a few saw the situation differently

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    Rokas Laurinavičius

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    Viktorija Ošikaitė

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    I'm a visual editor here at Bored Panda and I enjoy a good laugh. My work ranges from serious topics related to toxic work environments and relationship difficulties to humorous articles about online shopping fails and introvert memes. When I'm not at my work desk, checking if every single pixel is in the right place, I usually spend my free time playing board games, taking pictures, and watching documentaries

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    Nimitz
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    18 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who the f**k dresses down to their underwear and straddles a person for a "prank." It's either a really, really stupid Idea or they decided to actually cheat and were setting up a gaslight in case they got caught in the future. Either way, move on and move forward. There's not much to salvage from a situation like that.

    Sergio Bicerra
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    17 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she wanted to be funny she could have painted her face as a clown. Oh wait, she already did that without the makeup

    DrBronxx
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    17 hours ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, in the exGF's head, assuming that her intentions were purely prank-filled, what was she expecting to be the reaction? "Oh, you got me! Shucks, that was a good one, babe. Anyway, where do you want to go for dinner tonight?"

    person (i think)
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    17 hours ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the “best case scenario” and it was actually a joke, that’s my big question too. And _how_ is it funny? (for the record, breaking up was the right call. The whole thing is weird and suspicious) Edit: grammar

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    Nimitz
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    18 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who the f**k dresses down to their underwear and straddles a person for a "prank." It's either a really, really stupid Idea or they decided to actually cheat and were setting up a gaslight in case they got caught in the future. Either way, move on and move forward. There's not much to salvage from a situation like that.

    Sergio Bicerra
    Community Member
    17 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she wanted to be funny she could have painted her face as a clown. Oh wait, she already did that without the makeup

    DrBronxx
    Community Member
    17 hours ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, in the exGF's head, assuming that her intentions were purely prank-filled, what was she expecting to be the reaction? "Oh, you got me! Shucks, that was a good one, babe. Anyway, where do you want to go for dinner tonight?"

    person (i think)
    Community Member
    17 hours ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the “best case scenario” and it was actually a joke, that’s my big question too. And _how_ is it funny? (for the record, breaking up was the right call. The whole thing is weird and suspicious) Edit: grammar

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