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A Day Before Her Death, This 27-Year-Old Wrote A Letter, And Her Life Lessons Might Change You Forever

A Day Before Her Death, This 27-Year-Old Wrote A Letter, And Her Life Lessons Might Change You Forever

You might be dissatisfied with your life: not enough money, unfulfilling job, meandering relationship. Perhaps you spend too much time online arguing about politics with strangers. Sometimes we all feel like something is missing, and maybe all we need is a little perspective and a drastic change to start enjoying life.

“If something is making you miserable, you do have the power to change it – in work or love or whatever it may be. Have the guts to change. You don’t know how much time you’ve got on this earth so don’t waste it being miserable.”

These are the last words of Holly Butcher, from Grafton in NSW, Australia. She recently lost her battle with Ewing’s sarcoma, a rare form of usually terminal illness that primarily affects young people. Holly was just 27 when she passed away.

As she came to terms with her mortality as a cancer patient, a heartrendingly painful thing to have to do at such a young age, Holly decided to write an open letter. She wrote about the life lessons she learned, reflecting on the way her experience with stage 4 cancer made her come to value every second of her time on earth. “I’m 27 now. I don’t want to go,” she wrote. “I love my life. I am happy… I owe that to my loved ones. But the control is out of my hands.”

Perhaps Holly’s words, coming from the heart with passion and searing honesty, will help people to see the bigger picture on how to be happy, one that is often lost in a sea of ultimately meaningless stresses and worries that quickly consume our everyday existence. She urges us to grasp the things that are important, and live life to the full. “That’s the thing about life, it is fragile, precious, unpredictable and each day is a gift, not a given right.”

Scroll down to read Holly’s deathbed letter filled with the best life advice, hug your loved ones, and smile, because you are alive!

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    This is Holly Butcher. Recently she posted her final message on Facebook

    The very next day, she passed away from cancer with her family by her side. She was just 27 years old

    Her powerful message has been shared around the world, as people related to her passionate advice to live life to its fullest

    Holly had been diagnosed with Ewing’s sarcoma, a rare form of cancer that primarily affects young people

    “I always imagined myself growing old, wrinkled and grey- most likely caused by the beautiful family I planned on building with the love of my life. I want that so bad it hurts”

    “That’s the thing about life; It is fragile, precious and unpredictable and each day is a gift, not a given right”

    “Tell your loved ones you love them every time you get the chance and love them with everything you have”

    Holly’s words resonated strongly with many people

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    Ilona Baliūnaitė

    Ilona Baliūnaitė

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    I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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    Ilona Baliūnaitė

    Ilona Baliūnaitė

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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