It was all going really well until she saw a group of people with various disabilities when we were going for a walk and proceeded to tell me how, while she had nothing against the disabled, they made her physically ill because of how "messed up" they are and she wished there were limits on how much they could be out in public.

I told her, as a person with an invisible disability of my own, that she made.my skin crawl and that she should be limited on how much she can be in public.

There was obviously no second date.

Cunt_Cuntly , ELEVATE Report

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We were about the same height and he said I could never wear heels around him. Little did he know, I can do what the f**k I want.

Waste_Coat_4506 , Godisable Jacob Report

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After ordering a really expensive meal and drink, after I had offered to buy dinner. Plate: 50 dollars. Drink: 25. Like holy s**t. I will admit I went with it until:

“I want to date someone like you but not you, I was going to tell you earlier but I was hungry” then she went and made plans with another dude for after our meal.

I went to the bathroom and then snuck out when our food was brought. I dunno how she paid for that because I ordered something equally as expensive.

I know you cant force attraction, but f**k you b***h.

I blocked her as I left.

Hotmanwhore , Pixabay Report

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“If we do this long term, I’m gonna call the shots, you won’t work, you’ll stay home and raise the kids, you won’t be allowed to leave the house and only have friends over that I approve of, you’ll have life 360 on your phone with me being the only one to access it, and we’ll sell your car too so you have money to buy the heels I want you to wear and the makeup you’ll wear everyday” so I took a hard pass

Jynxed_Out , Crypto Crow Report

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“You know that cancer is a hoax perpetuated by big pharma and the government preying on the uneducated, right!?!?” He says to me, a cancer survivor who’s life was f*****g derailed by cancer…

AccomplishedCow9133 , Polina Tankilevitch Report

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‘You don’t want any more kids? Don’t worry, I’ll change your mind and you’ll enjoy carrying my child.’

There was no second date and I ended up having to block him everywhere.

lupum121 , Camylla Battani Report

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"What are you, a F****t?"

Because I declined to sleep with her on the first date... I don't sleep around, it's not for me. All power to you if that's something you enjoy, but don't pressure someone into it by questioning their sexual orientation. I also don't find it particularly attractive to be calling people slurs because you didn't get your way.

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"I was reading about plus size models today. What do you think about plus size models considering you're a bigger girl?"

I am 5'4" and 125 lbs. He was not being sarcastic. Dude had the most warped sense of body image I've ever encountered. Joke's on him though because his head was shaped like a lightbulb.

pineapple_blurt Report

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“Stop pulling away when I try to kiss you because people are looking and it makes me seem rapey”

Whatsername2020 , Samantha Gades Report

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wistfully after 2 wines... "God, you are so amazing, such a shame you look like that."

bonjelascott , Natalie Bond Report

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"So, aren't you going to invite me to your place? I bought you lunch. You kind of owe me." from a guy I met ONCE and had breath so bad I am surprised it didn't melt the fork.

randommusicfan , Jason Briscoe Report

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First date, I order a mocktail and he says, “I’m not going to pay for your drinks unless there’s alcohol in them.”

Taney34 , Toni Cuenca Report

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- asked me the worst crime I’d commit if I would get away with it. I said steal a few million from a bank. They said they’d “dahmer” someone

Index_Wool , Celyn Kang Report

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"I don't mind that you're... you know." *waves hand vaguely at my body*

StrangersWithAndi , Alex Green Report

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We had a fun night having a personal date and then we pull up to his house for his birthday party, where I’m about to meet his family for the first time. He turns to me and says, “Oh btw my parents don’t like Mexicans.”

I am Mexican.

LosNava , Askar Abayev Report

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It wasn't what was said, but what was not said, because her face was buried in her phone screen the whole evening. She was shocked when I told her that we would not be going out again.

Necessary_Board_3116 , Angelo Moleele Report

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Not exactly a date, but at a dance when I was a teenager I sat down for a breather after I'd been dancing for a long time. Right then a slow song started and a couple girls came up, one of them introduced me to her friend and asked me to dance with her because nobody had asked her to dance yet. I felt really bad for her and said heck yeah, everybody deserves to dance. She spent the whole time talking about how I'm such a piece of garbage for sitting down when there are girls like her who haven't been asked to dance. I kept trying to change the subject, she just ignored me and kept trash talking me, so I walked away mid-dance.

ParkityParkPark , Ardian Lumi Report

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He asked me how frequently I would want sex if I were in my ideal relationship. I said 2-3x a week. He told me that means I'm a sex addict and that sex more often than once a month isn't really required for intimacy or connection between partners.

(Hey, if that's his level of drive, cool.... but no need to shame someone for having a higher drive than yours.)

geminiloveca Report

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Her phone rang. She answered it. I expected it was a friend calling to see if she wanted to be saved.

She got concerned and hung up and said “that was my ex. He got arrested. Can you bring me to the police station?”

So I did. I even helped them fill out some paperwork so he could get released. I took them to his car and she looked at me. I laughed and said “The date was over hours ago. Go” and she got out and they drove away.

BackItUpWithLinks , Kindel Media Report

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Your job is to sit there and look pretty.

(After I shared an opinion about something)

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"I can tell you are an only child because you have major personality flaws".

OliveVizsla , Tirachard Kumtanom Report

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On a date with my wife, 12 years in. "I don't think I love you anymore".

Out of the blue.

uniquestar2000 , Christian Erfurt Report

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“You know, you’d be really pretty if you didn’t have that whole jew nose thing going on. Have you thought about getting it fixed?” This was after the movie and make-out. I’m ashamed to say that 17 yr old me didn’t tell him to f**k off like I should’ve. It just gave me an insecurity about my nose.

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"A lot of people think my brother is gay. But he's not. I know. I've seen his penis a few times. And he's not gay. His penis doesn't look gay. I mean, he got hard."

1. I paraphrased.
2. The girl saying it was 18 and her brother was 25ish.
3. Mega-religious family.

cgulash , Alan Quirvan Report

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He got angry when I said I did not want to go further than kissing and denied him putting his hand under my shirt. His argument: "I have a relationship with your whole body! Not just your head!"

DiscoPino , Katie Salerno Report

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First date from a dating app. I could tell he was maybe a touch too desperate based on the texts we exchanged. However, he was also whip smart and almost finished with grad school, so I still agreed to go out. We didn’t have a spark, which I noticed immediately. On the other hand, he was oblivious to it. No big deal. Then, he suggests a walk after dinner. I agree like an idiot. On that walk he proceeds to tell me that his ex girlfriend cheated on him, that he thinks he’ll always love her, even though she cheated on him with his best friend, and she gave him an STD. And the worst thing I ever heard on a date was, “But don’t worry- it’s one of the ones that clears up on its own." NOPE

thedivinemissemm , Good Faces Agency Report

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I told him I would like to just pay for myself and he pay for himself so I don't feel uncomfortable ordering what I want. Fine. He dislikes every option we had to eat out except the one place I don't like. Whatever, I'll deal with it. We go, he orders seafood and several cups of wine. The check comes eventually and he stares at it and says "so you're paying? I didn't bring my wallet." I was instantly pissed off. On the way back to his house (I parked my car there and then we carpooled together to the restaurant) he stops at a Arby's and asks if I want anything and I said no then proceeds to bust out his fkn wallet and pay for his meal. Heated. Then he blew up my phone when I didn't want to go on another date and didn't respond back with "well, it's your loss"

EDIT:I'd like to change my answer. It was 10 years ago, I was extremely drunk and me and this date I had a were playing a drinking game in a group of my friends and roommate. He said "never have I ever molested my sister" then took a drink. My roommate physically threw him out of our apartment and I passed out on my couch.

Chemical_Reality4606 , Towfiqu barbhuiya Report

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After what I thought was a good date, we went for a couple of drinks, at the end of the night she told me "wow you really are a great guy, I just wish u were good looking"

joshd1106 , Crew Report

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"Wow, my boyfriend would love this place!"

Edit: This was about 25 years ago. I'm very happily married (obviously to a different woman) and things are awesome. But to all you folks getting stuck with bad dates, I see you and I wish you the best.

parkinglotguy , cottonbro studio Report

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"you're ugly and your art sucks"


Got me both from the outside and inside..

Any_Presentation2958 , Greta Hoffman Report

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