Women Share The Times They Had To Explain Something They Thought Was Well-Known To Their Partner (45 Answers)
Ignorance might be bliss, but only if you are not bothered by half the planet thinking you are a moron. But the “fun” part of ignorance is often not actually knowing how little you know until that illusion is broken by another person explaining something.
Women on the internet shared the times they had to explain something they thought was relatively well-known to their partners. So scroll through and be sure to upvote the most unbelievable examples women gave. If you have a similar tale, please share it in the comments, you might even end up teaching someone something.
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not my partner, but just another man, but i feel that a lot of men think this way. he didn’t believe catcalling happened, or at least was _really_ rare, because he had never seen it happen and he hangs out with girls all the time
we informed him that was because no one was going to catcall a girl who was hanging out with a 6’3” 230 lb black man.
I don't believe in murder because no one ever murdered anyone in front of me
I believe that catcalling and harrassment is really rare, WHEN I'M AROUND. Which is why I tell all my friends (male or female) that if they ever feel unsafe to call me.
27 years in construction and I've only seen catcalling once. It was a group of bricklayers on a large, multimillion dollar house that i was on the framing and trim crew for a guy who was himself a large commercial builder. The house was set back a good 500 feet from the street. You couldn't even see what the women looked like from the house but these three would cat call any female walking down the street. Every other person on the job from all the other trades thought it was embarrassing, and looking back I don't know why nobody said anything to them. One day, while they where working on a large chimney, from inside the chimney, two women go walking up the street . They stop laying brick and start catcalling. Then the two women turned into the driveway! They shut up real quick and ducked down inside the chimney. Turns out it was Mrs. Homeowner and her designer. I think they stopped after that. Never seen anything like them before or since.
Not quite catcalling but when I bought my first apartment several years ago and learnt DIY so I could do stuff myself, I was CONSTANTLY ignored at hardware stores. It's like the old men that work in them cannot process that I am there as a customer and not just a woman waiting for her bloke to finish his manly hardware store shopping. I literally had to start bringing my Dad or brother with me to get served and they refused to believe that I couldn't get any service because they did.
No one’s ever been sexually assaulted in front of me, but I still believe it happens.
Yeah - and men don't often think we get approached for money, that misc men will just sit by us in airports, bars, planes (switch seats, even), cornered or cut off from friends while walking in groups, and this list is endless. They don't believe it because it doesn't happen when they're around.
If you're a man, guess what you're going to see? Virtually all of these are "Man dumb".
I would get catcalled all the time when out with my husband. I've found that to some men, there r no obstacles
That not everyone likes hugs or having their personal space invaded. My daughter and I do not like being touched but I am okay with him invading mine however my daughter is different. I had to explain to him that my daughter really does not like being hugged or having her hand held which he never thought of because his kids all love it. He said he felt really bad and apologized to her. He made her promise that if he ever does anything she dislikes she needs to tell him.
That's really a good thing that he apologized to her and let her be honnest on what she feels ! I like it
Yes, that's a good guy! He listened, apologized, and changed his behavior.
Load More Replies...My MIL doesn’t get the issue. She thinks it’s rude I don’t force my children to hug her. They aren’t even her grandchildren and she hates us! And BODY AUTONOMY!
I'm a man and I don't like being touched either. I wish my cousin's wife would stop wanting to hug me every time she sees me.
In some families hugging is the normal way of expressing joy in seeing someone. If you are reared in such a family you will automaticly do so. But if you are not reared in such a family you can get uncomforable by that. Have you tried to explain that to that person.
Load More Replies...The best partners recognize and acknowledge when they have unintentionally crossed a boundary, and adjust themselves to respect it.
My ex once saw some leftover period blood in my underwear; it was kinda dark reddish brown. He was super grossed out asking if I shat myself. I explained old blood was brown. He was disgusted. Anyway, he's an ex. LOL.
My wife had an accidental leak on a bedspread. I tried to hide it, but she saw it and was embarrassed. I told her not to be and that it wasn't a big deal. I can't imagine being embarrassed by a bodily function with someone you have been with for 30 years. I am trying to raise my daughter to never feel that way. Normalize periods and all the hassles that come with them!
My first ever period, I thought I'd had diarrhoea. I had no idea what to expect.
Omg same! I was so embarrased and I don't know how I managed to tell my mom (who explained it to me) and not keep it as a secret for the rest of my life LOL
Load More Replies...Starting from the top, pockets. For men they are an afterthought, indeed, some pants even have too many, like that small, thin inner one made famous by Steve Jobs and the iPod nano in 2005. As a man, I can say that I have never used it in my entire life, which seems like an unfathomable luxury for women who tend to have, at best, some rear pockets. So the natural question is why this discrepancy?
There are a few theories. One is that it’s a result of post-war fashion trends where women's clothing needed to have a “slimmer” appearance. A quick and easy trick was to simply remove them altogether or at least make them so small as to be practically useless. The result is that even now, on an average selection of women's jeans, the pockets are roughly 48% shorter and 6.5% narrower than men's.
A partner told me that women and girls shouldn’t fart. I had to explain that we have a digestive system that produces gas just like men.
Except for the "like chocolate and rainbows" you're absolutely right.
Load More Replies...Once I shut down my three boys who were in a farting spree. One of them said that girls did fart, too. I retorted that of course they do. They just don't feel the need to make à press announcement every time...
On average a woman's digestive system produces more hydrogen sulphide than the one of a man does
I wish my farts didn't smell as bad as they do. No matter what I eat, they smell like something crawled into my butt and died there. At least with the right diet I mostly just need to pass gas right before going to the bathroom, it's like the s**t is announcing itself before arriving. lol
Load More Replies...No ma'am. You hold those farts in until your bowels explode, like a lady.
Tell them to try holding it in and see if they enjoy the bloated, can’t move feeling, too.
I am always so.... weirded out by men who think that women shouldn't or can't fart or do #2. I mean.... do they think we are literally full of sh1t!?? How are we supposed to get our waste out of the body? Are we doing an opposite-bird (their pee is in the poop)? HOW DO YOU THINK WOMEN'S BODIES WORK!?!? Because I can't even begin to imagine what your answer could possibly be. Smh
He was in the bathroom with me while I was changing my tampon and he was like "There's no such thing as a stupid question, right?" And I was like no, of course not, ask away. In the most quiet, shy voice I've ever heard him use, he asks: "so.. does it feel even a little bit pleasurable when you put it in?" I'm his first girlfriend. it was honestly really cute
I think it’s good and healthy to ask questions as it builds trust. I kinda like this one
The time Charles said he wished he was a Tampax to Camilla. Just. SO CRINGE.
I would take the fact he asked as a good sign. Instead of making assumptions and dying on that "hill" like so many do. And it says a lot that he felt comfy asking OP
I think that Stephanie Meyer Junior, whatever her name is e-something heard this guy’s question the night she wrote The Tampon Extraction scene…….to be clear: mere insertion and extraction of phallic objects, phallus or otherwise, is not stimulating.
One time my friend told me her boyfriend pulled her tampon out with his teeth. I am still grossed out by that honestly.
Load More Replies...Sweet that he just asked the question🥰 For me the feeling when a dentist puts those cottonrols in you're cheek and under you're tongue feels most like it.
That I wasn’t cheating on him.. he was seeing vaginal discharge in my underwear
*facepalm*
What the f**k ? But to be honnest, as a girl nobody never explained to me that girls has vaginal discharge, and I learned it the hard way when I felt like I was peeing myself in school !
Nobody tells you that it can bleach your underwear either.. I thought there was something wrong and did an online consultation with the Dr, to find that it was perfectly normal.
Load More Replies...That was my (very angry) ex...he told me he had tons of women and not one would have had this ever...he also insisted that it just isn't possible...yeah..great times..😄
I truly amazed at how clueless men r about women. When I took sex Ed in school, we learned about men's bodies. I have to imagine they learned about ours
I'm getting creeped out by the number of guys inspecting their SO's underwear. I've been with my husband for 32 years and he's never done this. Most normal guys don't.
I don't know that inspecting is the right word. Easy to see if on top of the washing pile, or if you are doing the washing yourself
Load More Replies...Men are so uneducated about women's bodies. I don't really know why either because we learnt all this stuff in school...in lessons that the boys were also it. It's like they zone out and refuse to learn.
You're right, we zoned out big time. I think most of my friends at the time thought they we're going to be given tips on how to hookup and have sex. Some men should have had to take this class multiple times into adulthood.
Load More Replies...EWWW what kind of CONTROLLING FREAK goes looking through your underwear for semen??? Why would it even be in there you don't keep them on when you f**k
It leaks out after a man cums in a woman. It can leak out for hours or a day or so.
Load More Replies...Another factor may have been the development of clothing since the medieval ages. At the time, ropes around the waist had the function of a belt, so to carry around items, special bags were created that you could simply hang from your waist. By the 17th century, these pouches started to be added directly onto the item of clothing. But as women's fashion shifted to more layers, these same pockets were “unnecessary,” which also led to the invention of the handbag. To find out more, check out our article about this topic here.
My ex said it was 'cringe' that I use panty liners. He kept complaining about it to me, saying I should stop using them. I said no each time. Then he got pissed and said, 'You probably get wet all the time — that's why you have to use them!' and I was like: 'Seriously? You're getting a PhD, and you don't even know the female body? It's normal to have discharge for women, and it has nothing to do with being horny.
Discharge is suuuper annoying. I hate pads but I also hate feeling like a pissed myself so it’s just a whole situation.
Wait until you hit menopause. I saw this picture the other day, laughed and peed a little. That was a new development. penis-face...6d6e18.jpg
When I was younger, my discharge was so much that I HAD to have something.
Honestly, human biology education has to be overhauled. The extent of ignorance - in males and females - has to be addressed.
I’m glad I’m not the only one that does this. My mom always said it was normal and I didn’t need to use liners for just discharge. But I absolutely HATE the feeling of it on my underwear and my body. It’s worth the $5 for a huge pack of liners rather than feeling nasty.
I had to explain to my boyfriend, who was very much annoyed by the fact that my period came and went as it pleased, that I can't just manually regulate it myself to make it punctual each month. It was...an experience for sure. Made me realize I indeed should have sued my period for being so unreliable (how dare it?! It be your own, fellas)
This doesn’t surprise me at all. I remember my sister-in-law telling me she had to explain what a period even WAS to my brother when they were first married. My family didn’t talk a lot…..🤷🏻♀️
Well, tbf, she *can* manually regulate it to be punctual each month, if she uses birth control pills. Perhaps his previous partner/s did, and so he assumed that all women could?
Thought of this, too. But I certainly wouldn't put it past them to also think it's generally something in women's control, or at least to the same level of control as pee and poop.
Load More Replies...Brings up an interesting hypothetical: Ladies, if you could push a "delay" button on your periods, would you do it? In this hypothetical, you could delay them for no longer than a year -- so you could have 6 or 9 months without a period (no, not talking about pregnancy, lol), but then after that time, you'd have to "catch up" and have all of those missed periods back-to-back. I'm sure many of you would love to be able to delay for a day or a week, here and there, but would you ever go for a longer stretch of time, if it meant you had to have a much longer "catch up" period later on?
And no, it doesn't build up. If you take birth control, you prevent the egg from being released into the uterus. The period's purpose is to "flush" out an unused egg by shedding the uterus lining, but if there's no egg to be flushed, no lining will be flushed.
Load More Replies...1. You can’t spot reduce fat with specific foods or specific workouts. You can isolate muscle groups to increase mass, for sure! But fat leaves where it wants to leave and there’s no cheat code that broccoli has that allows it to pew pew away belly fat. 2. No, the vaccine did not make you magnetic. It’s scientifically impossible for an injection of that size, *even if it was pure ferromagnetic metal*, to hold up a magnet. Your skin is sticky and would also hold up a piece of plastic. Besides, why put a tracker in you when you do it for free by carrying a cellphone.
Oh my Goddess! That chip that was imbedded into the vaccine for the purposes of tracking and *controlling* us poor, brainwashed sheeple was my favorite! I’ve been divorced from the father of my two sons for 30+ years. All I’ll say is that mental illness, just like every other illness, gets progressively worse the longer it goes untreated. My “boys” are adults now, with families of their own. Feeling that “biological father” grants my ex too much dignity and credence, they’ve agreed that he is “Biological Steve.” In their email correspondence, Steve directs them to The Daily Caller for the real news, not the fake news and the lies from the mainstream media. There was a link to a new “tracking and controlling chip.” Further investigation revealed that the chip was designed to monitor blood sugar. It requires an additional device, about the size of a deck of cards, to be attached to the outer arm, for the batteries, hardware, software, etc. Hardly able to be kept a secret…
And the chip should be microscopic to be injected by the sort of needles that are used for vaccines. They probably have never seen the microchips used in pets and cattle and the needles used for injecting those. You would know if those sort of chips are injected into you. 😁
Load More Replies...I think we all know by now they mean the Covid vaccine. No need to be spurious.
Load More Replies...I mean, it isn't really fair that the first place I lose fat is in my tits, though.
How is this a woman-to-man thing? I'm sure there are plenty of misinformed women who believe the above items, as well.
I presume it was this specific person who is female and had to explain it to a man
Load More Replies...On a lighter note, why are eggs often in the dairy section? While this misunderstanding isn’t exclusive to women or men, it might be useful to know how this decision was originally made. The most common explanation is that both generally need refrigeration. However, this is an American regulation, as many countries do not actually require eggs to be kept cold. And even if this rule exists, why are they not kept with the meat? The real explanation might be that eggs are fragile, just like many dairy products and their containers. Since fragile and non-fragile items won’t be moved together, it makes some sense that these two would just end up together.
Why women put their phones in their back pockets. He was shocked when I stuck my hand down a front pocket to demonstrate how shallow it was.
I can fit about half my phone in the back pockets of most of my pants.
Load More Replies...Even the back pockets aren't deep enough for a phone - see the photo here. And if I forget my phone is in back pocket when I go to the bathroom, it will fall on the floor or worse, into the toilet. So if in a public restroom, need to precariously balance your phone on the toilet paper roll. Just give us pockets that work!
Do guys not have to take their phone out of their pocket to sit on the toilet? I figured everyone does that lol
Load More Replies...This is why I buy mens jeans, there's very little difference in the fit and POCKETS!
I wouldn't want to sit down with one in the back either.
Load More Replies...i've resorted to making my own pockets. every dress I make I put pockets in too.
Umm... i am a guy and i almost always carry my phone in my back pocket, my front pockets are for keys and stuff
I just don't buy enormous phones and always try putting my phone in the front pocket when trying on a pair of jeans. If I can't get it to fit, I don't buy those jeans. I have a One Plus 6 and I buy my jeans at Target.
I bought my last phones by the size (small) but even the smallest grow bigger and bigger every year (I don't buy every year. More like every 3-5 years and always older models because they are smaller)
Load More Replies...I'm shocked your pants have front pockets lol jk but I have two pants with fake back pockets and that annoys the hell out of me
Personally I always carry my phone in a belt ... sheath? holster? case? Anyway, I don't think I've ever seen a woman do that. I imagine that society would be horrified to see a woman breaking up the smooth lines of her clothing. "Not proper", don't you know?
That it’s not normal to drip pee outside of the toilet, and if you do, you either need to clean it up or start sitting down
Is it worth it to stand up to pee at home? Esp. when living with someone else? Because if you miss, either you're a butt and don't clean, or just paper and water isn't gonna remove all the urine. So then you gotta get a sponge and and some bathroom cleaning solution all while you could have just rested your legs for a minute sitting down.
I asked my husband if it were difficult to aim & he said it's not. When I mentioned the number of people who say it is, he looked perplexed and said, "I don't see how, unless they have a really small pizzle?"
It's not about aiming at all -- at least that's not the most common issue. Yes, some men aim wrong and create a big mess. But most of what you see from men having used the toilet is overspray. You can aim perfect bullseye in the middle of the bowl, and still have overspray. It doesn't come out in a perfect stream like a laser pointer -- there are little droplets that emit from the main stream. That, plus the occasional splashback from hitting the water in the toilet. I live alone, so of course i stand to pee, because it's way quicker and more convenient -- and then just do an overall cleaning of the toilet and surrounding area on a weekly basis. But when I'm in a home where women live, I still pee standing up, but also take a few squares of toilet tissue and wipe around the rim afterward.
Load More Replies...When my bf moved in with me, that was one non-negotiable rule: Sit to pee! (Or take over cleaning the bathroom... guess which he chose? LOL)
Honestly, this should be number 1. I want to slap the mothers of every guy who does this and refuses to use the toilet in a civilized manner.
I remember watching a video of a man showing his wife how hard it is to aim at a toilet while peeing standing up. He asked his wife to try to direct water coming our of a garden hose that was held between her legs, into a bucket in front of her, when the water was turned on. No hands ofcourse! It was hilarious! I ofcourse agree with the cleaning after any accidents.
This is just self-involved behavior. It’s not that he “didn’t know”; it’s that he just plain didn’t care. He could drip all over the bathroom & not care because he didn’t have to clean it. As long as some woman (his mother, his sister, his girlfriend, his wife, the cleaning lady) comes along behind him & cleans, why should he learn to do better??
All the precautions I take when going out at night. He didn’t have a clue how many rules we memorize like (check the back seat, jump in and immediately lock the doors, ignore anything found on your windshields or windows, etc.)
Am I the only girl who doesn’t feel unsafe at night? Edit: Glad I’m not the only one. It’s so sad reading all the women who feel unsafe at night so your replies cheered me up a bit
When I walk in a dark neighbourhood, maybe. Otherwise, no. But I think it depends where you live.
Load More Replies...What is so sad is that women SHOULD NOT have to feel this way about just going out of the house.
I had just left the entrance to my garage to take the garbage down for the next morning. It was probably 9p.m. I noticed a car coming down the street slowly and then it just stopped. I put the bags down and went back into the garage until it left. It's a quiet neighborhood but, I wasn't taking any chances.
A month ago I was getting in the car with my 13 year-old son. A note was on the windshield so I jumped out to grab it. Got back in the car to read it. He said, "You shouldn't do that! It's not safe! That's how someone can attack you in the parking lot". Smart, safe young man!!!
Another common theme and divergence in experience is how commonly women experience catcalling versus how infrequently men even hear it. The global statistics are not pretty, with nearly all women in Mumbai, India having experienced it at least once, while in Australia the proportion was 87%. Some women experience it significantly more, as roughly 35% of UK women say they are catcalled or similarly harassed at least once a month.
Women can't hold their menstrual fluid in like you do with urine. At the time I explained this, we were in our early twenties and he was well-educated with a college degree. He's also very, very intelligent. I was utterly gobsmacked he didn't know this.
What did he think tampons and pads are for then I wonder? 😅 Or did he just think we're all too lazy to hold it in?
"Or did he think we're all too lazy to hold it in?" Apparently, there are indeed men who think like that. I've read anecdotes of guys who think women plan when to have their period, use it as an excuse to take extra bathroom breaks, and/or question why we don't just push it out all at once & get it over with.
Load More Replies...Yeah ! In high school I had a friend of mine that told me "I thought it was like a faucet, and you can hold it", and I was like "?????" That's why it's important to educate everyone about the menstrual cycle ! Just saying that it happen once a month isn't enough
When I was growing up (70s and 80s) in very conservative N.Ireland, information about sex and all associated functions was considered to be dirty and on a strict “need to know” basis. I like to think that subsequent generations have been better educated but it seems not in this case.
I always want to ask men who think this, "sir, can you hold in your sweat when you're hot?"
Yes I can for a while but it requires a lot of concentration and I end up exhausted and (I think I) sweat more afterwards as a result. So often not helpful. I appreciate this isn't a common skill though. Point accepted
Load More Replies...Utterly gobsmacked is such a good way to tell you're british without telling you're british
I'm American, and I've been utterly gobsmacked all my life. I haven't the foggiest where I heard it.
Load More Replies...My ex-partner believed that abuse only existed under the guise of physically assaulting someone. He assumed that just because he wasn't hitting me, he was a great catch that I was lucky to have.
Psychological abuse takes far longer to recover from. Idiot. Hope all is better.
I legit thought "I wish he hit me so I would have a reason for leaving him" and didn't realize how f****d up that was. Like I didn't have the right to do that 'just' for not being happy with him? Generational trauma repeating itself, it was. Only later finding a waaaay more balanced relationship with open communication and mutual respect taught me how terrible me and my ex were together, and how terribly he treated me just for having perfectly normal needs.
Same. I read a thing in the magazine "10 Signs He's Abusing You" and by 4, I was in tears. He threw the magazine at me telling me (top volume) that he was not abusive.
Again, this is not a situation of him being uneducated or ignorant about the thing in question. This is a situation of him not caring because HE IS ABUSIVE. Of course he doesn’t “recognize” abusive behavior…because he’s doing it!! He’s not stupid; he’s controlling.
I had to explain that we attach pads to the underwear, not our vagina.
I know what you meant but I can't help but imagine using maxis and winning a brazilian person for free lol
Load More Replies...Just a very kind reminder that vulva (outside parts) and vagina (inside) are not the same thing. Knowing the difference helps - at the doctor’s and in bed. ♥️
Well, if we’re explaining things, best to make sure they know that the outer part of the genitalia is the vulva, not the vagina.
When I got my first menstrual I was too scared to tell anyone, I put the pad on myself , looked at it but wasn’t sure, you guessed I stuck it on myself, I was screaming a lil after peeling it off, saddened that it’ll always hurt, had the guts to tell my mom what happened, she laughed and laughed and laughed
When I got arrested I wasn't wearing any panties. They don't give you any when you get a uniform. My period comes and all they have are pads for females. I had to explain to the male guard why using a pad doesn't work without underwear. He thought you stuck them on to yourself rather than into your panties. It was one of the most awkward conversations I've ever had!
A lot of guys seem to think you just kinda seal everything up with it. Stick it to your vulva instead of to your underwear.
Load More Replies...Some of the examples here are also particularly humorous, albeit a bit sad because they actually apply to both genres. Peeing after intercourse is important for both a man and a woman in the sense that it can help protect you from a UTI (urinary tract infection, in case this is all news to you,) however, it will not help with pregnancy or STDs. So stay safe. In general, the amount of ignorance about the human body is staggering, given the amount of interest many people have in actually seeing someone’s body. It’s like saving all year to go to a museum, then refusing the audio guide or any research at all. If you want to see some more examples of things women have to deal with, check out Bored Panda’s other article here.
My husband, as an adult, did not know that the male gamete would supply either the x or Y chromosome that would determine the sex of the off spring. He told me he would be upset if I did not give him a male child and I was like, you know all I have to give is an x right? He was very surprised to learn that he would need to bring the y to the table and did not even believe me at first. I had to produce sources. In the end he did not bring his y game, but he’s still here and he loves being a girl dad.
Remember that douche bag that got upset at his gender reveal party and smashed up the sign when it came out pink, while his pregnant wife was standing there with their two daughters
My middle son got mad at my husband and me when we told him he was having a sister. He turned to my husband and said, “You’re only supposed to make BOYS!” At least he knew who to blame. He loves his baby sister now that she’s here.
You husband is a f*****g idiot, and a bad person for telling you he would be upset if YOU did not GIVE HIM a male child. That is f*****g disgusting. Your husband is a POS.
It's also not purely down to the gametes if one is born with male or female genitalia. And regardless of it's not a choice by either parent.
Yes, almost as if biology is inherently very complicated, often a completely statistical science and cannot be broken down to simple logical rules like that 🤔
Load More Replies...Can you imagine trying to explain this to Henry VIII ... it was all his wives' fault lol
Wow, sounds like my father. Can't count how many times I heard that I was his last chance of having a second boy. And obviously I blew it! I think he blamed me & Mom both.
My cousin actually signed a contract to marry into a wealthy family that he was free to dump her with nothing if she didn't produce a male heir. So many things about that make my skin crawl, including the stupidity of it.
I hope there was a stipulation that in the event that HE failed to produce a male heir, she would be free to castrate him & find a man worthy of her.
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That babies are born with their eyes open. I was about 8 months pregnant and he thought babies were like puppies/kittens/etc and asked me how long til our baby would open her eyes.
My daughter gave me a shady look as soon as she was born. A look that said “I didn’t ask for any of this! I was warm and cosy in there!”
My second child did the same, no crying either just a really disdainful look.
Load More Replies...After I had my first a middle aged man asked if my son had opened his eyes. I laughed, I thought he was joking. He was not.
Mine somehow managed to turn her head when one of the attending nurses made a noise. Freaked the nurse cos newborns aren't supposed to be able to move their heads.
Had to explain where the cervix was located, and that no his penis could not, in fact, go through to into uterus when he was ‘deep’. I don’t blame him. I blame our educational system.
And if a guy would hit that it would end up very painfully
This is why I don't get guys obsession with penis length. No woman wants to be punched in the cervix repeatedly.
Load More Replies...It depends. Some women have low-sitting cervixes, some men are that well endowed. My partner is that well endowed and we have to be careful sometimes.
Load More Replies...I blame erotic literature. They all seem to mention "hitting the cervix". As if.
Mine too! I expect it’s sort of the equivalent pain of being kicked in the balls. A really deep horrible pain!
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That women should pee after sex to avoid getting a uti
I didnt and don’t usually and have never gotten a uti
Load More Replies...Yes. I did learn this at 30+ via BP. No sex ed or obgyn told me.
Load More Replies...While there's no harm in peeing after sex and logically urine will flush bacteria out of the urethra, there's no scientific evidence for this claim. You will not automatically get a UTI if you don't pee within a certain time period after sex. Likewise, you are not guaranteed to never get a UTI just because you always pee after sex. There's about a dozen other practices that are way more important to your urethral health.
Not every woman can orgasm from penetration.
My other half was a bit of a player in his younger years so this surprised me a lot.
He still thinks I'm the rare one for not being able to.
Oh dear. That just means he was with a fair few women who faked it to sooth his ego.
I think a lot of sex scenes in films have perpetuated this myth. All these women have big scream your head off orgasm's at the exact time as the man through penetrative sex. Not realistic.
I’d like to add that nipples are not an erogenous zone for everyone. Just because you have them, doesn’t mean they’re going to be sensitive.
Oh my God yes! Maybe it's TMI but nips and boobs for me are as sensitive as an elbow. It's like...meh 🤷♀️ The sides of the torso though, like literally the silhouette of the torso, around the waistline but only on the sides, not the belly part, weeeeh those are sensitive to say the least.
Load More Replies...Depends on the anatomy of the clitoral nervous system if I remember anatomy class right - the location of the internal branches of it are the biggest factor for penetration being enough stimulation
Indeed! I'm one of the rare woman that can orgasm from penetration alone, and it's because my clitoris is so sensitive, direct stimulation is unbearable. So, the indirect stimulation of the internal branches is more than enough to get the job done.
Load More Replies...I got in an argument with a wild incel that said women can't orgasm and that female orgasms are fake.
Ha! I had an ex who told me he didn't understand why I could not orgasm when he was pinning me, as did his own exes. I told him they likely faked the whole thing. I shattered his ego. He also didn't know how to properly do anything else. I weep for his next girlfiend(s). How disappointing a ride they were in for. He also didn't have any conversational skills. He really didn't bring anything to the table. He was just a rebound anyway.
Urine doesn't come out the vagina and vice versa. I can't believe men don't know that women have more than one hole (not counting the butt). This is not just my husband, seems to be a common belief of men. Gee, did they not learn anything in health class or when playing around?
There are also quite some women that don't know that as well. And I would assume it's common in countries that don't go into too much details with Sex Ed in high school
You mean like for example countries where religious nuts demand to remove darwinism and theory of evolution from schools and think that David statue by Michelangelo is pornography?
Load More Replies...this is more common than people think a lot of guys dont know female anatomy very well sometimes they dont even know their own
I didn't know until I was in my 20s that this way the case. Sex Ed is f*****g abysmal
Its role is purely sexual, it has many sensory nerve endings in it and it plays a major role in typical female arousal and sexual pleasure. It does not have a hole, nor is it discharge any fluid or anything else. It is not a genital pore, it's a solid tissue organ.
Load More Replies...I'd like to see what is the source of that statement. I can understand that among random people, some lack basic anatomy knowledge. But doctors?? Sorry it seems very unlikely to me.
Load More Replies...As someone who went through sex ed before America went puritanical in the eighties... we didn't learn this.
My mom didn't know either, took her ta.pon out every time she had to pee.
They hate mince meat but their favourite food is meat balls.. When I asked what they thought meat balls were made of, he didn’t know.. so I had to explain that meatballs, burgers and mince are all the same thing.. just in a different shape
So did you ruin his love for meat balls or did he suddenly start loving mince meat?
Yes. He now hates meatballs but loves mince meat
Load More Replies...They're seasoned differently. The mouth feel is different. Totally legit to like one and not the other. Reminds me of a parent I saw mad bc their kid didn't like baked potatoes. "It's the same thing as French fries." - Uh, no, it's not. Shape makes a difference.
Not only shape but also cooking method, and as you said seasoning and other additions.
Load More Replies...I love scrambled, fried, poached eggs but hate boiled eggs, not a man thing just personal taste.
I used to be so confused by this - because I though mince meat was the mixed concoction in mincemeat pies, which has apples and raisins and such in it. It took me a long time to realize that mince meat is just another word for ground beef.
In the uk mincemeat is as you describe; mixed fruit stuff like in a mince pie at Christmas. We do have minceD beef or minceD pork or minceD lamb etc. or even beef mince etc. But I don't think you'd buy a nondescript minceD meat or meat mince.
Load More Replies...mince has different spices! also maybe this is a translation thing: ground meat is the same as burgers & meatballs; mince, although it can mean finely cut, is a spicey fruit and alcohol concoction used for mince pies and tarts VERY DIFFERENT - bur maybe just in USA english
I maintain that there's still a difference because it's a different texture.
There is a difference, meatballs have diferent meats inside, lamb chicken beef. That's why it's a MEATball not a beefball
Eggs are not dairy. Just because they’re in the “Dairy section” in US grocery stores, it does not mean they’re dairy. Kombucha is also in the dairy section, and prepackaged cinnamon roll dough. Like eggs, not dairy.
He was shook.
Same in Poland. Anyway, this is absolutely irrevelant :) If you like eggs, you eat them, even when you find them in PERSONAL HYGIENE section of the market. For average eagg eater it does not make any difference. Just like discussion if tomato or strawberry are fruit or vegetable.
Not entirely irrelevant if, for example, someone has a dairy allergy and people don't know whether something is dairy or not.
Load More Replies...I already knew the not dairy thing BUT when I went to an English grocery store while studying abroad, I couldn't for the life of me find the eggs. Turned out they were on the crisps aisle. Lol Didn't remember they weren't refrigerated there.
Eggs aren't usually refrigerated in UK supermarkets. They are often in the bread aisle, near baking ingredients or just shoved somewhere there's an odd space.
Load More Replies...Dairy originally referred to products that were traditionally looked after by a dairy maid, that includes eggs. That said, Dairy is generally accepted to include milk products only these days
I actually had this argument with a female coworker. She wasn't one to ever admit when she was wrong, so as far as I know, she still thinks that eggs are dairy just out of sheer stubbornness.
In Kosher classifications eggs are dairy, ie they can be eaten with milk an cheese but not with red meats
I wanna see the cow that gives birth to eggs these people are imagining.
That it's not sad for women to use toys.
If it's fancy or pretty, show it off! XD I have several Bad Dragon toys that are absolutely gorgeous colors. I like leaving them out on the bathroom counter to shock my mom and sister (I live in the house next door to them, and they're not supposed to just come into my house without letting me know, but they do it all the time) XD
Load More Replies...And yet the same guys probably touch themselves plenty. What exactly is the difference?
Load More Replies...I didn't see the photo properly and thought she had a long haired dog she was going to give a surprise to!
Yeah but a man catches all the stigmas if he even dares to look at a pocket pussy.
It is a sad testament to his skills though if I need one after we're done 😅
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A few things I’ve had to explain:
• Lindsay Lohan plays both kids in The Parent Trap. No, I’m sure it’s not the Olsen twins.
• As a 20-year old, I was not 12 “five years ago.” (And he worked in finance at the time).
• Leia had a baby with Han.
• Preferring to use pads over tampons doesn’t make a woman ‘immature.’
• How libraries work (he thought the concept of books passing through many hands was ‘gross.’ This was pre-COVID).
having worked in a library, books have been returned in conditions and with questionable stains
Working in a library atm, books returned in questionable conditions are thrown out and replaced :)
Load More Replies...I honestly don't blame him for the book thing. I have come across many a booger in my old school books. Some of the boogers weren't even mine. 😏
Omg there was a massive booger on the wall of the library in elementary school. It stayed there for 6 years that I know of. Probably still there
Load More Replies...ok ok, I’ll admit, I did not know the parent trap was the same actress until I was an adult. And I’ve even seen both of them. Totally thought there was another Lohan running around somewhere.
Pads are immature, huh? Lol...I hated tampons and wore pads all the way through until I quit needing any of them at 52.
I hope you dumped him. I would not want to have children with a person so stupid. It’s cruel to knowingly dumb down your offspring.
I work in a library as a page(the person who puts the books back on the shelves) and I do sanitize my hands regularly on my shift. I’m curious what the OP thinks about libraries. We don’t sanitize each book, there are way too many each day. We do sanitize our hands. I would say library books can be gross, but anything in a public place is gross(countertops, pens, railways, etc.), so I do sanitize my hands. That doesn’t mean libraries aren’t great, or that you are likely to get sick from one.
That vaginal discharge is not necessarily a sign of an std and that the consistency changes at different points in the menstrual cycle. Also had to explain that eating a*s is something that some people actually do, not just an internet joke.
Never understood the desire to eat someone's a**e. Seems utterly gross to me.
You aren't actually "eating", just in case there's any confusion lol. And for sure not unless they've just showered.
Load More Replies...It is not unreasonable that a man would not understand how vaginal discharge works. There are men who think women pee & get their period ~ and, presumably, push out a baby ~ through the same hole. Grown men with college degrees have no idea women have a whole separate opening for having sex, getting a period, and birthing a baby. Why would they know about vaginal discharge? Who teaches their son about that??
again something not just men have no idea about. many women are seriously just as clueless
You repeatedly post this same comment, but by and large, women know far, far more about how the female body functions than many men. This isn't a dig at men, I blame insufficient sex education, but it doesn't excuse grown men who want to be intimate with women.
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My bf genuinely thought it only takes one time to get pregnant. He's had sex before but with condoms so now that we're trying he literally looked at me and said how aren't you pregnant yet? It only takes one time.
Well, most "sex ed" likes to scare kids by implying or telling them that it will happen after one go.
I know plenty of women who have no idea about sex and pregnancy. it was my first time, I am on the pill, he wore a condom, he pulled out, I was on my period...the excuses I have heard for opps pregnancies.
Well tbf you can get pregnant in all of those scenarios
Load More Replies...It can happen after only one time having s*x. He’s absolutely right.
When I was a kid I thought every time you had sex you could potentially get HIV, even with your spouse. That's why people used condom, right? But I couldn't figure out how people could get pregnant because they would ditch the condom in order to conceive so they would risk to get infected with HIV every time. In my mind apparently getting pregnant was some sort of Russian roulette with contagion. I also couldn't fathom how people could get completely naked in front of their partner. Like the actual act of penetration was ok for me but being naked in front of each other? Absurd! LOL thank God the internet came!
How to chop vegetables. (Yes I am serious.) He was 32, and when I met him he was living on takeaways and Pot Noodles but was keen to get beyond that, so I taught him some basic cookery skills. We're not together any more, but the last time I saw him he was cooking regularly and healthily for himself, so he's definitely come a long way since!
My ex sil came over for dinner one time and brang along her nephew from NY city, I made beef and broccoli, the teenage nephew didn’t know what a broccoli was or never seen one, I was shocked, but she explained to me that he grew up in a very impoverished neighborhood that they did not have access to fresh fruits or vegetables, sad really
"Food deserts" are a major problem in many cities, especially in the U.S.
Load More Replies...My then-boyfriend, now-husband once asked me what a scrambled egg was. It’s an egg that you scramble. I didn’t know how else to explain it. 😅
When I was in school in the 80's/90's we had Home Economics classes. By the time my niece and nephew when to school, they had been removed from the UK Curriculum. No idea why because surely being able to prepare a meal is a basic and important life skill.
I bought green onions for the first time. Threw two thirds of it away because I didn’t know where it would start tasting gross, and I panicked. I still don’t know where to quit chopping 🤣
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In high school, super low-cut tight jeans were 'in.' All of us girls had to constantly pull them up, and even do a little wiggle to get them up. I had no idea how this looked; I just wore the jeans I thought were cute and in style. He thought girls shook their butt to turn the boys on while they were walking behind them. I haven’t been able to get that one off my mind since.
That is actually hilarious! The millennials version of the hair flip. Or can you do both simultaneously to really turn em on?
No different than the guys that wear pants around their a**es and have to constantly pull them up
Exactly like, do they not know that all the girls are flat-out laughing at them?
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My partner actually believes that it’s fine to leave cooked meat out for hours because “it’s not raw”. As someone who has taken microbio, I can confirm this is a terrible idea.
Depends a bit in where you live, but at 20 degrees Celsius it is most likely not getting you sick after some hours of laying around. If cooked well and covered up why would it go bad that quickly it is not like bacteria come running towards the meat. (And yes I also took microbio)
Had a relative bring raw meat (steak tartar) to a holiday meal once. Just plopped on the table with all the other food. Nobody touched it.
Can you please come and explain this to my old school mom, yes she still leaves meat out overnight to thaw
I hate to admit this, and yes I know you're not supposed to, but I regulary leave meat out over night out of laziness and eat it the next day a good 15 hours later. Either I've just gotten super lucky, or my stomach has just adjusted to it but luckily have never gotten sick or even an upset stomach or anything. However I definitely don't recommend doing it. Did it with delicious butter chicken the other day. Basically if it smells good and looks good, I don't worry about it. However I'd never go past 24 hours. I'm thinking I'm just extremely lucky I guess.
Same. I try to remember to put it in the fridge or freezer before I go to bed (after it's cooled) but sometimes forget. Never had an issue as long as I eat it the very next day
Load More Replies...He must never have worked food service in the US, as you have to get a food handler's permitm which talks about how long you can leave things out and still be safe.
that's not something I could get past. My partner ignorantly yet actively trying to poison me.
That ponies don’t grow up to be horses.
To be fair, there was a period of time when I thought pony was the name for a baby horse (nope, it’s foal)
As a horsewoman, I've had to deal with this a number of times. Pony foals grow up to be ponies, horse foals grow up to be horses.
He asked me how to know when water is boiling. There are a lot of other things related to cooking that he didn’t know but this one took me by surprise the most. Make sure to teach your kids basic cooking skills!
People are down voting you... I cant really blame them.
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This was my ex but
Him: "You say you don't like mushrooms but you'll eat this?" *holds my chocolate truffle ice cream up*
Me: "Because actual truffles are different from chocolate truffles. They're two separate things. What?"
Him: *blush*
It was cute af though
LOL. I have to admit that the first time I heard of chocolate truffles I thought it was gross.
That he can't tell a pregnant woman how "huge" she is.
That if he gives the dog exactly what she wants to stop her from doing what she shouldn't be, then he's just reinforcing her bad behaviour.
That reverse racism/sexism etc. isn't a thing
Reverse racism is not a thing. Racism towards white people is still a thing.
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Load More Replies...your are right it's just racism and sexism not reverse. If you don't like white people just because they are white you are a racist, if you don't like men just because you are a woman you are sexist. So you are right there is no such thing as reverse it's just plain racism and sexism.
If you tell a pregnant woman how huge she is, she has the legal right to remove your spine through your throat.
Wish I could upvote this more than once! I got the cartoon visual in my head when I read it!
Load More Replies...My BF asked a overweight woman he knew one day!! if she was pregnant . .. we sat him straight that he should never ask
won't downvote bc you probably don't understand. Reverse racism and sexism is the concept that white people, or men, or those in the demographics that are not usually discriminated against, are the main victims of racism/sexism. E.g. a man saying ' women have it better than us, they're so sexist to us, #not all men.
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That Pelicans and geese are a different species...????
He thought that gynaecologist is for male problems too. After that, he went on to search for male gynaecologists in his area to prove he was right but ended up finding a gynaecologist who is a man.
I think basically any GP doctor who's not a gynecologist is an andrologist, as medicine is about 80% focused on men's health.
Load More Replies...Um. No. That’s urinary tract and bladder specialists for both genders.
Load More Replies...In greek, gynaeca (γυναίκα) means woman (gynaecologist: doctor for women). Andras (άντρας) means man (andrologist: doctor for men).
Saw a post about how a kitchen sponge sitting in water breeds more bacteria than if left to dry, which reminded me how I had to explain the whole concept to a guy I previously dated who didn’t believe sponges should be kept dry in tropical climates.
I also had to explain how periods last a whole seven days and not just one (I wish).
I saw a TV programme about someone with OCD. He was so proud of the cleanliness of his home and then showed the audience how he shaped his used dishcloth into a little damp ball and left it to ferment all day.
Gross. My husband (& now my oldest child has started) does this and leaves the sponge in the bottom of the sink. 🤮
Load More Replies...my periods usually lasted 2-4 days. and super light! got to where i just used panty liners.
How to emphatize with your partner's feelings. It was frustrating to teach him how to acknowledge and comfort me whenever I feel down without him getting mad or trying to minimize what I'm feeling.
Or that I just want to vent - I'm not looking for solutions or for him to "fix" the problem.
That "Anonymous" wasn't a person who wrote a million poems. At first I thought she was joking. Then she asked if I'd like to hear more by him-- how some were great and some completely c**p.... I decided to tell her a year after that just to see where it went...
So you decided to gaslight her for a year just to see where it went... 🙄
Not really a partner but I had to explain to many men what happens during a Pap smear…and they get grossed out all the time.
I don't understand why you had to explain that "to many men". This is not a regular conversation topic and I can't figure out how the conversation just go on this direction in a natural manner.
Could be the have a lot of guy friends, or even work in an environment with a higher ratio of men. Might even be a woman who is seen as approachable for female questions. I have a mix of those conditions in my personal/work life, so I’ve found myself getting odd questions like this from guys who genuinely were confused, but never really had someone they felt they could safely ask. And we all know sometimes it’s easier to ask than get lost in a potentially terrible internet dive.
Load More Replies...Well I guess, why would they know? My very first one at age 18 I had no idea what to expect. So when the nurse asked me if I minded some Med Students being in the room, I said 'sure'. Cue me lying in the position with three students barely older than me staring between my legs. My face was so red hot with embarrassment you could have fried an egg on it. Of course, I don't care now but as an innocent, inexperienced 18 year old, it was mortifying.
Alright, your continuous comments are getting annoying honestly
Load More Replies...There is no such thing as 'womb f*****g.'
If a man is able to do that, his penis would have to be the width of a wire. Probably not the bragging he thought he was doing.
And sex would be excruciating for the woman (and probably the guy because of how much pressure there would have to be). After having an iud, the concept makes me shudder.
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He thought the tapioca pearls in Boba drinks were caviar. He literally thought that they put FISH EGGS in boba. I still love him though.
I have no idea what other tapioca pearls are and I've never heard of a Boba drink, so perhaps this isn't such common knowledge. Edit: I've googled it now. Sounds horrible 😂
Guys, STOP DOWNVOTING PEOPLE YOU DISAGREE WITH. If you’ve never had boba before I can absolutely see how it would seem gross. It’s delicious though.
Load More Replies...Is it the same or similar to bubble tea? It's nice to have something different, but it's way overpriced.
You got it 👍 Boba and Bubble Tea are the same. They can get pricey but it is such a treat and so worth it!
Load More Replies...What is a Boba drink? It just looks like chocolate milk with something in the bottom.
It's tea (the one in the picture is chocolate-flavored milk tea) with tapioca balls. I hope I answered your question.
Load More Replies...You can angle the vacuum cleaner to reach under the sofa!
Depending on your vacuum cleaner. At work we just got one that is great for this, much easier to get under the edges of things than my home hoover. I’m thinking of nicking it lol
It depends on the sofa design also. I have no chance of getting my Shark Duo into the one-inch gap under my sofa.
Load More Replies...Maybe he’s like me - can’t be bothered. Nobody’s going to see what’s under there unless they’re lying on the floor. And that is not I expect visitors to do! Same with shelving and dust above eye level.
I cant believe they actually posted this. Vacuuming is an adult topic.
I had to explain the concept of gift giving at birthdays, Christmas etc.
First of all, my boyfriend doesn't care about receiving gifts at all and thought that's the norm for everyone. Second, he thought that a gift that's not useful (something that is just nice etc.) is worse than no gift, so he usually doesn't get a gift to anyone, if he can't come up with something super useful. And third, he thought that if you randomly buy little gifts to someone throughout the year, it's okay if you don't give them anything for big occasions.
So I had to explain that people generally do care about getting gifts on major occasions, not getting a gift is the worst because even if the gift isn't good, at least it shows you put a bit of an effort into it, and while it's nice to randomly receive small gifts, the person still be rightfully upset if you don't get them anything for an occasion.
I’m very much in the “buy gifts as it occurs to me throughout the year”. If I’m not inspired by something around the time of my wife’s birthday then I’ll wait until I am. I don’t see the point in buying something useless just to meet a deadline. If that makes me weird then so be it. I don’t expect anything on my birthday (and it’s my birthday today! 🙂)
You don't see the point, but is it about you or about the person whose special day it is? If it is special for that person to receive something thouhtfull (doesn't have to be expensive, just a sign you didn't forget the special day and did something extra, like get some flowers. Could even be some handpicked little flowers. Because you don't expect anything, it doesn't make it automatically ok for you to not consider that others do expect something. Having said that: Happy birthday today!
Load More Replies...TBH, if you don't have a good idea of something I really want, then what you give me is then just clutter I then have to deal with. It takes up my limited space and time, I have to receive gratefully to avoid hurting feelings, and may feel pressured to use/wear/display something I didn't choose and don't like, or find a way to dispose of it that is environmentally responsible and again, doesn't cause hurt feelings. If it was expensive, I feel guilty for not liking it. Useful presents are good. Consumable presents are good. If in doubt, buy someone their favorite luxury indulgence. Chocolates, a gift card for a massage, a giftcard to their favorite craft store, shoe store.
I'm a woman and think like this too. I usually only buy gifts when I find something I think someone would really like. My friends, partner and family are similar or at least don't mind my approach, but I try to make an effort for those people who appreciate gifts at certain times more. I think this is very much something to discuss with your loved ones, so that you know the preferences!
Idk, I think it depends on how he treats the occasion outside of the gift giving. Like does he take people out for lunch in their birthday, or at least acknowledge it? Or does he just act like it's another day. Personally I'd be perfectly happy to skip the gift receiving and get to the fun, non anxiety inducing stuff like eating cake and playing games. Although I do enjoy when I have the money to be able to buy stuff for other people.
I feel like this person is missing the point of their partner always thinking about them vs only being thought aboutonce a year
Yeah, I'd rather not receive gifts unless it's something I need or have been wanting for a long time (which presumably would've been something I told the gift-giver). And it also makes you feel like you need to reciprocate. For example, when my siblings and I got older, and a few started having kids of their own, my mother suggested we draw names for Xmas gifts, rather than feeling like we had to give gifts to everyone (since that number was growing). But i said to her that we should only give gifts if we happen to see something that another family member would really appreciate, but not feel like everybody needs to get something -- even if it meant only one sibling got a present from you.
How to check if potatoes were cooked (to make mashed potatoes). Moms of sons, please train your sons.
mothers and fathers equally need to teach their sons AND daughters basic lifestyle skills.
The amount of women taking care of basic life skills for their male partners suggest the majority of daughters are already taught them or have more inclination to look them up
Load More Replies...I absolutely made sure both my sons learnt not only how to cook properly but how to properly do all the housework too. One is married with kids and shares all of the kids stuff, cooking and housework with his wife, the other is my boomerang and we share all the housework and cooking. I refused to raise them the way their father was raised - women work in the house, men work outside.
Load More Replies...I don’t know this and I don’t need to. I hate mashed potatoes. Believe or not, a lot of people don’t know how to cook. I am capable of cooking, but I will learn how to make what I like to eat and I don’t bother to learn how to make something I won’t eat. That’s just a waste of food.
that he cant clean the bathroom by just showering the whole floor and leaving it to airdry, specially in a house built in the 70s, its a mold infestation waiting to happen.
He didn’t know who Genghis Khan was. He had been to The Great Wall. I asked him why he thought they built it, he just shrugged. He also asked where waves came from…and once I mentioned the blood moon looked cool and we should check it out and he asked where it was?
Please, please, please tell me you told him waves come from Genghis Khan
The Great Wall was built over centuries, and depending upon who built which part and when, it was to protect waring kingdoms from each others more than to protect a unified China against a common enemy.
That Canada was not part of the US. I still feel bad about how much I internally judged him, but he legit thought Canada was just a less important part of the US that's why it was always left off the maps and we only focus on the "southern part" (i.e. the 48 contiguous states).
I genuinely thought that Canada was in the US when I was a kid. It might say something about geography education in the UK. Sorry Canadians. 😞
My niece’s obnoxious ex boyfriend thought that he was bound only by US laws in other countries because he’s American…he also thought all countries aspired to be just like the US…he was sore when he realised how wrong he was
Soo many things.. to start-- the alphabet. He didn't know what vowels and consonants were.
or someone with a first language using a completely different writing system?
Load More Replies...My very intelligent 16 year old son has certain learning disorders and struggles with this type of thing.
Maybe he can't tell them apart or he gets them confused but he surely knows what they are or at least he has heard they exist?
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That you should leave hot food out to cool BEFORE you put it in the fridge.
Granted, I've worked in the food industry and he never has so I can't be too harsh on that one.
It’s about energy efficiency of fridge, plus affecting temperature consistency of existing fridge items. And also condensation and moisture in the fridge.
I wouldn't put food straight from the oven into the fridge, but warm food is fine.
Load More Replies...I would give him a break. Growing up, I was always told not to put hot food in the fridge, because “it will go bad” (literal translation from my native language, so I am not sure if the food will go bad or the fridge will break). So I never did it. I waited till the food was at room temp. I broke this pattern only after I started cooking for my toddler.
What a laundry basket was. My ex thought that his clothes would just magically disappear if he put them on the floor.
Because I'm sure that's EXACTLY what happened growing up. I'm a housecleaner, and I will say that the absolute WORST thing u can do as a parent, is to NOT teach ur kids how to clean. I deal with 30+ yo men that r worse than toddlers
It does in my house! I drop them on the floor and they magically end up in the laundry basket for me to wash later. For him, the Laundry Fairy comes and does all his laundry. 🥰 (seriously; he couldn’t figure out why he never ran out of clean clothes at my house before we started living together full time. So, laundry fairy was born.)
I explained to my boyfriend a few months ago the tear duct on the lower eyelid. He was confused why there was a hole and I was like “babe…that’s where your tears come out”
If you have dry eye syndrome an opthalmologist might suggest putting a plug in them to help alleviate the symptoms.
Load More Replies...I had to tell my ex what Black Friday was. He stayed up all night in an online gaming tournament after thanksgiving dinner, and decided to go to Walmart for groceries at 4 am. Of course it was packed and he was shocked.
That dogs can swim. We're both really smart, but there's some things he doesn't know that really surprise me sometimes (and vice versa). He thought they were only trained to swim in movies.
I sometimes forget that having been brought up in an industrial port (obviously near water) that there's things I instinctively know that those who were raised inland have no idea of. Maybe that's why the whole 'dogs can swim' is a mystery? Maybe nowhere to swim in an inland city??
My dog does not know, that he can swim. I am waiting 3 years for him to discover he can
Almost every one of these is attributable to poor or nonexistent sex education. Because of the nonsensical shame attached to everything even peripherally attached to sex, those classes have been systematically removed from American schools by ignorant fools who believe that knowledge will lead to teen promiscuity even in the face of overwhelming evidence that it has the exact OPPOSITE impact. (I was raised by a single mom with an older sister and none of this was ever hidden from me)
What a b******t list. "I know/knew a guy who didn't know xyz" is the topic. Not most men, just a small amount and so one. Shaming for asking questions included. Pathetic
The number of women agreeing with each post or including their own life examples kind of refutes your point. It is common enough that we all nodded along.
Load More Replies...I have yet to meet a grown woman who thinks women have the ability to schedule their period or can hold it in like other bodily functions. That… is not a thing. And sure women aren’t born knowing how to cook but let’s be honest about which gender our culture tends to train in the kitchen from a young age. Ditto for emotional labor
Load More Replies...Things I have had to explain to women: (1) I can't fix everything in the house like your dad could. I've been to his house. Most of the things he "fixed" he did wrong. (2) I can't read your mind so when something is wrong TELL ME! (3) The CHECK ENGINE light is important. So is the OIL light. (4) Doing yardwork is my version of housework. It takes time and effort. So stop complaining I don't help with the housework. (5) Girls' night out is not any different than boys' night out. (6) Your mom's cooking wasn't any better than my mom's was. In fact, it was probably just as bad. (7) Your friends influence on you is as bad as mine is on me. (8) If I need to change to save the relationship then so do you. And finally (9) Money doesn't grow on trees Stop overspending!
Yardwork is not housework. One is a thankless drudgery, the other is an occasional vanity project.
Load More Replies...after reading some of these, I think I know why some girls hang out with me. I'm 6'3" and look sort of built, and that's probably it
True but the article is about things women had to tell men. You didn't need to jump on every single post with 'women do this as well' comments. I'm assuming you're male? In which case you've just demonstrated that you are part of the problem and shown how women are still being told to stay silent by misogynistic men even in 2023. One post was about smear tests and you proceeded to comment on how 'some women' don't know that either. Yes, maybe. But that doesn't mean you can become defensive and use that as an opportunity to stand up for the oppressed men in the world. Also, don't describe adult women as girls. You've completely embarrassed yourself.
Load More Replies...Almost every one of these is attributable to poor or nonexistent sex education. Because of the nonsensical shame attached to everything even peripherally attached to sex, those classes have been systematically removed from American schools by ignorant fools who believe that knowledge will lead to teen promiscuity even in the face of overwhelming evidence that it has the exact OPPOSITE impact. (I was raised by a single mom with an older sister and none of this was ever hidden from me)
What a b******t list. "I know/knew a guy who didn't know xyz" is the topic. Not most men, just a small amount and so one. Shaming for asking questions included. Pathetic
The number of women agreeing with each post or including their own life examples kind of refutes your point. It is common enough that we all nodded along.
Load More Replies...I have yet to meet a grown woman who thinks women have the ability to schedule their period or can hold it in like other bodily functions. That… is not a thing. And sure women aren’t born knowing how to cook but let’s be honest about which gender our culture tends to train in the kitchen from a young age. Ditto for emotional labor
Load More Replies...Things I have had to explain to women: (1) I can't fix everything in the house like your dad could. I've been to his house. Most of the things he "fixed" he did wrong. (2) I can't read your mind so when something is wrong TELL ME! (3) The CHECK ENGINE light is important. So is the OIL light. (4) Doing yardwork is my version of housework. It takes time and effort. So stop complaining I don't help with the housework. (5) Girls' night out is not any different than boys' night out. (6) Your mom's cooking wasn't any better than my mom's was. In fact, it was probably just as bad. (7) Your friends influence on you is as bad as mine is on me. (8) If I need to change to save the relationship then so do you. And finally (9) Money doesn't grow on trees Stop overspending!
Yardwork is not housework. One is a thankless drudgery, the other is an occasional vanity project.
Load More Replies...after reading some of these, I think I know why some girls hang out with me. I'm 6'3" and look sort of built, and that's probably it
True but the article is about things women had to tell men. You didn't need to jump on every single post with 'women do this as well' comments. I'm assuming you're male? In which case you've just demonstrated that you are part of the problem and shown how women are still being told to stay silent by misogynistic men even in 2023. One post was about smear tests and you proceeded to comment on how 'some women' don't know that either. Yes, maybe. But that doesn't mean you can become defensive and use that as an opportunity to stand up for the oppressed men in the world. Also, don't describe adult women as girls. You've completely embarrassed yourself.
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