50 Times Women Took Down Toxic Men Online (New Pics)

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Almost so well done except that comparing stealing one’s personal items with being raped is a poor parallel and objectifies women by equating the sanctity of their entire being, physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health with the value of material possessions.

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Thank you.

Men use rape as a power move, regardless of who they're raping.

Nearly a quarter (24.8%) of men in the U.S. experienced some form of contact sexual violence in their lifetime. 81% of women, 43% of men 1 in 3 women Nationwide, 81% of women and 43% of men reported experiencing some form of sexual harassment and/or assault in their lifetime. https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics

I've known a couple of men who were raped when they were younger. They only felt comfortable telling me after finding out I've been raped. They have ever inch the psychological damage I have. I don't know the odds, but I know they aren't zero. No one should ever have to go through it.

and less people like their unfortunately awful son :(

Absolutely. MILs get a bad rep, but most are nice

And the FIL/grandpa backs his wife! Sonny boy dug his pit, fell in it, and needs to feel the consequences.

Yep. Most of them make excuses for their "precious" boys.

Amen!!!

I love this distinction.

Yes. Isn't that a private problem? I mean, you don't need your Willie to be operational at all times ... I mean, I get that it isn't really something anybody is looking forward to, and that it may be indicative of other health issues if that sets on at an early age ... but still, for society to work, not that many boners are required. And, if boners are of public interest, enough so to pay for their reliability, how much more so is ending a pregnancy that the pregnant one doesn't want to ... fully perform, in lack of a better wording ... ?

In America, of course...are tampons and pads given the same tax breaks?

Someone told a racist joke while interviewing me for a job. I pretended not to understand it and he got flustered and said "Forget it". I still got the job and he retired right after.

"If he really likes me, then he should bring me flowers" - I replied once (I was about 11 or 12 :)))

My Mom once told me that, as a teenager in the 1950s, boys would punch girls in the arm, and the girls were supposed to pout and say "Ow, that hurt. Wow, you're so strong!" My Mom said she wasn't popular because she'd hit 'em back! My Mom was unique.

I can remember my aunt saying this to me all the time when I was a kid and being bullied. I haven't spoken to her in decades and my life is so much better for it!

I was being told that from the age of FIVE. Oh yeah, that rotten little brat who keeps stealing your hat at preschool just does it because he likes you! I guess in subsequent years when he started vandalising my things and hitting me and throwing things at me, that also meant he liked me?

An other creepy one is being told it's a compliment when men are hitting on you when you're twelve since you're so "mature and adult for your age".

Can't help but wonder if boys growing up hearing that learn to think it's ok to be mean to girls they like.

I got that a lot. “Oh, he’s only chasing you and hugging you if he catches you because he likes you!” Yeah, well I don’t like him, and I’d like to sit in peace without this kid trying to put his filthy paws on me.

One of the worst things about that one, is that even though it seems to be used more commonly on girls (judging by this thread), it was also used on me too, it doesn't matter what gender either of them are, we need to stop normalizing allowing abuse, harassment, or bullying of any kind in any shape of form.

He only kicked you down the stairs because he likes you

When what adults SHOULD be doing is teaching boys from a young age that it's not ok to abuse girls, or anyone for that matter.

...and most likely said from a woman that dealt with it! perpetuating you own trauma onto your kids IS a thing!!

My tiny kindergarten daughter was being bullied by an older boy. I called, sent emails, spoke to her teacher & nothing was done. He must like her was said more then once. She had stomach issues due to stress! At 5 years old! I taught her some self defense moves and gave her permission to use them. The next time he pulled her hair, she kicked him as hard as she could in the balls. THAT got their attention. LST - I threatened to file a sexual assualt charge against him for pulling her pants down and told his parents that he would have to register as a sex offender and that it would follow him all his life (no idea if that was true). They transferred him to another school the next day. Don't ever F*CK with one of my kids.

Not saying its right. But it's accurate. and I'd rather tell my child the truth and explain that that is how some children get attention, and let them know the truth about life, than to tell them to be a stuck up lil c**k to the girl picking on him, cuz she just hasn't been taught how to appropriately get the attention she is probably seeking. Yes. Even if it's friendship or even if it's something more, at the age of 9 10 and pre teens. Not all kids know how to deal with their new feelings and or the fact that maybe it's ok to be friends with the opposite sex. So yeah I see the point but I strongly disagree. My child, Yeah my SON went through this and it does not mean I'm teaching him to put up with abuse. *smh*

I'm friends with girls and I don't want to sleep with them but if they are uncomfortable I ask what's up I'll get an answer or I'll get slapped

Love your user name! Not sure if there are other references but it reminds me of Horrible Histories!

You don’t have to be Christian to be moral. And certainly not all Christians are moral.