What a asshat

Revenge is sweet.

Called my then-husband to take me to the hospital because I started bleeding at 3 months pregnant. His response? "Can't you call my dad to take you? I'm getting ready to go play softball." Divorced that trash and have been married to World's Best Husband for the last 18 years.

This dude just sounds like a complete psycho!

And there were no red flags beforehand?

Normal people don't use condiments? There's an entire industrial sector down the drain.

toxic

You are. He's not.

My parents drove all the way back home after I got in a car accident. They in another city when it happened.

Ouch!! This is so wrong on so many levels... what a selfish prick.

I'm really sorry I laughed..it's something about the wording. I hope you ended it.

What an a-hole!

And he gets all douchey like that when 100% of the attention isn’t on him.

He was honest. He was not the man for you.

Wow. There's just no words to describe how wrong this is!

Well at least he was honest...I guess. My ex was such a narcissistic F**K that everything was EVERYONE else's fault. Didn't matter what it was, it was always someone else.

That “damn” was him being selfishly pissed off at the delayed/canceled booty call, because he canceled other plans with his bros for it. Nothing more. Hope you dumped him right then.

The operative word in this post is "were", as in "were married".

If you've never had anxiety or a panic attack it can seem like childishness to witness someone break down over a simple task, but my god the distress is so real (and we are usually perfectly aware it is also irrational).

Hope you dumped him, because being with him would ruin your life.

No one makes us do anything, unless they’re physically forcing us to. Otherwise, we CHOOSE our reactions, even if we don’t realize it. He could’ve chosen not to cheat, but instead he gave in to his impulses, then tried to project his guilt on you. You are innocent. He’s the guilty party. Hope you dumped his cheating ass.

I mean, if you were in the middle of an argument it might have been the best thing to do. You cannot expect someone to switch from defensive to supportive because of tears. The most you can expect is that with reflection they see how important the issue is to you.

What a horrible thing to say.

Shouldn't it be surprising that HE is still alive after that day (assuming he is)?

I’m 60, and discovered decades ago that some adults are so childish—-rude, impulsive, selfish, and totally lacking in critical thinking skills, empathy, and a filter between their brains and their mouths—-that they DO need to be told to be nice to others. Sometimes they’re so devoid of even the most basic social skills that they actually need to be taught HOW to be nice to others, as well. We need to do a better job raising our children, folks, so this population of sociopaths decreases instead of increases.

Excuse me, what???!!!

That is sociopathic behavior to get enjoyment out of someone crying.

Drive away in your new car and don't look back. Let him abuse his new fuckpuppet.

Oh no no no this is awful!