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Times are constantly changing. In the majority of the world, women have way more opportunities than they did a century ago, and the technological advancements we've seen in recent decades are mind-blowing. But at the same time, saving up enough to purchase a home is nearly impossible for many young people today, even if their parents had no issues buying a house in their twenties. We all seem to be living in a completely different world than our grandparents had when they were young, but one of the best changes we’ve seen is a decreased tolerance for toxic behavior.

Redditors have been calling out the worst actions that they’ve heard people attempt to justify by noting how common they were in the past, so we’ve gathered some of their thoughts below. From tactics parents used to discipline their little ones to casually driving home after a few beers, be sure to upvote the behaviors that you’re glad have finally become stigmatized!

#1

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) I pointed out that the Mayan and Aztecs' child sacrifice practices weren't any less barbaric because they happened a long time ago, and I got downvoted to hell here.

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TotallyNOTAFox
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup, mentioning atrocities commited outside of european cultures in a respectful way isn't well received on the internet.

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“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) How many witches were burned at the stake during the salem witch trials?

None. There’s no such things as witches, they burned innocent girls and women. Awful.

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FreeTheUnicorn
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No one was burned at the stake in Salem. 19 hangings, one man pressed to death. More than 180 accused were not killed. Many were toetured. It's a stain on our history but so get your facts right.

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“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Open sexual harassment, unwanted touching, SA, etc against secretaries, female assistants, etc by their bosses. Woman were supposed to just grin and bear it.

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“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Doctors going on duty for more than 24 hours straight.

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Tamra
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know how it is in other countries, but here in the US there has been a long-standing culture of over-working healthcare professionals. It's nearly ubiquitous to see doctors and nurses working insane hours, and it makes absolutely no sense.

JJ
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Happens in Europe, too, no matter what the regulations are. Recently I read a comment of a doctor who defended 24 hours shifts and remarked that our health system goes down because millennial doctors are the first generation demanding better work-life-balance. Yeah, blame health workers instead of the sick system relying on overworking, exhausted people.

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Eric Berger MD
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was an surgical intern, we did full weekends... Saturday morning to Monday night... about 52 hours straight. I'd be in the ER actually falling asleep while suturing a laceration! They said "we did it. Man up."

duckie
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People die from that. When I went to hospital on a Saturday, the ER doc was the same one who saw me the next day when I had to come back because my issue had escalated. 24 hours later and she hadn't been home in between. I had to file a complaint for some malpractice that Saturday visit, and I made sure to protest the insane 24 hour shift policy.

WindySwede
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or anyone? Atleast without sleep, and only wake upon emergency?

Susan
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right? And why? If they rotated shifts and worked the same amount of hours per week but spread them out with time to go home to sleep, eat, and relax then they would still have the same coverage at the hospital except that everyone would be performing at higher levels.

Aurora
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's common for doctors where I live to do 24 hour shifts, but it's rare for them to not get 8 hours of solid sleep during the night. Nurses typically do 16 hour shifts and often won't have time for even one food break. We'd get fired if we slept on the job.

Dolly_of TheCowboy
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah quite common where I am to have the junior doctors clock on Friday afternoon and finish Monday morning and as long as there are minimum numbers of them available the others are able to go sleep in their break room for hours at a time while still on the clock and just get woken if needed. Nurses on the other hand doing 12 or 16hr shifts at the same facility (and expected to be back within 12 hours for their next shift) have noticeboards covered with official memos about disciplinary proceedings or instant dismissal if nurses go nap even in their (unpaid) breaks. Their justification is that "nurses must be available for patient care throughout their shifts" and are "only" doing 12 or 16hrs straight but the doctors are there for 48-72hrs so "need to rest where possible because they make the critical decisions". Yeah exhausted people regardless of their job in healthcare make mistake. It is almost like they want scapegoats readily available if a mistake is made...

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Blah Blah Blah
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

EMT-B's and EMT-P and Firefighters are all scheduled to work 24-48 hours sometimes 72. Also interesting fact. MOST EMT's are paid min. wage or slightly over. And no breaks or lunches a lot of shifts as calls are ran back to back as in working straight no breaks for food or sleep 24 to 48 hrs straight. Again and they're paid on average $16 an hour. Some less some more. Welcome to corporate America!

Catpawsarethebest
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's horrible. Think it's a problem in most of the world. I know how horrible I get after missing sleep (a normal amount) cant inagine how they feel after 24 hours! Just horrible! And mistakes will happen. They are humans!!! It's not right to treat them like this!

ynyrhydref56
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How much of this is down to lack of staff, lack of funding, etc etc. A much bigger issue.

Ashlie Ann
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Doctor and nurse shortage in some countries, I'm sadly not surprised. 😔

Liz Mary
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are exceptions such as complicated but life saving surgeries. Not enough Drs to do a tandem team where one takes over from another mid surgery. It's also not always viable. Otherwise no! Really not acceptable. That's how mistakes happen.

nuberiffic
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We won't let someone drive a truck for more than 10 hours lest they cause an accident, but the dude poking around in your heart? Totally cool.

ZestyBison
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Medical errors are the third leading cause of death in the US. You get upset because your sandwich was made wrong.

Heather Talma
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Started, by the way, because the guy who created the system was a cocaine addict, and they put him on a different d**g (can't recall) to cure that but he just ended up addicted to that too. He was constantly on two different stimulant d***s, therefore he never felt tired, therefore he thought it reasonable to work that long.

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#6

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) The way some people treated pets. Leaving them outside. Hitting them.

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WindySwede
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Talking about shooting cats just to prove they are real men.. no you are not, you are covering up some inside insecurity and feel you have to prove you are a real man to cover it up! 🤨🤕

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#7

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Spousal r*pe. It was legal up until 1983 in Canada. It wasn’t until 1993 that it became illegal in ALL of the US; prior to that it was only illegal in 3 as of 1975. I’ve heard some men reminisce about the days when they didn’t need consent from their wives. I’ve even heard women condemn other women for having the “nerve” to ever deny their husbands sex. It’s disgusting.

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“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Bull fighting in Spain.

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Mavis
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The pic looks like a rodeo not bullfighting. Rodeo is also disgusting.

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#9

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Hitting children. Beating up children badly.

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#10

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Definitely slavery, not just because it's a horrible thing to justify but also because people try to justify it *so often*.

One of the most popular lies in America is the lie that the so-called "founding fathers" can't be judged for owning slaves because that was accepted practice back then. In fact, the judge in the British Somerset case called slavery an "odious institution" in 1772: well before the US constitution was written. The abolition movement was very much in full swing in the anglosphere at the time. The Somerset ruling banned slavery in the British Isles in 1772. Canada banned slavery in 1793.

And yet Americans persist in pretending that slavery was widely accepted with no concerns at the time of the country's founding, just because they don't want to admit that the US founding fathers were bad people. They have their very own mythology, complete with heroes and villains, and they will not tolerate harsh criticism of those heroes.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There was also a major push to get abolition into the constitution, but the southern states threw such a hissy fit that the rest caved.

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Just yesterday i had someone try telling me they regretted taking the covid vaccine and that "back than no one took vaccines".

I replied with "and people got polio".

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#12

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) "My parents whipped my butt and screamed at me. I turned out fine."

Umm... no you didnt. You need therapy, boundaries, and a healthier friend group.

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#13

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Open misogyny and sexual harassment in the workplace. I’m a 64 yo professional woman and the behavior of some my male colleagues and superiors was horrible. And no one batted an eye.

Monalisa9298 , Polina Tankilevitch/pexels Report

#14

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Forced marriage.

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WindySwede
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

An scientific education and sexual education should be mandatory for everyone, all over the world! Let go of old s**t!

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#15

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Adult musicians sleeping with puberty-aged groupies. Guarantee every single one of your faves did it or was in a band with someone who did.

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#16

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Throwing rocks at Ruby Bridges.

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Weirdo with Internet
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These people are still alive! This wasn't that long ago and even if it was, still wouldn't justify throwing rocks and insults at a child

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#17

Genital mutilation of children.

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Not Who You Think
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"It's a cultural/religious thing." Maybe you need to take a step back and really pay attention to what you're saying.

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#18

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Automatically needing to respect your elders (and anyone older than you) just because it's the 'right' thing to do, not because they deserve your respect or did anything to earn it, but just because.

PickleFluffy1387 , Andrea Piacquadio/pexels Report

#19

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) All forms of bullying. It looked cool from people in high school according to my classmates. Now some of my classmates were now gone due to bullying. It’s not cool.

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Ace
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bullying was and is never cool. I really don't think anything has changed in this case, it's still just as common and bad as it used to be, just that a lot of it is done via modern tech rather than ust face to face these days.

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#21

Horrific mistreatment of disabled people. It’s still not great on a general global scale, but at least we don’t get left in the woods as infants or stuck in freak shows to entertain the masses.

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WindySwede
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And even just women who be "out of order"? Edit: like put in asylum for being anything her husband/dad didn't want to?

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“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Ownership and the subservience of women. "Back in my day the women didn't vote or work, they waited on their knees for the husband to come home with a hot meal in one hand a strong drink in the other" along with a litany of other female slave fantasies men have of modern women.

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WindySwede
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is also a thing in the bible, if someone hurt a women so she miscarriages, they are supposed to pay money to her spouse or otherwise her father. That is nothing in the line of being an independent individual!

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#23

Lynching black people for failing to show the proper deference to a white man on the street.

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#24

Smoking everywhere--even hospitals.

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Jane Jayne Jain Jeign Jein
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We were doing a good job of limiting smoking areas, but now vaping is taking its place with a vengeance. I regularly see (smell them first) people sneaking a vape inside restaurants. It's illegal and it ruins my meal out. Just selfish w4nkers.

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“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) My grandma was telling us about some random stuff about her life as a kid, the usual, and then she dropped that her neighbor would give her a quarter to see her underwear? when she was like 5-6? wild s**t 

also cheating on your spouse .

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Not Who You Think
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The 25 cents for a little girls underwear peek is truly awful, but I love how "cheating on your spouse" was kind of added as an afterthought.

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“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Listening to stories from older colleagues there is so much stuff that was considered standard practice that would give Health and Safety an aneurysm these days. S**t like handling asbestos with zero protective equipment, even after people started realizing how bad it was for your health! Or guys working with natural gas lighting up a ciggie on the job site and it being perfectly fine because "we're not smoking near where people are working with gas at the moment".

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Marianne
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My family are farmers. 20 years ago, a person would be ridiculed for wearing safety goggles or a face mask while harvesting potatoes. While on the machine, you're exposed to huge amounts of dust that gets into your face. I have asthma and couldn't stand it on dry days. Protective gear just wasn't an option.

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Hazing, overworking and basically bullying new employees. C**p like “it’s character building” or “well, I had to do it”. I think people perpetuate this nonsense because they are basically trying to get some sort of revenge.

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#28

Gay jokes. Go watch movies from the 80's & 90's. Or just watch "Friends," there were cheap gay gags in basically every episode. .

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Marianne
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

True! I was so normal. Also using the term "gay" as a demeaning word in all kinds of situations.

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#29

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) I take care of a 95 year old woman with dementia who had a black lab as a child. The dogs name was “n**ger”. She sometimes talks about her dog and calls it by name, and everyone reacts how you’d expect, and she always says, “He needed a name! A dog needs a name!”

Not sure if it quite fits this thread, but I was reminded of it so I shared.

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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, this one is a little out of place because although that term and the one it's derived from could have an insulting meaning if used in a certain context it was also commonly used in this way, perhaps much more outside the US, just because it means "black", ,with absolutely zero implied reference to people with that skin colour. Some people still get upset when they see "négro" used in languages like Spanish where that is literally all it means.

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#30

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Hitting a spouse. My favorite tv show of all time is “I Love Lucy” and I have such a hard time watching Ricky put Lucy over his knee. Makes my stomach turn.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"POW! Right in the kisser!" -Ralph Kramden to his wife, Alice, in about every episode of "The Honeymooners"

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“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Maybe riding around in the open bed of a pickup truck all over town and highways when I was a kid in the 70s.

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“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Cat calling. Honestly can’t remember a time it was okay, but I’m always confused when guys try to justify themselves with “it’s just a comment. It’s always been like this” when I (a woman) get upset. Like I know my a*s is amazing but keep it to yourself, you know?

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Thank you for attending our wedding today, I knew Wayne was the one when he shouted ‘WHHHHHHOOOOOA B***H, TIDDIES ON FIRE’ out the window of a speeding car”

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“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) My friend quite seriously told me she didn’t understand the issue with Bill Cosby because quaaludes were all the rage and this is just how it used to be for women around men. Never thought I’d see myself storming out of a Los
Angeles McDonald’s in anger but sure enough it did indeed happen.

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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had to read that twice to confirm the friend was indeed a woman. Talk about brainwashed! (Spelling edit)

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“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Not back then, but in the present.

I have heard from a relative that pregnancies of indigenous children in my country are normal because it is "part of their culture".

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The comments here are weird y’all can go look for yourself-but also, wtf? Kids shouldn’t be pregnant. Period.

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#35

“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) Drinking and driving. Every adult over 60 wants me to understand why those were the good ol days.

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Ace
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Rubbish. I mean yes, is used to be a lot worse, i.e. more common, but you really won't find many people who would suggest that it was better back then as a result.

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Enforced poverty.

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Jane Jayne Jain Jeign Jein
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This has always been a popular policy amongst capitalists - without poor people, nobody would work for sh1t wages in their dangerous factories.

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#37

Racism.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think I understand where Strings is coming from. When the CEO of Barilla pasta made a neg comment about including LGBT in their ads, I thought something along the lines of "thanks for letting me know where you stand so I can buy your competitor's product". It's not endorsing hate speech, but it's how we know we are dealing with @-holes.

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“What's The Worst Thing People Have Tried To Justify With ‘It Was Normal Back Then’?” (40 Answers) "When I was starting out, our bosses abused us 10 times as badly as what you get pampered with, you don't know how good you got it".

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#40

Smoking at 12.

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