There are lots of benefits to living in an apartment versus a house. Security, convenience, more amenities, lower maintenance, a sense of community, and often it’s more affordable. Recent data reveals that around 38% of American renters reside in apartment blocks. But staying in such close proximity to other people also has its downsides. Less space, landlord or body corporate restrictions, and of course, limited privacy.
There’s an online community dedicated to sharing the joys and sorrows of apartment living. It has over 110,000 members posting tips and tricks about anything from decorating, to dealing with landlords, to maximizing space. What really caught our eye were some of the horror stories apartment dwellers have had to deal with.
From neighbor’s complaints about snoring, to cigarette butts landing on their balcony, and even cars crashing through the wall. Some people are dealing with the most. Keep scrolling for Bored Panda’s best picks from r/Apartmentliving, and don’t forget to upvote your favorites.
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Is This Note Ok To Leave For My Neighbors?
Why do people write REAL letters as if they're typing a text message? @ instead of "at"
Not My Neighbor But Love This
This is sweet, maybe the only "nightmare neighbors" here are those who keep their music loud late at night; when others are sleeping. But it doesn't always work so well; we've had neighbors for 6 years who'd play music loudly and often outdoors, until 2am, sometimes 5am. My husband is in a high-up position at a medical facility and gets called in at any odd hours of any day (in addition to his regular working schedule). Sadly my many quiet, sweet pleads did nothing... Only when recently I started using the weed-eater, lawnmower, miter saw, edger, basically any power tool of our arsenal outside during their many frequent, obnoxious parties...did they stop 😅😹 I never wanted to be that person but they pushed me to "fight fire with fire"
Very few of us want to be "that person", but I follow the rule of the three strikes: the first time, I'm sweet and I ask nicely; the second time, I demand with my best angry b***h face; the third time, it the jungle out there.
Load More Replies...Off subject a bit, but I love the writing in the notes left. Mine would not be legible if I was angry with my neighbors.
I wanted to comment on how I loved the handwriting. So envious of peopl who are capable of nice lettering.
Load More Replies...this is so sweet... was having a bad day and this cheered me up so much just by looking at the little drawing!!
I complained about super noisy neighbors and was asked if they rent or own. I'm still trying to figure out how this is relevant several days later
It does make a difference as to who the landlord has to deal with to resolve matters.
Load More Replies...Cigarette Butts From Upstairs Neighbor On My Patio
Time to get a pool-cleaning net (some thick gloves!) scoop them up and toss them back!! Also maybe some umbrellas... I do recognize that this is completely disgusting and disrespectful behavior, but also know 98% of landlords will do nothing about it...
We had neighbor leaving dog waste on the lawn which was just outside out patio. We tried tslking to them but then they just had their dogs go in the bushes between our patio and the lawn. We reported the apartment management who blrw us off. So we called code enforcement. It was cleaned up the next day.
Load More Replies...I cellotaped them on the door with a note saying they must have misplaced them
Petty revenge or illegal?... Collect them all and post them back to them via their mailbox?
i'd gather them up & dump them at their door (if bringing it to their attention didn't work)
Scrolling through this list of horrors brought back memories of my own apartment dwelling dramas. And boy, have I had a few. Personally, I prefer living in a free-standing house. Partly because I have a pet, and partly because I love my privacy and space. When I say pet, what I mean is a furkid. Anyone who knows me knows how much I love my dog.
So imagine my surprise when I got an unexpected knock on my door one random Friday morning and found an animal welfare inspector standing there, alongside a security guard. Completely confused, and very convinced they were at the wrong apartment, I asked how I could assist.
First Ever Note… Is It Bad?
Cee Cee, a very reasonable request, and so easy to comply with. Put those lights on a timer, and everyone is happy.
Load More Replies...Upstairs Neighbors Pouring Water All Over Balcony
...this seems reasonable?? I would not like my cats, husband or I randomly doused in water (the dear cats would hate it 10,000x more than us, trust me) but also...that thumbnail... 😬 Time to find a new nail tech
Yes, I think OP is the one writing the note, otherwise it doesn't make sense.
Load More Replies...I had that happen to me. Except I think they got the message when I yelled WTF!?!
Here, we are only allowed to water our plants on our patios. To water inside the apartment is a lease violation & we only get four for the lifetime of our lease. The upstairs patios are at a 5% decline so the water (whether from rain or otherwise) always rolls down onto my neighbor's patio. If she has a problem with it, she is to take it to management. Period.
I accidentally did this to my downstair neighbors once and I was mortified. To be fair, I didn't know they were in the garden, and I didn't know there was water in my BBQ cover that was hanging on our railing. I went to move it and dumped everything on them. I can only assume that this neighbor didn't care much about what they were doing.
I would get tons of cigarette butts and little mini liquor bottle on my patio coming from above.
Drunk Neighbor Just Drove Through Our Bedroom And Condemned Our Apartment. Landlord Won’t Answer Our Or The Police’s Calls And Now I Have Nowhere To Live
“I’m here to investigate a complaint, mam,” came the reply. To which I confidently told him that he must have my apartment confused with another. The inspector glanced down at his notes, repeated my apartment number and told me that he was definitely at the right place.
At this point, my very healthy and happy “velcro dog” was right at my feet, seemingly just as confused as me. Mind you, I did notice the inspector checking the dog out, with a slightly perplexed look.
Here’s A Good One… Last Month My Lovely Downstairs Neighbor Taped This To My Door
Totally should reply with, "My child passed away tragically last year...." Both to mess with them and for the Halloween season. :p
Me too! I'd even go as far as telling the child to be LOUDER!
Load More Replies...Good gravy, I would much rather hear children laughing than children screaming.
My neighbours children have 'signature noises'. One roars all the time (no idea why) and the other does a high pitch woo-woo noise. All while kicking their balls off our fence... bang, bang, bang. I'd love it if they were just laughing but they rarely seem to. Many thanks to the inventor of ear buds...
Load More Replies...Seriously!!!!! I had a neighbor at my apartment who yelled "SHUTUP!!!"to my son for laughing and playing outside at 7pm.
Should have signed it Ebenezer Scrooge. Bah, humbug .... children have no right to enjoy themselves so much.
There are these great places, known as "ADULT-ONLY" communities. Made just for people who write notes like this.
Is Leaving This Note On My Neighbor’s Door Too Harsh Or Not Harsh Enough??
I would appreciate this note because I don't know what they do when I am not there
My neighbors! When they go out of town they leave the dogs in the backyard. I get Copper and Juno:an all night bark opera extravaganza.
Is This An Acceptable Note To Leave My Neighbor That’s Smoking In A Smoke Free Building?
Is it even legal for your landlord to tell you you can't smoke in your own home?
In Georgia, this is a lease violation &, because of the 2005/2023 Georgia Smokefree Air Act the perp can be arrested. If convicted, for first offense, they will receive a misdemeanor charge with up to a $500 fine & up to 6-months in jail. Each new offense the law gets stiffer/harsher. Go for it!
To cut a long and crazy story short, it turns out “someone” had reported me for leaving my dog alone at home for days on end. The inspector was very satisfied that this wasn’t the case, and that my dog was living his best life, at times believing he too was human.
I obviously had more than enough proof that I’d not gone away. I also allowed the inspector to check the dog, his food and treats cupboard, water bowl, sleeping quarters (my bedroom), etc. I had my dog's up-to-date vet card at hand, as well as great photos and references to prove my competence as a pet owner. The inspector didn't ask for these but did apologize for his visit, adding that he often has to waste time and resources being called out to complexes, for nothing in particular.
Ex Kicked A Hole Through My Door And I Was Quoted $675
5 bucks for the door, 670 for making the landlord have to get out of their swine trough and do something.
Load More Replies...That door is $50 at best (and obviously American because it's made out of compressed cardboard shît; trust me I'm an American and even the doors in our fully-rennovated main city house are made out of, at-best, wood-chips and mod-podge 🫠)
Yeah screw that pricing go find your local homeware store and buy a new door for cheaper than that
That is NOT a $675 door. That's the cheapest door at the hardware store, likely well <$100.
the door runs less than $100 (hollow core interior), but the labor is always where they get ya!
OP would come out better buying the door and replacing it themselves. That is the cheapest door made and they are easy to put up.
Well This Is Embarrassing
If s/he can hear it though the walls, I would call it an insulation issue.
Sleep with your face nosedown 30 degrees below horizontal. Lose a little weight. The tongue is the first thing to lose fat. Worked for me, 35 years now.
Get them earplugs... not all that snors are sick... some of us are made that way..
Nathan is right. Snoring that is loud enouhjt to be heard in another apartment means the person is not gettin enough oxygen. Get a fitness watch that does boimetrics. Make sure you oxygen is not droppig into danger zone.
Load More Replies...New Apartment Building Drama
Isn't that legislation in most countries? I mean, probably not generally until 8AM, but asking neighbours to be quiet during the night is reasonable enough.
Nope. My current building has no such policies. Hence me being woken up by my neighbors above me turning on their bedroom tv at 3 am.
Load More Replies...Reasonable request though. She didn't even mention normal living noises like flushing toilet or having a quick shower, just things that really disturb neighbours at night in an apartment complex.
If this person is 73 years old, they should know how to spell correctly.
Not sure age has much to do with spelling ability beyond a certain point!
Load More Replies..."You have 14 hours to do what you have to do thats plenty of time." Funny how everyone assumes that everyone else keeps daytime hours. Some of us are on a 7pm to 7am work schedule. I own my own house, but houses are close together here. When I'm sleeping at 10am, that's when all the lawn mowers, road construction, house maintenance, and doorbell ringings go on. Observing quiet living should be a 24 hour courtesy in close living situations like apartments. Either way, just do like us night-shifters do: turn on a loud fan to dull that s**t out when you're trying to sleep.
When I posted about my experience on the complex WhatsApp group chat (don’t get me started on those), I received a very rude direct message. The guilty party told me they’d been “watching” me since I moved in and that I am “never at home”.
I found this quite amusing but also infuriating since I am at home 90% of the time – and how would they know whether I was or wasn’t. I responded by telling them to up their stalking game because I’ve been home the whole week, and I’m currently typing this message from my lounge. "Can you see me now, Karen?"
Neighbors Letting Homeless Man Sleep In Front Of My Door
Ummm, I think that's a portable barbecue at his feet. If he lights it indoors, it's a quick way to potentially kill you all with carbon monoxide poisoning.
Call the police. That's what management told us to do in our complex.
You need to tell him he can't sleep here and tell him he can sleep in front of your neighbors door. Another think you can do is informed the office there is a homeless man sleeping in a hallway.
My Upstairs Neighbor Dropped Something Super Heavy And These Popped Up Through My Entire Ceiling
I'm very curious, are these nails/screws/other fasteners that popped out of some framework..?? The spacing is even enough to suggest so... But the easiness with which they popped through that,...."ceiling" leads me to believe this happened in America (I say as an American 🙃)
Got to be America coz no one else uses screws or proper spacing when they install ceilings. Here in the UK we use randomly spaced bits of chewing gum to hold our ceilings in place. 🙄
Load More Replies...Only Fire Extinguisher In The Hallway Did Not Pass Inspection 3 Months Ago Md, USA
Time to call some authorities. Not even in a petty way, but, peoples' lives could actually be in in danger .-.
In the UK, it's unnecessary to have extinguishers in communal areas as we wouldn't want untrained people moving away from the fire into the safety of the compartmented corridor to retrieve it, and then go back into the risk room again, as if they use the wrong type it can cause more issues
A bit more back and forth, and it emerged that my lovely neighbor had assumed my long absence because she hadn’t seen a car parked in my parking bay for a while. And at one point, she had heard the dog barking. As I reminded her, I have a front door. You’re able to knock on it, or slip a note underneath.
What I should have said was “Never Assume, it makes an A*s of U and Me”. One of my very funny friends later advised me to park my son’s toy car in the bay, to avoid any of this ever happening again.
Note To Upstairs Neighbors With Kids
My upstairs neighbors have a kid who apparently can't walk anywhere based on the constant running I hear. Even worse they stomp around like elephants. I call them the Stompersons. The kid is Stompy junior. :)
This drove me absolutely insane in my last place and I live in constant fear of the currently empty unit above my new place getting a family like that
Load More Replies...These days families with kids often can't afford to buy or rent a stand-alone house. Density sucks.
After hooking up with a particularly loud date, my very sweet old landlady who live upstairs told me that I had the TV on too loud.
I have two horrible upstairs neighbors (man couple) with three children under the age of 6. They've been nasty bitches to me since they moved in in 2022 (I bought my place in 2008). I'm putting my apartment on the market early next year.
My Neighbor Returned A Stolen Package 1 Year Later
How do you know it was a neighbour and not the parcel company losing it?
because I think the company would put some sort of sticker on it indicating " sorry, we found this lying around, here you are". Like when they have repack something, because the box got ripped open during transit.
Load More Replies...My Ceiling Fan Fell On Me While I Was Sleeping
now i'm scared, that looks just like the fan i have...hopefully it was an installation issue?
What I have heard is that in the US they don't put the duvet in the duvet cover, but rather use it as a sheet, and use the duvet as a blanket.
Load More Replies...In another incident, three actually, my dog was getting bouts of violent illness. The kind where you find yourself wanting to throw up while cleaning up. I thought it strange because I hadn’t fed him anything weird. He and I hadn’t done anything out of the ordinary. He hadn’t been in contact with sick dogs, and was fully vaccinated. It all made sense when I caught an upstairs neighbor throwing food scraps (old meat) from her balcony into the garden of my ground floor apartment.
Show Me You’re A Renter In One Pic
My kitchen sink kept overflowing with random things I know didn't come from our apartment ( none of us eat raisens) the maintenance man finally came and snaked the pipes. Ended up pulling a rag out.
What Is It?
AI
I'd never touch those berries again, after this unhinged posting
That's an invasion of privacy. Why did the landlord think this was at all acceptable?
In my country, if the camera is placed in a common or public area, even if the landlord owns the whole building, there must be a sign warning about it and informing who can see the images, when and where they will be kept, etc. This would be illegal, and the tenants could sue him.
I’d like to believe the elderly woman was doing this with good intentions. As angry and disgusted as I was, I decided to take a calm approach. I kindly informed her that her “generosity” was making my dog sick, and if she wanted to give him any treats, she should please ask me first. She understood, apologized never did it again, and we were able to live happily ever onwards.
Landlord Is Charging Me $8000 To Replace Floors
Doesn't matter. Legally that would be considered normal wear & tear. Sadly most renters can't afford the lawyer one needs to take on a landlord.
Load More Replies...In Germany we don't say "I am paying thousands for a scratch to my landlord", we say "Mieterschutzbund" and I think that's beautiful.
Take pictures, go to Home Depot, match the slats (because this is just cheap @ss vinyl flooring), and replace it yourself. It's not even the interlocking kind, so no worries about matching up the pieces. You may even be able to hide it with a vinyl flooring patch kit. Easy peasy lemon squeezy & the landlord can f**k right off with that $8,000 charge.
Get some of those large chapstick-like furniture repair thingies and cover them up.
Is it covered by fair wear and tear ? If so then the landlord can go suck eggs. If it isn't, you can get it repaired yourself, by a professional, and you pay for it.
I would ask tbe landlord to see if I could find someome myself to replace the flooring to see f I could get it done at a lower cost. Or to have them repaired at a lower cost.
Someone Left Butter (??) On My Door
With butter?? Something that melts at body temperature? Not very practical.
Load More Replies...What Is This Growing In My Linen Closet??
If you are renting, run as fast as you can. If you are the owner, I'm sorry for you.
It's termites you idiot. They can build that stuff up in hours.
Load More Replies...Loving thy neighbor is often easier said than done. A recent LendingTree survey found that 1 in 4 Americans can’t stand their neighbor. Almost half say it’s because the guy or girl next door is unfriendly or rude. 31% say they make too much noise, and 29% say they live next door to someone who just can’t mind their own business. Around 3 in 10 millennials have even packed up their belongings and moved because of a problem neighbor.
Woke Up To A Lovely Note On My Car This Morning— I’m Parked In My Assigned (Paid For) Parking Spot
Perhaps there is some sort of misunderstanding. The way this note is worded, it sounds like the writer paid for their spot. The receiver of the note said he paid for a spot. Are they assigned spots? Possible they were accidentally both assigned the same spot?
Ugh, there is endless drama with my assigned parking as well, up to and including vandalism to my car, parked in my paid parking spot. Or, being threatened to have my a*s kicked when I asked someone not to park in my 2nd spot and tried to explain that I needed the space to get my disabled kid in and out of the car (who was sitting in the car at the time waiting for me).
I Come Out This Am With My Dog And See The Cleaning Lady At My Complex Spraying Down The Mailboxes With A Hose On Full Blast 🤦🏻♂️
Okay? I don't see how this affects the person? Unless I'm missing something. The cleaning lady is doing her job up keeping outside and spraying and cleaning nowhere near this resident. She's just taking pictures of what she's doing as far as this looks to me.
Yeah but whatever is inside the mailboxes is made of paper...
Load More Replies...Not seeing the problem here. Could be she is spraying because something unpleasant happened on or around the mailboxes & she is trying to clean it up 🤷♀️
Do You Think I Can Ask For Reimbursement On This?
Had this happen to me me at an air bnb whilst on holiday in Italy at 12am!! Was not fun.
No. It was you that did it. Didn't fully insert key before forcing the door lock. CRACK!
Definitely no reimbursement coming your way. It was caused by you even though it was not intentional. Just bad luck.
The Building Next To Mine Got New Outdoor Lights… This Is Now My Bedroom At 2am
...looks like your blinds could close more?? Or try turning your blinds up so the light is directed towards the ceiling. That still sucks but I get it, especially if you live in a place that doesn't allow any kind of window-covering (I've firsthand been to places like this, at least in USA)
I used to love sitting out on my patio early in the morning and drinking my coffee, until the building across the street had floodlights installed.
Not the answer. First of all - at least in Canada - that would be illegal. Just get black out curtains to use with the blinds - it’s what I have to do, since my bedroom window faces the parking lot (basement apartment) - halogen lights shining in my bedroom at 3 am make it brighter than daylight. Figure out a way to deal with it without damaging other’s property. They have a right to put up lights on their property.
Load More Replies...And they are LED!!! Which is WAYYYYY TOOO BRIGHT to be used on the outsides of buldgs as it shines right thru everything. LED is a curse on humanity.
Neighbor Threw All This Trash Out Her Window And Keeps Throwing More. Today's Friday, And Management Won't Be Available Until Monday
If that is in one day, they are probably having a clear out and will take it all to the bins when done. I had a huge number of magazines that I decided to clear out, so I got the paper and cardboard bin and placed it directly below my window and just dropped them straight in.
The Dumpsters Behind My Apartment Building Have Not Been Emptied In 3.5 Weeks
Might have to call the city for this one. They pick up the trash I do believe.
Depends who the waste collection contract is with. I've had to contact the council a few times when ours haven't been emptied, as we don't have spare capacity for them being missed as collections are fortnightly. That will very rapidly become a rat problem if not dealt with.
Downstairs Neighbor Came To My Door At Midnight After Throwing Rocks At My Window And Calling Me A C***
Saw This When I Came Out This Morning
Well, at least it's that person's problem..?? 🤷 They're obviously stuck on the gate with their personal vehicle, without damage to anything else, and I believe that's a patrol car to the left
Was the car trying to hop the fence, and didn't quite leave enough clearance?
Looks like they were in reverse, a little too vigorously.
Load More Replies...My Entire Ceiling Collapsed Last Night
Had this happen to me and I was on the second floor of 3 floors. Landlord tried to make me pay for damages and turned me in to the rental police. Had trouble renting anything!
My cement ceiling collapsed. No legal recourse. I checked. I own for clarity, in South Africa
Found This Note On My Door. How Do I Walk Around In My Apartment Without Bothering This Person?
One of the first ways is to make sure you don't wear shoes inside. Then put down rugs and carpets. And no stomping.
I had a landlady, who lived below us, and offered to pay for a rug to put above her bedroom. Got a nice rope one, added a layer of stuff usually put under laminate flooring, and presto problem solved
Load More Replies...Depends on how you walk? They were very courteous and kind in their letter, I just wanna know both sides to the story
Bathroom Roof Collapsed In The Middle Of The Night. I Live In Texas. I Have No Idea Who To Call In Case Of Emergency And I'm Kinda Freaking Out Since Idk If That's Black Mold And If I Can Spend The Night Here Tonight. What Can I Do? Sorry If It's Not The Right Place I'm Just Scared
Woman In My Building Has Police Called On Her Routinely For Abuse Of Her Children, One Disabled. She Left This In Public Space
Why only 2 years?? Curious now. Does she have other people to haunt?
2 years seems like a decent price to free those children from that person's abuse. "Haunt" away.
Bruh What????
I had an apartment with a drafty window in the shower. Made winter showers a breeze. Literally.
The Main Door To My Building Doesn’t Lock And The Main Door To My Apt Is Hollow With Just A Lock Knob… I Feel Like This Isn’t Right I’m In Nh. First Apt. Please Give Me Insight On A Girl Living Alone
Get a slide lock and put one in the bottom and one on the top of the door.
All tenants in New Hampshire are legally entitled to a unit that meets basic health, structural, and SAFETY standards, and that is in good repair. Check with your local tenant rights organization https://www.american-apartment-owners-association.org/landlord-tenant-laws/new-hampshire/
I (26m) Found A Huge Roach In My New Apartment
This is a tree roach. They aren't like the tiny german roaches that come in hoards. Tree roaches are usually one off's that come in from outside. Still gross, but there may be only the one.
Load More Replies...That's how roaches are adopted! Call him Charlie,leash train him you'll have a friend for life
Apartment complexes are notorious for roaches. Being there are so many people living in a small space. The management is supposed to have regular pest services. You can buy extra roach and bug killer to help. Plus keep clean should do the trick.
Curious As To What The “Formal Complaint To The Leasing Office” Would Look Like…
* "husband and me". So many people think "and I" is always correct, but it's not.
I'd send them a note saying "The other guy last night made the bed squeak louder!"
Not Sure How To Feel About This Or Go About Handling It
I wonder if that's why a lot of the tattoo parlors I've been to in busy metropolitan PNW areas blast really loud music continuously ?? 🤔
Neighbor Parking Issue: How Do I Deal With This?
Put the note back on their car? Obviously they're the ones closest to the line ..but maybe put it back with some maple syrup.. 😈
My Upstairs Neighbor Attacked My Apartment And Broke Our Window
I see a fire extinguisher on the ground. Die He attack your apartment with it?
Update To Lady Downstairs Harassing Us
..update to what original problem?? Do you actually have trash and/or abandoned vehicle?? Needs context :p
If you click on the username on the bottom left below the picture, it will take you directly to the reddit thread this was scraped from.
Load More Replies...Neighbor Left A Note On My Door…
"obnoxioff"?? Does it say "obnoxious, PLEASE turn it off", perhaps?? I'd need to see this "patio decor" in question because I've seen my fair share of obnoxious decor in my life, including a neighbor who previously had a floodlight beaming right into our living room window. Luckily we were able to hang blackout curtains and place tall plants in front of that window, and that neighbor has since moved. But be considerate of others, especially in close living spaces! We wished we didn't have to hang thick curtains in front of our window, we love the natural lighting
Here's the post. Beware, the author appears not to know how to use punctuation: https://www.reddit.com/r/Apartmentliving/comments/1ff7g1d/neighbor_left_a_note_on_my_door/
Load More Replies...Did the neighbor rip the note up for you too? Considerate of them! A real time saver
Knowing the author read the note, got upset, ripped it up then thought, c**p let me put it back together and take a picture of it for an article. That Is what I like about this. The situation is unfortunate for sure.
My Friend Parked My Car And Got Me This LOL
My Neighbour Is Disgusting…
This persons definition of disgusting and mine differ greatly. I don't see anything disgusting or gross about this. There are many reasons to set tied garbage bags outside the doorway until you get them to the dumpster. Busy cleaning, phone rang, had to tinkle, maybe? As long as they take it out in a reasonable amount of time. I see no problem here. I certainly don't understand this persons use of the word disgusting. That doesn't apply here, so that part didn't make sense.
Looks like they put the trash outside to take it to the dumpster when they go out next time. I have my own house. I do this also. I will bag my garbage up and put it out by my back door and when I leave, I will take it out to my garbage can.
Okay, I know I'm not crazy. But what happened to the picture that someone took of the two trash bags sitting outside the apartment door? I do believe the person said it was disgusting. Yet the bags were tightly and neatly kept right outside the persons door to be thrown out later. Everyone was commenting and saying that she's gonna throw them away she's probably just in the middle of something and set them out for just a second. Does anyone remember that picture? It just disappeared.
Okay, I know I'm not crazy. But what happened to the picture that someone took of the two trash bags sitting outside the apartment door? I do believe the person said it was disgusting. Yet the bags were tightly and neatly kept right outside the persons door to be thrown out later. Everyone was commenting and saying that she's gonna throw them away she's probably just in the middle of something and set them out for just a second. Does anyone remember that picture? It just disappeared.
