Where is that You-just-played-yourself meme?

Oh my god, it’s literally Gaston from beauty and the beast.

Taliban or Texas?

Ugh, this is the sort of story that usually continues with the host saying "...and then, on the 13th of August, Clarissa suddenly went missing. Her family filed a missing persons report, but it wasn't until six weeks later that some duck hunters found her body dumped in a nearby forest."

God forbid you actually move on your own, imagine the damage to his masculinity

Keep it up Dude and yours will be the next funeral I attend.

I'm glad you felt contempt that means you got out and it is the right feeling for the behaviour he displayed.

First time in my life I heard that a man could be threatened by a candle actually being more masculine than him.

What a loser. It's really none of anybody's business how many people you have slept with. It's not a competition. That bloke is an idiot.

I have no idea why people always ask for their "body count", and then feel unhappy when they get told. My partner was a young man growing up in the 80s in the UK; I know he wasn't a monk, and I don't really care how many women he's been with in the past. All I do care about is how many women he's been with since we've been together: Only me.

I'd rather not know how many people my partner has slept with. Plus quality over quantity right

Its really weird - this obsession with how many people you have slept with. My husband and I have never had this conversation. Its irrelevant.

I met my wife after getting out of a very long and very monogamous relationship. I don't know my wife's "number" but I'm certain that it dwarfs mine by a long shot. Don't care. She's perfect.

You two are both f*****g nuts !

Sexist double standard right here. It's fine for him to sleep around and possibly father as many unwanted babies as his jealous little heart desires, but s**t forbid that she sleep with anyone else.

If I'm dating someone I don't see any issue with asking about their body count later in the relationship. I honestly think its wierd if you don't wanna say anything...you did it, so no reason to act ashamed. The strange part isn't that he asked, its that he thought it was a competition.

Both are so sad.

History is history. If someone wants to be in your future, he shouldn't get so hung up on it.

Why would this ever be relevant?

She entertains a lot of men, but "not like that." LOL wow.

I hope you both get STD tests. Like every week.

I get the feeling that this is about a younger couple. I remember having these type of conversations when I was younger (and it never ended well). Never had the discussion with my current partner (husband). We joke about tinder-dates etc from time to time and bad sexual experiences but it isn't a touchy subject at all. When you get a bit older it's not so much a surprise that you've slept with other people and it doesn't matter.

That he would think so little of other people just to sleep with them in order to keep his fragile ego intact is more disturbing than I can say.

Hahahahahahahaha...... Sorry that's all I got for this. Still laughing actually.

I fail to see how simply asking is a red flag. I mean, obviously complaining and being a huge douche about it is, but not simply asking. And being able to be honest with a potential future spouse is important. Partly for disease, but largely for compatibility. My wife, before we married, said she was a Virgin. After we married, she came clean that she'd had 2 prior lovers. there's what I call the "time to settle down" factor. I only sleep with people I see a serious future with. But she had her young and wild days. Which unfortunately means that while I'm hypersexual, she's far less interested in sex as a whole. Which means that while I could go like a rabbit, due to her lack of interest, we haven't had sex in 2 years. We've been married for 4. And in those first 2 years? 6 times. And sorry if I seem insecure. I'm really not. ADHD makes it hard to control focus. And its actually been linked to hypersexuality.

NEVER talk about past sexual escapades. If a man asks, and keeps pressing when you don't answer, dump him. It's a huge misogynistic red flag.

Good for you! If you had stayed he would have destroyed, or at least heavily damaged you. Less of a man? This guy never made it to manhood in the first place. He is just a large child who happens to have a p-----. He needs a reality check. Real manhood lies in having the courage to shoulder your responsibilities to yourself and others, and being an ADULT. I feel sorry for him. His thinking is so skewed it guarantees that he will never be a real man because he doesn't even know what that is. He will always feel inadequate.

I would never share the number, ever. Good on Op for fictitious one but i still never share it! I told a coworker once and he looked horrified or jealous, not sure which, so I've never said it again.

This is even weirder if you extend the logic. M/F ratio isnt exactly 50/50 but it's close and obviously sticking with heterosexual here...but when the popular perception is that men sleep around a lot more, doesn't basic math suggest one or both sexes may, on average, be fudging those numbers?

i slept with approx 5 times more people than my now BF. He doesn't give a s**t, like it should be.

I'm glad you learned from it, it's absolutely no one's business except yours

That's a weird way to admit to being a giant whore lmao

Boast about WHO is the most unhygeinic???

So you're both disgusting. Good match

Wow, she gets around. But yeah, none of his business. As long as she doesn't cheat, it doesn't matter how many people she slept with when not in a relationship with him.

Both of you are whores.