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“So Uncultured”: Woman Shamed For Her Croissant ‘Etiquette’ Until Her French BF Intervenes
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“So Uncultured”: Woman Shamed For Her Croissant ‘Etiquette’ Until Her French BF Intervenes

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Every country has food-related customs that locals don’t even think twice about in their day to day. But they might be less obvious to tourists visiting the country.

Redditor u/wyckedpsaul recently told the ‘Petty Revenge’ community about tourists in Paris telling her how to properly eat a croissant. Little did they know that their way of eating the pastry is wrong and that the OP’s partner is actually French. That is why, when the latter saw how she was consuming the food, he started laughing and made sure to address the tourists as well.

Bored Panda has reached out to the OP and she was kind enough to answer a few of our questions. Scroll down to find our interview with her in the text below.

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    This person was eating a croissant in Paris when a family of tourists told her she was doing it wrong

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    The OP revealed that the petty revenge was evoked by the way the tourist spoke to her

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    “In my travels, I see tourists eat dishes in… interesting ways, and I just don’t say anything,” the OP told Bored Panda. “It’s none of my business what they do and it’s none of theirs what I do. I’ve done some embarrassing things myself because of being in an unfamiliar, new place, and I’ve appreciated locals or other tourists telling me in a kind and supportive way the right way to do things. I think a huge part of it is in how you say it. Maybe if the mom had said and worded it in a nicer way, there wouldn’t have been a need for petty revenge.”

    However, since the tourist didn’t, petty revenge is exactly what she got. “I was most surprised by the mom’s audacity to correct and give unsolicited advice to a stranger, in a country which they are not a native of. What made it hilarious is that the advice was totally wrong, and that she was so confident and condescending towards me. The ‘oh hon’ part really got me, which made my pettiness come out.”

    The redditor revealed that her partner often suggests she has a “I’m lost” kind of look about her, which, in her opinion, might embolden other people to explain or insist things they think she doesn’t know. “I lived in Japan for a while and I’ve encountered tourists arguing with me on which bus to get to Fuji-san, all because they read about it somewhere online, but I actually lived (at that time) in the country and have been to Yamanashi countless times,” she said, providing an example. “Or when some foreigners insist that the best way to eat lechon is with ketchup and I’m doing it wrong. But my hometown is actually the lechon capital of the world,” she added.

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    The moon-shaped flaky French breakfast food likely originated in Austria

    Food-related customs often concern not only the meals but the way they’re prepared or even consumed as well. That’s why cooking pasta in unsalted water would probably make an Italian’s blood boil faster than the water itself, eating sushi with a fork would send a Japanese person into shock, and asking for additional salt and pepper in Portugal would likely result in a hyperventilating professional chef. Similarly, seeing his girlfriend eat a croissant with a knife and a fork made the OP’s partner burst into laughter as no French person would ever think of doing so.

    The soft and flaky pastry is often one of the very first things that pops into one’s mind when thinking about French delicacies. However, it is believed to have originated in Austria, home to the kipferl, which some consider to be the forefather of the French croissant. The layered goodness as we know it now is reportedly attributed to Sylvain Claudius Goy, a French chef who decided to use a laminated yeast dough instead of a brioche dough, resulting in the crunch loved by many in France and elsewhere.

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    Cutting through the frail golden layers of the cooked laminated yeast dough with a knife sounds like a crime; might as well butcher the rest of the typically carb-heavy breakfast. Off Beat France emphasized that breakfast is considered the least important meal of the day, which, unlike in many other places around the world, consists mainly of sweet flavors. The crescent moon-shaped staple of a French breakfast—mostly enjoyed on weekends, though—is typically accompanied by jams, other pastries, some juice, and, of course, a coffee (or some other hot drink).

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    Something as mundane as eating bread can have different rules in different countries

    Culture Trip pointed out that food etiquette in France requires you to use a fork and a knife for everything, except bread, asparagus spears, and sandwiches. Considering that a croissant could be put in the same category as bread in this case, it should be eaten using one’s hands. Culture Trip suggested that if offered bread, a person should break a piece of it off and keep it on the left-hand side of their plate. Using utensils or biting directly into it might attract some weird looks, as breaking it into bite-sized pieces before popping them into one’s mouth is the way to go. (You can also use it to mop up the food on your plate, which is not only completely acceptable, but could be considered a sign of acceptance of the food.)

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    Swiping the plate clean with bread can sometimes be acceptable in Italy, too. However, the use of this spongy source of carbs depends on the situation. Food writer Elizabeth Minchilli emphasized that bread is meant to be eaten with other food. However, where there’s a rule, there’s an exception: it can be eaten on its own if it’s served as a bruschetta or a focaccia, and shouldn’t be consumed alongside pasta dishes, even though that contradicts the bread-with-food-only rule. But even the exception has an exception in this case, coming back to mopping plates clean—you can use pieces of bread to soak up the leftover pasta sauce.

    Another rule when it comes to carb consumption in Italy regards one of the most iconic wonders of local cuisine; you guessed it right—pizza. According to Tuscan Traveler—and likely quite a few Italians out there—pizza is generally only consumed in the evening. With a few exceptions of grabbing a slice during the day as street food, pizza would typically only be eaten during dinner. But Italians have unwritten rules when it comes to breakfast as well; for example, that that’s the only time when it’s okay to order a cappuccino. This matter would likely turn into a heated debate if a tourist in Italy would try to convince someone otherwise.

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    These are just a couple of examples of how food customs and certain rules regarding it differ with each country. But one thing is clear, it’s important to know them well before teaching others about them—many people in the comments pointed out that they would never consider following the tourist’s advice to cut the croissant using utensils.

    “I’ve had my fair share of situations like this,” the OP told Bored Panda. “In this instance, I decided not to tell her off and instead waited for my partner because by apologizing, I’ve given them a false sense of victory—they were right, their attitude was warranted. She wasn’t expecting that and she seemed very happy with herself. Isn’t (petty) revenge sweeter when someone is being brought down from a very recent high? And what better way to serve that revenge than by having a French explain about a French pastry, in his native country, France?”

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    People shared opinions and similar stories in the comments, the OP replied to some of them

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    René Sauer
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can´t we all just agree to keep our noses in our own business and leave other people alone? Let people eat their croissant with knife and fork. Let them dump pineapple on pizza. Let them eat fries with mayo. They hurt nobody doing this stuff.

    hereforthecatpics
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will still judge my friends for it, but I’d never go and tell strangers something like that, even if I think it’s weird

    IamMe
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think it had anything to do with where they were from. Those tourists were just very weird individuals. I've lived in 14 states in the U.S., and have never seen anyone eat a croissant, or any other pastry, with a fork.

    Rod
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm French and I would have looooooved to witness that! To be honest I would have said something...

    Donnaebb
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    1 year ago

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    Sahil Islam
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fock off you spineless b*stards what she did was more calculating than you ever were with maths.

    Sahil Islam
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to the people in these comments but to the ones with hate towards O.P here

    JayWantsACat
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The are always non-Japanese people explaining the proper way to eat things in Japan. Only for actual Japanese folks to as them "WTF are you talking about? I've never heard that." Are there specific ways to eat certain things? Obviously. I'm speaking about situations like this. Some content creator said she was told she needed to eat ramen as quickly as possible. Sure, you shouldn't take your sweet a*s time and linger, especially in tiny ramen shops, but all of the actual Japanese folks in the comments were like "Who told you that? That's not a thing,"

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would legit have pretended not to speak english "Parlez vous francais?" "Non? Je suis desolee." Disclaimer: I actually don't speak any French.

    Florence O'Grady
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm an American and have lived in 6 different states in the South. Everyone here eats their croissants with their fingers and that includes the folks in Georgia.

    Azolane
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What would they have said of my weird way of eating a pain au chocolat. I peel the top off to keep just enough dough and chocolate for the end. I also mind my own business. People are freaking rude and weird.

    David
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This revived an old forgotten memory. USA - me about age 8 I think - was at a house near my grandmother's - good family friend. Just me and the lady so maybe she was babysitting me. Forget, been ages. She gave me a snowball pastry (sort of a cupcake coated in marshmallow and coconut - you can google pics). She sets it down by itself on a little plate. I didn't know she was going back for a fork so I started to pick it up and eat it. "DON'T EAT IT WITH YOUR HANDS! USE A FORK!". She wasn't "mean" about it. She just seemed genuinely surprised that I would eat what was basically a Hostess lunch snack with my fingers. I had never heard of eating a 'doughnut' type item with a fork.

    El Dee
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not French but I've never heard of eating croissant with a knife and fork. Is this an American thing..

    Maya
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope, never seen an American tourist in Paris (and there are lots of them right now) eating them with a fork and knife. It's like eating fries with a fork and knife, I'm sure someone in America (or elsewhere) does it at some point, but it's clearly not an "American thing".

    Bryn
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eat a pastry with a fork & knife?? I wonder where they heard that, lol

    June Miller
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anybody who calls someone else, especially a stranger, "hun" is what we Australians would call a bogan, that is a VERY uncultured person, kind of like a hick

    Ms.GB
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've lived in the US my entire life and even I know you're supposed to eat a croissant with your hands.

    Bina Wei
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whoever thought OP was spineless might’ve failed English class (which isn't a big deal unless you're being holier than thou with the comments in the thread to OP or anyone similar) because the tone.. was absolutely shiz-stirring (i don't like saying the actual word). And she definitely knew her bf was coming back and would say something. 10/10 great comedic effect and timed well. She did things greatly.

    Hokuloa
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The audacity to visit France and try to play the voice of cultural authority *FOR THE FRENCH*!!

    David Beaulieu
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about we all agree timing our own GD business, huh? The idea that some idiot, no matter how well meaning decided to shame a woman for the way she eats something she paid for is more disgusting than anyone could possibly b eating anything with their hands. If you are not hurting anyone, eat however you want.

    The Starsong Princess
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’d have shown them my greasy middle finger. I’m sure they had a very unpleasant trip, the French don’t suffer this type of obnoxiousness gladly.

    Anxiousguest
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only thing I learned from this article is that I need a croissant 🥐 and hot chocolate immediately..

    Shirley Barry
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha Ha-ha ha this is so funny and well done. You did the right thing to oblige. I d had done the same knowing what was to come 😉

    Nancy Marine
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd have blown my top the instant "him" came out of their mouth. I can't stand that! If I'm not your child or SO or best friend you don't know me well enough to call me "Hon."

    Brainmas
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would just tell them I wasn't that cultured and keep eating with my hands. People are so weird.

    EEP
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then there's the Brits: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/travel/article-12413563/Youve-eating-croissants-wrong-Etiquette-expert-William-Hanson-reveals-consume-pastries-says-French-habit-dipping-coffee-no-no.html

    UpupaEpops
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, I just love this c**t. 😂 At least half the time he's wrong.

    TheBlueBitterfly
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's someone who follows the old-school "fancy dinner etiquette" of never using your hands to eat.

    Radek Suski
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same with chicken. People look at me weirdly when I eat it with hands

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a U.S. native, I have never been to France, but I have never seen anyone eat a croissant with a knife and fork. I'm from Oregon, and therefore tremendously uncultured, but don't think I'd accept dining etiquette advice from anyone from Georgia.

    Lise Brouillette
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But then, I've also seen Americans trying to eat chicken wings with a knife and fork...🤪🤪🤪

    Lise Brouillette
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We French don’t tell you how to eat your hot dogs, please don't tell us how to eat croissants – especially when you have no idea what you're talking about and are just plain running off at the mouth. 🙄

    Wm Paul Robinson
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nigdule! Here most people eat what they like how they like. I eat my p'tit pain au chocolat with my hand, tear my croissants bit by bit, pizza with my hands, ditto taking moules out of their coquillage, with a good moules frites, etc. Of course after 8 years in my beloved wife's NPdC, the northern Ch'tis somewhat free in their interpretation of rules. Some of the more cultured Bretons (Parisiens en retraite?!) a bit snotty, but overall find the French a friendly lot, who are helpful, rather than judgemental (at least with me). Bon soirée biloute. Yer mat.

    Wheely
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll eat MY food how I want to and if you have a problem with that you can get f*cked.

    Therese Herlihy
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A while ago, a friend & I decided to have a picnic on one of the battlefields we were visiting. We went to a pizza shop, ordered lunch (calzones) and she asked the server for plastic utensils to take with us. I asked her why & she said 'Your supposed to eat them with knife & fork.' We argued because I said no, you use your hands. The owner (very nice Sicilian guy) asked what we were arguing about & I told him (my grandmother was Sicilian, so I know a little(. He came back with "You're both right, but not today. When inside, use knife & fork, when outside (picnic) use your hands and lots of napkins!" (I was right, but she's one of those that nobody's right except her.)

    Ivana Bašić
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually just savagely tear off parts with my teeth. I do hate it when my fingers get greasy. :D

    Jordi Sharpe
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandfather, who was born in France and emigrated to Canada after WWII, ate his croissants with his hands, and dipped them in his coffee.

    Hey!
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband comes from Thionville in France and we live in Canada. Bringing up the children, we ate croissants and chocolat chauds. If we travelled, especially at my mother's house, we'd bring what we need because that's what we ate and in the fall/winter, we'd bring a case of oranges to make fresh juice. Now, sometimes, we eat croissants with Brie but we never cut it with a knife - both Brie/croissant; hands are the way to go in these cases.

    Jesse Corder
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We came across similar people in Rome. They were trying to eat prosciutto with a knife and fork. They also sent back the wood fire pizza because "It's burnt".

    Sunny Day
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought all bread was finger food, unless it was gooey like French toast.

    Thor Haugen
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel sad for the OP. We are all concerned about appearances, but honestly she should have told the family to f*ck off. If she had wanted to eat by bending over and eating it off the plate with just her mouth, that's her business. They had no right to comment and she should have done whatever she wanted. Self esteem is a rare thing.

    R Dennis
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was the dad short, balding, and wearing glasses? Maybe named George (Costanza)?

    Zedrapazia
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd have pretended to eat the drink with the fork and knife for further ridiculing

    Anony Mouse
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    1 year ago

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    I would bet a lot of money that this didn't actually happen and it was made up just to be like "Ha ha Americans are so stupid." A tourist family would not be paying that much attention to someone else eating, nor attempt to correct their manners. I call BS on this one, BP. But this site does hate Americans, so the truth shouldn't get in the way of your narrative.

    Maya
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's nothing specific that indicates BS in the post, it's rather specific. I live in Paris, I've had my share of witnessing obnoxious tourists, wether they were Chinese, Indian, American, Dutch or French. Americans tourists in Paris are overall well behaved, and not seen as problematic at all, contrary to some others. Those ones were just rude, and their nationality doesn't matter. To be fair, BP has issued many annoying articles more or less inviting to slam at the USA, but everyone stands against it (including me now). When there are these annoying Reddit articles about some French person like 'that awful French dude treated me like $", most of the comments are quite agreeing that we are $hitty people, making some derogatory comments on the people (and not the state of the country), with very few BPs saying 'hum stop generalising'. And we don't really complain about it, mostly because we are like 10 on this website, and we ultimately don't care

    René Sauer
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can´t we all just agree to keep our noses in our own business and leave other people alone? Let people eat their croissant with knife and fork. Let them dump pineapple on pizza. Let them eat fries with mayo. They hurt nobody doing this stuff.

    hereforthecatpics
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will still judge my friends for it, but I’d never go and tell strangers something like that, even if I think it’s weird

    IamMe
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think it had anything to do with where they were from. Those tourists were just very weird individuals. I've lived in 14 states in the U.S., and have never seen anyone eat a croissant, or any other pastry, with a fork.

    Rod
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm French and I would have looooooved to witness that! To be honest I would have said something...

    Donnaebb
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    1 year ago

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    Sahil Islam
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fock off you spineless b*stards what she did was more calculating than you ever were with maths.

    Sahil Islam
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to the people in these comments but to the ones with hate towards O.P here

    JayWantsACat
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The are always non-Japanese people explaining the proper way to eat things in Japan. Only for actual Japanese folks to as them "WTF are you talking about? I've never heard that." Are there specific ways to eat certain things? Obviously. I'm speaking about situations like this. Some content creator said she was told she needed to eat ramen as quickly as possible. Sure, you shouldn't take your sweet a*s time and linger, especially in tiny ramen shops, but all of the actual Japanese folks in the comments were like "Who told you that? That's not a thing,"

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would legit have pretended not to speak english "Parlez vous francais?" "Non? Je suis desolee." Disclaimer: I actually don't speak any French.

    Florence O'Grady
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm an American and have lived in 6 different states in the South. Everyone here eats their croissants with their fingers and that includes the folks in Georgia.

    Azolane
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What would they have said of my weird way of eating a pain au chocolat. I peel the top off to keep just enough dough and chocolate for the end. I also mind my own business. People are freaking rude and weird.

    David
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This revived an old forgotten memory. USA - me about age 8 I think - was at a house near my grandmother's - good family friend. Just me and the lady so maybe she was babysitting me. Forget, been ages. She gave me a snowball pastry (sort of a cupcake coated in marshmallow and coconut - you can google pics). She sets it down by itself on a little plate. I didn't know she was going back for a fork so I started to pick it up and eat it. "DON'T EAT IT WITH YOUR HANDS! USE A FORK!". She wasn't "mean" about it. She just seemed genuinely surprised that I would eat what was basically a Hostess lunch snack with my fingers. I had never heard of eating a 'doughnut' type item with a fork.

    El Dee
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not French but I've never heard of eating croissant with a knife and fork. Is this an American thing..

    Maya
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope, never seen an American tourist in Paris (and there are lots of them right now) eating them with a fork and knife. It's like eating fries with a fork and knife, I'm sure someone in America (or elsewhere) does it at some point, but it's clearly not an "American thing".

    Bryn
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eat a pastry with a fork & knife?? I wonder where they heard that, lol

    June Miller
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anybody who calls someone else, especially a stranger, "hun" is what we Australians would call a bogan, that is a VERY uncultured person, kind of like a hick

    Ms.GB
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've lived in the US my entire life and even I know you're supposed to eat a croissant with your hands.

    Bina Wei
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whoever thought OP was spineless might’ve failed English class (which isn't a big deal unless you're being holier than thou with the comments in the thread to OP or anyone similar) because the tone.. was absolutely shiz-stirring (i don't like saying the actual word). And she definitely knew her bf was coming back and would say something. 10/10 great comedic effect and timed well. She did things greatly.

    Hokuloa
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The audacity to visit France and try to play the voice of cultural authority *FOR THE FRENCH*!!

    David Beaulieu
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about we all agree timing our own GD business, huh? The idea that some idiot, no matter how well meaning decided to shame a woman for the way she eats something she paid for is more disgusting than anyone could possibly b eating anything with their hands. If you are not hurting anyone, eat however you want.

    The Starsong Princess
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’d have shown them my greasy middle finger. I’m sure they had a very unpleasant trip, the French don’t suffer this type of obnoxiousness gladly.

    Anxiousguest
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only thing I learned from this article is that I need a croissant 🥐 and hot chocolate immediately..

    Shirley Barry
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha Ha-ha ha this is so funny and well done. You did the right thing to oblige. I d had done the same knowing what was to come 😉

    Nancy Marine
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd have blown my top the instant "him" came out of their mouth. I can't stand that! If I'm not your child or SO or best friend you don't know me well enough to call me "Hon."

    Brainmas
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would just tell them I wasn't that cultured and keep eating with my hands. People are so weird.

    EEP
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then there's the Brits: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/travel/article-12413563/Youve-eating-croissants-wrong-Etiquette-expert-William-Hanson-reveals-consume-pastries-says-French-habit-dipping-coffee-no-no.html

    UpupaEpops
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, I just love this c**t. 😂 At least half the time he's wrong.

    TheBlueBitterfly
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's someone who follows the old-school "fancy dinner etiquette" of never using your hands to eat.

    Radek Suski
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same with chicken. People look at me weirdly when I eat it with hands

    JP Purves
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a U.S. native, I have never been to France, but I have never seen anyone eat a croissant with a knife and fork. I'm from Oregon, and therefore tremendously uncultured, but don't think I'd accept dining etiquette advice from anyone from Georgia.

    Lise Brouillette
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But then, I've also seen Americans trying to eat chicken wings with a knife and fork...🤪🤪🤪

    Lise Brouillette
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We French don’t tell you how to eat your hot dogs, please don't tell us how to eat croissants – especially when you have no idea what you're talking about and are just plain running off at the mouth. 🙄

    Wm Paul Robinson
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nigdule! Here most people eat what they like how they like. I eat my p'tit pain au chocolat with my hand, tear my croissants bit by bit, pizza with my hands, ditto taking moules out of their coquillage, with a good moules frites, etc. Of course after 8 years in my beloved wife's NPdC, the northern Ch'tis somewhat free in their interpretation of rules. Some of the more cultured Bretons (Parisiens en retraite?!) a bit snotty, but overall find the French a friendly lot, who are helpful, rather than judgemental (at least with me). Bon soirée biloute. Yer mat.

    Wheely
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll eat MY food how I want to and if you have a problem with that you can get f*cked.

    Therese Herlihy
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A while ago, a friend & I decided to have a picnic on one of the battlefields we were visiting. We went to a pizza shop, ordered lunch (calzones) and she asked the server for plastic utensils to take with us. I asked her why & she said 'Your supposed to eat them with knife & fork.' We argued because I said no, you use your hands. The owner (very nice Sicilian guy) asked what we were arguing about & I told him (my grandmother was Sicilian, so I know a little(. He came back with "You're both right, but not today. When inside, use knife & fork, when outside (picnic) use your hands and lots of napkins!" (I was right, but she's one of those that nobody's right except her.)

    Ivana Bašić
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually just savagely tear off parts with my teeth. I do hate it when my fingers get greasy. :D

    Jordi Sharpe
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandfather, who was born in France and emigrated to Canada after WWII, ate his croissants with his hands, and dipped them in his coffee.

    Hey!
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband comes from Thionville in France and we live in Canada. Bringing up the children, we ate croissants and chocolat chauds. If we travelled, especially at my mother's house, we'd bring what we need because that's what we ate and in the fall/winter, we'd bring a case of oranges to make fresh juice. Now, sometimes, we eat croissants with Brie but we never cut it with a knife - both Brie/croissant; hands are the way to go in these cases.

    Jesse Corder
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We came across similar people in Rome. They were trying to eat prosciutto with a knife and fork. They also sent back the wood fire pizza because "It's burnt".

    Sunny Day
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought all bread was finger food, unless it was gooey like French toast.

    Thor Haugen
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel sad for the OP. We are all concerned about appearances, but honestly she should have told the family to f*ck off. If she had wanted to eat by bending over and eating it off the plate with just her mouth, that's her business. They had no right to comment and she should have done whatever she wanted. Self esteem is a rare thing.

    R Dennis
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was the dad short, balding, and wearing glasses? Maybe named George (Costanza)?

    Zedrapazia
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd have pretended to eat the drink with the fork and knife for further ridiculing

    Anony Mouse
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    I would bet a lot of money that this didn't actually happen and it was made up just to be like "Ha ha Americans are so stupid." A tourist family would not be paying that much attention to someone else eating, nor attempt to correct their manners. I call BS on this one, BP. But this site does hate Americans, so the truth shouldn't get in the way of your narrative.

    Maya
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's nothing specific that indicates BS in the post, it's rather specific. I live in Paris, I've had my share of witnessing obnoxious tourists, wether they were Chinese, Indian, American, Dutch or French. Americans tourists in Paris are overall well behaved, and not seen as problematic at all, contrary to some others. Those ones were just rude, and their nationality doesn't matter. To be fair, BP has issued many annoying articles more or less inviting to slam at the USA, but everyone stands against it (including me now). When there are these annoying Reddit articles about some French person like 'that awful French dude treated me like $", most of the comments are quite agreeing that we are $hitty people, making some derogatory comments on the people (and not the state of the country), with very few BPs saying 'hum stop generalising'. And we don't really complain about it, mostly because we are like 10 on this website, and we ultimately don't care

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