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This Girls-Only Dream Gym Packed With Thoughtful Details Is Making Some Folks Call It ‘Segregation’
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This Girls-Only Dream Gym Packed With Thoughtful Details Is Making Some Folks Call It ‘Segregation’

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We all want to look and feel great, so going to a gym is definitely a great option. Although not all women, for one reason or other, might feel comfortable sharing the gym with men. This fitness gym in Kansas, US has come up with a genius way to take care of their female patrons: have an all-women facility. Recently, thanks to TikToker Heather Huesman, it went viral in a video. It was received with different reactions and even managed to spark a discussion, with some men calling it ‘segregation.’

The video, with now over 6M views, takes a peek into the amenities and thoughtful details that are created specifically for women to feel welcome and safe.

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Heather, a 23-year-old server, decided to share her experience attending a gym that is for female patrons only

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Blush Fitness in Overland Park, Kansas was created following security measures to make women feel extra safe and comfortable. While women-only gyms have existed before, this particular place takes an extra step to meet female needs. Heather, a 23-year-old girl who works as a server and takes care of her fitness, shared the viral video to illustrate her experience exercising there. The reel went viral on TikTok with 1.7M likes and 63.1K comments and counting. She didn’t expect the video to go viral to this extent: “I’m glad that we got the word out about it, though, because now women who have been planning on opening their own gym see how successful it can be! I heard people talking about all-women’s gyms, but I’d never actually seen one, so I thought this would be the perfect way to spread the word.”

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The windows are tinted so that no one walking by is able to see inside

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The video shows Heather and her friend entering Blush Fitness through its tinted glass entrance—its windows ensure that no one is peeking inside as they walk by. The female-only gym members can use the facilities 24/7 with a key fob as the front door is locked. The members of the gym are notified when male staff will be in the building, stating the exact times.

The member gym is open 24/7 and it’s always locked with fob key access

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Blush Fitness also posts male staff working hours to take their services a step ahead

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Most of the features are the same as any given gym, but some details are extra special. In case anyone needs feminine products, they are free and available from vending machines in the bathroom. And Heather seemed to be quite satisfied with the place as her caption reads “The BEST GYM! We need these everywhere, we feel so safe and comfortable going to the gym, gonna be my new favorite spot!”

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Bored Panda spoke to Heather about the reasons behind her choice of an all-girls gym: “I joined because going to the gym around men made me really nervous. I knew I wanted to go but I was scared of either being judged or looked at while I was there. Men also always take up ALL the machines! I definitely think it’s important. I feel so safe working out there, and we see too many videos of women being catcalled or having their photo taken while they’re at the gym. I think all-women’s, and even all-men’s gyms should be a thing In almost every city!”

Menstrual products are free and available in the bathrooms

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Other than well-thought-out details, the gym has all the regular equipment for exercise

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The Blush Fitness gym that was featured in the video, making sure all the safety measures are met and taking it to a new level, was, however, called discriminatory in the comments. Some women explained that perhaps it is due to men’s behavior that such gyms have started to appear and there’s no surprise in that.

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Kelly Gellert, the mastermind behind the now-viral facility, and her husband Max, told Bored Panda that they came up with the idea for a women-only gym while owning an Anytime Fitness in 2014. Max noticed that one of his large personal training groups that were all women didn’t want to work out with the free weights without him, and on the days they were not training together, they would just do cardio. “When these members were asked about what was causing them to skip weight lifting workouts on their own, they all replied that they didn’t feel comfortable, felt judged, guys were looking at them, etc. From this feedback, Max began asking the female members how they would like it if they had a whole gym to themselves to weight-lift in. And they all loved the idea! A year later, we sold our Anytime Fitness and opened up BLUSH FITNESS.” The business proved successful immediately after opening and now there are 5 Blush Boot Camp locations (that, by the way, offer free babysitting) and 9 franchises, and it keeps on expanding rapidly.

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The video on TikTok has ben viewed over 6M times and has more than 1.7M likes

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Many women and even some men agreed that the idea of an all-girls gym is brilliant. Some comments were noting that Blush Fitness is a perfect option for Muslim women so that they can work out in a modest facility. But like quite a few things that are made for women only, it annoyed some men, who called the move of designing a gym for all girls ‘segregation’ and claimed that it was a thing ’60 years ago’ and someone even shared that ‘this doesn’t sound like equality.’

About the comments calling a women-only gym ‘segregation,’ Heather thinks that “they just want something to be mad about, honestly. I would have no problem if I heard of an all-men’s gym. If men are mad that there’s such thing as an all-women’s gym, it’s because they feel the need to look at women while they’re there. However, I honestly don’t understand why it’s getting men so riled up, when simply it’s to make women feel more comfortable going to the gym. Men can be really mean at the gym! This makes it feel like a safe space for women to start the first step on their journey.” And Kelly, the owner of Bliss Fitness, agreed with her. “Being called segregated is unfair because the need for a women-only gym is created by males, so what else are we supposed to do?” She also added that “Our mission is to provide a safe and comfortable workout environment for women and we strive to uphold that vision each and every day.”

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Most comments were supportive towards the idea of a women-only gym; however, some men were using word ‘segregation’ and doubting its equality

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Theater Kid
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people don't understand. This is equity, not equality. Equity is giving women all these special hours and safety because they need it. It's about raising everyone up to an equal platform.

Lady Artemis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Y'all saying "didn't segregation end 60 years ago?" and you're not wrong, but sexism ought to have ended a century ago, but we still doing that.

Tracy Wallick
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sexism ought to have never been a thing. We've had countless civilizations, religions and institutions that have all had opportunities to fix the problem of sexism and most have continually failed to do so (oftentimes for lack of caring or trying, because subjugating women benefited them).

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Truth Monster
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm down with a gym that is for women only, but I'm curious how they will deal with nonbinary/non-transitioned women. If a biological male walks in and says they are a woman, do they get a membership or will they be denied? I have no strong opinion one way or the other, just a mild curiosity how the hypothetical would play out.

Mohammad Ammar
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is actually one of the big issues regarding gender fluidity. The only way for them to feel fully included in society is to create a gender neutral world which sadly, isn't possible or realistic. I say this with respect btw, I don't mean to hurt anyone's feelings.

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Tracy Wallick
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Men who complain about female-only spaces don't care about 'segregation', and probably haven't spared a single thought to why these kinds of businesses are so popular. They're just pissy that women don't like being around creepy, condescending dudes like them.

John C
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or maybe some of these people asking questions about segregation like pondering the social implications in this woke age. I'm genuinely happy for women to have a safe space like this - they deserve it and I'll defend their right to it. Also, I'd really like to have a conversation about it with someone who has thought through all the questions I have. I think we all know if I ask any of those questions in the comments here, I'll get downvoted into "this comment is hidden."

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David Andrews
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't really get why someone would care enough to complain. If women want to work out in a female only space, and this exists as a viable business, what does it matter? I'm pretty sure there have been a number of attempts to start men only gyms as well, but these failed because there was not enough interest from men to make them worthwhile to run as a business.

Aliquid A
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are "men only" golf clubs out there. So the concept does exist, but you are correct that there is no demand for a "men only" gym. A business needs demand to exist.

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KnownAsJetty
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it is a shame woman have to have their own gym in order to feal safe or get a good workout without some dipshit disturbing them

Luke Oakridge
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3 years ago

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Except they don't. Most men aren't going to bother them, so it is unfair to segregate the entire gender out.

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Alex K
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

whoever's getting pissed: you're only getting pissed because they say "you cannot enter here" . its not like there are no other gyms around for you! lol

Hugo Raible
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3 years ago

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No, it's about stereotyping people because of their reproductive organs, a.k.a. sexism.

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lazy panda
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Leave it to men to get pissed when women take extra precautions to protect themselves from men.

Marky Mark
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3 years ago

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How would your comment sound if you replaced women and men with any other demographic group?

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-Stitch-
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet some of those people saying that segregation are just men trying to get in the gym

Bender Bending Rodríguez
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is there a Gym for "Fat Amateur people who just wanna get some exercise done with staff that actually help said Fat amateur people instead ignoring and focusing on that hot girl even after asking multiple times." Asking for a 'friend'. ... Oh yes on to the topic, I find no problem with women only gym if that's what's needed for women to feel safe and not judged.

Mewton’s Third Paw
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, Planet Fitness. That’s why it’s so cheap compared to other gyms and has pizza mondays and stuff. It’s catered to people who aren’t used to the gym.

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Treessimontrees
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women only carriages in Japan had to become normal because men couldn't keep their hands to themselves on packed carriages. Being able to do the basics in peace without being ogled or approached must feel great.

anarkzie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As the article mentions female only gyms are not a new thing, which is bizarre that this seems to be the part of her video that got commented on the most. I think tinted window should be standard across the board and other gyms should take note.

Kiem Gallagher
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sadly, I hear/read about women being assaulted at the gym or after the gym way too often, last year we were all locked indoors for most of the year and I still read about 4 different cases and I'm sure there were many more that weren't reported on or I didn't catch, the two I can remember details of are the woman assaulted at the gym on Oxford St. in the UK, and the woman assaulted DURING A CLASS at the 24 hour gym in Fremont California. Men complaining about this being segregation and "equality" are men who couldn't give a s**t about what happens to their own mothers, sisters, aunts, nieces, cousins, female friends... any reasonable man who loves and worries about the women in his life is aware of the dangers they face on a daily basis and is always happy there are safe places for them to be themselves without worry.

NopedOut
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not crazy about the "If you act creepy, THEN you leave!" argument. Why put women through that in the first place? They want a female-only gym to avoid that experience. We're telling them to go through it and just take care of it after the fact.

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Beto River
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Man here. I dont mind, good for them. It is a privately own business. And yes, anytime there is a fine looking woman on a regular gym, suddenly a lot of the men become her unwanted personal trainers...

Luke Oakridge
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3 years ago

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Would you be okay with a whites-only gym? Segregation shouldn't be allowed.

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QueenMiri
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Comments like "that's segregation" or "that's not equality" are bullshit. It's men's fault for all of this. A women's only gym is actually a step towards equality by creating equtiy. It's taking care of the needs of women. In a regular gym women's needs are ignored and women are constantly uncomfortable because of men. Men stare at women, harass them and are taking pictures without asking. Women only gyms are a safe place for women. So if you people in the comments don't like it, how about you think about why this is necessary. It also seems that a lot of people don't know the difference and connection between equality and equity. To put it simply. Equality means that every person has the same rights and chances no matter the gender etc. Equity takes in account that everyone is an individual and has certain needs. Example, men and women and every other person whatever gender, we are all people, we are all humans and no one is better then the other but while men do not need tampons and pads every month women and people that get their period do. So for women to be equal, equity needs to do its job and give us free pads and tampons. It's a need that has to be met. Periods are not a choice.

Shelley DuVal
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was younger I couldn't always afford pads when I got my period. I used to use toilet paper from public toilets to soak up the blood (and I do mean soak, very heavy bleeder). I would have been so grateful to be able to walk into a womens toilet with free pads. I am guessing there are a lot of females out there today that are doing exactly what I had to do.

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Johnny
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm curious how they are able to only staff men for 4 hours a day - how do they hire women only for the rest of the day without violating labor laws against gender discrimination?

Tracy Wallick
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe the male staff hours aren't always the same, and they just give members the heads-up when their male staff will be in the building just in general, rather than relegating male staff to certain hours.

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Niffler_13
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This isn't a new concept. When Curves first started out, they were female only gyms. In my state we have several women's only private gyms.

Explicitly sick
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

12 when I started going to the gym where the staff thought it was funny that grown men would follow a child around and hit on her

Duchess Raven Waves
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think a good amount of folks complaining are the reason why this establishment exists. No creepshots. No staring. No harassment. I would 100% go here.

Stille20
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But you have men's or women's clothing stores... most services aren't gendered, but I don't see a problem offering a service to a specific cliental ... like is it the only gym? Are there not 10 other options?

it's Wednesday my dudes.
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

anybody saying this is segregation is clearly delusional! although yes is is a women only gym, that is specifically for the safety of women! most women don't often feel safe around men whom they don't know and there are often many creepers at gyms who are "just going to the gym"

Logic and Reason
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it’s great that there are safe spaces like this. That being said, gyms like this are a sort of bandaid over a much more serious issue. The only way to really fix it is to somehow force parents to educate their male kids to respect women more, but that’s an extremely complicated and unreasonable task.

Kaori Panda
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this is a good idea. I've heard so many stories from women who've been harassed at gym.

Fairsher
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sucks we need places like this but I would LOVE to have one near me. So often women avoid places because of the staring and glaring of men. If it wasn't an issue there would be no need for such a place.

Jay Weigel
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I belonged to an all-women gym in the large city I lived in last. It was wonderful, especially for older women and for Muslim women, pregnant women, and women who had other body situations....weight problems, disabilities, etc. There was a camaraderie that you just didn't find anywhere else. Since moving here I have joined and left two other gyms because of pushy males. I would go to a gym if they would even have women's hours but they don't do that either. I suppose the men would complain.

Celtic Pirate Queen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it's a great idea. If men weren't such f*****g creeps/condescending assholes to us at the gym, maybe this wouldn't be necessary.

Loretta
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel the kind of men who are complaining about this are the same ones who think it's oppressive to be denied sex claiming headache.

NopedOut
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For those comparing this to Jim Crow- please stop. It's incredibly insensitive and no black person who grew up in that time would make this comparison.

.gas.
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's "segregation," for sure. And what's wrong with that? People want to have a workout without being oggled.

Israel Martinez
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not going to lie ... I felt the same way about Lucille Roberts, but when I realized how much a d**k the average man can be, I also realized how much of a safe space women needed ... it's not just the gym that needs to address this issue ...

Brandy Grote
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Segregation would mean that a woman can't go to a "regular gym", and that there are no gyms for men. So stfu with that. This is about safety and comfort.

MangleTangle
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Men, we wouldn't need to have this stuff if it weren't for you.

MizAdeleM
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Back a long time ago, I belonged to a woman only gym. Muslim (and a lot of us) women appreciated the male ban.

Guido Pisano
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if some men wouldn't behave as ineducated a**holes this wouldn't be necessary educate your kids to respect others

John Louis
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

HELP ME - What's wrong with saying that there are some activities that some women would feel more comfortable with doing only around other women?

Requiem
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

oh my god Ive 'NEVER" seen a female only gym or gym that had a female only section!!

Susanne Müller
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3 years ago

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WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Would be nice if this became a world wide thing. It would reduce the income of all the gyms where jerks go to watch women. Wonder how many of them would go bust because they lost 100% of their female members and 25% of their male members who couldn't harass women any more.

Rebecca winter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We need to plan a goods and services boycott for industry leaders that refuse to acknowledge and accommodate their highest contributors to the economy

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Angela Jester
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We recently got a treadmill and other exercise equipment. Before that we had a membership at a local gym. It broke my heart when my daughter said how much more she liked to exercise when there was no worry about who was staring at her butt. I know I feel much better about exercising,too.

Lizard Gaming_YT
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The men that are against this idea are the men who do the creepy staring

Katinka Min
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women only gyms are totally normal in my country, but they are not fancier than the regular ones. I don't understand what the fuss is - women sometimes want privacy. A lot of excercises look silly or revealing. We also like privacy to take sh*t, so why not privacy for squats? The blokes like it, too. When I was lifting, men were not overly happy to see me in 'their' territory. It changes the energy. I hope we ll some day have real equalityy where the balance between genders will be so common place that can sperate or not however we please.

Marnie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sad that we were heading in the right direction for a couple of decades, and now it's like in some middle east country where they have a women's section of the bus, not to treat them as inferiors, but so they have a safe place to sit away from harassment. What is the problem in the US? Is it porn?

Rebecca winter
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That, increasing isolation and radicalization, pure entitlement and a feeling of not having an identity.

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Daria B
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know, honestly. To each their own, it's good to have choices, but... As a woman, I find this pretty pointless. I'm not denying the existence of danger, but I don't think this is the solution. Furthermore, in the gyms I've been (S. Korea, btw), most males really don't seem to care (or at least have the decency to be polite and mind their own business), but I did experience body shaming from fellow women a couple of times. I think safety should be monitored by the people in charge of the public place and be handled by professionals within the field.

K Witmer
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Idk why you'd leave your safety to someone else. That never works out.

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NWB
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not a new concept women gyms have been around for a long time, as long as whomever identifies and a woman is allowed to go then all good.

Ambar
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

why don't we make more of these so then that way, men can stop staring at women, women feel more conformable and WE GET MORE RESPECTABLE MEN!!!!

Joyce Blodgett
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I belonged to a women-only gym back in 1995, and it was the greatest thing. We all loved working out there, we felt safe, we WERE safe, and all the instructors were women, as well. If I could find such a place again, I'd join in a heartbeat. Unfortunately, she had to shut it down after only two years due to a rival stealing her identity.

Crep 105
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bored Panda seems like the kind of website that finds Men Only Gyms "Sexist", and Women Only Gyms "Empowering". They're both fine, but for some reason, society thinks that Men Only Gyms where men can go without getting accused of rape and/or sexual assault is sexist.

Candy corn
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This isn’t segregation at all. In my opinion, this is the same as separating men and women’s sport teams and men and women’s bathrooms (except this is way cooler)

Candy corn
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This isn’t segregation at all In my opinion this is the same as separating men and women’s sport teams and men and women’s bathrooms (except this is way cooler)

Joan Bonde Jensen
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exercising in sweat wicking clothes without having to put on an ekstra, loose fitting and long, top, so you don't "distract" or "offend" someone. Focusing on your gear and your body without mansplaining and other abruptions. NICE!

Sarah Grape
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

not segregation if it's a choice. if a girl doesn't want to be segregated, she can use a different gym. no big deal. if a girl feels like it's necessary, she can use this one. there's no reason why a man should be complaining.....

J F
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a guy, so long as it's not the only gym in the area, I have no problem with this and I think it's great!

AspieGirl88
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They had male grouping WAAAY before females decided to claim one of their own ... hypocrisy much?? 🤷‍♀️

Gregg V
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sexist - period. More hate coming from all sides - women, men, and races - f**k equity - it's about equal opportunity and being color blind and sex blind... way to say FU to Martin Luther King and the Woman's movement - "Despicable You."

Rebecca winter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women get chased out of many spaces that are mixed gender without a viable replacement. What about their rights to participate in business and the economy that they are paying into at rates of 70%?

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Wistiti
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funny how it's called segregation cause men aren't allowed in.

Sue Hazlewood
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How novel LOL. New Zealand first had women only gyms a few decades ago.

Knoxy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this is a great idea. I used to work in a women's only gym. Near where I live there is also a men only gym. It's not about segregation, it's about choice. There are plenty of mixed gyms. Having the option is amazing

TrailerMix X
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The gym I used in high school had a women only section separate from the main gym that let women work out away from prying eyes but also had weight machines that were sized for shorter people, making them easier for women to use without getting hurt. These are the types of things that matter when making public life accessible for women.

Memere
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is actually in my town, and they have a location just a few miles from my house! I need to check it out & get back in shape.

Sarah Grape
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it's not segregation because it's not enforced. simple as that.

Kerri Heppner
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There's a local fitness chain in my city that's been offering women's only locations for years. I didn't know this was so revolutionary. I worked in the daycare centre of one location. One side was co-Ed and the other was women only. The only common area was the daycare, but with separate entrances for drop off and pickup.

Oli Chevarie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm okay with this. Men and women train differently. At my gym, I usually go around 5 or 6am because it is empty, and I don't have to deal with Instagram men and women who think the gym is for showing off their butt or abs.

CanidaeVulpes
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Personally, I’ve never felt threatened going to a gym and working out. My fear of judgment ended when I realized that most are looking at themselves, not mentally putting down others. Having said that, if there is a market for a women-only gym, then I really don’t see a problem with it. Nor would I see a problem with a men-only gym. There’s nothing wrong with consensual separation if that’s what what makes people comfortable, especially if there’s still a choice of going somewhere else to co-workout

Marky Mark
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Statistically, men are more likely to cause issues for women. Therefore it makes sense to have them separated. Q.E.D. --------------------------------------------------- ....Statistically, certain demographic groups have higher rates of issues as well, yet segregating them would cause a poop storm. --------------------------------------------------- .... The problem with engineering equality is that you inevitably end up simply shifting the problem to onto another group.

Luke Oakridge
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm betting that the people praising this gym are the same people who would be protesting if there was a gym only for men.

Vitio
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great idea but there are better ways. For example, placing agents to report harassment or placing security cameras in the gym. I say this because I live in Iran and we were forced to separate all the places by the government. Maybe if we had opposed these issues from the beginning, it would not be like this now. Everything is beautiful and logical at first, but suddenly you see that everything has changed and a dictatorship has been institutionalized.

backatya
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's a good idea. Women probably be adjusting their breasts or feminine hygiene products more.

Cathy Carey
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sure, but it seems like when men do this kind of thing women want to kick the door in and include force them to be included. Toxic femininity?

Rebecca winter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, just opportunities to make more money as we overwhelmingly make up the majority of consumer purchases and are unequivocally responsible for maintaining the life quality for multiple people aside from ourselves. The economy would absolutely collapse without our participation. The greeting card industry alone is shouldered by us. Men don't do caregiving, home cooking, are the only ones contributing to the home goods industry, cookware, clothing for us , our kids, our parents and SOs, cleaning products, beauty products, art, etc And we head entire households by ourselves as either primary breadwinners or co- breadwinners. We are emotional support for both our male SOs and coworkers with no reciprocation Yet are shut out of the most stable and high earning jobs , especially ones that provide employee benefits . The health care industry alone takes billions from us because we actually take care of our health and the health of everyone in our circles. All men do is take and t

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John Spitz
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So the big issue for creating a women’s only gym, is because they can’t stand the thought of being LOOKED at?! I don’t ever go to a gym, I don’t ever intend to, and I don’t have any need to. But when the problem has zero contact, you can’t hear it, can’t smell it, and you can’t even see it, then it’s simply not a legitimate issue.

Rebecca winter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being harassed , interrupted , cornered and thrown barrages of insults at by people that can crush your skull in (and do) simply for existing where others can see us takes a huge toll on mental health, physical health (weathering) and emotional health. Men just will never cease to feel entitled to our attention and those that do ignore earbuds and personal space and obvious signs that we would like to also get healthy for the sake of the people we take care of (that you unapologetically burden us with) are likely the same ones to lash out in a violent rage no matter how politely we ask to please get on with our day. I bet you love it when some creepy 6'7 dude in an empty bathroom takes the urinal right next to yours and stares right you and your junk .

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Kate Rich
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every Wednesday night was women only at our local swimming pool...nobody ever complained about segregation..what us wrong with people today..is this what being “woke”:turns you into - a whiner..

Ivette Diaz
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Best idea ever, if men weren’t such creeps I can’t even count how many times I caught someone looking at my butt while working out

King Joffrey
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I support this as women can exercise without being 'checked out' by the men in the gym - my wife tells me this is a big issue. It'll be interesting in how they tackle the issue of trans women though. And what about male only clubs/gyms?

Don't Look
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3 years ago

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"this doesn't sound like equality". It's not. It's not meant to be equal. It's meant to eliminate distraction through segregation. It does that spectacularly.

Mia
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3 years ago

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It all looks great but I'd still sweat out my pitts, back and nether region's main we need fix this first lol

BlahBlahBlackSheepah
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3 years ago

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So tinted windows a lock and free pads? Extensive women focused details. Ugh tt

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surprised pikachu
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3 years ago

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But if there was a men's only gym, people would start a riot

Memere
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't start a riot, and I honestly don't know any women who would. You go ahead & have your men's only gym, it's fine with me!

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The only way that would annoy me as a male customer is if that ment my normal workout hours would be blocked for the ladies

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3 years ago

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Women fought heavily in the UK to gain membership to ‘Men only’ clubs - most have now bowed to the fight and the equality laws allowing women to join them. It’s ironic that ‘women only’ spaces are appearing and the look of incredulity that have when being challenged to admit men... Personally i think that if you are providing a non essential service you should be allowed to limit entry based on gender - but we are past my dinosaur thinking i guess. I suppose that entry to this women only space is allowed for biological men who ‘self identify’ too?

Islandchild
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3 years ago

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While I understand why this would be popular with many, for me it poses problems. There's been so much clamoring for men to include women in male-only places it seems wrong to now create female-only places. I don't care the reason. If it's okay for one side, it's okay for the other. Otherwise wholly sexist. I, a woman, would never be comfortable in a female only gym. My experience is that men are far more helpful, accommodating than women in that sort of environment.

K Witmer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Internalized misogyny causes cancer. Be careful. If it wasn't for men sexually traumatizing women the need for a womens only gym wouldn't exist. Be upset w the right people not the ones that are told to protect themselves at all costs and then get blamed for being sexually assaulted. Be mad at the men that made this necessary

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Hmmm, not sure how I feel about this. I don't go to the gym, but just here me out: Why is this needed exactly? It's not like only men can use the gym equipment or anything. Also, if this were about an all men gym, they would be accused of sexism, but an all women is ok? I'm sorry, but I don't really understand what's so monumental.

Viviane
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At some mixed gyms, men will approach women to cruise them or take pictures without asking or just stand and stare at them. Some women are quite bothered by this. One of the reasons is that by the time they're adults, many women have had to deal with sexual harassment or assault. Since some of these incidents started by stares, propositions for sex, etc., women might worry that the men with go further than staring and taking pictures. Men are generally physically stronger than women, so if a man assaults a women, she might not be able to fight him off.

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Ed
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3 years ago

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If men did this, women would be screaming!

Roxanne D'souza
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gentlemen's clubs and other "men only" establishments have existed for perhaps centuries but you're right, women did and still will scream about it. So it's only fair that we have our own little clubs.

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Next up: the special joy of white-only gyms! The right of people to congregate freely seems like a good thing but, let's say, there have been significant problems with it as an institutional practice. It's elitist and exclusionary.

Jackson Gohn
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3 years ago

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So are they actually a gym or just a bathroom? They showed some yoga balls and one rack of free weights. Do they actually have any equipment? Is it a gym or a statement?

Aliquid A
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What difference does it make to you? You aren't allowed in there either way.

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im glad its a healthy workspace, but 1. tinted windows mean literally can't see anything inside, and 2. this is pretty much segregation. I mean reverse it but with race. you prejudiced that men are all terrible and the female gender is the preferred one, so they get the luxury.

blue
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

many women, including myself, are uncomfortable working out near men. they stare, they sexualise, they endanger women and make them uncomfortable.

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Theater Kid
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people don't understand. This is equity, not equality. Equity is giving women all these special hours and safety because they need it. It's about raising everyone up to an equal platform.

Lady Artemis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Y'all saying "didn't segregation end 60 years ago?" and you're not wrong, but sexism ought to have ended a century ago, but we still doing that.

Tracy Wallick
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sexism ought to have never been a thing. We've had countless civilizations, religions and institutions that have all had opportunities to fix the problem of sexism and most have continually failed to do so (oftentimes for lack of caring or trying, because subjugating women benefited them).

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Truth Monster
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm down with a gym that is for women only, but I'm curious how they will deal with nonbinary/non-transitioned women. If a biological male walks in and says they are a woman, do they get a membership or will they be denied? I have no strong opinion one way or the other, just a mild curiosity how the hypothetical would play out.

Mohammad Ammar
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is actually one of the big issues regarding gender fluidity. The only way for them to feel fully included in society is to create a gender neutral world which sadly, isn't possible or realistic. I say this with respect btw, I don't mean to hurt anyone's feelings.

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Tracy Wallick
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Men who complain about female-only spaces don't care about 'segregation', and probably haven't spared a single thought to why these kinds of businesses are so popular. They're just pissy that women don't like being around creepy, condescending dudes like them.

John C
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or maybe some of these people asking questions about segregation like pondering the social implications in this woke age. I'm genuinely happy for women to have a safe space like this - they deserve it and I'll defend their right to it. Also, I'd really like to have a conversation about it with someone who has thought through all the questions I have. I think we all know if I ask any of those questions in the comments here, I'll get downvoted into "this comment is hidden."

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David Andrews
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't really get why someone would care enough to complain. If women want to work out in a female only space, and this exists as a viable business, what does it matter? I'm pretty sure there have been a number of attempts to start men only gyms as well, but these failed because there was not enough interest from men to make them worthwhile to run as a business.

Aliquid A
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are "men only" golf clubs out there. So the concept does exist, but you are correct that there is no demand for a "men only" gym. A business needs demand to exist.

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KnownAsJetty
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it is a shame woman have to have their own gym in order to feal safe or get a good workout without some dipshit disturbing them

Luke Oakridge
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3 years ago

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Except they don't. Most men aren't going to bother them, so it is unfair to segregate the entire gender out.

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Alex K
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

whoever's getting pissed: you're only getting pissed because they say "you cannot enter here" . its not like there are no other gyms around for you! lol

Hugo Raible
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3 years ago

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No, it's about stereotyping people because of their reproductive organs, a.k.a. sexism.

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lazy panda
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Leave it to men to get pissed when women take extra precautions to protect themselves from men.

Marky Mark
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3 years ago

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How would your comment sound if you replaced women and men with any other demographic group?

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-Stitch-
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet some of those people saying that segregation are just men trying to get in the gym

Bender Bending Rodríguez
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is there a Gym for "Fat Amateur people who just wanna get some exercise done with staff that actually help said Fat amateur people instead ignoring and focusing on that hot girl even after asking multiple times." Asking for a 'friend'. ... Oh yes on to the topic, I find no problem with women only gym if that's what's needed for women to feel safe and not judged.

Mewton’s Third Paw
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, Planet Fitness. That’s why it’s so cheap compared to other gyms and has pizza mondays and stuff. It’s catered to people who aren’t used to the gym.

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Treessimontrees
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women only carriages in Japan had to become normal because men couldn't keep their hands to themselves on packed carriages. Being able to do the basics in peace without being ogled or approached must feel great.

anarkzie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As the article mentions female only gyms are not a new thing, which is bizarre that this seems to be the part of her video that got commented on the most. I think tinted window should be standard across the board and other gyms should take note.

Kiem Gallagher
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sadly, I hear/read about women being assaulted at the gym or after the gym way too often, last year we were all locked indoors for most of the year and I still read about 4 different cases and I'm sure there were many more that weren't reported on or I didn't catch, the two I can remember details of are the woman assaulted at the gym on Oxford St. in the UK, and the woman assaulted DURING A CLASS at the 24 hour gym in Fremont California. Men complaining about this being segregation and "equality" are men who couldn't give a s**t about what happens to their own mothers, sisters, aunts, nieces, cousins, female friends... any reasonable man who loves and worries about the women in his life is aware of the dangers they face on a daily basis and is always happy there are safe places for them to be themselves without worry.

NopedOut
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not crazy about the "If you act creepy, THEN you leave!" argument. Why put women through that in the first place? They want a female-only gym to avoid that experience. We're telling them to go through it and just take care of it after the fact.

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Beto River
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Man here. I dont mind, good for them. It is a privately own business. And yes, anytime there is a fine looking woman on a regular gym, suddenly a lot of the men become her unwanted personal trainers...

Luke Oakridge
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3 years ago

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Would you be okay with a whites-only gym? Segregation shouldn't be allowed.

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QueenMiri
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Comments like "that's segregation" or "that's not equality" are bullshit. It's men's fault for all of this. A women's only gym is actually a step towards equality by creating equtiy. It's taking care of the needs of women. In a regular gym women's needs are ignored and women are constantly uncomfortable because of men. Men stare at women, harass them and are taking pictures without asking. Women only gyms are a safe place for women. So if you people in the comments don't like it, how about you think about why this is necessary. It also seems that a lot of people don't know the difference and connection between equality and equity. To put it simply. Equality means that every person has the same rights and chances no matter the gender etc. Equity takes in account that everyone is an individual and has certain needs. Example, men and women and every other person whatever gender, we are all people, we are all humans and no one is better then the other but while men do not need tampons and pads every month women and people that get their period do. So for women to be equal, equity needs to do its job and give us free pads and tampons. It's a need that has to be met. Periods are not a choice.

Shelley DuVal
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was younger I couldn't always afford pads when I got my period. I used to use toilet paper from public toilets to soak up the blood (and I do mean soak, very heavy bleeder). I would have been so grateful to be able to walk into a womens toilet with free pads. I am guessing there are a lot of females out there today that are doing exactly what I had to do.

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Johnny
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm curious how they are able to only staff men for 4 hours a day - how do they hire women only for the rest of the day without violating labor laws against gender discrimination?

Tracy Wallick
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe the male staff hours aren't always the same, and they just give members the heads-up when their male staff will be in the building just in general, rather than relegating male staff to certain hours.

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Niffler_13
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This isn't a new concept. When Curves first started out, they were female only gyms. In my state we have several women's only private gyms.

Explicitly sick
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

12 when I started going to the gym where the staff thought it was funny that grown men would follow a child around and hit on her

Duchess Raven Waves
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think a good amount of folks complaining are the reason why this establishment exists. No creepshots. No staring. No harassment. I would 100% go here.

Stille20
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But you have men's or women's clothing stores... most services aren't gendered, but I don't see a problem offering a service to a specific cliental ... like is it the only gym? Are there not 10 other options?

it's Wednesday my dudes.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

anybody saying this is segregation is clearly delusional! although yes is is a women only gym, that is specifically for the safety of women! most women don't often feel safe around men whom they don't know and there are often many creepers at gyms who are "just going to the gym"

Logic and Reason
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it’s great that there are safe spaces like this. That being said, gyms like this are a sort of bandaid over a much more serious issue. The only way to really fix it is to somehow force parents to educate their male kids to respect women more, but that’s an extremely complicated and unreasonable task.

Kaori Panda
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this is a good idea. I've heard so many stories from women who've been harassed at gym.

Fairsher
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sucks we need places like this but I would LOVE to have one near me. So often women avoid places because of the staring and glaring of men. If it wasn't an issue there would be no need for such a place.

Jay Weigel
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I belonged to an all-women gym in the large city I lived in last. It was wonderful, especially for older women and for Muslim women, pregnant women, and women who had other body situations....weight problems, disabilities, etc. There was a camaraderie that you just didn't find anywhere else. Since moving here I have joined and left two other gyms because of pushy males. I would go to a gym if they would even have women's hours but they don't do that either. I suppose the men would complain.

Celtic Pirate Queen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it's a great idea. If men weren't such f*****g creeps/condescending assholes to us at the gym, maybe this wouldn't be necessary.

Loretta
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel the kind of men who are complaining about this are the same ones who think it's oppressive to be denied sex claiming headache.

NopedOut
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For those comparing this to Jim Crow- please stop. It's incredibly insensitive and no black person who grew up in that time would make this comparison.

.gas.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's "segregation," for sure. And what's wrong with that? People want to have a workout without being oggled.

Israel Martinez
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not going to lie ... I felt the same way about Lucille Roberts, but when I realized how much a d**k the average man can be, I also realized how much of a safe space women needed ... it's not just the gym that needs to address this issue ...

Brandy Grote
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Segregation would mean that a woman can't go to a "regular gym", and that there are no gyms for men. So stfu with that. This is about safety and comfort.

MangleTangle
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Men, we wouldn't need to have this stuff if it weren't for you.

MizAdeleM
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Back a long time ago, I belonged to a woman only gym. Muslim (and a lot of us) women appreciated the male ban.

Guido Pisano
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if some men wouldn't behave as ineducated a**holes this wouldn't be necessary educate your kids to respect others

John Louis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

HELP ME - What's wrong with saying that there are some activities that some women would feel more comfortable with doing only around other women?

Requiem
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

oh my god Ive 'NEVER" seen a female only gym or gym that had a female only section!!

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WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Would be nice if this became a world wide thing. It would reduce the income of all the gyms where jerks go to watch women. Wonder how many of them would go bust because they lost 100% of their female members and 25% of their male members who couldn't harass women any more.

Rebecca winter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We need to plan a goods and services boycott for industry leaders that refuse to acknowledge and accommodate their highest contributors to the economy

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Angela Jester
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We recently got a treadmill and other exercise equipment. Before that we had a membership at a local gym. It broke my heart when my daughter said how much more she liked to exercise when there was no worry about who was staring at her butt. I know I feel much better about exercising,too.

Lizard Gaming_YT
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The men that are against this idea are the men who do the creepy staring

Katinka Min
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women only gyms are totally normal in my country, but they are not fancier than the regular ones. I don't understand what the fuss is - women sometimes want privacy. A lot of excercises look silly or revealing. We also like privacy to take sh*t, so why not privacy for squats? The blokes like it, too. When I was lifting, men were not overly happy to see me in 'their' territory. It changes the energy. I hope we ll some day have real equalityy where the balance between genders will be so common place that can sperate or not however we please.

Marnie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sad that we were heading in the right direction for a couple of decades, and now it's like in some middle east country where they have a women's section of the bus, not to treat them as inferiors, but so they have a safe place to sit away from harassment. What is the problem in the US? Is it porn?

Rebecca winter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That, increasing isolation and radicalization, pure entitlement and a feeling of not having an identity.

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Daria B
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know, honestly. To each their own, it's good to have choices, but... As a woman, I find this pretty pointless. I'm not denying the existence of danger, but I don't think this is the solution. Furthermore, in the gyms I've been (S. Korea, btw), most males really don't seem to care (or at least have the decency to be polite and mind their own business), but I did experience body shaming from fellow women a couple of times. I think safety should be monitored by the people in charge of the public place and be handled by professionals within the field.

K Witmer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Idk why you'd leave your safety to someone else. That never works out.

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NWB
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not a new concept women gyms have been around for a long time, as long as whomever identifies and a woman is allowed to go then all good.

Ambar
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

why don't we make more of these so then that way, men can stop staring at women, women feel more conformable and WE GET MORE RESPECTABLE MEN!!!!

Joyce Blodgett
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I belonged to a women-only gym back in 1995, and it was the greatest thing. We all loved working out there, we felt safe, we WERE safe, and all the instructors were women, as well. If I could find such a place again, I'd join in a heartbeat. Unfortunately, she had to shut it down after only two years due to a rival stealing her identity.

Crep 105
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bored Panda seems like the kind of website that finds Men Only Gyms "Sexist", and Women Only Gyms "Empowering". They're both fine, but for some reason, society thinks that Men Only Gyms where men can go without getting accused of rape and/or sexual assault is sexist.

Candy corn
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This isn’t segregation at all. In my opinion, this is the same as separating men and women’s sport teams and men and women’s bathrooms (except this is way cooler)

Candy corn
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This isn’t segregation at all In my opinion this is the same as separating men and women’s sport teams and men and women’s bathrooms (except this is way cooler)

Joan Bonde Jensen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exercising in sweat wicking clothes without having to put on an ekstra, loose fitting and long, top, so you don't "distract" or "offend" someone. Focusing on your gear and your body without mansplaining and other abruptions. NICE!

Sarah Grape
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

not segregation if it's a choice. if a girl doesn't want to be segregated, she can use a different gym. no big deal. if a girl feels like it's necessary, she can use this one. there's no reason why a man should be complaining.....

J F
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a guy, so long as it's not the only gym in the area, I have no problem with this and I think it's great!

AspieGirl88
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They had male grouping WAAAY before females decided to claim one of their own ... hypocrisy much?? 🤷‍♀️

Gregg V
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sexist - period. More hate coming from all sides - women, men, and races - f**k equity - it's about equal opportunity and being color blind and sex blind... way to say FU to Martin Luther King and the Woman's movement - "Despicable You."

Rebecca winter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women get chased out of many spaces that are mixed gender without a viable replacement. What about their rights to participate in business and the economy that they are paying into at rates of 70%?

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Wistiti
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funny how it's called segregation cause men aren't allowed in.

Sue Hazlewood
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How novel LOL. New Zealand first had women only gyms a few decades ago.

Knoxy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this is a great idea. I used to work in a women's only gym. Near where I live there is also a men only gym. It's not about segregation, it's about choice. There are plenty of mixed gyms. Having the option is amazing

TrailerMix X
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The gym I used in high school had a women only section separate from the main gym that let women work out away from prying eyes but also had weight machines that were sized for shorter people, making them easier for women to use without getting hurt. These are the types of things that matter when making public life accessible for women.

Memere
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is actually in my town, and they have a location just a few miles from my house! I need to check it out & get back in shape.

Sarah Grape
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it's not segregation because it's not enforced. simple as that.

Kerri Heppner
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There's a local fitness chain in my city that's been offering women's only locations for years. I didn't know this was so revolutionary. I worked in the daycare centre of one location. One side was co-Ed and the other was women only. The only common area was the daycare, but with separate entrances for drop off and pickup.

Oli Chevarie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm okay with this. Men and women train differently. At my gym, I usually go around 5 or 6am because it is empty, and I don't have to deal with Instagram men and women who think the gym is for showing off their butt or abs.

CanidaeVulpes
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Personally, I’ve never felt threatened going to a gym and working out. My fear of judgment ended when I realized that most are looking at themselves, not mentally putting down others. Having said that, if there is a market for a women-only gym, then I really don’t see a problem with it. Nor would I see a problem with a men-only gym. There’s nothing wrong with consensual separation if that’s what what makes people comfortable, especially if there’s still a choice of going somewhere else to co-workout

Marky Mark
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Statistically, men are more likely to cause issues for women. Therefore it makes sense to have them separated. Q.E.D. --------------------------------------------------- ....Statistically, certain demographic groups have higher rates of issues as well, yet segregating them would cause a poop storm. --------------------------------------------------- .... The problem with engineering equality is that you inevitably end up simply shifting the problem to onto another group.

Luke Oakridge
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm betting that the people praising this gym are the same people who would be protesting if there was a gym only for men.

Vitio
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great idea but there are better ways. For example, placing agents to report harassment or placing security cameras in the gym. I say this because I live in Iran and we were forced to separate all the places by the government. Maybe if we had opposed these issues from the beginning, it would not be like this now. Everything is beautiful and logical at first, but suddenly you see that everything has changed and a dictatorship has been institutionalized.

backatya
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's a good idea. Women probably be adjusting their breasts or feminine hygiene products more.

Cathy Carey
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sure, but it seems like when men do this kind of thing women want to kick the door in and include force them to be included. Toxic femininity?

Rebecca winter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, just opportunities to make more money as we overwhelmingly make up the majority of consumer purchases and are unequivocally responsible for maintaining the life quality for multiple people aside from ourselves. The economy would absolutely collapse without our participation. The greeting card industry alone is shouldered by us. Men don't do caregiving, home cooking, are the only ones contributing to the home goods industry, cookware, clothing for us , our kids, our parents and SOs, cleaning products, beauty products, art, etc And we head entire households by ourselves as either primary breadwinners or co- breadwinners. We are emotional support for both our male SOs and coworkers with no reciprocation Yet are shut out of the most stable and high earning jobs , especially ones that provide employee benefits . The health care industry alone takes billions from us because we actually take care of our health and the health of everyone in our circles. All men do is take and t

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John Spitz
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So the big issue for creating a women’s only gym, is because they can’t stand the thought of being LOOKED at?! I don’t ever go to a gym, I don’t ever intend to, and I don’t have any need to. But when the problem has zero contact, you can’t hear it, can’t smell it, and you can’t even see it, then it’s simply not a legitimate issue.

Rebecca winter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being harassed , interrupted , cornered and thrown barrages of insults at by people that can crush your skull in (and do) simply for existing where others can see us takes a huge toll on mental health, physical health (weathering) and emotional health. Men just will never cease to feel entitled to our attention and those that do ignore earbuds and personal space and obvious signs that we would like to also get healthy for the sake of the people we take care of (that you unapologetically burden us with) are likely the same ones to lash out in a violent rage no matter how politely we ask to please get on with our day. I bet you love it when some creepy 6'7 dude in an empty bathroom takes the urinal right next to yours and stares right you and your junk .

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Kate Rich
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every Wednesday night was women only at our local swimming pool...nobody ever complained about segregation..what us wrong with people today..is this what being “woke”:turns you into - a whiner..

Ivette Diaz
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Best idea ever, if men weren’t such creeps I can’t even count how many times I caught someone looking at my butt while working out

King Joffrey
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I support this as women can exercise without being 'checked out' by the men in the gym - my wife tells me this is a big issue. It'll be interesting in how they tackle the issue of trans women though. And what about male only clubs/gyms?

Don't Look
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3 years ago

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"this doesn't sound like equality". It's not. It's not meant to be equal. It's meant to eliminate distraction through segregation. It does that spectacularly.

Mia
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3 years ago

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It all looks great but I'd still sweat out my pitts, back and nether region's main we need fix this first lol

BlahBlahBlackSheepah
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3 years ago

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So tinted windows a lock and free pads? Extensive women focused details. Ugh tt

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surprised pikachu
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3 years ago

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But if there was a men's only gym, people would start a riot

Memere
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't start a riot, and I honestly don't know any women who would. You go ahead & have your men's only gym, it's fine with me!

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elStiJneriNO
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3 years ago (edited)

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The only way that would annoy me as a male customer is if that ment my normal workout hours would be blocked for the ladies

Truthsayer
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3 years ago

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Women fought heavily in the UK to gain membership to ‘Men only’ clubs - most have now bowed to the fight and the equality laws allowing women to join them. It’s ironic that ‘women only’ spaces are appearing and the look of incredulity that have when being challenged to admit men... Personally i think that if you are providing a non essential service you should be allowed to limit entry based on gender - but we are past my dinosaur thinking i guess. I suppose that entry to this women only space is allowed for biological men who ‘self identify’ too?

Islandchild
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3 years ago

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While I understand why this would be popular with many, for me it poses problems. There's been so much clamoring for men to include women in male-only places it seems wrong to now create female-only places. I don't care the reason. If it's okay for one side, it's okay for the other. Otherwise wholly sexist. I, a woman, would never be comfortable in a female only gym. My experience is that men are far more helpful, accommodating than women in that sort of environment.

K Witmer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Internalized misogyny causes cancer. Be careful. If it wasn't for men sexually traumatizing women the need for a womens only gym wouldn't exist. Be upset w the right people not the ones that are told to protect themselves at all costs and then get blamed for being sexually assaulted. Be mad at the men that made this necessary

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3 years ago

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Hmmm, not sure how I feel about this. I don't go to the gym, but just here me out: Why is this needed exactly? It's not like only men can use the gym equipment or anything. Also, if this were about an all men gym, they would be accused of sexism, but an all women is ok? I'm sorry, but I don't really understand what's so monumental.

Viviane
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At some mixed gyms, men will approach women to cruise them or take pictures without asking or just stand and stare at them. Some women are quite bothered by this. One of the reasons is that by the time they're adults, many women have had to deal with sexual harassment or assault. Since some of these incidents started by stares, propositions for sex, etc., women might worry that the men with go further than staring and taking pictures. Men are generally physically stronger than women, so if a man assaults a women, she might not be able to fight him off.

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Ed
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3 years ago

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If men did this, women would be screaming!

Roxanne D'souza
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gentlemen's clubs and other "men only" establishments have existed for perhaps centuries but you're right, women did and still will scream about it. So it's only fair that we have our own little clubs.

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Tom Hanlin
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Next up: the special joy of white-only gyms! The right of people to congregate freely seems like a good thing but, let's say, there have been significant problems with it as an institutional practice. It's elitist and exclusionary.

Jackson Gohn
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3 years ago

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So are they actually a gym or just a bathroom? They showed some yoga balls and one rack of free weights. Do they actually have any equipment? Is it a gym or a statement?

Aliquid A
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What difference does it make to you? You aren't allowed in there either way.

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Oliver Parker
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im glad its a healthy workspace, but 1. tinted windows mean literally can't see anything inside, and 2. this is pretty much segregation. I mean reverse it but with race. you prejudiced that men are all terrible and the female gender is the preferred one, so they get the luxury.

blue
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

many women, including myself, are uncomfortable working out near men. they stare, they sexualise, they endanger women and make them uncomfortable.

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