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Man Steals Coworker’s Food And She Yanks It From Under His Nose, Embarrassing Him In Front Of His Colleagues
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Man Steals Coworker’s Food And She Yanks It From Under His Nose, Embarrassing Him In Front Of His Colleagues

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There is nothing worse than when you put some food in the fridge to eat for later or save a delicious dessert for after you’re done with a tiresome task and find that the food is no longer there. It can really make you want to cry.

Imagine the feeling when it happens at work. You bring something to eat, put it in the fridge and when the break comes, the food is already taken by someone else. This is exactly what happened to Reddit user Steelsnapdragon, but she was lucky enough to catch the thief red-handed. Furthermore, she had the guts to embarrass him in front of others, although not everyone understood her feelings at the moment and didn’t approve of her reaction, so she went to the internet to find out if what she had done was inappropriate.

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An employee publicly embarrassed her coworker for stealing her food, which most people would relate to, but not in her workplace

Image credits: Matt Seppings (not the actual photo)

The Original Poster (OP) said she started a new job in a small studio where she eats lunch at about 1 PM while most of her colleagues go at about noon. One day she decided to go at the same time everyone else went and while she was making herself coffee, the woman noticed her tupperware was in the sink with no food inside.

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Image credits: Steelsnapdragon

She then turned around and saw that her prepared meal was on a plate in front of a man she was not acquainted with. He had already heated the food in the microwave and was just about to eat it.

Being hangry is a real thing, people do get irritated on an empty stomach and actually get in a better mood after eating. That is probably what happened with Steelsnapdragon as she got mad and wasn’t afraid to confront the thief.

The OP was making herself coffee when she noticed her tupperware in the sink

Image credits: Steelsnapdragon

The woman went to him, sat down on his side and took her food from him. Even before the man had time to react and say anything, she started eating it, to the disbelief of everyone sitting at the table.

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The man got his voice back and had the audacity to ask what the woman thought she was doing taking people’s lunch like that. The OP wasn’t going to back down and continued with her sarcasm, commenting on the flavor of the food that she remembered being better when she first cooked it.

Image credits: Steelsnapdragon

At this moment, the man finally realized that the woman sitting next to him was the person whose lunch he stole and the OP shamed the man for being so impudent for stealing someone else’s lunch and then being annoyed when that person took it back.

The thief didn’t have any good comeback and was just stuttering under his breath. He said that he didn’t know the food was OP’s, which is not an excuse, as it wouldn’t have been better if he took any other colleague’s food.

Turns out, a man who didn’t even work at the studio had already heated her food and was sitting down to eat it

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Image credits: Steelsnapdragon

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It seems that the man was really embarrassed as from the story, it is clear how uncomfortable he was and that he didn’t find the words to even apologize properly.

Steelsnapdragon was really annoyed and continued the spectacle for the people in the dining area, thanking the thief for warming up her food for her. Of course, it was all said with an attitude, but after this, the man walked out and the whole room remained in awkward silence for a while.

The OP went to the man and yanked the food and the fork from him, following with some sarcastic remarks

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Image credits: Steelsnapdragon

From the people who saw the scene, there were 2 who thought that she was too rude and could have handled the situation better. As the event left the OP in a bad mood, she wasn’t very polite with them either and a couple of people in the comments actually pointed out that the OP is probably a woman and that is why she was judged for not being nice enough.

It is hard to tell whether the story teller is a woman or a man but by looking through other things she has posted, it is clear she is indeed a woman. Other redditors guessed she was because people often expect women to be polite, submissive and not confronting in front of a man and sadly, they guessed correctly.

When the man realized he took someone’s food, he muttered something and walked away

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Image credits: Steelsnapdragon

Bored Panda reached out to Steelsnapdragon and asked if there were any updates, but since the event happened only on Wednesday, there is not much to tell. She told us, “I didn’t report the thief. I felt my reaction was enough and we don’t have any HR/he works for another studio in the building.” Although she did explain what happened to her boss who seemed to accept her behavior at that time.

We also wanted to know if the comments made her see the situation more clearly and seeing that the comments were mostly supporting her, she felt relieved that she didn’t overreact in the moment. “After the comments I read, I felt a lot more validated in my response as I’ve had some mates tell me I have a knee-jerk reaction to things sometimes. I am a quiet person generally but get loud quickly when I feel someone has overstepped, which I did here.”

Surprisingly, the OP’s colleagues thought that this reaction was not called for and thought she could have been nicer

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Image credits: Steelsnapdragon

When something like this happens, you become wary of leaving your things unattended, but with food, it’s kind of hard not to use the fridge. The OP said she will still be leaving hers in the common fridge but she said she will be putting her name on the lunch box as she has noticed others doing.

The OP herself thinks that the man overstepped and she felt that her reaction was normal as any

Image credits: Steelsnapdragon

In the end, the OP doesn’t regret reacting like she did and thought that she wasn’t being too rude and that she treated the man like he deserved, because after all, food is sacred and theft is a crime. She just wanted to know if there are people who support her as those 2 coworkers clearly disapproved.

Redditors disagreed with the said coworkers and thought that she actually handled the situation epically and respected her for having the courage to be so bold and direct as it’s what a lot of them would want to do but wouldn’t, actually.

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What do you think of the OP’s reaction? Would you have reacted differently? Is food something to be upset over? We would like to hear your opinions, so leave them in the comments!

Other redditors supported the OP and said that she did what anyone would want to do but would not have the courage to

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K Witmer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Idk why people think shame isn't a good deterrent. I think it works better than punishment sometimes. Having to shamefully admit what you did then punishment is probably better.

Cold Contagious
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You usually see lots of comments about making spicy or laxative laden foods for the food thieves, which can be categorized as assault if given the right circumstances. I'd much rather face it head on and nip it in the bud. They deserve to be called out in front of their peers, so everyone knows just what type of person they're working with.

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NsG
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why in the world is lunch thievery even a thing?! I get it if you have two identical Tupperware and you grab and eat the wrong thing (assuming poor labelling as well, which does happen). But to take something you *know* isn't yours? WTF is wrong with people?

CMDR unematti
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How do you not see if not the food you packed tho? Mashed potatoes vs pasta, i think I'd notice even without tasting

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Nikki Sevven
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She was rude?! SHE was rude?! He bloody stole her damn lunch! Never be nice to people like that.

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K Witmer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Idk why people think shame isn't a good deterrent. I think it works better than punishment sometimes. Having to shamefully admit what you did then punishment is probably better.

Cold Contagious
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You usually see lots of comments about making spicy or laxative laden foods for the food thieves, which can be categorized as assault if given the right circumstances. I'd much rather face it head on and nip it in the bud. They deserve to be called out in front of their peers, so everyone knows just what type of person they're working with.

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NsG
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why in the world is lunch thievery even a thing?! I get it if you have two identical Tupperware and you grab and eat the wrong thing (assuming poor labelling as well, which does happen). But to take something you *know* isn't yours? WTF is wrong with people?

CMDR unematti
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How do you not see if not the food you packed tho? Mashed potatoes vs pasta, i think I'd notice even without tasting

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Nikki Sevven
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She was rude?! SHE was rude?! He bloody stole her damn lunch! Never be nice to people like that.

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