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“Equality” Vs. “Equity” Twitter Debate Occurs After A Motoring Organization Revealed That They Don’t Prioritize Lone Women Over Men

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It’s a fact that our society continues to deal with multiple issues regarding the equality and comfortability of the people. Nowadays, we’re strenuously trying our best to fix what’s been broken for what seems like an eternity, but changing the viewpoint of thousands or even millions of people requires hard work and effort.

For women, it’s been a rocky road, at the very least. Constantly proving our significance and fighting for equal opportunities, but instead getting laughed at in our faces and men pulling the “well, you wanted equality” card, when the only laughable thing is their understanding of equity.

A thought-provoking incident occurred with a woman from Bristol, UK, when she had to call a company due to her car breaking down in the middle of the night. The original tweet received nearly 4K likes and a fiery discussion where folks shared their opinions regarding the situation.

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People are questioning this company’s reply regarding a car breakdown

“Equality” Vs. “Equity” Twitter Debate Occurs After A Motoring Organization Revealed That They Don’t Prioritize Lone Women Over Men

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The story divided the people into two camps, where folks attempted to understand which side of the conflict was more reasonable. Some agreed with the company, as they didn’t seem to do anything wrong – others supported the OP in every way.

This motoring organization refused to prioritize a lone woman and blamed it on equality

“Equality” Vs. “Equity” Twitter Debate Occurs After A Motoring Organization Revealed That They Don’t Prioritize Lone Women Over Men

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A woman decided to use Twitter to share her nighttime encounter with AA, a British motoring association. The OP expressed that she was displeased with the way the company handled her situation, as once she called to report the issue, the call handler let her know that they don’t prioritize lone women as everyone is equal.

“Equality” Vs. “Equity” Twitter Debate Occurs After A Motoring Organization Revealed That They Don’t Prioritize Lone Women Over Men

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“Equality” Vs. “Equity” Twitter Debate Occurs After A Motoring Organization Revealed That They Don’t Prioritize Lone Women Over Men

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“Equality” Vs. “Equity” Twitter Debate Occurs After A Motoring Organization Revealed That They Don’t Prioritize Lone Women Over Men

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The OP was highly disappointed to hear such things, as she believes that refusing to prioritise lone female drivers is not a sign of equality. She revealed that waiting for over an hour, god-knows-where, especially during the night is far scarier for a woman than for a man.

In the end, someone from the AA managed to successfully sort the woman’s problem out and get her home completely safe. However, this event provoked some customers into questioning whether they want to contribute to a company that follows such values.

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The AA ended up replying to the woman’s concerns reassuring her that, yes, they don’t prioritize based on gender—however, they do take into consideration the locations and the risks of the situations. The company also mentioned that they haven’t messed with their vulnerable customer policies and that essentially they prioritize everyone who is in danger.

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The head of AA also didn’t miss his chance to reply to the woman’s thread. Edmund King quoted one of the laws that stated how it’s illegal for anyone who’s providing services or goods to discriminate. He followed it up by confirming the AA’s previous tweet and promised the OP and their other customers that they assess the situations and help everyone in a timely fashion.

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Unarguably, women continue to be the number one targets for all kinds of assaults and our fear is very reasonable. Therefore, it’s understandable why the AA’s customers are disappointed with them mentioning equality when the initial issue arose due to a woman feeling unsafe. And since they advocate for helping those who are at risk, why did their response feel rather bitter?

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What do you think about this situation? Do you think that the OP might’ve overreacted or maybe that both parties worded their concerns/responses in a misleading manner?

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Bailey 2 years ago (edited)

The point the AA are trying to make is a completely valid one. She is not automatically top priority because she is a woman, but that does not mean she will not be top priority as it's based on risk and call outs at that time. If it's a choice between a woman who breaks down alone in the middle of nowhere, a family who's car won't start while they were visiting a relative, and a man who broke down outside his work, she would be top priority as she is the most at risk. Equally, if she has broken down 5 minutes walk from home, and a man is stranded on the side of the motorway, he should be the priority. It's about looking at individual circumstances at the time, rather than a tick box to say who gets priority.

71points

just me 2 years ago

Did people miss the party where the company explained it was illegal to prioritize based on sex, it did I misunderstand something? They were trying to give everyone the magic words, if the person mentions reasons to be concerned for their safety. The lady has no idea who was being prioritized over her. A guy with a serious medical condition or something stabbed in the middle of nowhere should take priority over a healthy woman somewhere relatively safe. Not saying those were the circumstances, just a reason they can't automatically prioritize a woman as higher risk.

29points

MyOpinionHasBeenServed 2 years ago (edited)

Exactly. Towing companies don't know the complete situation until the tow truck driver gets there. Not everyone thinks of telling the towing company an emergency situation because they likely have already called someone else. They could have a small child they need to take home. A small kid will always take precedence in the queue. This woman wasn't even in any danger at the end of the day. She was just thinking of the what-ifs. I know dark highways are creepy af, you're imagination can run wild. I used to come along with my now-ex in his tow truck. Came across all types of people. Men were just as relieved to see help as women. It's a dangerous job and tow truck drivers are just as likely, if not more, to be attacked on site. It's a bit of a false security to think your safe when they're there. Often their backs are turned, busy doing their job. When he would get the stolen recoveries one of the cops would always stay to watch over the tow truck driver in case a suspect is nearby.

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Beth L 2 years ago

This *is* equality. It is not equity. Too many people ask for equality when what they want is equity.

28points

Viviane 2 years ago

Equity is based on the principle of leveling the playing field. That means considering variables beyond belonging to the same species. A form of triage, so to speak. Treating everyone the same is not the same as being fair.

28points

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Sarah 2 years ago

Yes! Was just coming to make this same type of comment.

6points

Nunya Bus 2 years ago

EXACTLY! I'm glad someone put this out there. I tell people all the time I don't believe in equality, I believe in equity. And a woman alone has to be priortized because we live in a world where's she seen as a vulnerable victim. If we didn't live in that world then I would say no she should not be prioritized. But we obviously don't. The equity of the situation would be a women alone in the dark in an grim area gets the same priority as a man who broke down in the middle of a busy highway. Both high priority because both are dangerous. But if it's the women in broad daylight at a grocery store then obviously no she doesn't get priority over the guy who broke down in the middle of the highway. And what about kids? Is there gender "equality" there? I'm single dad by myself with a little girl in the middle of the night in a isolated area? No sir we cannot make you a priority over the couple who is stranded in a suburbia area trying to find their way to their daughter's house.

4points

Veronica Sjöberg 2 years ago

Thank you for educating me about this! I say equality pretty often when I now realize I mean equity (and not just about gender but in other aspects too)

0points

Ozacoter 2 years ago (edited)

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Requiem 2 years ago

A man alone on the highway is still going to die just as easy as a woman alone on the highway. I am trained in three different martial arts in how to take someone down hard and fast and I still prefer not to use it. I wouldnt go in to bad areas because of s**t heads or alone on the highway because of WILDLIFE. I pay for premium level road side assistance and Ive only been a "priority" if Im stalled on a highway. NO company on the planet does what this woman wants

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Bailey 2 years ago (edited)

The point the AA are trying to make is a completely valid one. She is not automatically top priority because she is a woman, but that does not mean she will not be top priority as it's based on risk and call outs at that time. If it's a choice between a woman who breaks down alone in the middle of nowhere, a family who's car won't start while they were visiting a relative, and a man who broke down outside his work, she would be top priority as she is the most at risk. Equally, if she has broken down 5 minutes walk from home, and a man is stranded on the side of the motorway, he should be the priority. It's about looking at individual circumstances at the time, rather than a tick box to say who gets priority.

71points

just me 2 years ago

Did people miss the party where the company explained it was illegal to prioritize based on sex, it did I misunderstand something? They were trying to give everyone the magic words, if the person mentions reasons to be concerned for their safety. The lady has no idea who was being prioritized over her. A guy with a serious medical condition or something stabbed in the middle of nowhere should take priority over a healthy woman somewhere relatively safe. Not saying those were the circumstances, just a reason they can't automatically prioritize a woman as higher risk.

29points

MyOpinionHasBeenServed 2 years ago (edited)

Exactly. Towing companies don't know the complete situation until the tow truck driver gets there. Not everyone thinks of telling the towing company an emergency situation because they likely have already called someone else. They could have a small child they need to take home. A small kid will always take precedence in the queue. This woman wasn't even in any danger at the end of the day. She was just thinking of the what-ifs. I know dark highways are creepy af, you're imagination can run wild. I used to come along with my now-ex in his tow truck. Came across all types of people. Men were just as relieved to see help as women. It's a dangerous job and tow truck drivers are just as likely, if not more, to be attacked on site. It's a bit of a false security to think your safe when they're there. Often their backs are turned, busy doing their job. When he would get the stolen recoveries one of the cops would always stay to watch over the tow truck driver in case a suspect is nearby.

8points

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Beth L 2 years ago

This *is* equality. It is not equity. Too many people ask for equality when what they want is equity.

28points

Viviane 2 years ago

Equity is based on the principle of leveling the playing field. That means considering variables beyond belonging to the same species. A form of triage, so to speak. Treating everyone the same is not the same as being fair.

28points

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Sarah 2 years ago

Yes! Was just coming to make this same type of comment.

6points

Nunya Bus 2 years ago

EXACTLY! I'm glad someone put this out there. I tell people all the time I don't believe in equality, I believe in equity. And a woman alone has to be priortized because we live in a world where's she seen as a vulnerable victim. If we didn't live in that world then I would say no she should not be prioritized. But we obviously don't. The equity of the situation would be a women alone in the dark in an grim area gets the same priority as a man who broke down in the middle of a busy highway. Both high priority because both are dangerous. But if it's the women in broad daylight at a grocery store then obviously no she doesn't get priority over the guy who broke down in the middle of the highway. And what about kids? Is there gender "equality" there? I'm single dad by myself with a little girl in the middle of the night in a isolated area? No sir we cannot make you a priority over the couple who is stranded in a suburbia area trying to find their way to their daughter's house.

4points

Veronica Sjöberg 2 years ago

Thank you for educating me about this! I say equality pretty often when I now realize I mean equity (and not just about gender but in other aspects too)

0points

Ozacoter 2 years ago (edited)

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Requiem 2 years ago

A man alone on the highway is still going to die just as easy as a woman alone on the highway. I am trained in three different martial arts in how to take someone down hard and fast and I still prefer not to use it. I wouldnt go in to bad areas because of s**t heads or alone on the highway because of WILDLIFE. I pay for premium level road side assistance and Ive only been a "priority" if Im stalled on a highway. NO company on the planet does what this woman wants

7points

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