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Am I Being Unreasonable?

Hi pandas! I started middle school this year (it sucks) and I just wanted to ask if I’m being unreasonable for being upset that my mom signed me up for a summer camp without asking me wether I wanted to go. I didn’t even find out from my mom. A friend (not friend) ran up to me and was like, “We’re going to a summer camp together right?” and I was like “what the actual fuck?” and she was like “yeah obviously! Didn’t you know?!” and I was really confused, because earlier my mom told me that they were taking me on their work trip to Vietnam. Yesterday I talked to my grandma and she was like, “Your mom’s really busy, she probably didn’t have time!” and I know that my mom is insanely busy, and I know that she sometimes doesn’t even come home at night. This led to me feeling guilty about blaming her, but couldn’t she at least have asked me if I wanted to go? Am I being unreasonable?

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Hey there, Pandas! My name is Diana (though some prefer to refer to me as Diane, Deanna, and even Liana sometimes), and I am a Community Post Moderator Lead for Bored Panda. As my position title states, I am one of the people (employed Pandas for bamboo) over here who work with the community side of things on this website to ensure all is well, and while at that, I also help various creators and artists get recognition for the incredible work they do by connecting them to a large worldwide audience. Other than that, outside of work, you can find me brewing a nice cup of coffee, making a pizza from scratch, or baking brownies. I also love traveling, concerts, and cats (heavy on that, because I am a cat mom).

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bElLa sTairZz 3 months ago

i dont think so, you have a right to be upset, even if she did tell you, which she didnt. just because she has excuses for it doesnt mean that it was right. from the sounds of things you havnt talked to her though, so probs try that

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justagirl (Post author) 3 months ago

Thank you. I did have a chat with her, and she agreed that I didn't have to go if I really didn't want to. I'm going with her on her work trip instead! I guess this all worked out.

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paigeofcolors 3 months ago

Wait you are in middle school?! XD I thought you were way older because of the way talked! Btw I think that you have the right to be upset that your mom did not tell you that you were enlisted in a summer camp.

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justagirl (Post author) 3 months ago

lol—yes i am in middle school. no mom does not know i swear please don't tell her.

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justagirl (Post author) 3 months ago

I know the picture has nothing to do with anything, bored panda made me add one.

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bElLa sTairZz 3 months ago

shouldve gotten a stock photo of a kid and mum fighting, like the AITAs

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bElLa sTairZz 3 months ago

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justagirl (Post author) 3 months ago

Thank you. I did have a chat with her, and she agreed that I didn't have to go if I really didn't want to. I'm going with her on her work trip instead! I guess this all worked out.

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