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This Couple Celebrating 65 Years Of Marriage Is The Most Beautiful Thing Ever
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This Couple Celebrating 65 Years Of Marriage Is The Most Beautiful Thing Ever

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I was gifted with the honor of shooting Ruby and Harold for their 60th wedding anniversary. Five years later, I was gifted again to document their love of 65 years. Harold is the exact same as I remember him. Cutting jokes and always smiling. Sadly, Ruby’s dementia has worsened. She didn’t remember me or the last time we took pictures together. When she greeted me at the door, she wrapped me up in a tight hug… just like you would hug family you hadn’t seen in a long time. I told her I was so excited to see her and she said, ‘Well, I wish I knew why!’ But wow, her personality was just as sassy as ever!

It’s so sad to know that she won’t remember me or the wonderful time we had together. But she’ll enjoy looking at the pictures and that’s exactly why a photographer’s job is so important. It’s so amazing to see a long-lasting love like theirs! I believe it should be celebrated, documented, cherished, remembered and something to strive for.

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    Flora Polvado
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what happens when you work thru your problems and don't look at divorce as an easy out. I so want this.

    Hanna
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would imagine it would depend on the problems. So many women get into abusive relationships. Problems you CAN'T work thru.

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    Nana
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandparents celebrated their 40th anniversary yesterday! My grandma is 60 and my grandpa is turning 67 this month

    Lara B.
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandparents will be married 65 years next year. So proud of them. They are my heroes and role models :)

    StarryEyedDreamer
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The picture of them holding hands put me in tears. My great grandparents were just shy of 76 years... this makes me think of them.

    Nathan
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's amazing to see this people, I hope every couple end up like this.

    Cheri Sparkes
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aaah so beautiful! I love All of these photographs! The one that really 'speaks to me' is the first one, bc (imho) there is such a truly sweet and delicate intimacy thats evident when someone gently cups their loved ones face while looking into their eyes that's incomparable! I'm genuinely a very lucky/blessed person to have found such a love as theirs, myself! My spouse has endured (right alongside me!)...my long road of challenging (and increasing) health issues, since shortly after we'd met and he has Never once wavered! We've been together since the day we met 23 years ago. Our road together has consisted of many more struggles/pain.. than pleasure, however...having each other has made it all worth it! I wish for everyone to not 'settle' to believe it IS possible to find someone who 'makes your heart, sing!' 😘

    Mibo Dumplings
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    AHAHAHAHASLFKQJJRDJ THIS IS SO CUTE also my parents will be celebrating their 20th anniversary

    MysticalMan
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for reminding us that love is an eternal energy and can last beyond linear memory. Love is.

    Revgirl2017
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't believe in real love anymore but if I did this is what I would want. This is love!

    therealpixie
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wonder, if you added it up, how many of those 65 years they've spent laughing?

    Sandra Gawel
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How beautiful is this precious couple. I wish them many many more years, along with perfect health. God bless them for being an example of hard work, kind words, hugging and smiling. God they are so beautiful

    Louisa Howarth
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So beautiful and powerful. You can imagine them as youngsters looking like that at each other. <3

    g Vineetha
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I literally had tears for that last pic ... Congrats... 😘😘😘

    sosunlight
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beautiful how even with dementia she still so obviously adores him (and vice versa). I hope they never lose that sweet look.

    Eddie77
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would like the Blessing of God and achieve 65 years of marriage with my wife... Congratulations Ruby and Harold!

    endelbendel
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The photos don't tell you that they spit in each other's tea.

    Targaryen
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't really see how he looks at her at these photos, but her eyes are so full of love and admiration when she looks at him... Lovely.

    Flora Polvado
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what happens when you work thru your problems and don't look at divorce as an easy out. I so want this.

    Hanna
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would imagine it would depend on the problems. So many women get into abusive relationships. Problems you CAN'T work thru.

    Load More Replies...
    Nana
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandparents celebrated their 40th anniversary yesterday! My grandma is 60 and my grandpa is turning 67 this month

    Lara B.
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandparents will be married 65 years next year. So proud of them. They are my heroes and role models :)

    StarryEyedDreamer
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The picture of them holding hands put me in tears. My great grandparents were just shy of 76 years... this makes me think of them.

    Nathan
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's amazing to see this people, I hope every couple end up like this.

    Cheri Sparkes
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aaah so beautiful! I love All of these photographs! The one that really 'speaks to me' is the first one, bc (imho) there is such a truly sweet and delicate intimacy thats evident when someone gently cups their loved ones face while looking into their eyes that's incomparable! I'm genuinely a very lucky/blessed person to have found such a love as theirs, myself! My spouse has endured (right alongside me!)...my long road of challenging (and increasing) health issues, since shortly after we'd met and he has Never once wavered! We've been together since the day we met 23 years ago. Our road together has consisted of many more struggles/pain.. than pleasure, however...having each other has made it all worth it! I wish for everyone to not 'settle' to believe it IS possible to find someone who 'makes your heart, sing!' 😘

    Mibo Dumplings
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    AHAHAHAHASLFKQJJRDJ THIS IS SO CUTE also my parents will be celebrating their 20th anniversary

    MysticalMan
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for reminding us that love is an eternal energy and can last beyond linear memory. Love is.

    Revgirl2017
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't believe in real love anymore but if I did this is what I would want. This is love!

    therealpixie
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wonder, if you added it up, how many of those 65 years they've spent laughing?

    Sandra Gawel
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How beautiful is this precious couple. I wish them many many more years, along with perfect health. God bless them for being an example of hard work, kind words, hugging and smiling. God they are so beautiful

    Louisa Howarth
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So beautiful and powerful. You can imagine them as youngsters looking like that at each other. <3

    g Vineetha
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I literally had tears for that last pic ... Congrats... 😘😘😘

    sosunlight
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beautiful how even with dementia she still so obviously adores him (and vice versa). I hope they never lose that sweet look.

    Eddie77
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would like the Blessing of God and achieve 65 years of marriage with my wife... Congratulations Ruby and Harold!

    endelbendel
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The photos don't tell you that they spit in each other's tea.

    Targaryen
    Community Member
    7 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't really see how he looks at her at these photos, but her eyes are so full of love and admiration when she looks at him... Lovely.

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