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Ever had anything mansplained to you? You know, when a guy starts explaining something to (most likely) a woman about something that they very well know themselves in a condescending or patronizing way.

Sure, it is definitely a serious issue, one that hints at sexism and rudeness, among other things, but also one that can be satisfying and even funny—particularly when the one being mansplained to claps back with an educated response that makes the mansplainer rethink their decisions.

In celebration of the recent Valentine’s Day, Twitter user @J_Dot_J asked people what was the most obvious thing that was mansplained to them. Dozens upon dozens of people shared their best mansplaining stories, not only voicing their frustrations, but also pointing out how nobody should ever assume that you don’t know things.

Image credits: J_Dot_J

Bored Panda has collected some of the best responses from the Twitter thread and made it into a list for you to enjoy. While you’re scrolling, why not share your thoughts and vote on the ones you liked the most, and share your mansplaining stories, if you have any, in the comment section below!

Oh, and if this ain't enough, Bored Panda has two other articles on the topic here and here, so be sure to check them out once you're done here!

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Raine Soo
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

'The Queen's Gambit' comes to mind. I suck at chess, by the way.

Jo Choto
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Early in our marriage, my husband kept bothering me to play chess, even though I told him I don't enjoy it and didn't want to. He kept insisting and insisting and trying to explain the game to me. I told him I knew HOW to play, I just didn't want to. He just kept on for months. Finally, after about 30 minutes of him explaining his prowess and how to play, again, I agreed to play him. I beat him three times in a row and chess was never mentioned again.

Anna Banana
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reading this gave me so much second-hand satisfaction. Thank you.

Casey McAlister
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry if I'm missing something, but what are chances that two people who confidently play chess come together for a date and that's exactly how they want to spend their time? And it happened multiple times? Does she date only people who play chess and always invite them to a chess date?

Tabitha L
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was wondering the same thing. I don't recall the last time I happened upon a chess set while out for a date.

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Lilac Beauty
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Chess is amazing, especially the satisfaction of humbling guys who think the game is going to be easy cause your a girl

Aragorn II Elessar
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love chess, but any person off the street could probably beat me. I don’t think my moves through

CincyReds
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am glad you are good a chess, but who plays chess on a first date?

Okay Dokey
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Considering how rarely you see chess sets just sitting around to be played with in public, or places you go for a first date, i wonder how often that really happened to her. I honestly think this is completely made up.

Casey McAlister
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There must be a chess set sitting around AND her date must be not only able to play chess but also interested enough in it to play it on the first date. Because I'd imagine it's not the most popular date activity.

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Dave P
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i mean where do those men live? as a kid I loved chess and Judith Polgar (she was was my idol. Women play at the top tier in world. I mean I remember as kid knowing that Polgar was internationally ranked by age 9, beat her first grandmaster at 11 and at 15 became the youngest grandmaster till that point in history. I grew up idolizing her. How can any man who knows anything about Chess not know about Polgar or ever look down at a woman in chess

Donkey boi
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was taught how to play chess by an ex-girlfriend, unfortunately I suck at it, but that isn't a reflection of her skill. I used to love watching her at tournaments!

Karen Lyon
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honey, if those jerks are so offended by a woman who plays better than they do, they definitely are not worth it. Don't waste your time on guys who only feel good about themselves when they are the smarter than their partners.

Caroline Driver
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But then, would you want a second date with a guy who mansplains and doesn't listen to you? Good way of sorting out the bad'ns it seems to me

Okay Dokey
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I honestly only have seen chess sets in the wild a few times over my lifespan of 36 years. So how often does this really happen to her? Because i think this is all made up.

Xylle Flora
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've been playing since I was three. I'm not the best, but I love it. I think of life as a chess game; one decision may seem good it the moment, but it will not in the future

Larry De La Briandais
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sure I could avoid losing in three moves. More than that, I couldn't say... ;^)

Lily
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My ex-husband taught me chess, but never enough so I could beat him. He'd just wanted someone to wupass. Sigh. I never pursued playing after that.

Michael Naretto
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fragile egos are so easy to bruise. Anyway, I like chess I just really suck at it. But it wouldn't bother me to get bombed in three moves. Or even one. Getting beaten is how you learn...

Gergely Pászti
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If chess was the only thing that matters on this Earth, I would ask for this lady's hand in marriage right away... if I am acting stupid, tell me. Always. :)

Schrodinger's Cat
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love chess! And a LOT of opponents I've played against have done this- which can make winning seem like the time of your life.

Sue Clifford
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would love to see beat the smug smiles off their smug faces. You go girl.

elfin
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You don't want second dates with guys who can't take your winning.

Sherbaan Naab
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup. Those guys suck. But she might want to re-evaluate the way she chooses men for dates.

Saico Hipe
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I saw this person kick someone's butt at chess, I would immediately want to ask them on a date, and would immediately be too intimidated. LOL

Michael Capriola
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ever play 3-D chess? ( I mean the real one, not that Stark Trek BS. ) Let me explain it to you .... (LOL Keep killing those jerks. And try the 3-D. It's fun. Get a clear plastic set so you can get a bird's eye view of the boards.)

Zedrapazia
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Rarely any second dates? Who stops dating someone because she's better at chess than him?

Margot Piasecka
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Actually, having read the first 25 entries in this article, I get more and more convinced that that the whole "mansplaining" is a huge misunderstanding. I believe that the guys are simply talking to themselves - while someone else (sometimes a woman, an other man, a mirror, whatever) is near them. Like their brain gets triggered to spit out what has been saved on the respective topic. When knew knowledge is added (e.g. by women as described in the stories below) these guys will spit out updated stories during next encounters and will become experts, one day, maybe. Seeing this mansplaining guy as a person talking to himself could be an option. Actually some of the situations happened to me with other women 😲. Respectful communication is tricky ❤️

Sportsgal
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who cares about second dates with condescending a-holes! Good for you! I'm uber competitive, so I laughed at your "smoke your ass" comment!!! Lol!!

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Cookie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You don't get second dates? You don't need second dates with those little fragile boys.

deanna woods
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know how to play chess, but I would love to learn how to play chess. I don't understand why people choose to explain things to other people that the other people already know.

NellaVis_
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ive never came across a chess set on a date..where would that even happen?

H Edwards
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How many times has she played chess on a date? Is this a common date activity?

William Teach
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Um, the thing is, a man would do most of these things to another man. What is being called mansplaining is about 90% what they would say to other men.

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Oh yeah, the chess set that's always here during a date...

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Madison Feehan
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Look on the bright side, cement proof that he did you a favour by showing you his true colours.

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Buttered_Crumpet
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To the 'Mansplaining Deniers' out there : The point is that those men make the assumption that the woman knows nothing, without knowing anything about her. When we meet a new person, we could all just assume they are equally intelligent as us.

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Joonscrab
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YOU TELL HIM! I'm tired of men trying to explain s**t that I know better.

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Diddlybop
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seriously men need to at least know what they are talking about when they do this

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got a C in art once for ‘plagiarising’ Devil Wears Prada (had just come out at the time). We had to design a shoe. I made mine into a dragon with a tail going up the leg and scales all over looking like fire. All the work showed it was inspired by Smaug from The Hobbit. The art teacher who was ALSO and English teacher said what’s the hobbit? Who’s Tolkien? Said I was lying and still gave me a C for ‘plagiarising’ Devil Wears Prada 🤦🏼‍♀️

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am 45yrs old and am in full blown menopause. I started peri menopause when I was 38-39yrs old. I had a man child explain menopause and proceed to tell me that it is impossible for a woman to start it that young and to be in menopause at my age. While it is not common it does happen and my last period was actually almost 6yrs ago. He said it was something else and insisted that the Gynecologist was wrong due to her being a woman and I NEED TO SEE A MALE DOCTOR to be correctly diagnosed. I had blood work done and am currently on hormone therapy. Kicker....... this Man/Child was 22yrs old and was going to college for a degree in physical education. LMFAO SMH

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Rod Egret
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How can you be an engineer and not understand pH, it's so basic! (no pun intended)

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stop with the made up Covid nonsense, “doctor”! You’re just distracting us from the real and imminent threat of the Lizard People from Planet X! Not to mention the cannibals in the pizza basement.

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Lunar Bicycle
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If “girls” can’t play bass, then what was Carol Kaye doing on all 10,000+ recording sessions she played on? If he’s ever enjoyed a famous bass line from the last half of the 20th century, she probably played it.

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Raine Soo
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You could be showing it to him on a cutting board, and then putting it together on a sewing machine, and he'd still say that you were wrong.

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Samantha Lomb
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah that's really annoying when you aren't even interacting with them and men still insist in butting in and "showing off"

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Samantha Lomb
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In fairness it often feels like Texas doesn't have science. Like when they make energy policy, or claim that wind turbines and solar panels don't work in cold weather . . .

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked for attorneys for 22 years. One time a three-year practicing attorney was looking for a plea on a criminal case. I advised him it's called an Alford plea, he argued with me, continued to try to think of what he believed it's called and then proceeded to get a book to find the answer. Which was. And Alford plea.

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Lucy Skinner
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fictional TV from the eighties is ~totally~ more valuable that modern research.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

His source is Nickelodeon... we need some new and special kind of facepalm for this.

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jazz
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would comment something witty, but I can't think of anything right now...I'll just leave this here as a placeholder I guess

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A bit odd he felt the need to explain it to you as if you didn’t know, but maybe he was just trying to relate? I dunno, seems more like he was trying to “fit in” as it were rather than look down on you...? 🤷🏻‍♀️🙂

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where's the 2nd part? Ppl are upvoting a story that doesn't tell what she was waiting on or what happened?

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