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40 Women Share Stories About Men Who Confidently Mansplained Something Obvious To Them
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The term “mansplaining” is a relatively new one. After first being innovated by the author Rebecca Solnit in 2008, it allowed women to describe a common experience they share for which they never had the terminology. “Mansplaining” went beyond the generics like “patronizing” and “presumptuous” and shed light on a profoundly negative side that men explaining things to women has.
Unfortunately, unsolicited explanations from men who are neither your teacher nor your manager are all too common. But to see the level of absurdity and obviousness of the things women have mansplained to them, we have to look at the actual instances that happened to them in real life.
So when Twitter user Nicole Froio, who’s a PhD on sexual violence and masculinity, asked women to share “the most obvious thing a man has ever mansplained to you,” the answers started pouring in one after another. Both ludicrous and plain irritating, they speak thousands of words about power imbalance and gender bias, which shouldn’t be the case when we live in 2021.
Read more irritating mansplaining cases as shared by women in our previous article right here.
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H Edwards 3 years ago
I witnessed an American man trying to explain a Spanish girl's name to her. He was insisting that one of her names was a 'middle' name, and she was patiently saying that names work differently in Spain. She finally snapped and said 'I know what my own name is'. He was also manspreading in the worst possible way. It was quite hilarious to watch.
Bored Panda reached out to the author of the thread, Nicole Froio, who is a feminist writer and researcher. Nicole explained that “mansplaining is one of many daily aggressions women go through in a sexist and misogynistic society, so it has to be understood as a part of a larger system of oppression rather than an isolated incident.”
It comes from the assumption that “women and other non-men don't have the intelligence to understand the topic at hand, which is a sexist and misogynistic assumption. The mansplainer will explain something that the woman probably already knows already, usually in a condescending and infantilizing way.”
According to Nicole, it depends where the act of mansplaining happens. For example, when it’s in a professional setting, “this can result in the woman in a professional setting feeling disrespected and/or inept for doing their job, they could feel like they've been publicly humiliated in front of their colleagues and feel a general loss of respect for her expertise."
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Paul K. Johnson 3 years ago
I don't know the situation there and it sounds like he was a moron. I've written a lot of code and at least a couple of times someone told me what it was really doing which wasn't what I thought it was doing. So they were right. I wrote in a bug and they caught it.
For the men who’re wondering about not coming across as mansplainers, Nicole says that simply asking can go a long way. “Instead of assuming a person doesn't know about a certain topic, why not ask 'Do you know how this works?' or 'I'm not sure if you're familiar with this, but if you do, feel free to stop me.'” These simple questions can correct the behavior that might accidentally harm someone.
Even though Nicole said that mansplaining is not one of the worst things experienced by women in a patriarchal system, she sees it wrong because “it rectifies the gender structure on an interpersonal level.”
“For example, you might be a woman in a male-dominated industry where your expertise is already undervalued because that field is male-dominated, and then one of your colleagues mansplains a simple concept everyone in the office is familiar with.”
Such cases can do long-term harm to women. “This can lead to things like imposter syndrome and an unwelcome work environment for women, where people's suspicions about the woman's supposed lack of expertise are rectified by the mansplaining."
When asked how one should react to being mansplained to, Nicole said that personally she finds being assertive quite important when responding to mansplaining. “I usually respond by saying things like 'Thanks for explaining, but I already knew that' or even interrupting the mansplainer and saying 'Sorry to interrupt, but I already know that, so we can move onto the next topic instead of wasting time?’”
Your response can just be a gentle nudge to the fact that you are knowledgeable and that you don't need an explanation, Nicole concluded.
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Annika Jorgensen 3 years ago
Maby it's more a case of he learned and read up about it and wanted to share it? My partner did the same for our son, not that he was be the breastfeeder xD. But i was happy that he took his time to read up and understand allot of things about having kids. And even if me and his mom already knew things. It's not hard to just listen, and be happy that at least they try instead of not caring about it.
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Carrie Laughs 3 years ago
I said something about that very issue to my sister who had no idea of the direction one should wipe.
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Donkey boi 3 years ago
I didn't even know there were such things as trucks with 36 gears! Does it work like bicycle gears?
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Samantha Lomb 3 years ago
In fairness I have met a lot of people who didn't know the political history of their home country. And no they were not just Americans. Some of my Russian students have said some really funny stuff too, like when one tried to tell me the statue on the main square was Stalin. Its a bearded bald guy who is pretty obviously Lenin. And my colleagues used to have students tell them in English about the history of their home town ( Kirov) and none of the students seemed to know who that was despite the town being named for him and us having statues of him dotted around. In fairness I study Soviet history, but they would say, "Let's ask the American" and then I of course knew who Sergei Mironovich was and students would study harder for their next dialogue.
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Samantha Lomb 3 years ago
I'd suggest he also go look up infant and maternal mortality rates in Africa and then report him
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Periwinkle 3 years ago
Do they get a kick out of wrongly declaring things for women? Alternate drug high?
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troufaki13 3 years ago
In most of these cases, a woman could just as easily said these stupid remarks. It's just stupidity and ignorance, not mansplaining.
Hello 3 years ago
It's both. There isn't a term called "womansplaining", but the idea behind mansplaining and 'womansplaining' is being ignorant and dismisve.
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Hans 3 years ago
Just a few days ago, we had a "mansplaining" post and most people will agree that the term is merely a sexist stereotype for behaviour that simply shows a lack of respect, gender of either side notwithstanding. In case of this list, most of these are not even when the term supposedly should imply, but examples of rude beaviour from men towards women, typically not really "explaining" something but merely stating it. Therefore, the whole post is boring but to those who want to be infuriated.
Full Name 3 years ago
I think the VAST majority of mansplaining incidents are not that at all. I know lots of dudes who "mansplain" things to men all the time. They're just idiots. It's not a sex thing so stop looking for something to be offended by.
Mohammad Ammar 3 years ago
Exactly! Mansplaining is like "ok boomer", there's some truth to it but now it's just used to dismiss people.
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Noez 🇸🇪 3 years ago (edited)
Last time I got manspained I was told that -10 C (or 14 F) "really wasn't cold at all" and I was wrong to think that, and while this might be somewhat true as -30 C is not unusual here in Sweden, the way someone perceives different temperatures is individual. Certainly in the context this was said which was at what temperature would we think it was a little bit too cold to take out the garbage, and I answered -10 C. But uhm, yeah, I was wrong.... 🙄
marianne eliza 3 years ago (edited)
I am and was a car girl. Vintage Mustangs. Walking into a mall with then current bf. Passed a parked '67 mustang fastback. I pointed it out as we walked past and made a few comments. BF said that it was a '68. I said no, a '67. Another guy walking past said yep, a '68. We had continued to walk as we had an appointment. After some more back and forth, I insisted we go back outside. It was a '67.
Datsuyama 3 years ago
I have a confession: I was under my car working on it when my wife came by and was chatting with me... I asked, "Honey can you hand me that screwdriver over there... the one shaped like a star..." She replies: "YOU MEAN THE PHILLIPS?!?!?!?" oops... yeah, that one :)
Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago
My boyfriend did that to me too! Like, I moved into your house with a huge toolbox. That you borrow regularly. Come on!
Load More Replies... Just JoLynn 3 years ago
The closest I came to experiencing mansplaining was when a guy I was riding bikes with, single speed beach cruisers mind you, tried telling me I didn't know how to ride a bike. We were side by side, riding down the strand. I just thought he was a douche and never went out with him again.
Aiden Brough 3 years ago
Ahh... 'Mansplanning'! I had a female customer accuse me of this and of being 'condescending' when I tried to explain to her that the invoice she was querying wasn't correct. I say 'incorrect' because it wasn't from my company, and I say 'customer' because she wasn't actually - she had rung the wrong company... Still... At least she apologised. Well, she just got unbelievably pissy with me when I pointed out dumbarsedary and she slammed down the phone. Still... Made me laugh!
Ozacoter 3 years ago
Not mansplaining per se but it reminded me to a conversation with my partner. His father told us that if we wanted to have a boy we shouldnt drink tap water "because of the hormones turn the baby into a girl". I said nothing about that stupidity because I didnt want to be rude but when we were back home I explained my partner how sex determination works in mammals. He believed his father (a informatic teacher) rather than believing his girlfriend (a biologist). Men can be really sexist without even realizing.
Sara Rosen 3 years ago
Fire. FIRE! Why does every single man think that building a fire is some sort of specialized skill that only he has!? "You need to put the kindling on first," Yeah, no s**t buddy. "It needs air" Yeah, a child know that. "Actually....I'll do it." EVERY.TIME.EVERY. MAN.
AndersM 3 years ago
Thank you!!! The same here. I thought it was just because I was a man.
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David Retsler 3 years ago
These posts are idiotic. If you go looking for something to be misogynistic then guess what? You'll find it! I know "I am woman hear me roar." All of you women who get butt hurt over a male attempting to be helpful just put the women who are truly strong, skilled, talented, and smart at even more of a disadvantage. But then, the truly strong, smart, talented women don't have time for this bullshit because they're busy being strong, talented, and smart while you caress each other's asses to heal the butthurt with more "men are pigs" nonsense. Signed, a pig.
Lauren Caswell 3 years ago
I'm glad you signed correctly there, ol' pot and kettle :)
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Aliquid A 3 years ago
I often wonder how to join a conversation without being accused of mansplaining. I like to understand how things work, I find trivia fascinating, and I like to share what I have learned with others... Doesn't mean that I assume I'm 100% right. So what I have started to do with any conversation regarding a topic that someone has experienced personally is "You probably know better than me, but I heard that _____", or "Is it true that ____", or "I'm no expert, but I thought that ____"
deanna woods 3 years ago
I have had things explained to me by both men and women and in both cases, it was embarrassing and hurtful because they made me feel like I was stupid. Anyone who feels the need to always be explaining something to people is rude and has some self esteem issues.
Viviane 3 years ago
I normally have no issues with someone younger teaching me something or giving their perspective or supervising me, but (drum roll)... Someone young enough to be my daughter felt that I could learn a thing or two about life from her -- apparently, I have no life experience to speak of and she's the font of wisdom. Luckily, I rarely see her and last time I did, she ignored me (maybe because I had earlier yelled at her, "We're all individuals!!!!"). Sometimes, ignorance is bliss :)
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Neurotic_Octopus 3 years ago
My ex describing to me, a neuroscientist, how oxytocin works (incorrectly). A relative claiming to have the vestibular disorder that I have had since I was 16 (he does not). Countless students (I am their professor) arguing that my requirements are wrong.
Rakjell Hanwell 3 years ago
I agree with the other commenters below, that this isn't a gender issue. I am a man working in childcare and I have been 'mansplained' by women from the very beginning. There have been trainees, who tried to explain to me, who at that point had been in this job for five years, how to change a kid's diapers. Some coworkers wanted to 'explain' to me how to soothe an upset child, while I was already calming them down, as if there was one single way of doing it and I wouldn't be able to understand an emotional situation unless they give me a step-by-step tutorial. When I talk to other men in my field, it seems like a lot of gendered issues are not gendered at all and have more to do with which group of people is in the majority/in charge. It has been implied that we 'steal' jobs from women. That we only got our jobs because we are a minority in this field of work. And, something I doubt many women have to deal with, that we are potential criminals and predators.
Barbara Skolly 3 years ago
Some of these are legit. But some would have likely happened to men too. Not everyone who treats you poorly is doing so because you are a woman (or any specific reason), they may treat you poorly simply because they treat everyone that way. Also I find sometimes one may just be enthralled or enthusiastic about a certain topic and start spewing about it in excitement... sometimes to the wrong crowd though. For example the musician who is having thei work explained back to them, it could just be a bumbling nervous fan who will cringe forever at the memory
Fidgets McGee 3 years ago (edited)
It seems that the urge to explain things when it is totally unnecessary comes from an urge to take control of a situation. Which men in our society have traditionally been expected to do. It might sting more in situations where women have fought hard to gain respect and acknowledgement, such as careers, or in childbirth, which we were biologically designed to do 😅
kurisutofu 3 years ago
Most of them don't fall into mansplaining to me ... It's just obnoxious people. I mean, I'm a man and I had a few of them told to me too (explaining me my code, if you don't think about the pain you would not feel it etc)
Cordi Schmidt 3 years ago
Why do all of these seem to happen in US? (live in Europe) I haven't encountered mansplaining from anyone else but Americans. Or maybe I was just really lucky???
Joonscrab 3 years ago
Indian here and it happens here! I think it happens everywhere, you're just lucky either location wise, or just as a person
Load More Replies... Samantha Lomb 3 years ago
Gotta love a comment section full of people trying to mansplain mansplaining. It's so meta. And no its not just idiots. It is specifically men making assumptions about a woman's competence and expertise based on her gender while ignoring things like her qualifications. I get it all the time particularly from the subspeicies that is the wikipedia warrior. I'm like hey I have a PhD in Soviet history and that's not true and they will be all "wikipedia says .. . " or tell me to read Solzhenitsyn ( whose works are classed as fiction for a reason), tell me to "do my research" or just break out the insults because I challenged what they think its true. Mansplaining is real and super annoying because it happens all the time.
Mohammad Ammar 3 years ago (edited)
It's real but it's not something that can be accurately pinpointed. You can't always know if the man made an assumption based on your gender or is just like that with everyone. I'm a man and I've had thing's explained to me as if I were an idiot .Is that mansplaining?
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Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago
Nah, it’s beyond idiocy. What else can we call it that makes it clear that it’s about sexism too? “Sexplanation?”
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Rita Shapiro 3 years ago
I think what is most infuriating is the obvious overlooking of a woman's skills, expertise, knowledge, background, intelligence, authority, and competency. It's as if these ladies weren't professionals, did not write the book, or haven't already demonstrated their bona fides. Happens constantly and truly, it's almost universal when a certain type of man speaks to any woman. The fact that men have to jump into the comments to explain how these instances are not really mansplaining or that it's simply untrue or that womensplaining is a THING is objectively hilarious, gross, frustrating, and seriously recursive.
Barbara Baldwin 3 years ago
I'm 71 years old. No health problems....but! My Dr said women my age, on average, take 8 to 12 prescription drugs a day, so I left his office with 6 different prescriptions in hand....which I tore up and threw away..
Anna Repp 3 years ago
I've seen my share of mansplaining, but as an immigrant to the US I also get a lot of "immigrantsplaining" or whatever you can call it... It is when people hear that you speak with an accent and try to explain the simplest things to you as is you just arrived from the stone age before the wheel was invented.
Bex 3 years ago
I had a guy ask me to proofread an essay for him. After I did and fixed the errors, his friend read it and changed all my fixes back to the originals. My friend said his friend was right bc his friend was in community college - his friend was using the text book I had helped write and edit at my job, which I had to earn a Masters Degree to have.
Larai 3 years ago
Every time I go to my aunts house this man proceeds to tell me how to drive the car and park properly, like turn left, turn right, move slowly, I mean I drove from my house on the very busy expressway but I'd be damned if I knew how to drive on this little street. I just smile and follow his instructions
Elena Vasss 3 years ago
I guess because I do not know the context but half of these stories can happen with a woman, too. Its just that not all people are as smart as others.
Nikki Sevven 3 years ago
Condescension knows no gender. In the spirit of equity and equality, I hereby propose that we stop calling this practice "mansplaining" and return to calling it "condescension."
AlmightyOne 3 years ago
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Sean Egan 3 years ago
And I only say that because I went looking for the tweet to read more replies and couldn't find it. Then I realized how long ago it was from.
Load More Replies... Chu Yue Ling 3 years ago
Frankly, I've been glad of the odd mansplain when I've not known how to open the fuel cap at a busy petrol station!!!!
ingion1 3 years ago
whats the point of this article?That we all men are stupid,patronizing and presumptuous by default characteric of our gender and that is the common experience of women who have to unfortunately cope with this alien specie?Cause i take an oath that i thought till now that stupidity and ignorance has nothing to do with gender and we can even be stupid within our own behaviour and thinking as individuals from time to time and different circumstances.This article is as bad and wrong as if the roles could be reversed and instead of men where women saying these or other things.And not fun or light matters bored panda promises at all
Kari Panda 3 years ago
In 99% of these cases we can‘t know if it‘s mansplaining or not because we don’t know how these men treat other men. Maybe they‘d explain the same stupid stuff to other men because they’re simply arrogant assholes.
Stille20 3 years ago
Trying to plan a wedding in a pandemic. I explained to my dad what a challenge it is and getting a venue is very competitive right now. Next week I complained that another venue option fell through...he explained to me it's very competitive right now because of the pandemic....seriously!?
Charlotte A. 3 years ago
My mum does that to me all the time. "Yeah I know mum, I'm the one who told you that last week, remember?"
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troufaki13 3 years ago
In most of these cases, a woman could just as easily said these stupid remarks. It's just stupidity and ignorance, not mansplaining.
Hello 3 years ago
It's both. There isn't a term called "womansplaining", but the idea behind mansplaining and 'womansplaining' is being ignorant and dismisve.
Load More Replies... Hans 3 years ago
Just a few days ago, we had a "mansplaining" post and most people will agree that the term is merely a sexist stereotype for behaviour that simply shows a lack of respect, gender of either side notwithstanding. In case of this list, most of these are not even when the term supposedly should imply, but examples of rude beaviour from men towards women, typically not really "explaining" something but merely stating it. Therefore, the whole post is boring but to those who want to be infuriated.
Full Name 3 years ago
I think the VAST majority of mansplaining incidents are not that at all. I know lots of dudes who "mansplain" things to men all the time. They're just idiots. It's not a sex thing so stop looking for something to be offended by.
Mohammad Ammar 3 years ago
Exactly! Mansplaining is like "ok boomer", there's some truth to it but now it's just used to dismiss people.
Load More Replies... Noez 🇸🇪 3 years ago (edited)
Last time I got manspained I was told that -10 C (or 14 F) "really wasn't cold at all" and I was wrong to think that, and while this might be somewhat true as -30 C is not unusual here in Sweden, the way someone perceives different temperatures is individual. Certainly in the context this was said which was at what temperature would we think it was a little bit too cold to take out the garbage, and I answered -10 C. But uhm, yeah, I was wrong.... 🙄
marianne eliza 3 years ago (edited)
I am and was a car girl. Vintage Mustangs. Walking into a mall with then current bf. Passed a parked '67 mustang fastback. I pointed it out as we walked past and made a few comments. BF said that it was a '68. I said no, a '67. Another guy walking past said yep, a '68. We had continued to walk as we had an appointment. After some more back and forth, I insisted we go back outside. It was a '67.
Datsuyama 3 years ago
I have a confession: I was under my car working on it when my wife came by and was chatting with me... I asked, "Honey can you hand me that screwdriver over there... the one shaped like a star..." She replies: "YOU MEAN THE PHILLIPS?!?!?!?" oops... yeah, that one :)
Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago
My boyfriend did that to me too! Like, I moved into your house with a huge toolbox. That you borrow regularly. Come on!
Load More Replies... Just JoLynn 3 years ago
The closest I came to experiencing mansplaining was when a guy I was riding bikes with, single speed beach cruisers mind you, tried telling me I didn't know how to ride a bike. We were side by side, riding down the strand. I just thought he was a douche and never went out with him again.
Aiden Brough 3 years ago
Ahh... 'Mansplanning'! I had a female customer accuse me of this and of being 'condescending' when I tried to explain to her that the invoice she was querying wasn't correct. I say 'incorrect' because it wasn't from my company, and I say 'customer' because she wasn't actually - she had rung the wrong company... Still... At least she apologised. Well, she just got unbelievably pissy with me when I pointed out dumbarsedary and she slammed down the phone. Still... Made me laugh!
Ozacoter 3 years ago
Not mansplaining per se but it reminded me to a conversation with my partner. His father told us that if we wanted to have a boy we shouldnt drink tap water "because of the hormones turn the baby into a girl". I said nothing about that stupidity because I didnt want to be rude but when we were back home I explained my partner how sex determination works in mammals. He believed his father (a informatic teacher) rather than believing his girlfriend (a biologist). Men can be really sexist without even realizing.
Sara Rosen 3 years ago
Fire. FIRE! Why does every single man think that building a fire is some sort of specialized skill that only he has!? "You need to put the kindling on first," Yeah, no s**t buddy. "It needs air" Yeah, a child know that. "Actually....I'll do it." EVERY.TIME.EVERY. MAN.
AndersM 3 years ago
Thank you!!! The same here. I thought it was just because I was a man.
Load More Replies... David Retsler 3 years ago
These posts are idiotic. If you go looking for something to be misogynistic then guess what? You'll find it! I know "I am woman hear me roar." All of you women who get butt hurt over a male attempting to be helpful just put the women who are truly strong, skilled, talented, and smart at even more of a disadvantage. But then, the truly strong, smart, talented women don't have time for this bullshit because they're busy being strong, talented, and smart while you caress each other's asses to heal the butthurt with more "men are pigs" nonsense. Signed, a pig.
Lauren Caswell 3 years ago
I'm glad you signed correctly there, ol' pot and kettle :)
Load More Replies... Aliquid A 3 years ago
I often wonder how to join a conversation without being accused of mansplaining. I like to understand how things work, I find trivia fascinating, and I like to share what I have learned with others... Doesn't mean that I assume I'm 100% right. So what I have started to do with any conversation regarding a topic that someone has experienced personally is "You probably know better than me, but I heard that _____", or "Is it true that ____", or "I'm no expert, but I thought that ____"
deanna woods 3 years ago
I have had things explained to me by both men and women and in both cases, it was embarrassing and hurtful because they made me feel like I was stupid. Anyone who feels the need to always be explaining something to people is rude and has some self esteem issues.
Viviane 3 years ago
I normally have no issues with someone younger teaching me something or giving their perspective or supervising me, but (drum roll)... Someone young enough to be my daughter felt that I could learn a thing or two about life from her -- apparently, I have no life experience to speak of and she's the font of wisdom. Luckily, I rarely see her and last time I did, she ignored me (maybe because I had earlier yelled at her, "We're all individuals!!!!"). Sometimes, ignorance is bliss :)
Load More Replies... Neurotic_Octopus 3 years ago
My ex describing to me, a neuroscientist, how oxytocin works (incorrectly). A relative claiming to have the vestibular disorder that I have had since I was 16 (he does not). Countless students (I am their professor) arguing that my requirements are wrong.
Rakjell Hanwell 3 years ago
I agree with the other commenters below, that this isn't a gender issue. I am a man working in childcare and I have been 'mansplained' by women from the very beginning. There have been trainees, who tried to explain to me, who at that point had been in this job for five years, how to change a kid's diapers. Some coworkers wanted to 'explain' to me how to soothe an upset child, while I was already calming them down, as if there was one single way of doing it and I wouldn't be able to understand an emotional situation unless they give me a step-by-step tutorial. When I talk to other men in my field, it seems like a lot of gendered issues are not gendered at all and have more to do with which group of people is in the majority/in charge. It has been implied that we 'steal' jobs from women. That we only got our jobs because we are a minority in this field of work. And, something I doubt many women have to deal with, that we are potential criminals and predators.
Barbara Skolly 3 years ago
Some of these are legit. But some would have likely happened to men too. Not everyone who treats you poorly is doing so because you are a woman (or any specific reason), they may treat you poorly simply because they treat everyone that way. Also I find sometimes one may just be enthralled or enthusiastic about a certain topic and start spewing about it in excitement... sometimes to the wrong crowd though. For example the musician who is having thei work explained back to them, it could just be a bumbling nervous fan who will cringe forever at the memory
Fidgets McGee 3 years ago (edited)
It seems that the urge to explain things when it is totally unnecessary comes from an urge to take control of a situation. Which men in our society have traditionally been expected to do. It might sting more in situations where women have fought hard to gain respect and acknowledgement, such as careers, or in childbirth, which we were biologically designed to do 😅
kurisutofu 3 years ago
Most of them don't fall into mansplaining to me ... It's just obnoxious people. I mean, I'm a man and I had a few of them told to me too (explaining me my code, if you don't think about the pain you would not feel it etc)
Cordi Schmidt 3 years ago
Why do all of these seem to happen in US? (live in Europe) I haven't encountered mansplaining from anyone else but Americans. Or maybe I was just really lucky???
Joonscrab 3 years ago
Indian here and it happens here! I think it happens everywhere, you're just lucky either location wise, or just as a person
Load More Replies... Samantha Lomb 3 years ago
Gotta love a comment section full of people trying to mansplain mansplaining. It's so meta. And no its not just idiots. It is specifically men making assumptions about a woman's competence and expertise based on her gender while ignoring things like her qualifications. I get it all the time particularly from the subspeicies that is the wikipedia warrior. I'm like hey I have a PhD in Soviet history and that's not true and they will be all "wikipedia says .. . " or tell me to read Solzhenitsyn ( whose works are classed as fiction for a reason), tell me to "do my research" or just break out the insults because I challenged what they think its true. Mansplaining is real and super annoying because it happens all the time.
Mohammad Ammar 3 years ago (edited)
It's real but it's not something that can be accurately pinpointed. You can't always know if the man made an assumption based on your gender or is just like that with everyone. I'm a man and I've had thing's explained to me as if I were an idiot .Is that mansplaining?
Load More Replies... Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago
Nah, it’s beyond idiocy. What else can we call it that makes it clear that it’s about sexism too? “Sexplanation?”
Load More Replies... Rita Shapiro 3 years ago
I think what is most infuriating is the obvious overlooking of a woman's skills, expertise, knowledge, background, intelligence, authority, and competency. It's as if these ladies weren't professionals, did not write the book, or haven't already demonstrated their bona fides. Happens constantly and truly, it's almost universal when a certain type of man speaks to any woman. The fact that men have to jump into the comments to explain how these instances are not really mansplaining or that it's simply untrue or that womensplaining is a THING is objectively hilarious, gross, frustrating, and seriously recursive.
Barbara Baldwin 3 years ago
I'm 71 years old. No health problems....but! My Dr said women my age, on average, take 8 to 12 prescription drugs a day, so I left his office with 6 different prescriptions in hand....which I tore up and threw away..
Anna Repp 3 years ago
I've seen my share of mansplaining, but as an immigrant to the US I also get a lot of "immigrantsplaining" or whatever you can call it... It is when people hear that you speak with an accent and try to explain the simplest things to you as is you just arrived from the stone age before the wheel was invented.
Bex 3 years ago
I had a guy ask me to proofread an essay for him. After I did and fixed the errors, his friend read it and changed all my fixes back to the originals. My friend said his friend was right bc his friend was in community college - his friend was using the text book I had helped write and edit at my job, which I had to earn a Masters Degree to have.
Larai 3 years ago
Every time I go to my aunts house this man proceeds to tell me how to drive the car and park properly, like turn left, turn right, move slowly, I mean I drove from my house on the very busy expressway but I'd be damned if I knew how to drive on this little street. I just smile and follow his instructions
Elena Vasss 3 years ago
I guess because I do not know the context but half of these stories can happen with a woman, too. Its just that not all people are as smart as others.
Nikki Sevven 3 years ago
Condescension knows no gender. In the spirit of equity and equality, I hereby propose that we stop calling this practice "mansplaining" and return to calling it "condescension."
AlmightyOne 3 years ago
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Sean Egan 3 years ago
And I only say that because I went looking for the tweet to read more replies and couldn't find it. Then I realized how long ago it was from.
Load More Replies... Chu Yue Ling 3 years ago
Frankly, I've been glad of the odd mansplain when I've not known how to open the fuel cap at a busy petrol station!!!!
ingion1 3 years ago
whats the point of this article?That we all men are stupid,patronizing and presumptuous by default characteric of our gender and that is the common experience of women who have to unfortunately cope with this alien specie?Cause i take an oath that i thought till now that stupidity and ignorance has nothing to do with gender and we can even be stupid within our own behaviour and thinking as individuals from time to time and different circumstances.This article is as bad and wrong as if the roles could be reversed and instead of men where women saying these or other things.And not fun or light matters bored panda promises at all
Kari Panda 3 years ago
In 99% of these cases we can‘t know if it‘s mansplaining or not because we don’t know how these men treat other men. Maybe they‘d explain the same stupid stuff to other men because they’re simply arrogant assholes.
Stille20 3 years ago
Trying to plan a wedding in a pandemic. I explained to my dad what a challenge it is and getting a venue is very competitive right now. Next week I complained that another venue option fell through...he explained to me it's very competitive right now because of the pandemic....seriously!?
Charlotte A. 3 years ago
My mum does that to me all the time. "Yeah I know mum, I'm the one who told you that last week, remember?"
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