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You may see INTJs as aloof, arrogant, and over-analytical (there may be some truth to that) and most likely they will find no reason why they have to explain themselves. This time though, to set things straight, I will explain why.
Illustration style inspired by Yu Nagaba and Sena Doi.
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INTJ – In Life. At Work. In Love
We like to be moving to the kind of life that we always imagined
We like to learn so we can do things our way
Our curiosity arises from anything. We become immersed with our own thoughts
When ideas are formed, we want to see it through. It excites us to work on those ideas
If our plans end up just as ideas, we get frustrated
We approach problems methodically, even with emotions
It’s draining to have constant social interactions
Bullies get the surprise of their life when they try to bully us
All we really want is some space
To create life long connections we need to get past small talk
We only allow limited number of people in our lives
When you are in, you’re IN
And being IN means you get to see the part where not a lot of people get to see
We just don’t understand why people hate doing things alone
Without the prying eyes, we get to be ourselves
Titles are just labels
Forgive our (hurtful) bluntness
The Achilles heel of INTJs – romance
Waiting for your INTJ to make a move? You will need patience..lots of it
I suggest telling them what you want to say directly. They will appreciate your guts
If one is already hard enough, what’s the sense of making it twice as hard?
Isn’t it great to find someone who finds comfort in silence and you can do nothing with?
Alone but not lonely
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Echo Santos (Post author) 6 years ago
Thanks! Glad that others can relate to it. Btw, I saw your photos, they are amazing!
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Karen Hamada 6 years ago
This article described me to a T in almost all aspects. The illustrations and section titles are great. Thanks for writing, drawing and posting this.
Echo Santos (Post author) 6 years ago
Hopefully this provided a glimpse of our personality and showed our perspective to the people who matter to us.
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Krishna Vishwas 6 years ago
Right in the feels... Its so hard to make ppl understand when we don't want to explain ourselves but we want them to understand the true essence of our complicated personality.
Echo Santos (Post author) 6 years ago
Thanks! Yeah, I feel you. Sometimes I just wish they get why we do, think, act, express things in our own way.
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Giovanni Mahoney 5 years ago
This meant a lot - I feel as if I have someone to relate to. Thank you.
o11op okram 5 years ago
the worst part for love for me as an intj is that when i try i always fail at getting the girl or they end up backing out on the date, but when i don't try the ones i know absolutely nothing about come pouring in. I always have to put them off lightly to morally not seem desperate but then I start think-they're-thinking im playing hard to get (im not making this up) and it just feels awkward right after when im doing daily stuff then constantly think about what if i went out with them and if im being a hypocrite because thats basically the same thing girls i seek do to me. It baffles me everytime because im not even attractive (plus im a guy).
Amalia Barokah 5 years ago
Ha! So relevant to me! But, what I really hard to find is how to explain if I am an INTJ but I love cute and simple things 😂😂😂 Like I am an INTJ and Hufflepuff.
Echo Santos (Post author) 6 years ago
Thanks! Glad that others can relate to it. Btw, I saw your photos, they are amazing!
Load More Replies... Karen Hamada 6 years ago
This article described me to a T in almost all aspects. The illustrations and section titles are great. Thanks for writing, drawing and posting this.
Echo Santos (Post author) 6 years ago
Hopefully this provided a glimpse of our personality and showed our perspective to the people who matter to us.
Load More Replies... Krishna Vishwas 6 years ago
Right in the feels... Its so hard to make ppl understand when we don't want to explain ourselves but we want them to understand the true essence of our complicated personality.
Echo Santos (Post author) 6 years ago
Thanks! Yeah, I feel you. Sometimes I just wish they get why we do, think, act, express things in our own way.
Load More Replies... Giovanni Mahoney 5 years ago
This meant a lot - I feel as if I have someone to relate to. Thank you.
o11op okram 5 years ago
the worst part for love for me as an intj is that when i try i always fail at getting the girl or they end up backing out on the date, but when i don't try the ones i know absolutely nothing about come pouring in. I always have to put them off lightly to morally not seem desperate but then I start think-they're-thinking im playing hard to get (im not making this up) and it just feels awkward right after when im doing daily stuff then constantly think about what if i went out with them and if im being a hypocrite because thats basically the same thing girls i seek do to me. It baffles me everytime because im not even attractive (plus im a guy).
Amalia Barokah 5 years ago
Ha! So relevant to me! But, what I really hard to find is how to explain if I am an INTJ but I love cute and simple things 😂😂😂 Like I am an INTJ and Hufflepuff.
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